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Breast implants (girls do you love them?)
September 10 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
A pleasant surprise was the slimming affect it had on me. My body just seemed more in proportion.
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LeoQueen
13 years ago
I'm so happy I did it. I looked into it back in my twenties and the expense was just too much. Now I just feel that they are what I should have had all along. I've also always been a very sexual person, but certain outfits only look good with boobs, and now I have them I feel such confidence to wear more revealing tops. Even a simple polo neck now looks great. Happy to refer you to my surgeon if you'd like to view his website. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love my big boobs. I love cleavage and how soft and mushy they are. Interestingly, I've not been with many men that love them. I've been with men who prefer much smaller boobs, and it was a bit soul-destroying. My boobs are the most feminine part of me and it felt like a pretty big rejection of me as a woman. I do think our breasts have a big impact on our connection to ourselves as a woman - in Tantric practices the breast represents the heart, and therefore direct access to a woman's emotions. That's definitely true for me. I can understand the urge to make changes to your body if you feel something is missing. I'm not saying big boobs or small boobs are better, just that if you feel that you want to do something for you, then why not :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have a hot body, but with a nice round C cup would be perfect, but make sure they don't look too much like a balloon attached to your torso- findinf a good plastic surgeon is very important.
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Mr_MrsJones
13 years ago
I (Mrs Jones) have always been happy with my boobs. They are a good size and everyone else seems to like them. So I guess I can't entirely relate to women who feel they are missing out.Having said that I really don't like fake boobs. I hate the way they are usually hard like an apple and they way that so many of them look unnaturally round. It amazes me how many women who have fantastic boobs want to get them changed. I could think of a zillion other things that I would rather spend my money on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks so much for giving me your thoughts. "Europeanbliss" that's one of the things I'm looking forward to, I would love to feel more in proportion. I just really want something to fill out my outfits a little, and a good handful for my husband and I to play with :-) "secretlife" I'm truly hoping that's how I will feel. Do they feel like they are a natural part of you? I'm really worried about how it's going to feel having them? Do you still feel comfortable sleeping on your side/tummy? Do they ever cause you discomfort? I would love to know who your surgeon was, he did a beautiful job. "halcyon_days" I definitely agree, I have such a longing to feel more womanly, like something is missing. When I wear a good pushup bra with a nice dress that gives me a bit of cleavage I feel so much sexier, feminine and confident. Sorry you've had a few bad experiences with guys, as long as you love them that's the most important thing and I'm sure most guys go crazy over them :-) My husband is a boob guy and though he loves my body, and puts absolutely no pressure on me, and wants me to make the decision for me, it does make me want to do it even more knowing that he will love them. "Dieselnoi", I'm quite petite so I definitely don't want to go any bigger than C, it's my biggest fear that they will look too big and 'stuck on' - I have a great surgeoun in mind and I'm sure he'll help me figure out the right size to look as natural as I can get it. I think the less breast tissue you have the harder it becomes to make it look really natural, which is why I definitely don't want to go too big :-) I just have to find the courage to do it, I've been wanting it for so long!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr_MrsJones, thanks for your toughts, I don't really like the fake look either, but I will say that it definitely is impossible for anywone with natural, good sized boobs to understand what it's like to have boobs that don't fit bras or clothes well and the way it makes you feel less feminine. Even when I had a good a-cup I used to be very 'anti-boob jobs', I could still fit bras, but now that I have gotten really into fitness and they have lost even more volume it's really causing me a lot of frustration and heartache and restricting me in ways that I'd like to express myself sexually. So I completely understand where you're coming from as I used to have the same view, it's very different though being in the situation. I would be so happy with a small b-cup, just a small handful :-) but if/when I get it done I will go for a bit more since I can :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok so I am putting on my health professional hat here. Implants are a surgical procedure that along with all surgical rocedures has a heap of risks. 1. Risk of death under anaesthetic. 2. risk of infection. 3. risk of implants not looking as you want. 4. risk of loss of sensation in breasts. 5. risk of loss of the ability to produce milk post birth. another consequence of this is that you may feel less of a woman for not being able to bring up your child with all the benefits of breast milk. Changing hats.... I personally like "b" cup size and find women with slimmer figures not needing augmentation as their figure completely suits smaller breasts. If you feel it will make you feel more womanly I suggest it is more a consequence of the way modern women are portayed in "the media" for this and you are risking your health to live up to modern ideals of "perfection". There is a whole different conversation regarding womens' body image here but as its a complex problem, I won't go into what the social science (ie; psychologists/psychiatrists) academics have to say about how women are being influenced by commercial womens mags. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks so much for your input 'miketheduc', - believe me I've spent 10 months obsessing over risks and complications to the point where I scared myself off the idea completely. I still worry of course, it's a big decision, but I seem to have reached a point where I feel I will regret not doing it more than doing it (even if something were to go wrong). I used to feel womanly and feminine with small a-cup breasts (before having a child) so I don't think it's so much the "living up to the media image of bigger breats" thing that's the case for me. To be honest, it's the fact that there's nothing there to grab onto or to fill out a bra or clothes anymore and it makes me feel less feminine. I'm not having any more children and having breastfed my daughter took some of the volume away, and getting into fitness took whatever little I had left. I still feel sexy (the profile picture is very recent and are a realistic representation of them, I wanted it there so we don't attract couples who don't like small boobs ;-) But I have to say it's really stopping me from being sexual in many ways that I'd like to. I'd love to dress up in beautiful lingerie and I've spent hours in shops trying on stuff only to leave almost in tears because NOTHING fit. I just spent $400 dollars on just 2 bikinis because it was an absolute miracle that I found something that fit after spending hours in the shop. I am an extremely sexual person and I don't feel my body allows me to really live that out if that makes sense. I am more than happy to hear everyone's veiws, though the question was mainly to women on here who've had the surgery as to whether they are happy with it? and has it changed their sexlife and how they express their sexuality?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find it sad you feel that way about your breasts as you are a very attractive woman who is going through what a lot of women seem to go through post baby. I would recommend eating a slightly higher fat content diet if you would like larger boobs and going to see a specialist bra fitter to get a bra that fits "properly". The higher fat content will go to your arse and boobs (natural on women) as these are the places women put on weight. You may put on a slight amount of weight but your body will appreciate the extra calories as you are into fitness and you could try some upper body excercices to help with the size /shape of your breasts. As for the sexuality part of your question well, as I said you may lose some sensation in your breasts which may be a major factor in your ability to enjoy sex. Mike
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
Real or fake..we love em all! You just have to make sure you get it right the first time!!! We have seen some shockers but have also seen some really awesome boobjobs. We met a girl a few weeks ago at a party...everyone was complimenting her on her great boobs...then she said they're fake!! You could not tell...they were'nt hard or mis-shapen nor overly massive in size. She got it right!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your boobs look gorgeous to me. I personally like the character or real boobs - big, small or otherwise. Most fake boobs look the same (generally over pumped and too round) although I have seen some decent ones. I think they're getting better at it these days. The problem I have with them is that they almost always are obviously fake - and fake is not attractive. It just seems to defeat the purpose. And they feel all wrong. For me a woman's body should feel soft and supple. The implants feel hard and unnatural, moving about beneath the skin, it's as though there is something in there which shouldn't be. I find it a total turn off as do most men I have talked to about it.But, of course there are probably plenty who like them. I would suggest the more superficial types among us. And if you really aren't happy with what you have then maybe they would work for you. I can understand getting the procedure if there is simply nothing of a bust to speak of - in that case it would make someone look more feminine. But if you're actually happy with your breasts then I feel it would be a mistake.To get an idea, take a look at pictures of women in something like Playboy magazine throughout the years. Look at all the girls you see in the mags today who have fake boobs, fake lips, fake tans and on top of that are airbrushed to look apparently flawless and compare them with pictures from say 30 or 40 years ago. If you honestly find the current day pictures more appealing then a boob job might be for you.Personally I'd rather be with a real woman than a plastic doll.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'miketheduc' I find it sad you feel that way about your breasts as you are a very attractive woman who is going through what a lot of women seem to go through post baby. I would recommend eating a slightly higher fat content diet if you would like larger boobs and going to see a specialist bra fitter to get a bra that fits "properly". The higher fat content will go to your arse and boobs (natural on women) as these are the places women put on weight. You may put on a slight amount of weight but your body will appreciate the extra calories as you are into fitness and you could try some upper body excercices to help with the size /shape of your breasts. As for the sexuality part of your question well, as I said you may lose some sensation in your breasts which may be a major factor in your ability to enjoy sex. Mike The girl knows more about her body than what you do. Sweetie, Exclusive, Do what makes you happy. Your a smart girl you have done your research and know the ins and outs. Message me if you would like details of my experience. