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Bi-curious or Bi?????
February 17 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi mrs fun, I dont think you are one or the other. I am hetero, bi , bi curious, i love to play with a woman, am i bi? i think woman are hot and i am so lucky to have a man that bought up 3 somes! I was always wanting to try and got married and put the thought to the back of my mind, until my hubby and I were having a rocky time. we sat and talked about our sex life and 3somes came up, if the world thinks i am bi because i love to have sex with a woman, then i am bi, but how does the world explain me achieving orgasm ( no hands ) while watching my hubby eat another woman. you are what you are just have fun and keep the love going Mrs Mumonmum
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RHP User
15 years ago
They're really just labels for clinical psychologists. What is important is how you identify your own sexuality and to some extent, that you are comfortable with it. I mean, it's gotta be disappointing to deny particular urges just because it doesn't fit within your perception of your own sexuality. I say you dont really need the label... that you should go for it like you're not going to get a second chance... and when "they" do a forensic examination of your life before you enter the long hereafter... let "them" decide what your sexuality was. If you are comfortable being bi-curious then that's appropriate. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bi curious means you are curious to try your bi side but have not done it before.. and Bi sexual means you have tried your bi side and you realized you do enjoy sexual encounters with the same sex & you would do it again if given the chance
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who cares??? :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Like you said stalky it is what we are comfortable with by having labels and making statements you are telling others what you as a couple are comfortable with and where your boundries are. After all we are here to meet people with similiar desires. A couple may only want to go as far as swapping partners for sex with oral, but no anal, So if you are approached by someone wearing a label bisexual and gives and recieves anal. You have the oppurtunity of not taking it any further or clarifying the boundries. You can also use the search function and thru labels and describtions you narrow down like minded people. By rejecting the idea of labels you are keeping all options open, not committing to anything, and not being honest about your past experiances to your future playmates. Bi Curious......just curious and I may try touching and playing with the same sex but not sure. Bi Sexual......I have tried the same sex and want more if we get along. Quoting 'stalky' They're really just labels for clinical psychologists. What is important is how you identify your own sexuality and to some extent, that you are comfortable with it. I mean, it's gotta be disappointing to deny particular urges just because it doesn't fit within your perception of your own sexuality. I say you dont really need the label... that you should go for it like you're not going to get a second chance... and when "they" do a forensic examination of your life before you enter the long hereafter... let "them" decide what your sexuality was. If you are comfortable being bi-curious then that's appropriate. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
KrissyG I definately no one has a scratch that turns into an itch that won't go away! Maybe they need ointment on it or take an oral pill for it. LOLBut I do agree that if it becomes mainstream than just dipping your toe in and you wanna envelope yourself in the pool then I'd have to say you may have a case of going from being bi-curious to well maybe full on!L&S
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RHP User
15 years ago
Because it's always going to be open to interpretation by different people. I used to say 'bi-curious' until i tried it and knew i HAD to do it again, then changed it to 'bisexual' but then a lesbian told me i wasn't bisexual ENOUGH because i only play with girls and wouldn't seek a serious relationship with a woman (i just can't imagine living with someone just like me! it'd be a fucking nightmare!!). . You pretty much have to ask every bi or curious person what they are and aren't willing to do, it's safer than assuming. . xx Sarah
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SexyArse
15 years ago
