M48
Bit confused
July 19 2019
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
You have a kind face and built like a brick shit house so you should have it all going on with the ladies.....almost...I know a lot of “the marrying kind” women and they usually don’t go for the beef cakes. That said, there’s people out there for everyone and these days of everyone living on their phone it’s damn hard to find the one. I’d almost given up, then took a completely crazy risk and found the most amazing woman who is truly my soul mate. If you are not meeting the right one in the circles you are operating in then start putting yourself into completely different circles, she is likely waiting there for you :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I don’t know you.... But those who have told you that may...obviously it depends on how well you know each other really... I don’t think you’ll find the answers you seek here....only you know what you lack, and only you know what you bring to the table in terms of relationship quality....
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RHP User
6 years ago
...just a thought? It could be your voice...maybe that's it? It's obvious that you didn't post with a list of qualities that you feel might help you send one home to the keeper and hoped someone would notice, right? Then is could be your voice. Do you sound anything like Peewee Herman or Lou Costello? That'll never do, will it? Just a thought and hope that helps as you do sound just a tad whiney for such a buff stud. Yes, maybe it's you voice! ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
Deja vu 🙄 Pretty sure this is the third time you've asked the same or similar question. Might have something to do with being too needy? Or maybe it's that lack of care for sexual health by not having safe sex 🤷♀️🤦♀️
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RHP User
6 years ago
How you present yourself... ...is usually what determines who you attract and how you live your life. Your profile states that you’ve been single for a long time and not by choice. That tells me you are your own worst enemy, as you practically sabotage your chances of meeting someone you need to meet by placing a negative aura on yourself. It may be a fact that you’ve been alone for a long time. But you don’t need to make this public knowledge. Yes you are a well built big unit which shows off a certain type of masculinity but you need the right attitude to be successful at most things in life, dating&sex are no different. Women hate self pity and winging and will not stay with a man who doesn’t inspire confidence and safety. Relationships are lot of work and they take lot of energy and strength. For a woman to to stay with you, she needs to sense that she can rely on you; your mind, your heart and your spirit. How can you be someone’s rock when you are so negative?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Your friends won't tell you the truth. I will if you want to hear it. Do you really want to hear it?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Tellin' the fellow he's twice as old as your average date? Awwwww ta' hell with it...hit 'em with your best shot!!! Love ya' work! ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
not bad, just some minor adjustment in certain areas. The reality is, if it's not working like it is, changes can be made to draw in the opposite sex, or whoever you desire. To a degree, physically anyway. I have had zero success drawing in a good match for me as far as a number 1 goes, but made some drastic changes to my appearance and sexually, that enabled me to at least try a few out lol As for finding that perfect fit for number 1, I doubt I ever will. Most men treat women like disposable commodities
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RHP User
6 years ago
Tough love ahead. But you asked. Just as Anti stated..... I don’t know you either But I know about you.... from some of what you’ve posted in here Seeing as you asked..... suggesting you’re asking the forums for help...... this topic, and some of those aggressive, angry and entitled posts from the past may give an insight into why the women asking you the questions you’ve stated aren’t taking it further. If you aren’t feeling rewarded with the relationships you feel you are missing.... then the common denominator is that there is something you’re not offering to inspire women to want to try. Beyond a scripted profile that wont be objective, and your past forum comments, we strangers aren’t the people to ask. Ask your friends who know who you really are. Or an ex, if you’re still on friendly terms as she can outline intimate details beyond your friends’ experiences. Strangers in a forum won’t be in a position to answer.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
I get asked all the time the exact same questions (why are you single blah blah blah) ....I don't give a two hoots what others think or what I should or shouldn't do and I certainly wouldn't ask my friends why is it so hard to met people because I just wouldn't nor do I seek their validation or approval. To met people one needs to compromise. I get everyone is "busy", work and have commitments etc as nothing is ever handed out on silver platters. Not everyone wants a white picket fence, marriage and a handful of kiddies. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
People would ask why? I'm The male half, I was attractive, good personality, good job, my own house. I would reply "exactly! I'm over qualified!"
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Lol my voice is fine.. even had a woman say I.should do radio.
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RHP User
6 years ago
So according to your friends and you it seems, everything's fine. It seems you just want to whine about it but closed/shut off from accepting independent advice. Well good luck mate
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
^ hmmm ok lol
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Not sure where I didn't take advice. But it's cool how some people just like to put others down for their own self satisfaction. The person that commented about my voice hasn't heard it and said that and said it was the only possible thing they could think of. Was after advice not bitterness. Trying to see what it is I should change. I'm happy being single, it's just nicer to have a partner and I'm a bit over the single life. Most of you have been cool with the comments so thanks.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Letsfrolic This is the forums full of weirdos,you should never ask a question like you did. What ever is said in here let it go in one ear out the othet,especially the comments from some females in here.
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
^ thanks
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Definitely a valid question, but one only you can answer.
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RHP User
6 years ago
...if they say "Ya got a great head for radio"? No... they are baggin' you, literally and one is going over the head! Then that have your arrested for "being that creepy guy from the internet wearing a potato sack over his head". Hey paying the bail wasn't too bad but appearing in court...now that was embarrassing. ʗɱ ...who gets told he has "a great dick to make porn flicks".
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Not head.. voice. Lol. Alot of girls have said it to me lately,, saying I look younger than I am nice voice cute good body no kids and ask why I'm single And it just made me wonder .. yeah how come I am
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RHP User
6 years ago
Some like to put others down for their own self satisfaction? This was your question or op> "I get told I'm good looking have a good body I'm a great person amd alot of women lately asking me why I'm still single and haven't had kids or a long term relationship yet.. sometimes it's upsetting as that's what I craved when younger... but really makes me wonder why it's so hard for me to meet someone. " So my bad. You weren't asking why, you were just wondering? What was the purpose of your post if you didn't want feedback. Being honest isn't putting someone down, it's answering the question. Next time you do a thread like this, please state that you only want flattering replies. It appears you don't want to know, which explains why you're still single at age 42
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