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I really didn't want this to turn into a debate about whether breast augmentation is right or wrong, or whether you like fake breasts or not My question was for the women on this forum who have already had the surgery and whether they are happy with their decision. Has it changed how they are able to sexually express themselves and given them a sense of feeling more feminine. I'm interested to hear this from other women as this is what I'm hoping to achieve from the surgery. Mike, eating a diet higher in fat is most definitely not going to go straight to my bum and boobs, it will go to my stomach too and I will lose the toned/fit look that I have worked very hard for and that I love about my body. I eat a diet high in good fats (avocado, macademia nut oil, avocado oil, pure butter, nuts) but because I eat a very clean, balanced diet overall while also running and doing weights it's not going to make me put on weight, and for sure you don't mean I should start eating an unhealthy diet and get all frompy and have a floppy stomach to get boobs, ha ha. I had slightly bigger boobs a year ago that fitted into some bras, and I was also 7 kilos heavier which was a lot on my stomach and I did not look fit and toned, it's a silly suggestion in my opinion, sorry Donna, yes I hope I get it right, it's a real fear of course that they will look unnatural. I don't want to go too big, and will be going with the best surgeon I can find, regardless of cost, and hopefully he can help me get the best look for my body. I would rather compromise on size to keep it fairly natural looking, - huge boobs have never been on my wishlist, I just want 'some' boobs... something there to play with, to dress up, to make me feel more feminine. 'Pounchingaries' I do not want to look like a barbiegirl or have breasts that look too big for my body, I much prefer natural breasts, but since I don't have any I feel restricted in how I can express myself sexually, and after months of agonising and researching I feel that it's the right way to go for me. Again the question really wasn't about whether anyone thinks this is right or wrong, but I most certainly understand your point of view and completely respect it and thank you for your input My boobs really are that small that they don't fit into any sexy lingerie (well I've found one great bra, but that's with months of trying and looking) and there's nothing there for my husband to play with, and I'd really love it if there was. He loves the feel of both real and fake boobs, so I know he'll be very excited though he prefers to just let me know that he'll support whatever decision I make. At the end of the day I'm not doing it for him or for guys in general, I'm doing it for me, to feel more "whole" if you like. I love what was said earlier about "breasts having a big impact on our connection to ourselves as a woman", this really rang true to me - it's really not about fitting the perfect ideal image portrayed by the media or wanting to look like an airbrushed, unnatural, fake barbie doll, that could not be further from what I'm wishing for. It's about feeling like a woman, looking on the outside as I feel on the inside, feeling sexual and being able to express that fully. It's pretty discouraging to have turned my life around in terms of healthy living and eating, being able to run half a marathon, feeling strong and seeing muscle definition and feeling all the benefits of training and eating well and taking good care of my body... and then in the process lose a big part of my femininity. No way do I want to go back to putting on more weight and giving up my healthy lifestyle to have boobs. It is just really unfortunate that I had so little to start with before I started working out. I'm so happy with my body in all other aspects, and I think my boobs are cute... but not sexy! I love feeling sexy and would just love to know from women with breast implants if the surgery changed their sexual confidence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you 'Europeanbliss' I appreciate it. I will send you a message.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's your body and your decision, obviously. If you're undecided and wanting to weigh up points from our opinions, I'd like to offer mine. I've never seen any surgically enhanced breasts that didn't look surgically enhanced. They just never look right. As I understand it, they feel better these days. (The old ones felt like tennis balls). Yes, Jennylee has very impressive breasts but I'd love her if she were flat chested. If I were to meet you, your breast size would make no difference in my opinion of you. I will always prefer natural beauty to artificial aesthetics and you are a naturally beautiful lady. By all means, chat to Europeanbliss about her experiences. She is a lovely lady who knows what she wants (although I think she was a little hard on poor Mike, he meant well.) You will also find that her motivation for the surgery was quite different from yours.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would say, go for it, girl...why not ?! you know your body best than anyone else, after all if you go for a small ones they would look just fine...and no one can even tell if they are fake, i've seen some really good boob jobs on girls and i've seen shocking ones as well, too big ,too round, just looked too much...and i believe if you have them small , you would look just fine.x
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rupamohan
13 years ago
We played with few girls with boobs job done. All I can remeber some implants go behind muscles and some in front. I guess the one go behind can take few months to drop in final shape but look more natural. But before that, it looks very weird bcos they are placed high up and first boobs look long oval shape. It really takes few months..till then very weird.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love mine and hubby loves them even more. It wasnt planned but I ended up between D & DD which means I get much more attention now and sometimes too much... like in the gym and supermarket. Sexy bras & sports bras are difficult for me to find and end up paying much more than I used to. In my research, I had a girl say she lost all sensation in one nipple which was disappointing during sex, plus it rarely gets hard. I would do it all over again in a minute Kisses XOXO
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi there, I too have thought about doing the same, as after having little ones your perty full shapped girls seem to loose a bit of definition, but in no way desire. I think the most important thing is to size yourself so you look natural, not over the top. Good luck...
