RHP

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Bisexual men

August 09 2025

Why does me being bisexual scare so many women and couples off?

Comments

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    10 months ago

    We're there any things in their profiles about that? You're best off asking them.

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    10 months ago

    Probably because they aren't looking for bisexual men perhaps you should look for the couples that are seeking that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Im sorry but yeah.

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    10 months ago

    I think many men worry about being put into a situation where they are asked to engage in bi play and so they’d rather not meet in the first place. I think maybe add something to your profile that you are just as happy to do straight MFM without any MM interaction and are very respectful of boundaries (if that is true). And when you message a couple, check how they both list themselves under orientation and say something along these lines in your message.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Mate, couples are way more complex than they appear on profiles. You’ve usually got one person driving and the other a nervous passenger. Although there are rare exceptions to the rule. So you never know really which one you’re taking to and what the reality is. I’d say your best bet is one of two scenarios: 1.) meet a chick and go to a club on bi night. Swing, be social, build up a network and get known for your charms. 2.) have a unique reason for them to meet you. Perhaps you cuck or you wanna top a guy in front of the girl? Find profiles that state a specific scenario you cater to. Some profile tweaks would likely help too. Good luck sir.

  • Thesunlovingsub

    Thesunlovingsub

    10 months ago

    My two cents: We live under a patriarchal system which conditions women to think that to be desired they need to be feminine, and they need masculine men to desire and protect them. Bisexuality threatens that construct. Individual preference is always a factor in any choice, but we can’t dismiss the influence of broader ideological factors on every single one of us. For what’s its worth I would have no hesitation dating a bisexual man, and for group play it makes things way easier, because you don’t have to deal with the insecurity of straight men who can’t handle the idea of another man being desirable to the women they desire. I actually have this as a deal breaker in my profile. I wish you well on your sexy journey 💋

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    9 months ago

    Youre right, knowing a guy is bi would scare us away... We're a straight couple so not for us...

  • Blueeyedblonde70

    Blueeyedblonde70

    9 months ago

    I’m a hypocrite I’m bi but couldn’t be with bi and gay men . Me being honest

  • Lifelovefun

    Lifelovefun

    9 months ago

    We have plenty of bisexual male friends, no issues for us

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    You haven't scared my Mrs and I off at all...