Body Language

May 20 2013

Hey guys, Not sure if this topic has been posted up on here before.What body language signs do you look for during meets. I'm curious to hear all your knowledge or experience with body language during meets.Cause of my job type i was fortunate to actually cross paths with 1 of the countries most leading body language specialist and I can honestly say my judgement wasn't too far off the mark (thanks for the info passed on to me) i guess over the years with meets that definitely has helped. Feel free to share your thoughts. TG

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Somewhere here.....dang it where are they.....nup.....can't find em :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    One of my main duties at work is to observe Body Language - sometimes I have to record and write up documentations/reports.One of the first things when I observe others is Facial/eye expressions as well as body gestures - it's amazing how quickly body language can change so suddenly from calmness to aggression, aggression to calmness.I can't help myself when I go on meet and greets, that's one thing I really doabserve is ones body language.FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If a man turns up I assume he is a sure thing. No body language required. :p Cynical cow aren't I? Lol. As for me, I am keen if my legs are crossed and my body is directly facing you. I am essentially feeling up my wine glass - fingers going up and down. I am licking my lips and looking at your lips. And in very rare case I may have left a wet patch on my seat.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What does it mean when a man is sitting their like a dear in the headlights? That has happened to me a few times. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    count for positive body language?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Meeka   that the sounds around the room are going softer ,room is getting darker as he zooms in on what he wants to do to you.   He is wondering if he can stip you naked right there on the table, and pour wine over your tits and lick it off   he is wondering if you have the strap on in your purse   he cant even blink those bambi eyes, and a homer simpson voice is going in his head   going booooooooooooooooobies, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm boobies   try snapping your fingers in front of them to get them to come back to the light.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Meeka, it means he is mesmerized with you. Yep, he's another sure thing! LOL   Go girl!   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If so many of the topics in these forums are a guide, it seems to me that most guys look for the really obvious body language sign......... that the body actually shows up!LOL There is a saying........."A pimp is happy when his whores giggle. He knows they are still asleep.."(and again, cant wait for the hate mail from that one lol)Dont take the references to pimps and whores so literally. It simply means that when someone is laughing, their guard is eroding. Marilyn Munro also famously quoted as saying..... "If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything."Thats true to a point. Its possible to make someone laugh too much, and they see you as the "entertainer" and attraction turns to "friend".Reading body language can be simplified, to personal space, and body presentation. If someone is seeking to be within your space, and is facing you, open to interact, using expressive touch, preening, or other gestures to gain your attention and acceptance.... those are the most simple and obvious positive gestures of attraction.DGDG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think they are shocked by what is coming out of my mouth. I just assume that guys from RHP will have an inkling of what I am like but it seems as if some are still shocked to hear it live so to speak. Well that is what I always thought. That such a sweet little innocent woman is actually saying those things!! LMAO!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    <===== They are thinking... What a dirty slapper!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I had a date with a guy and he hardly said a word and he looked like Bambi in the headlights even though he was a avid contributor to the forum. He isn't on RHP anymore. The following day he emailed me to say I should write a book about my experiences. PMSL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Guide to rhp body language When he walks up to you at your first meet, and his cock is already in his hand: This means he thinks your so hot, and that you will blow him at the coffee shop, with a warm mouth and some foam still on your top lip.   When he puts his hands behind his back,and looks out the window: It means you have to pay for your own coffee   When he keeps gum in his mouth when your blowing him,and does not want to spit it out: It means, your not going to get any oral   When she starts moving her hands up and down her glass it means: Buy me a new drink or put your cock in my hand, this can be a tricky one as you may end up with wine all over you if you get it wrong.   When she starts to gag : It means your bigger than she thought you were   When she tries to reach for a book , while your pounding into her: It means, you fail   When she pushes your head down betweeher legs: It means keep down there,go down there, keep the rythm going Many men sadly do not know what this means, and even if they do they ignore the signs   When you see a car drive past with no body driving it: It means your photograph is not the same as your reality Same for when she keeps walking past you at a cafe Same for when she says,no I beg your pardon I have no idea what rhp is Same for when she runs out in the street, waving her arms over her head Shouting "ohhhh the horror the horror"   When you take of your pants and she starts laughing: again, you over estimated your capacity.   When she lies there cold and stiff: It means you need to leave before the CSI team arrive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You crack me up....especially the last one about CSI!! Thankfully I had finished the mouthful of coffee before I got to that one you evil woman

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    13 years ago

    That was hillairyarse!!! How about when your woman starts moaning and your fingering/licking her you've hit the right spot, when the moaning stops because you've moved places it means you're in the wrong spot. Return to former position. Yes that's it, keep going, ahuh ahuh, mmmmmm. Slip in your finger, keep licking.....err sry, got carried away (blushing) Safari - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Your're too funny girlfriend!!LMFAO...So I'm guessing "Starfishing" stiff and cold means call the CSI Team??FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That individual indicators on their own may not mean anything at all.   Clusters of behaviour are more acurate indicators.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That you've scared the pants off him! Quoting 'Meeka100'What does it mean when a man is sitting their like a dear in the headlights? That has happened to me a few times. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you hear a small snore and her eyes are still open,she is just not that into you. when you tell her your most hilarious story and she has a puzzled look on her face,she is just not on the same planet as you. when you are wearing your favourite Hawaiian shirt and she is wearing Prada,you better over compensate with heaps of sexy charm. and,if she is constantly checking out rhp on her phone she is really signalling NEXT....   But if she is still awake after an hour of you talking non stop. If she gazes into your eyes continually,does the Meeka lip licking,plays with her hair,constantly preens herself and you,well Tiger you is in like Flynn.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Stop picking on my Hawaiian shirts :( Hp xo