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RHP User
13 years ago
My 2 cents worth...you look hot now, but self esteem or lack of will overshadow this completely. I too looked similar to you after my 2nd child. Bra shopping was awful and whilst hubby said he loved my bits unconditionally, I didn't. So after much research I had implants (under muscle) done by a fabulous plastic surgeon. It hurt, a lot, and the whole boob area was a no go zone for a couple of months afterwards. Then the sensation began to return and the implants started to settle properly once the body's tissue encapsulated them. Now, after 6 years, most people would never know, unless I lie on my back naked!!! There's no disguising them then. Do what makes you happy and buy the best (silicone) tear drop shapped implants money can buy. You only want to do this once. K xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
but most blokes are saying no, you're fine as you are while most women are saying go for it. You did ask for the girls' responses though, didn't you? Do you suppose that if there were a genuine way of enlarging the penis the responses would be similar with the girls saying don't do it while the blokes woul be saying yes, a big cock is everything?
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RHP User
13 years ago
If something is distressing you so greatly that its affecting how you function as a person then yes, definately do something about it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like the look of full round boobs but my main worries for a boob job are : risk of loss of sensation (one of my lady's favourite erogenous zones) : what happens when they get old? (everything human-made breaks eventually) : what happens when you get old? (your body changes shape but the implant doesn't?)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Sorry. I think your comments have been pretty balanced x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days' Quoting 'jensman1903'Sorry. I think your comments have been pretty balanced x :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol, I'm not offended :-) just too busy with work to reply. I will be back :-) it's all good!
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
As long as you don't expect too much. Boobs don't change the person. People who judge you based on your boobs are pretty shallow. It's your body, so if your aware of the possible adverse outcomes, it's a case of what makes you happy.
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tomrach79
13 years ago
Rachel got new boobs and they couldn't be more perfect now! They look and feel real. She had them out at CI one night and people couldn't believe they weren't real because they looked so natural. She had a fantastic recovery with limited pain and gained sensitivity if anything! If you want to do it, do it! But use a surgeon that someone recommends. Super important. And be honest with the surgeon as to what ou want and insist they give you what you want. Life's too short to die wondering. Far more people have had successful experiences than not! X
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tomrach79' Rachel got new boobs and they couldn't be more perfect now! They look and feel real. She had them out at CI one night and people couldn't believe they weren't real because they looked so natural. She had a fantastic recovery with limited pain and gained sensitivity if anything! If you want to do it, do it! But use a surgeon that someone recommends. Super important. And be honest with the surgeon as to what ou want and insist they give you what you want. Life's too short to die wondering. Far more people have had successful experiences than not! X I remember seeing them and they looked awesome !xx Leesa
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's great hearing everyone's thoughts. I have friends too that have very natural looking breasts after surgery. I had no idea actually about one of my friends as they just look so natural, another friend told me. Yesterday I spoke to another friend for a long time, I've always known she has implants, but we've never discussed it at length, she's had them for 13 years so I didn't know her when she went through the process. She never developed properly and had them done at 18, she says hers feels completely natural and soft, and I have to say they look completely real, not too big and perfect for her. I have a consult tomorrow and Tuesday and really looking forward to it. The more I think about it the more it feels right for me. 'Tantric4some' I have concerns too, it would be horrible to lose sensation, but it's a risk I'm willing to take. I am definitely getting them changed every 10 years, will be ensuring there's savings in place and extra in case of complications, not going to take any unneccesary risks that's for sure. There's always the option to change the implant to suit your body as it's changing over the years, reduce size or shape of implant or even take them out completely. Those are not the biggest concerns of mine, I have to say I'm much more worried about all the possible links to autoimmune diseases, scares me terribly, but I don't want to live in fear and miss out on something that can really improve my life over something that's rare and unlikely to happen. If it does, I will act accordingly. But it does scare me! Sugarykisess, we LOVE your boobs xxx Thanks so much for your support x 'Jensman1903', I thought your point was interesting :-) however, to make it fair you'd have to add a few things to the comparison. Say guys lost a couple of inches of their penis size and their balls dropped a few inches when they had a child, and for some this meant that they felt uncomfortable in clothing, couldn't find jeans that fit and they were constantly aware of how this made them feel less masculine. Then they started going down the gym to pump up, get fit and healthy. They got a sixpack and looked great, but the fitter they got the lower their balls dropped and the more their penis shrunk!!! Now tell me if you'd consider getting it fixed? if your mates told you that it was the best money they'd ever spent and that it made them feel more like a man. Maybe women are more supportive because they understand the changes a woman goes through with and after pregnancy. And they know how important boobs are to feel feminine. :-) Thanks everyone for your comments, must get back to work :-) This forum is such a time-suck
