M68
Being blocked.
July 06 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
ok...using your logic... Sex site yes.... Women want sex.......from men they deem to be suitable.....if married deems you unsuitable, and sex is their intent.... Why should they "chat" to you if there's no possibility they'd meet you because of your unsuitability??? And.... Why would you want to chat to people that were of a different mindset anyway?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Talking about exchanging explicit messages regarding how you would like to have sex with these women and or are you asking them questions about what they like sexually blah blah ?.....some women enjoy this but quite frankly I find it just snooze worthy...XxFry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry hun, I just do not want to talk to old men about sex, it's just plain creepy. Anyway, I'd much rather do it than talk about it. MrsSAF.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I personally think this is an adult dating site. If not, RHP should really take that off their home page. I'm here to meet people who meet my requirements, not pen pals who don't. Depending on what you wrote I would probably tell you in a friendly way I wasn't interested, though I would wonder if you read my profile. A message about how you'd like to cover my sexy tits with your hot cum would get likely get you a less polite response. Like Freya I'm curious also about the content of your messages. I like dirty talk but not coming from complete strangers, and as for women thinking you're a dirty old man, how young are the ones you contact? Just curious, and I'd love to see an example of an initial message you have sent that got you blocked.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This site is considered as entertainment. It is not a social welfare service, it does not require authentication, nor does it demand that all members must be looking for people to meet. There are in fact a large number of profiles of imagined people, created by members only for personal entertainment. In the forums there is a general attitude that this site is a social service, that those that are here for purely entertainment are either cheating dirty old men or salacious cock teasing women. Do not take that as the way this site is to be used. If you want to play and let fantasy entertain your time, if you want to be someone you are not then do so. Remember that there are real people on the other side of the keyboard. Your conscious should guide you in how to behave. Do not hurt, or exploit, but you do not have to be looking, you do not have to be real, you do not owe anything to anyone here, nor do they owe you. Enjoy the time here and ignore the fuddy duddies that demand you be looking for sex and be to the millimeter who you really are, that is not what this site is for.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Guy.....want to have some fun this afternoon? Me.....No thank you. Guy... Why not, this is a sex site. Women on here are entitled to say no, we are not free hookers. A lot of women prefer the no complications of married men, but for me its not an option. At least you are meeting people . Maybe leave the sex talk until you have arranged to meet? Explicit first messages are not a turn on for me either. Good luck
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RHP User
10 years ago
"I may not express my self very well at times but that's just me and I think that's what lets me down at times." Your problem is how you are expressing yourself to other people. You're out of touch. Worst thing you can do is blame other people, the problem lies with you.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
We all have our preferences. Whichever suits their fantasy or whatever turns them on. Some like them blondes, Asians, black, young or old, skinny, voluptuous, etc. Who knows what people want and when they want it. But if you are not turning them on, there is no point chatting further with you, married or not married. Just move on. Sex talk may not be the cup of tea of some people until they are comfortable with you. Make a connection first before launching into your sex chats. See if that is what they are after, like in real life and not make assumptions that because you are on a more risque adult dating site , not a sex site, that it is free for all. Social manners and social norms still stand regardless. If you are really insistent of the sex chat, there are sex lines you can call where your chats will be most welcome as long as you want it, at a cost. But in the end, be patient and keep searching for that lucky woman. Suggestion: have you tried the rhp chat room? no guarantees but who knows. You can chat or cam or just be a voyeur. but be friendly and respectful still. I know some women may indulge you but the majority of the women there are also there for the social and fun chats. Good luck
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was thinking I was being too picky by avoiding those already in relationships or married but it seems I'm not in the minority here. I've tried that outside of RHP and it just doesn't work for me and when I've asked to meet the girlfriend/wife that's ok with it there's always an excuse. Not saying it is like this with you but it happens and I don't want to deal with that. Flirts I've sent to say I've loved someone's profile have meant exactly that, as I like a well written non-template intro as it gives me a better idea of who the person is. I would also consider sex with these males after a social meetup as they interest me mentally. One of my quirks and the reason why I read the In my own words section before I read anything else if I receive a flirt/message. Ask me entries provoke a don't bother response with me as do offers of unclothed webcam chats.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But an excuse to treat women like hookers, no. Sexy talk is great but only when a connection is there and about to meet or whatever, personally i don't dirty talk to people i have no intention of meeting, occasionally do, but profiles are exactly that, we don't know who we're talking to until trust is built, so wait until you've connected with a person first, then enjoy the fun that goes with that better for you that way as well. I'm a dirty old woman lol so don't judge you for your age, we're all here for fun, however different we might be in the way we go about that. Just wait to see if the people you are contacting might be interested before hitting them in the face with dirty messages, just my opinion, each to their own - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can summarise your topic in a single sentence. "Someone blocked me, which is great, because now I easily know we are not suitable." Done The 'why' is irrelevant, they're often not real anyway, and the "its a sex site" is an excuse often used by people who hide behind that line to act like a sex offender....... and also usually complain about being blocked, ignored, or write "Im having no luck - what do I have to do to get a reply" topics. DG
