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Boyfriend constantly lying
August 08 2020
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Tall74nHard9
5 years ago
is only going to go one way, and it ain't successfully. If this behaviour is a constant, best for you to bail before you get pushed overboard. Not worth trying to keep on holding on to a sinking ship... Tall
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RHP User
5 years ago
I feel like you already know what needs to be done... I very much sympathise with you, good luck!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Without trust, there is nothing...
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time4us4play
5 years ago
You deserve better. You know what you need to do.
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teamaj2
5 years ago
Trust is imperative in any relationship whether it be work related , a friendship , vanilla or swinging relationship. As has been said, you may love this man but you don’t trust him . Whether he’s cheating or not isn’t really relevant, you haven’t trust in him . If can’t trust someone not to stray, you can’t trust them if the road ahead gets rocky , with children and to be there for you 100% . I personally think if you have these issues why put yourself through this . It hurts you , it’s time consuming and it prevents you from having a joyous , fun relationship. Personally I think we all deserve peace , trust and honesty in a good relationship. Good luck Ax
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pizzadogs
5 years ago
You don’t have single profile? , how then does the one your posting from say woman 42 ?
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Yikes. You're not silly, you know what to do already.
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AnnieWhichway
5 years ago
The fact he was caught and then continued should tell you. And if you hooked up with other parties through your joint profile, chances are he hit them up without you. Don't get angry, get even. Get your single female profile plenty of new friends after you kick his arse to the kerb There are too many guys within the lifestyle that use their partner to satisfy their drive After a while they believe they are gods gift to sex. Then they realise they only scored because of the ex partner when their luck dries up and they see their ex swamped with playdates
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MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
I'd call you out on this profile (woman, 42), you have posted on, because it is appears you do have a separate profile. Sounds too messy, if you ask me. Not my liking. MS Foxy
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RHP User
5 years ago
I was going to reply.... but noted your profile went offline immediately after you posted it 🤷🏼♂️
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RHP User
5 years ago
I have since changed the profile from a couple to single after I found out about his ways. Thank you to everyone I do know what I need to do and I have kicked his ass to the kerb and will not be going back to get hurt and lied to again.
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Tall74nHard9
5 years ago
but.. you'll also need to update your profile - still refers to "we". Congrad's on giving him what he deserved. Tall
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WildWest1971
5 years ago
Get a new boyfriend
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RHP User
5 years ago
It’s a one way street and by the sound of things you’re not allowed to be travelling down it. If I were you I’d be exiting left and enjoying yourself for a bit or someone you can trust ! ❤️.
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cqplaytime
5 years ago
Sorry hun I agree with the others , it's not looking good entering this scene needs a devoted couple with no hidden doors , deception or hang ups . There is no need to cheat and hide things from each other, what's the point we are all in this for some extra fun in the bedroom with other partners after all . Good luck
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RHP User
5 years ago
I would stay with him and believe every last word he says the guy to me sounds like he is very trustworthy and totally respects you, but seriosuly are you that fuxking stupid
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RHP User
5 years ago
Pretty simple solution if this was myself as it has been before. It has to stop or it will undermine anything good. I wasn’t aware of how mundane my blushing was, I’d get asked a question and I had to consciously think it out. I grew up in a very chaotic environment on 30000 acres, which should of been easy to walk away, but it appeared like a perfectly great place, just have to speak out on honesty and truth telling all the time. I started to change at 30 it’s a cognitive odyssey that’s been good for all my relationships. Saves so much energy time and You live longer and prosper 😉 X B
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RHP User
5 years ago
Liars. Cowards.
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RHP User
5 years ago
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ADVICE BELLOW I was just scrolling threw this forum trying to work out the best place to post my question. Please pay attention if youre planning on putting up with that junk. I met this guy let's call him Maverick or mav for shirt. Mav drops me a one liner as his first contact he is smoothe good looking,(my good looking lol) amazing eyes just my style. We hit it off really good. Wow he is really fucking neat I am thinking We got through the motions of small talk. I broached the subject of monogamy being over-rated he was onboard we spoke about our expectations play together only, We had our personal acc and then a joint acc I was actuay sitting there buying him a hat online while he was arranging to see another female I made a dodgy acc 2 actually and to my not surprise he was sending nudes and wanting to meet up He was single on his tinder profile and POF too 😂😂😂 Anyway turned out he was on meth I was up front in what I wanted from the beginning and so stated I don't wanna be around drugs Long story short he basically used me, he spent my money, my body. So he was also caught persuing 2 other fefemae o in the end he went a fucked a few people lied about it but that all come out. I am only just coming good now after that shit show I should of known the amount of pure trash he would talk about his baby mammac. I This is definitefemal signed
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RHP User
5 years ago
Dishonesty = disrespect Punt him. Move on.
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RHP User
5 years ago
It’s a mindset...it’s nothing that can change without intense therapy and a fundamental drive from within him ...which is non existent ...the details and particulars change but the dishonesty and zero integrity won’t ...tbh you aid the lies by staying with him in full knowledge he isn’t worthy ...drink sometime and move forward ?? Ty
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RHP User
5 years ago
My opinion if it counts for anything is that if he can lie to your face about even though you have caught him out, i think he isn't worth your time or effort. Clearly he has no respect for you otherwise he would be up front or even tell you before he creates a "single profile". Pisses me off to no end really, guys treat their women like this and they stay with them, i treat my women like gold and I'm single, lol.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Just let him fuck as much pussy as he can, who cares🤷♂️ and I suggest you do the same, ride as much cock as you can get your hands on, giddy up🤷♂️
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m not really wanting to tell anyone how to live their life... I’ll say this... Your self worth and self respect should dictate to you what behaviour you should accept from others....
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RHP User
5 years ago
I was deeply in love with an amazing woman for over 3 years. In my eyes she was above reproach. Honesty integrity. The works. One day I accidentally overheard a man's name and a previous night ( had a migraine, cancelled me ) Thenover the next few weeks red flags popped up.everywhere.. When confronted, just looked me in the eyes and lied. . It was truly devastating Had she just layed it out we could have talked through it. Instead, denial, and lies. I still cannot comprehend the disrespect and hurtful way it went. Honesty would have at least ended things better terms.
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