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RHP User
13 years ago
We love them, everyone loves them Great ice breaker when playing with people for the first time and ask `are they real' to which we replay `yeah, real expensive'
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tom here from the AllyKats couple. I know you're sensibly looking for input from women who've had boob jobs but I thought you might appreciate a slightly different perspective. I'm a photographer and over the last couple of years have photographed a couple of hundred nude female models. More than half of these had boob jobs and almost without exception they were happy with choosing to get a boob job. The exceptions were girls who went "too big" for their body size and the ones who got cheap boob jobs overseas and look llike they have two soccerballs on their chests.So the long and the short of it is you seem to have pretty much made up your mind. The only advice I'd give as a male who has talked to over a hundred girls who've had boob jobs is put a LOT of research into the surgeon you choose and the final shape and size and err on going smaller rather than larger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I too am in the same boat Exclusive _xxx. How exciting about your consults, it would finally begin to feel real! ....Psychologists and sociologists love to put us in boxes with labels and numbers - it's all very personal and can dramatically effect a woman's quality of life, and therefore health. I've got heaps out of the responses here and can't wait to have my beautiful girls transformed! ... I'm excited for you! .... Love Cassandra xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow it sure is a wealthy person's hobby then, isn't it? Planning to have them replaced every ten years means having several thousand spare dollars for it each time. Imagine how many poor people could be fed, or how much environmental damage could be cleaned up, or whatever other good things could be done...
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RHP User
13 years ago
'utility players', lol great comeback :-) it's great to hear you love yours. Allykats, thanks so much for your input, that's really helpful. I'm super fussy about choosing the right surgeon, as I should be. I believe I'm going with the best one on the gold coast, and I have several personal recommendations. I have another consult with a surgeon in Brisbane too, who has a great reputation. I just want to see if they say roughly the same thing in terms of size/shape recommenation etc. I want to stick with what will look natural on my body. I don't want to be bigger than a C-cup. He used a new 3-d imaging system to show how they potentially will look and to help determine the right size. I have chosen the size that matches up with the rest of my measurements to give me natural proportions. I have had some great chats with girls this week, friends, and friends of friends, and they have all been so open and happy to share, it has really helped me a lot. I haven't spoken to, or heard of anyone yet in my circle of friends, who is unhappy with theirs. Cassandra, thank you :-) I'm excited for you too. I have booked in for 21st of Nov, are you booked in yet? We should keep in touch if we are doing it around the same time :-) xx 'Tantric4some', I find that comment a little hurtful to be honest. Would you also judge a friend who bought a brand new car? (I have driven inexpensive 2-hand cars for 14 years) or someone who is stretching themselves with a big mortgage? (which is pretty much 90% of the population. We have decided to live within our means so we have more disposable income to spend on a great lifestyle) Anyway, I don't really want this to be the focus of the discussion, but wanted to say that I think it was an insensitive thing to say and way too much of a generalisation. I'm a 'saver' not a 'spender' and I think I'm entitled to spend my savings on things that are important to me without judgment. We donate to several charities too, but I really don't want to go into a long defensive rant (though I kinda realise I pretty much did :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like others have said go with a reputable surgeon ( in my case a plastic) and let him/her know exactly what you are hoping to gain. I LOVE mine..I actually gained sensation (woot) and yes they do get a fair bit of attention but it has put my curvy body more into proportion so am super pleased I did it! Would I do it again? Hell yeah!!Tantric...that's just a sad post really! but your opinion none the less..(yawnnns)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Apologies for causing offence. My intention was to highlight the fact that you don't pay for a boob job just once. The initial "upgrade" would be challenge enough for my budget, let alone "maintenance". (Withholding comments which might get my post deleted again...)
