Bored with 1-on-1 sex?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  The more people you add into an equation does not mean things might work out because there are more people involved and dynamics change. But an unknown fantasy is great cause you keep thinking about it.

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  I'm similar to Meander. Experienced so many various things and at the moment happy for intimacy 1 on 1. One doesn't know what one likes until you know. Until you do, the elusive fantasy will pique the mind. Plus there is the cycle of pie, a constant revolution of preferences that changes, keeping things fresh and your search interesting

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Once you get into the group scene, meeting ppl one on one online is usually a bit boring. Takes someone exceptional.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I think swingalingson summed it up perfectly, it's the fantasy of the unknown that draws your mind to keep thinking about it and you'll tend to prioritise it over other activities. I think I can relate to your situation, something you haven't tried will seem so much more attractive than something you've had many times. However after trying out threesomes, I've found its a different dynamic for me, because I'm always thinking about if everyone's enjoying themselves, while in regular sex, its more relaxed and I only need to make sure my partner is enjoying herself, so I can be a little bit more focused on myself. Hope this helps. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  We constantly evolve , and push the boundaries, and often, one we have tried something taboo or thrilling, everything else pales into insignificance by comparison. It’s like driving @ 120kmh for an extended period. When you drop back to 100 kmh it seems so slow - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It's been over a year since my last one on one, to all extents only with the exception of one coffee date. While I'm very much still interested in groups, couples etc as much as many here, I do know the benefits of having a partner to yourself. I'm still interested in all group play in private, but am not attending commercial events (ie nearly all of them) while I concentrate on ongoing connections, which gives much more benefits than just play. I relate to the thinking of Mike above regarding the dynamics of each. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I like your post and can relate. Sometimes the fantasy is not what it cracks up to be. I was bored with our sex life and it had become so routine.My ex husband wanted to swing and to some extent I did but wasn't really into it. He arranged the dates to screen for us. At first it was fun and I enjoyed it but doing the same thing several times kind of ended up boring too. He was getting the enjoyment out of it but not me so much. Circumstances over time lead to no sex at all.Would I have an mfm again I certainly would but now I am single I would do it because I want to not because someone else does and I would be choosing who I want to play with not letting someone else make that decision for me.I am enjoying so much my RHP experience. I am meeting some great guys who are all different and offer me different things 1 on 1.Don't let the fantasy cloud what could also be a good experience with a playmate 1 on 1. You can become too obsessed with the fantasy and miss out on something fun in the meantime.

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