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Bi-Ladies All Talk But No Action!
November 15 2009
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playfulminx
16 years ago
Is is possible that the other lady was indeed bi but not attracted to your lady? I mean, it's kinda like saying if you're a straight man, then you would shag all woman.There seems to be an underlying assumption that if a woman is bi she'll take bi action, no questions asked. There has to be attraction to some degree, same for M/F interaction. By attraction, I am not referring to whether your partner is physically attractive or not. Women in particular need a bit more than the physical to get them going so maybe the ladies didn't really click?Also, women can be bi in many ways. Some are active and some are passive. Maybe she's more passive and needed your lady to make the first move?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think some chicks say theyre bi coz its the flavour of the month but they really just wanna fuck your guy.And im sorry....but just laying there and taking it from another chick does not make you bi.Kissing another chick does not make you bi either.Me? Im attracted to people...be they male or female. I dont label myself as anything.(although for the purpose of rhp im bi...lol)Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was talking to a friends daughter the other day. She is 16. She was telling me that she was hit on by another girl at a party. The other girl said "All the girls are experimenting with other girls" She was quite aggressive so I was told. I was watching a doco on SBS about bi-sexuality. It was very interesting. It said that throuought the ages, it seems that men have been the bisexual ones but in modern times things like that have been shunned. I think that humans in general have had thoughts about being with the same sex at one time or another. Now it seems that with women being more assertive, they are acting on what they want. Some women seem to feel left out and say they are bi etc just to "fit in" with the other girls. There has to be that "click" with the other person. Their energy needs to combine and compliment eachother or there is a repulsion and nothing will happen. It has to feel right. Humans are one of the only creatures that have sex for pure pleasure. The clitorus only has one function and that is pleasure. There is no other organ in a human body that is only devoted to pleasure. Its about time we ALL devoted time to learn how to best stimulate this organ. Women deserve this. Women know what to do for other women and I think that is another reason women are turning to other women. A LOT of men seem to not care or are just idiots and refuse to listen and learn what a woman likes and what feels good to her. All in all, you can't blame women for wanting to have sex with other women. Men don't seem to be willing or able to get it right and that is sad indeed! (I do my best to listen and learn but practice makes perfect right?)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Considering it's the "Fashion" right now to be bi and have a bi girlfriend...i think it's pretty clear this chick was yet again an immature and insecure woman wanting to live the "Fashionable Fantasy" but when it came to the reality of it...realised you have to actually want it in it's physical form....it's fun living the image, but the reality is totally realistic!! Seem's alot of women these days want the image but not the reality and consequences...and besides...it's her issue to wake up to every morning. Plenty of awesome single men out there who want to adore their girl and would love a bi-sexual partner who will let them play......but the site of her man fucking another woman is too much to handle.Seems to have been the case with my last 3 long term relationships......
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RHP User
16 years ago
they annoy the hell out of me, if not for my lovely man, i would be a full on lesbian, most likely, but thanks to all the lovelys who kissed a girl once at a uni party are now bisexual. RARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! Unless you have spent the past 5 years with that kiss lingering in your mind and go to bed every night thinking of it. IT MEANS NOTHING! if there is no attraction cool. if there is yah. just because your husband wants to see your tongue f*ck a woman doesnt mean that you are bi! again RARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes i know all about this....You meet a couple where the lady says she is bi,you play with her and make sure she enjoys herself then when it is your turn she doesn't want to recepricate...its very annoying and makes you wary of women... There does have to be an attraction there to begin with for it to work....I am very bi and proud of it and am not embarassed to tell people either...
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RHP User
16 years ago
It’s a funny thing, on several occasions I have had men ask me if I was Bi...usually after great sex. When I’ve asked why they asked, it’s usually to do with a FFM fantasy they have. Personally, I have no desire to be with a woman firstly, because I just don’t feel that urge within me and secondly I deliver babies for a living – and I have to say that I have put my fingers into a 1000 vagina’s and not once has my “curiosity” been sparked lol Perhaps some women label themselves bi curious for their partners fantasy enjoyment rather than for their own desire. I really don’t know. I just know that a woman who is true to herself need not be curious about anything. She just needs to tap into her desire.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I personally am not lez or bi... i mean honestly i love chicks.. i love their bodys their minds... pretty much everything about girls i love... But in saying that.... i prefer to be with a guy, i mean i cant imagine being in a relationship with a woman, so in saying that i count myself as experimental... i have been with a few chicky's in the past (im saying 5 more or less) but its always just as a friends with benifits situation, or just a one off.. I say in our prof that i am experimental as thats how i see myself, im not going to say im Bi as i think it gives off the impression listed above (that i would do any girl comming my way) and that is just so wrong.. im very picky with the guys we see and its the same with girls. Although i do think it shouldnt be that way! Everyone is fussy when it comes to their peticular needs! Ahh this could go on for hours LOL.. im gonna stop my self there! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is a situation that bothers me- where a woman may feel some pressure to be engaging in some girly- love..There is that, too, as em_n_celticguy stated- the obvious assumption that doing it for a man makes you bi. Ladies who can honestly say they just don't dig it make me smile- ok, so it is cool and would definitely add an extra dimension to any play- doesn't mean you have to be into it. just like any sexual interest- no obligation!In the same token.. bi-curious is fine, and obviously so is bi. I luuuuurrrve women the same way I luuuurrrrve men- that makes me bi... always have been, always will be .. but I dont expect other women to fall at my feet (although occasionally it would be fantastic). xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Girlycuddles' – and I have to say that I have put my fingers into a 1000 vagina’s and not once has my “curiosity” been sparked lol Lol............great reply!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I know what siver tulip looks like and boy she is hot, but thats bi the bi (sorry) My partner is bi but not for just any lady, something has to click. She has had an experience or 2 with female escorts before she met me but says they weren't really into it ...so to speak. I know the type she is into and its quite fun going to the beach when we both get to check out the girls. She isn't interested in bi curious ladys either in fact she'd prefer a lesbian because "they know what they're doing" not that there are any complaints about me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
My girl loves to play with other girls but there has to be a physical attraction for her. She has to be attracted to the guy as well as it is about her enjoying herself and not just shagging for the sake of it. In saying that we don't arrange a playmeet unless we both see something we like. We have yet to be disappointed and have played everytime so far
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