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I think I'd consider a lift in years to come.
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RHP User
13 years ago
God woman, you have an awesome body and an awesome man as well.Be happy ! I have not liked the fake boobs I have come across and rightly or wrongly I associate it with "fake person"The most sensual part of the breast is the nipple and that won't change so don't bother !Very few I've seen look even close to natural and they won't age naturally so one day you are going to be an old woman with teenage tits !Just my 2c worth.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have got implants - they are just over a year old.......... LOVE THEM sooo much........... wanted to have them for over 25 years........ I was placed at the back of the queue when they were handed out.......... MINE are within proportion to my body........have not caused any problem.........I am physically active and plan to stay that way - use your OWN JUDGEMENT.......... take all the necessary precautions....... and do what is right for you.......NOT WHAT YOUR PARTNER OR HUBBY WANTS..... it is YOUR BODY!!! LIVE IT the way you WANT TO!!!! Maggie
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who cares about how b If your breasts are , yours are fine , and finally with a jot ass like that I certainly could care , veRy hot
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'pouncingaries' Your boobs look gorgeous to me. I personally like the character or real boobs - big, small or otherwise. Most fake boobs look the same (generally over pumped and too round) although I have seen some decent ones. I think they're getting better at it these days. The problem I have with them is that they almost always are obviously fake - and fake is not attractive. It just seems to defeat the purpose. And they feel all wrong. For me a woman's body should feel soft and supple. The implants feel hard and unnatural, moving about beneath the skin, it's as though there is something in there which shouldn't be. I find it a total turn off as do most men I have talked to about it.But, of course there are probably plenty who like them. I would suggest the more superficial types among us. And if you really aren't happy with what you have then maybe they would work for you. I can understand getting the procedure if there is simply nothing of a bust to speak of - in that case it would make someone look more feminine. But if you're actually happy with your breasts then I feel it would be a mistake.To get an idea, take a look at pictures of women in something like Playboy magazine throughout the years. Look at all the girls you see in the mags today who have fake boobs, fake lips, fake tans and on top of that are airbrushed to look apparently flawless and compare them with pictures from say 30 or 40 years ago. If you honestly find the current day pictures more appealing then a boob job might be for you.Personally I'd rather be with a real woman than a plastic doll. i could not agree with you more...fake is just fake...unless one has absolutely nothing for breasts....one shouldn't do it...i do find yor breast lovely, just the way they are, Exlusive....feminine, soft, round...just lovely...and unique...part of what makes you...YOU...xxLibby
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'pouncingaries' Your boobs look gorgeous to me. I personally like the character or real boobs - big, small or otherwise. Most fake boobs look the same (generally over pumped and too round) although I have seen some decent ones. I think they're getting better at it these days. The problem I have with them is that they almost always are obviously fake - and fake is not attractive. It just seems to defeat the purpose. And they feel all wrong. For me a woman's body should feel soft and supple. The implants feel hard and unnatural, moving about beneath the skin, it's as though there is something in there which shouldn't be. I find it a total turn off as do most men I have talked to about it.But, of course there are probably plenty who like them. I would suggest the more superficial types among us. And if you really aren't happy with what you have then maybe they would work for you. I can understand getting the procedure if there is simply nothing of a bust to speak of - in that case it would make someone look more feminine. But if you're actually happy with your breasts then I feel it would be a mistake.To get an idea, take a look at pictures of women in something like Playboy magazine throughout the years. Look at all the girls you see in the mags today who have fake boobs, fake lips, fake tans and on top of that are airbrushed to look apparently flawless and compare them with pictures from say 30 or 40 years ago. If you honestly find the current day pictures more appealing then a boob job might be for you.Personally I'd rather be with a real woman than a plastic doll. i could not agree with you more...fake is just fake...unless one has absolutely nothing for breasts....one shouldn't do it...i do find yor breast lovely, just the way they are, Exlusive....feminine, soft, round...just lovely...and unique...part of what makes you...YOU...xxLibby
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tantric4Some'Apologies for causing offence. My intention was to highlight the fact that you don't pay for a boob job just once. The initial "upgrade" would be challenge enough for my budget, let alone "maintenance". (Withholding comments which might get my post deleted again...)I dont understand
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RHP User
13 years ago
Darling let me say after looking at your stunningly gorgeous pics that your breasts look absolutely gorgeous. For me its such a feminine trait along with the waist and butt. Rubenesque women like yourself are the way women were always meant to be. Ok im bias as you to me are the perfect woman. Look at the painting's in the Lourve in paris all the women depicted are simply gorgeous with their curves. In answer to this topic after all it is your body make the choice for you and not the man that wants them. Go girls you're all gorgeous!!