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Love body language - it says it all minus the words! Watching a couple walking in the street together.... The hand holding or cuddling of just the closeness is so positive. But the couple who walk meters apart, n do nothing but bicker - sad sad sad.... Just watching ppl is so interesting - it tells you so much without even asking a question!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Keep an eye on the feet, if they start to point in the direction of an exit, there's a good chance they want to get away from you. The feet are often over looked when it comes to body language, yet they can tell you so much.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    gorgeous men and their body language!Lips slightly part as they look at mine.Eyes gaze at my breasts, collarbones and back to my breastsFace me square on with legs open so I can check out the goodsStroke their thighsRun their fingers through their hairHold my eye contact with a cheeky sparkleTouch my hand lightly(happy sigh) God I love men

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    13 years ago

    - Is looking at me or else where when I'm talking, that is eyes contact- Constantly looking at me the entire meet with a gorgeous smile and sparkles in his eyes- Notices the clothes I wear to the meeting with him- Gets engaged in the conversation as well or if I do the talking most of the time- Sits back and relax or up tight and stiff- Smiles and/or laughs at my jokes- Drinks his coffee or drinks slowly or quickly- Would order another drinks or coffee when he's done with the first oneThere's so much more but that is enough for this lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Positive. Drooling, stutter, idiot grin-looks like the cat who just got the canary. Squirms in her seat (wet spot)Hands wander to her groin. Hands wander to your groin. Turns off phone. Clouds of fuck me pheromone .Negative. Sunglasses stay on. Legs crossed like she is busting. Arms crossed. Constantly looking at phone for salvation, single syllable answers. Orders big with no offer to share cost. Multiple toilet visits with phone. Does up top buttons. Squeezing pimples in her make up mirror. Vomiting or dry reaching in pot plants. Takes off her heels and puts them in her bag. Emergency phone call while bill is collated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I sometimes need to be slapped to get the point lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    After many years as a sales consultant and later trainer.. I learnt lots about people and what they say with body language.. The way a person looks ' stand, the eye and of course the hands all give off a message. Enough for you to gauge if you want to continue or notIn business' its imperative to be able to gauge what the person is giving off and to quickly adapt your style to suit their needs.. Thats the secret of any good communicator.. Reading the moment..Socially' Im not quite as tolerant these days as I once was. If I dont get any positives within the first 30 minutes , its either one or both of us giving off negative vibes .. so theres no point in going any further.. Nothing better than a girl ' elbows on the table cradling her chin with her hand and looking you straight in the eye. If you cant read that one, your blind... lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' .....If I dont get any positives within the first 30 minutes , its either one or both of us giving off negative vibes .. so theres no point in going any further.. 30 minutes?!!!!!So.. presumably.... you speak to this girl for that long, waiting for any sign she's interested?!I suggest that after the first 2 minutes... if she's not showing at least ONE sign.... she's be wondering....... "why is he hanging around, and when is he going to leave"DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting '50zkool' Positive. Drooling, stutter, idiot grin-looks like the cat who just got the canary. Squirms in her seat (wet spot)Hands wander to her groin. Hands wander to your groin. Turns off phone. Clouds of fuck me pheromone . Were you that fly on the wall???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' Quoting '50zkool' Positive. Drooling, stutter, idiot grin-looks like the cat who just got the canary. Squirms in her seat (wet spot)Hands wander to her groin. Hands wander to your groin. Turns off phone. Clouds of fuck me pheromone . Were you that fly on the wall??? I was the one crawling up your thigh !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What a big hearted man you are... 2 minutes... As usual your snide remarks are all BS... If the lady takes the time to dress , drive , find the place and makes the effort to meet you, and all you give is 2 minutes.. ? Seeing most girls are nervous , it takes them at least 20 minutes to relax and show them true selfs... As usual you presume wrong and your comments negative... Not your first, and not surprising..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Body language is an art of expressing oneself to other person of your desires and feelings.Body language fills up the communication gap when your are hesitant to talk.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' Quoting '50zkool' Positive. Drooling, stutter, idiot grin-looks like the cat who just got the canary. Squirms in her seat (wet spot) Hands wander to her groin. Hands wander to your groin. Turns off phone. Clouds of fuck me pheromone . Were you that fly on the wall??? he was hidding in a pot plant and some chick puked all over him

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its all in the face. The eyes, the smile. The body may show discomfort, maybe for the location, maybe the for the crowd. Yet look into the eyes, see that smile, and there is no need to look further. Well unless you are trying to sell a car that is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Letting them watch me leave :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'paintme' Quoting '50zkool' Positive. Drooling, stutter, idiot grin-looks like the cat who just got the canary. Squirms in her seat (wet spot) Hands wander to her groin. Hands wander to your groin. Turns off phone. Clouds of fuck me pheromone . Were you that fly on the wall??? he was hidding in a pot plant and some chick puked all over him Did I deserve that ?