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Just my opinion. I could understand why RHP refuses to call this site a SEX site. Lol Selective perception is an interesting phenomena despite what you say that this is an adult dating site where we are more risque and sexually adventurous than the 'Vanilla' sites. But to some, or a lot, people get stuck in the concept that RHP is just SEX, SEX and SEX. And free sex. Lol. hence they behave that way as the seed is planted in their head and refuse to acknowledge that there are people out there who are still discerning in their choice of partners, may it be one-nighter, casual hook-up or long-term. We all set our own criteria, no judgment. They are still people behind the screen wanting connection. And as we are not free hookers, (male or female) that is our choice and prerogative to make sure we get out the optimum returns for our time and efforts. and that is fulfilling our needs and fantasies. So do I see this as a sex site? not in the latter sense. For me, i am looking for a connection that I may enjoy a friendship and sexual relationship with, not the fairy tale. Set your expectations. find people who can meet those and keep looking. dont get stuck in the sex bit too early in the piece, that will come if the connection is really there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
After I declined a guy's invite to fuck one weekend (first message, mind you), he told me that if I wasn't on here to meet guys for sex I should fuck off and stop wasting everyone's time. But I'm assuming the OP does not send messages like that, and I'm hoping he'll show us what he does write.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
some horrific messages sent by guys. Guess its all in the application and the pure luck of who you send it to who may be open to what you write. So good luck, there's someone for everyone, just need to work the odds.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sends me a sexually explicit message instead of getting all bent out of shape,disgusted etc I now respond with something humorous ..well at least I think it's humorous 😝and the responses have been interesting..Recently I responded to a Hi would you like to fuck message with ..Of course,but only if you recite Undermilkwood while we are fucking..He was Welsh and it did amuse him..he promised to try his best xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
if her old man has a brewery I'll be found there 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
One simple solution ... Just keep your eye out for profiles that have said they're looking to a chat about sex with older married men. We're all here for our own reasons. Sometimes those reasons overlap with others - often it doesn't. Thems the breaks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"A message about how you'd like to cover my sexy tits with your hot cum would get likely get you a less polite response." Well..... I'd say show us yer tits; but you're already halfway there without needing any encouragement 😎 😝😝😝😝😝😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Myself and my girlfriend advertised for a couple/ woman to do some photography for us in datefinder tou replied not being either. We politely said no we were looking for a couple or woman maybe if you could being your wife along things may be more comfortable. No you cant do that as wife is not into it ok fine thanks but no thanks. On Sunday we added the new pictures which turned out pretty well btw lol. Today we get a message from you asking us for access to our pictures. Realy what are we meant to think? We had made it quite clear to you that we were not interested as you were a married man. So say what you will you actions are quite disturbing and to be honest a little creepy. Just our two cents this post may not even be aimed at us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Finally! Thank God you sent me a wanna fuck message. I have been sitting here for hours with my 10" strapon on and my fisting gloves all lubed up just gagging to to get a message like yours. Awesome. Please send me your address and I will be there in 10 minutes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey withoutaclue. What does talking to people about sex mean? Because you can talk about sex everyday on the adult forums with all of us? Or are you basically having email sex with people? Which to be honest, get's pretty old after the first time you do it when you first join up. I assume that people that are very restricted in being able to meet people, such as married people, do this alot? As a single person I find that a bit boring. Sorry...... I always tell people straight up I am not interested in pen pals. Not my thing at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I've successfully made myself out to be a sex fiend - which I'm not. I check out many profiles, if they are not looking for a man or are too young ( under 40), I don't contact them. Sometimes i may spot something interesting in their profile and I'll send them a message with a comment on what I found interesting. I don't expect a reply and more often I don't. When I do send a message, they are not sexually explicit, well, not at first, depends on how the chatting goes. I do enjoy looking at photos members have in their profiles as I'm a keen amateur photographer. This posting has taught me to explain myself a bit more in the future. I've probably missed something in this posting as well, but as I said before, shit happens. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wouldn't worry about it too much withoutaclue.. There was a young woman I messaged with a respectful yet detailed message about the things I liked to do. She replied that it sounded fantastic and she was really interested etc etc. We opened up private galleries (non nudes) to each other; once she saw mine she blocked me. She could have said no thanks too.. but meh.. I just took it as a sign that she was the kind of person that I did not want to interact with ever again. Would suggest you take it the same.
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