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melbcpl01
13 years ago
Just checked out your pics what a perfect pair of boobies you have now , why on earth would you want to deform them . Natural breasts are best and yours are just WOW as they are Melbcpl01
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RHP User
13 years ago
Small boobs are much better than implants
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Exclusive! Well I am someone you don't want to hear from because I haven't had surgery. But I thought here goes anyway! I have naturally large boobs and despite losing a fair amount of weight about 3 years ago, buy my own admission they still look grand! I enjoy them and enjoy other people enjoying them. BUT there is a downside of having large boobs. Firstly I am very careful of how I dress in my workplace because I don't want my co-workers to be thinking about that. Its awkward, and I really don't feel comfortable in a place where people are overtly looking (I guess that is true of social situations as well). So outside the bedroom I tend to be relative covered up in the cleavage dept. Secondly, I am quite physically active and they can be a bit of a problem with running or similar. I am conscious of "jiggle" and running is out of the question when they are sore before a period. Also exercise of any kind has to be done with super strength sports bra. That's the worst of it for me because mine aren't big enough to actually impede exercise. Some other unsolicited advice: I am very interested in the ladies and love to lick and kiss them in the same way I like mine treated. But I am really not attracted too or turned on by obvious fakies. I haven't felt any, but just have just observed in porn and strippers, but the position of the implant as well as the shape seems important to me. It seems that if the surgeon puts them too high or the size is too large for the woman, then they just look odd. Plus as others have pointed out, there are risks of surgery, but I am sure you are weighing up those risks for yourself. Cheers, Jay x x x
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tomrach79
13 years ago
Thanks leesa! We are gagging to come back but we are having a baby very soon! Clearly it's personal preference exclusive. Good luck! Xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hunter2party'Small boobs are much better than implants Have to agree here, you look amazing in that photo Exclusive, so , so sexy. A&AXXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Quoting 'Tantric4Some'Apologies for causing offence. My intention was to highlight the fact that you don't pay for a boob job just once. The initial "upgrade" would be challenge enough for my budget, let alone "maintenance". (Withholding comments which might get my post deleted again...)I dont understand Which part don't you understand? This follows on from my previous post on this thread - maybe you missed that, and the responses to that?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I haven't read anyone elses opinion but if you have always wanted bigger ones you will LOVE it. I feel sexier and more confident and I absolutely love fashion and boobs just look way better if you ask me. The only thing though, if you plan to have babies I would wait until you have breastfed because they will be damaged after breastfeeding, with or without implants and you will probably want to have them done again which is both expensive and painful. You have an awesome body already though and I think real boobs are gorgeous as well but I personally am in better proportion now so I'm stoked with the results and everyone else I know who has had them done is nothing but happy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well personally as a woman i looked into it too, hubby says hes 'happy' with my breasts, but I think its a personal thiing Im gonna get me some too, but just the natural look I had before I had my sons, but like most of the ppl said on here its entirely up to u, me I like either as long as ur happy it doesnt really matter what others say at the end of the day, ur boobs ur body. Good luck with ur decision love!!! :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
im small...you have gorgeous breasts...no one has said i should get bigger....still men i am with do perv on fake tits...i dont get it...a friend had hers done....too big, plus she cant find tops to fit any more....she is tiny and they look like baloons, her dr told her to go bigger, real so much better than fake..go up one sze, if you do....xx...just my thoughts
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RHP User
13 years ago
personally I love the sensation I get from natural breasts ...the pinching sucking biting that sends pleasure down to the clitoral region stimulating the wet horny breathlessness that just makes u gag to be fucked ....from what ive been told by men is that with fake boobs those sensations are diminished or nonexistant ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
