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Books on techniques for cunnilingus
October 10 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Every woman's body is different and no instructional booklet can teach the technique better than by asking your partner and/or reading her body language - just as different men like to be given head a different way. As long as you're not set in your ways, are open to criticism and keen to learn, you should be fine 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
10 years ago
Reading will only get you so far, best way to improve a skill is to practice! And ask for feedback. I doubt many ladies will say no to an extended licking, reading her reactions is very important. If she is moaning and bucking on the bed, its a sure sign you have done something right!
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RHP User
10 years ago
thanks, I do realise every woman different just thought might be like a Kama sutra type book just to give some different ideas and maybe some things hadn't thought of.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'aussian43' Reading will only get you so far, best way to improve a skill is to practice! And ask for feedback. Yes, but if he was like myself, I had to read (and watch) up on the subject from the point of not having anyone to practice on, so I would be (more) ready when I did. I'm better off now but it' not just a case of asking some passer-by on the street :) As well as books, there are certainly many an education video out there also, particularly those described or demonstrated by women. But there are a lot of different techniques to try (especially combined with fingers); they might give you ideas you haven't thought of. But remember, a technique that is bliss on one lady, might be meh for another, so yes it is definitely a case of asking each individual and noting her reactions.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Of any books but I know Nina Hartley has an awesome YouTube video that's well worth a look.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There was once a link shared on here to one on Nina's videos on how to give great oral. Was over a year ago and I shared it with a fwb. I must say he was good before but after he picked up a couple more tips it was
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RHP User
10 years ago
http://www.spankwire.com/Nina-Hartley-Sunny-Lane/video222872/
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RHP User
10 years ago
pick me I'll teach you more than any book could mmm I know a really good porn clip with a porn guy explaining how to do it, and showing of course, oh my god, he gets it bang on, so much more to it than just licking the puss, he talks about keeping your hands moving, so don't have 'dead hands', meaning place them on her hips, slowly move them every so often, whatever but don't let them do nothing, he talks about how to enjoy the journey, don't worry about the destination, he talks about how to have the woman so turned on with the tease kind of, so by the time you get to her panties, her juices have soaked through, and when you pull them away or aside you get those stringy bits mmm and he very deliberately spreads her legs, and talks and demonstrates, in a way that says he doesn't want to be anywhere else, he loves what he's doing, that's the key and that's what I'm like when I give oral, it's about really loving it and letting yourself go. It sounds like you do already, good for you, mind if I take a mould of you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is a perfect place to begin. Better than a book. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' There was once a link shared on here to one on Nina's videos on how to give great oral. Was over a year ago and I shared it with a fwb. I must say he was good before but after he picked up a couple more tips it was Ms_ silkthanks for the link now i am a little wiser and rather horny!
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RHP User
10 years ago
No problem happy to help and it is good information.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' http://www.spankwire.com/Nina-Hartley-Sunny-Lane/video222872/ I learned a little more about myself too ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
If a woman is completely comfortable with you, she will become an open book herself. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks everyone for the tips will definitely check them all out,very much appreciated.I_touch _myself2 would gladly love to lear from you i am very willing student,unfortunately I have just left WA for Melbourne if only i knew you before
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RHP User
10 years ago
Books are one thing.... but I'm yet to find one what sighs, wriggles, squirms and occasionally squirts when I read it. Knowledge is power, but practice is more fun and far more beneficial than theory. Practice WITH her, and let her be your guide. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'hungandfun2' Thanks everyone for the tips will definitely check them all out,very much appreciated.I_touch _myself2 would gladly love to lear from you i am very willing student,unfortunately I have just left WA for Melbourne if only i knew you before Don't you have to come back and visit someone haha give me a bit of notice, I'll be showered, moisturised and reclined back fanning myself when you arrive. A girl can dream
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RHP User
10 years ago
Feedback is important, sense what the woman is responding to, perhaps have conversation encouraging her to say what she likes, who would know her body best and raunchy talk can get things really happening. Being in good position so as to settle in position for long time, kneeling at edge or end of bed can allow a position without pressure on your neck and her feet can rest on your shoulders. While licking and sucking fingers can massage inc inside for gspot. If you wanna read something, consider tantric and the idea if yoni worship in the sense of understanding and appreciation of the female pleasure. The white lotus yoni massage may be of interest. Good on you for having such a conversation. Cheers
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gives me the creeps and misses so much, not a fan and wouldn't do it for me, what about the pantie line, what about the big kisses and licks, she just sucks, and grabbing all of the pussy? Again, not a fan she doesn't even go close to pleasure i"ve been fortunate to be on the receiving end of, just my 2 cents, there is way better than this in my opinion - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok, l got a lot from the Nina clip though it's not everything to everyone. You mentioned a couple of interesting things, like pantie line (l guess that's a sensitive area that feels nice being kissed or touched) and big kisses, wouldn't there be lots of kissing before moving down stairs or are you suggesting big kissing during to mix things up a bit. Anymore more tips, l'd like to hear a couple of bucks worth of what you like, it's all part of the adventure. Is it just me or dose anyone else remember chanting with Hunters & Collectors in the pubs "Oh yeah gotta get my head down there, down in the cavern where hair grows".
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Gives me the creeps and misses so much, not a fan and wouldn't do it for me, what about the pantie line, what about the big kisses and licks, she just sucks, and grabbing all of the pussy? Again, not a fan she doesn't even go close to pleasure i"ve been fortunate to be on the receiving end of, just my 2 cents, there is way better than this in my opinion - Posted from rhpmobile Nina has more to learn in my view, I would think that watching porn for different styles would be more informative. The sucking in style I have tried many times and rarely gets the body rocking, but still suck it and see at times , not for too long. And the grabbing looks like preparing for a suture, no point in that unless you just passed a baby to a nurse! The bottom lip I find is good and follows the tongue's motion to get the desired reaction often, my 2 cents.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I touch myself ..... it seems your enthusiasm for oral sex,both ways, has no limits. I certainly would not pass up an opportunity to learn at feet/ thighs of such an master and aficionado.
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