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March 16 2013

Is it ok to be looking just for sex on RHP and a relationship on a vanillia dating site? (with contradictary profiles?)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    do that so youre not alone.   Most are just not as open as yourself about it.   Though, may I suggest, you dont close yourself off to the possibility of meeting someone here also? You never know who may be around the corner. And at least you know there is sexual compatibility.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't have an issue with that as long as the person I meet is OPEN and HONEST and tells me.As long as you are HONEST meeting people from those sites and you are true to yourself - then what is the problem??I'm sure other people do it.. As long as their is no LIES and DECEIT...there shouldn't be an issue as no-one likes that.Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If you want a "Relationship" don't rule out this site...Some people want that from here too.You may be surprised...Just because this site is based on SEX doesn't mean people aren't looking for a relationship on here as well.Good Luck hope you find that one special person. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Lost_Focus' do that so youre not alone.   Most are just not as open as yourself about it.   Though, may I suggest, you dont close yourself off to the possibility of meeting someone here also? You never know who may be around the corner. And at least you know there is sexual compatibility.   Kisses Focus My profiles are quiet similar Focus and have not cut myself off from meeting a nice person on here as I have done. My experiance so far is that sexual promiscuous breeds assholes. And I am never perfect either xx

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    You can do whatever you like :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    on here and another site...so called vanilla.Strange but that is where I find my playmates,it's here I have only found friends...go figure... Do I think there is anything wrong with this,no,my profiles are similar,face pic the same. Do I expect to find anything or anyone ?....no,it's just lovely when I do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am going to out myself for not long ago meeting my current partner off a vanilla website but at the time I was on both and was open to a relationship on either site at the time. SFYI, From my experience I was open and honest to being on RHP and what I wanted from a partner and was glad all worked out and she didn't run away with flailing arms. Same as Freya as had same photos etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SINGLEFYI' My experiance so far is that sexual promiscuous breeds assholes. And I am never perfect either xx Guess I'm an asshole then. Meeka, bring that strap-on!   But seriously, there's nothing wrong with having two profiles, though what do you mean by contradictory? If your profiles say opposite things, would one of them not be dishonest? Or is the focus of them just on different things? I was on a vanilla site for a while and saw dozens of profile pics that were also used for RHP. On the vanilla site a certain man claimed to be shy and romantic, while on RHP he called himself very dominant and had bondage and bukkake listed as his interests. Made me laugh and feel for those poor unsuspecting vanilla girls!

  • LemonDance

    LemonDance

    13 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being on as many sites as one likes.... I recently joined a "vanilla" site and so far, have found that the few guys I've met from that site, are way more kinky than all the guys I've met from RHP, rolled into one!! At least on RHP it's out there what they want. On the vanilla site these particular guys that I met all said they were looking to get to know someone with the view to a relationship developing... however every one of them attempted to jump me with in the first few minutes & one asked if I'd be interested in peeing in his mouth!! RHP still my favourite site of all! :o)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'LemonDance' Nothing wrong with being on as many sites as one likes.... I recently joined a "vanilla" site and so far, have found that the few guys I've met from that site, are way more kinky than all the guys I've met from RHP, rolled into one!! At least on RHP it's out there what they want. On the vanilla site these particular guys that I met all said they were looking to get to know someone with the view to a relationship developing... however every one of them attempted to jump me with in the first few minutes & one asked if I'd be interested in peeing in his mouth!! RHP still my favourite site of all! :o) Hahahahaha!! Oh how I laughed at my poor unsuspecting friend's misfortune....One guy that she met & told me "Ohhhhh he's so sweet!" and then within an hour or so of the "vanilla date" she soon discovered that he had other ideas... and none of them very vanilla.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lol, compared to fetlife this site is vanilla. I met my partner on a sex site very similar to this site and we are likely to get married. At least you know that you are sexually compatible looking on a this and other adult sites. Sexual compatibility is ultra important and without physical compatibility your vanilla sought relationship wont last long. And how many dates and hours of your precious time will you waste with Miss vanilla only to find that once you do get down and dirty that she may not meet your needs. And just to set you straight on one thing that I found a little insulting: - Not everyone on this site is promiscuous. I am very loyal to my man and I never play solo (unless it's with a gf and he likes that because they also share him with me at times) and there are others on this site that are same. I would rather describe people like me as having high sex drive. Yep the promiscuous ones on here probably are arseholes, but not me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'CreamyKit10' Quoting 'LemonDance' Nothing wrong with being on as many sites as one likes.... I recently joined a "vanilla" site and so far, have found that the few guys I've met from that site, are way more kinky than all the guys I've met from RHP, rolled into one!! At least on RHP it's out there what they want. On the vanilla site these particular guys that I met all said they were looking to get to know someone with the view to a relationship developing... however every one of them attempted to jump me with in the first few minutes & one asked if I'd be interested in peeing in his mouth!! RHP still my favourite site of all! :o) Hahahahaha!! Oh how I laughed at my poor unsuspecting friend's misfortune.... One guy that she met & told me "Ohhhhh he's so sweet!" and then within an hour or so of the "vanilla date" she soon discovered that he had other ideas... and none of them very vanilla....... Quoting 'wefukugood'Lol, compared to fetlife this site is vanilla. I met my partner on a sex site very similar to this site and we are likely to get married. At least you know that you are sexually compatible looking on a this and other adult sites. Sexual compatibility is ultra important and without physical compatibility your vanilla sought relationship wont last long. And how many dates and hours of your precious time will you waste with Miss vanilla only to find that once you do get down and dirty that she may not meet your needs. And just to set you straight on one thing that I found a little insulting: - Not everyone on this site is promiscuous. I am very loyal to my man and I never play solo (unless it's with a gf and he likes that because they also share him with me at times) and there are others on this site that are same. I would rather describe people like me as having high sex drive. Yep the promiscuous ones on here probably are arseholes, but not me. I just can't help it ATM, I just have to try even if not buying. Nom Nom Nom, yummy!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    how I loathe that word OP.Women have always been judged for being sexually active and non monogamous ,much more than men ever have. Because a person has many sexual partners does not make them an arsehole.Deception and callousness imo does.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    How come its women who always wear this label, when usually it's men chasing and catching them? If men didn't pursue so many different women we wouldn't get this rep, it's mostly guys who fuck n run, never to be seen again. IMO.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' how I loathe that word OP.Women have always been judged for being sexually active and non monogamous ,much more than men ever have. Because a person has many sexual partners does not make them an arsehole.Deception and callousness imo does. Sums it up perfectly.