I have played with women a few times however don't believe I would classify myself as bi because I would not choose to have a relationship with a woman. I think if you are bi you would have a relationship with a man or a woman and I would never do that. I play with women for a bit of fun and that is it really so I classify myself as bi-curious. Realistically who cares though. Who needs labels at the end of the day. You are what u are!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'A couple may only want to go as far as swapping partners for sex with oral, but no anal, So if you are approached by someone wearing a label bisexual and gives and recieves anal. You have the oppurtunity of not taking it any further or clarifying the boundries. YOU CAN DO THAT THROUGH YOUR SEXUAL INTERESTS PANEL. BEING BISEXUAL DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE INTO ANAL SEX, ANY MORE THAN IF YOU NAME YOURSELF ANY OF THE OTHER SEXUAL IDENTITIES LISTED.By rejecting the idea of labels you are keeping all options open, not committing to anything, and not being honest about your past experiances to your future playmates.THAT"S JUST SELF SERVING BULLSHIT. FOR EXAMPLE IN MY CASE, I JUST DON'T WANT TO LIMIT MY THINKING TO A PARTICULAR SEXUAL IDENTITY AND THAT SAYS PLENTY TO MY PROSPECTIVE LOVERS ABOUT ME... AND IT'S ALSO HONEST. HOW DARE YOU SUGGEST THAT I'M BEING DISHONEST! DO YOU REALLY WANT TO START TROLLING AGAIN? PLUS EXPERIENCE HAS NEVER BEEN THE DETERMINATE OF A PERSON"S SEXUAL IDENTITY.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We did not say being Bisexual you were into Anal sex ...you are reading stuff into it that is not there. Maybe put it this way: If my wife chooses not to have sex with any person for any reason that is her choice. For her, males being bi or into anal sex it is her decision right or wrong. We like the idea of profiles where you state your preferences because guys know if they put down Bi they limit their oppurtunities because some females will so no. Then if they put straight they limit their Bi oppurtunities. So that system we think improves honesty. Go to a party or club where you cannot access a playmates profile you have to take the people at their word and they can tell you what you want to hear without risking losing out. My wife may also may feel uncomfortable with a bisexual lady in the same bed, right or wrong she should be given the choice. By committing to labels on our profile we are putting it out there what we are . Surely if you dont want to limit yourself to a sexual indentity the answer is bi = two sexes so you are not limiting yourself to either sex. We say tick all the boxes in your profile fill out every detail dont leave anything as blank or ask me. Sorry if we have a different opinion than you, we are not trolling, but see an incomplete profile as not committing to a particular style or letting others know up front what you like. If you like everything tick every box! Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'A couple may only want to go as far as swapping partners for sex with oral, but no anal, So if you are approached by someone wearing a label bisexual and gives and recieves anal. You have the oppurtunity of not taking it any further or clarifying the boundries. YOU CAN DO THAT THROUGH YOUR SEXUAL INTERESTS PANEL. BEING BISEXUAL DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE INTO ANAL SEX, ANY MORE THAN IF YOU NAME YOURSELF ANY OF THE OTHER SEXUAL IDENTITIES LISTED.By rejecting the idea of labels you are keeping all options open, not committing to anything, and not being honest about your past experiances to your future playmates.THAT"S JUST SELF SERVING BULLSHIT. FOR EXAMPLE IN MY CASE, I JUST DON'T WANT TO LIMIT MY THINKING TO A PARTICULAR SEXUAL IDENTITY AND THAT SAYS PLENTY TO MY PROSPECTIVE LOVERS ABOUT ME... AND IT'S ALSO HONEST. HOW DARE YOU SUGGEST THAT I'M BEING DISHONEST! DO YOU REALLY WANT TO START TROLLING AGAIN? PLUS EXPERIENCE HAS NEVER BEEN THE DETERMINATE OF A PERSON"S SEXUAL IDENTITY.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your diatribe is as usual off topic. Troll. See the OPs question. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Havining been around the block a few times??? I tend to think there is a little bit of Bi in most Males and Females. Some would admit it, other's can never face the truth with anything???? Who cares anyway ?? CHEERS KEITH.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Labels, tags, badges - lets face it we all have them, so no need to be shy about it!! In my experience, I have found women more open about this topic than men, usually cos men do not want to 'label themselves' as .....dare I say.....GAY!! Yet, us women are proud of it. I love clit and I love dicks and have no problem stating it!!!! Its usually the guys (usually not always) that pussyfoot around this issue and answer a qu with another qu, purely to avoid answering it and saying it out loud!! It is OK that you are turned on by another guy - we are all freakin adults here. I know that there are some women that drive me wild, yet there are others that I find unattractive altogether. So my advice to all those buys out there that are 'bi-curious' is hold your cock, be proud and say it out loud!