Being polite - naughty or nice

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  MMMM.......I find that unusual - not doubting you OP but I think thats a very strange reply...for a first time reply   All I can suggest is that you carefully read any potentials profile to REALLY ascertain what they are looking for...before sending a message   Yes there is a line and for each lady that line will be different...I guess you have to decide just how down and dirty do you want to get online before you do offline...       Hell, what do I know ?...seriously when was the last time I got down and dirty .....oh yeah..a vague memory

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Personally, i ignore the 'wanna fuck?' message outright. As a woman on here I'm looking for a little more originality. I especially like those who have obviously taken the time to read my profile and comment on it. Perhaps you could take that approach as all women appreciate genuine interest - even if it is mostly about sex. So maybe you could start with something like..."Hi. I really liked your profile and I think you're smokin' hot. I notice you are interested in xyz. I find this intriguing/exciting/enjoyable too." etc.Or you could be try being witty in some way. Remember that you need to stand out a bit from the crowd. Be original. Be funny. Be insightful. Be yourself!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I tend to take a softer approach on the first couple of messages then gauge how the person responds before ramping it to match their level of raunch

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  the line will vary from woman to woman.You will need to decypher from the profile if a particular woman is going to respond to a ''seedy'' message.Some will be afronted,see other threads re this ...and some will obviously find it thrilling...go figure, but I do believe you. Perhaps if you use a bit more imagination in your profile,currently it is snooze worthy.Do a rewrite a little self deprecating humour might help.Your pics are good and your list of interests is certainly extensive.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Again... Go with the flow...   Take it on the chin...learn from it.   Remember what type of site this is... although many of us are here for the same reasons, its like having salt and pepper on your food, you either like it, or you don't.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  As in, "Please, ....show me your tits?"

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  "You are just what I'm looking for" When a man is a decade outside of my age bracket as well as in a different state, it will encite a "No" response from me, whether he is dirty enough or not. Best to be read a profile carefully first, and formulate a message that echos the feel you got from it.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Just be you.People see you for who you are.You can try to be someone your "not" but people will eventually find out the true you.I have always thought ,if people are going to judge me on what i write in a letter or on my profile ,they are just selling me short.We all have a number of attributes that are not shown in a letter or profile.Be polite if that's who you are and try to be honest with what you want and who you are.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Beauzza, just be yourself, then the right people will gravitate towards you, if you are not completely honest about who you are then you may attract the wrong people, will not be compatible with everyone, that is a given, so again, be true to yourself

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Are you getting the standard template reply? It says you do not match what I am looking for. It doesn't have anything to do with whether you are dirty or not. It just means you are not what they are looking for. It's nothing personal gorgeous. Maybe the girls are looking for older guys? - Posted from rhpmobile

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