Diamondx

Diamondx

F26

Bio’s ect

October 26 2025

My profile clearly states I am not looking for men who want sexual connections yet men who want that keep messaging me and getting upset I don’t want to? Why is that they can’t comprehend? I am so confused right now do I change my profile to NOT SEEKING A SEXUAL CONNECTION or something like that….let me know people 😊

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    OK I looked at your profile. You do say you are looking for “a discreet affair” You probably should remove that. Also … this is a site where. primarily, people meet for sex. So it is not surprising you are getting people who message asking for a sexual conneciton. Finally i also add that many men do not read your profile - just message. Block away until you find the righr connections.

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    7 months ago

    Your profile lists sexual interests and bio says non sexual so its understandablethat there would be confusion...to be honest babe, youre on the wrong site if you dont want people approaching you for sexual interactions...this is a swingers site and essentially a hook up site.

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    7 months ago

    Most men don’t read anything more than pictures. So it’s very difficult to get the message across.

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    7 months ago

    Because a high % of males don’t actually READ one’s profile wording before sending one a message. Then there are some that read it, ignore what the have read, and try their luck regardless, hoping to convince you to change your mind.

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    7 months ago

    Regardless of your preferences, people rarely read profiles that is just the way it is. In my experience, nothing helps.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 months ago

    These vile men behave like that because they've never been told NO, not even by their mothers!. They believe all women should bow to them. When they dont get their own way they become abusive. Thank your lucky stars because they have actually done the shifting for you. Keep being you and don't change your profile because of a few nickinpoops. Good men are out there. I know as I have met them. Ms Foxy

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    7 months ago

    I think it might just be confusing that you are listing all these various sexual activities under Interests, you are listing group sex, oral, anal, gang bang etc… Then you are also saying in the bio text you are not into sex. I just read your whole profile and am thoroughly confused what it is you are looking for. You can keep your profile as it is as some are suggesting and keep getting replies to it from people who choose to respond to the “interests” and the “intention - secret affair” part and then be annoyed. Or you adjust your profile to reflect what you actually want without contradictions. That might help you get a better outcome for yourself.

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    7 months ago

    Mine currently says I’m not looking for new friends. I routinely update it with a recent date at the top so it’s clear it’s current too. Truth is many send messages without reading the profile. Others will try their luck anyway in case you change your mind. I still get new chat requests,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    I believe in being direct about what we want. Eliminate any confusion so the target profile you seek knows exactly what you’re about. There will always be those who don’t read (women and couples are just as guilty of this) but that’s life right. You could be more explicit about your intention on your profile - literally spell it out as though you’re writing to a dimwit. But you’re gonna have to deal with the unwanted noise whilst you exist on this platform.

  • Frank_d1

    Frank_d1

    6 months ago

    Well I'm new here and I would like to get to know you well if you see this comment just hit me up let gets to know each other if you don't mind and u think I also find my self in the wrong site.

  • SkittishNymph

    SkittishNymph

    6 months ago

    Whenever I dont want messages, I flick the messaging option off in the messaging settings. That way, only people I like can chat. Helps with the overwhelm 🧡

  • Knottyeuro

    Knottyeuro

    6 months ago

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