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unfortunately sites like this (not criticism) force guys not to maybe expose what they like purely because of the Homophobic attitude of a few. In saying that if you are uncomfortable with playing with someone because they like something you don't, here is a clue don't meet them! Call yourself straight and when you meet a cpl and your sex match is Bi ask if you can suck there cock as it is new to you or visa versa can I lick your pussy. Yes Yes not the exact dialogue, but you get the picture Recently I have had many straight guys view my profile and message me I am ok with that, but I ask what is there to be afraid of this is a site for ppl of all persuausions to meet and enjoy. Has anyone knocked back anyone because of one item in their profile? Becuase I am by I have no intention of pouncing on a straight guy and ruining the evening Cum one and all and enjoy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'aries3850' Havining been around the block a few times??? I tend to think there is a little bit of Bi in most Males and Females. Some would admit it, other's can never face the truth with anything???? Who cares anyway ?? CHEERS KEITH. There has to be otherwise 2 guys and 2 girls would not be in the same bed and you would have a invisible wall and things like ewwwwwww his leg touched my leg. lol Can remember my straight wife saying to a Bi sexual chick in bed ....move over get comfortable we can touch you know!
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RHP User
15 years ago
this is an argument I had for years with a friend of mine. As far as I'm concerned I have ALWAYS been bisexual. When the debate started, he asserted that since at the time I hadn't experienced being with a woman that I was just bi-curious, not bisexual. As a bit of history, I was a later starter (in my mind) when it came to sex. Not for lack of wanting - I've had a high sex drive since I was very young, I was just incredibly shy. Now just because I didn't have sex with a guy before I was in my twenties doesn't mean I didn't KNOW I was attracted to men. In the same way just because I didn't have sex with a girl until a lot later does not mean I didn't KNOW I was attracted to women as well. I've always been attracted to both women and men and not surprisingly since coming out of my shell and experimenting (and later on embracing the whole concept with open arms & legs! lol) and I've had good experiences and bad experiences with both sexes. It was never a question of whether I enjoyed one better than the other - that varied depending on the person I was with. We are not always just defined by our actions - it is about what we know in our hearts to be true. Curious in my mind means that you aren't sure - and some people aren't, so if it helps you to accurately identify where you are in your journey then sure, pick a label and call yourself curious, but recognise that things can change for you and you dont have to stick with the same label your whole life or adhere to other people's definitions. If you are like me and have always known then I don't think anyone can downplay that just because you haven't had the experience they believe you should have had to validate that. Sex and attraction comes in a huge variety of forms and only you can know for sure what is right for you. xxx Bec
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't like the same gender sex at all... I am not at all comfortable with it... On the other hand, I am a great lover as per most ladies I made love to.... But, I love skins and bodies, tight, beefy and glowing (as much as possible). The bodies could be male or female... That's why there are many couples who go very well with me... But again when it comes to ****, I love only girls... rocky
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RHP User
15 years ago
We believe you can be only Bi-curious for an hour or so. Then you should know for yourselves if you are open for it or not.This does not mean then you play with every woman! All depends on the click and the night. That is the same if you are straight.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'one_night_lover' I don't like the same gender sex at all... I am not at all comfortable with it... On the other hand, I am a great lover as per most ladies I made love to.... But, I love skins and bodies, tight, beefy and glowing (as much as possible). The bodies could be male or female... That's why there are many couples who go very well with me... But again when it comes to ****, I love only girls... rocky Rocky, men ought to be at liberty to find masculinity sexy without wanting to stick your dick in another bloke. Some people are dead sexy so I have no idea why we, as a society, make it so difficult for men to accept that fact of another man... I mean to say... why can't we admire a beautiful body, without all the sexuality connotations?HugsS
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