boobs are a beutiful thing no matter the size..... even flat chests with firm pertruding nipples are a wonder........ Sacks full of a man made substance commonly found in sand forced through little incisions underneath the armpits etc are exactly that. If you are looking to attract a masturbating porn fan I say go for it. If you need them for self esteem, your money would be better spent on a councelor or some medication. Women seem confused................. are they a product of the whole sexual equality movement or are they a sexual object?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dear Exclusive, I understand you as I too have small breasts... However with age I think the most important part is the shape of it, and that is what makes breasts look good or bad... Gravity is a tough bitch, there is no amount of gym u can do to stop it... As you are at the moment, no surgeon will rate your breast drupy, as your nipple still sits above the fold between the breast and chest... No guy would think "she is hot, pity she has small tits!" either.... Women are more obsessed with their bodies tha man are! I am always worried about my ass, but over the years I finally realized that many men love the round latina booty, all I have to do is concentrate on those men ;-) (well just for flirting purposes, I am married to a booty loving dude)... There are many men out there who prefer the more adolescent looking small breasts in a woman, i am sure that a hottie like you would have no trouble finding some of THOSE men to play with... I would suggest that you put it off for another few years... After 40 you might need a shape adjustment and at that point you can combine the both procedures (lift+augmentation).... Well that is what I am doing... Postponing a reassessment till my 40th birthday:) Even because fake breasts DO still collapse with time, u might have to do touch ups if you add weight to the skin structure... Good luck E Xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I found that looking at wha other wome were dealing with, made me feel like an idiot dot thinking about it. Some women are born with really irregular breasts, with unbelievable differences between breasts (like small A and a large C!!!) Others have what they call "tubular breasts" which basically look like the top part of a pear... I am sure that in your research u have seen all this.... You have a beautiful non drupy roundness... U don't need it... E
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Quoting 'miketheduc' I find it sad you feel that way about your breasts as you are a very attractive woman who is going through what a lot of women seem to go through post baby.........As for the sexuality part of your question well, as I said you may lose some sensation in your breasts which may be a major factor in your ability to enjoy sex. Mike The girl knows more about her body than what you do. Sweetie, Exclusive, Do what makes you happy. Your a smart girl you have done your research and know the ins and outs. Message me if you would like details of my experience. :) Mike says he has a heealth professional hat to put on but that doesn't mean he knows much of what he is talking about. Every procedure...even taking panadol has risks (or side effects) but he doesn't balance his statement with reality (eg he starts off with risk of death but exactly how many people have died in australia? and that risk is not limited to those having breast implants, he's just trying to scare you) Furthermore he says he's sad but he shows zero empathy. A man who focusses on what he wants and how he feels is not worth listening to because you know that he's not listening to you either.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Exclusive_XXX'Thanks so much for your input 'miketheduc', - believe me I've spent 10 months obsessing over risks and complications to the point where I scared myself off the idea completely. I still worry of course, it's a big decision, but I seem to have reached a point where I feel I will regret not doing it more than doing it (even if something were to go wrong). I used to feel womanly and feminine with small a-cup breasts (before having a child) so I don't think it's so much the "living up to the media image of bigger breats" thing that's the case for me. To be honest, it's the fact that there's nothing there to grab onto or to fill out a bra or clothes anymore and it makes me feel less feminine. I'm not having any more children and having breastfed my daughter took some of the volume away, and getting into fitness took whatever little I had left. I still feel sexy (the profile picture is very recent and are a realistic representation of them, I wanted it there so we don't attract couples who don't like small boobs ;-) But I have to say it's really stopping me from being sexual in many ways that I'd like to. I'd love to dress up in beautiful lingerie and I've spent hours in shops trying on stuff only to leave almost in tears because NOTHING fit. I just spent $400 dollars on just 2 bikinis because it was an absolute miracle that I found something that fit after spending hours in the shop. I am an extremely sexual person and I don't feel my body allows me to really live that out if that makes sense. I am more than happy to hear everyone's veiws, though the question was mainly to women on here who've had the surgery as to whether they are happy with it? and has it changed their sexlife and how they express their sexuality?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'letttinggo' personally I love the sensation I get from natural breasts ...the pinching sucking biting that sends pleasure down to the clitoral region stimulating the wet horny breathlessness that just makes u gag to be fucked ....from what ive been told by men is that with fake boobs those sensations are diminished or nonexistant ... What she said ^^^^^^^ The weight of a natural breast in the hand is far better IMHO
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RHP User
13 years ago
have you thought of other options that are out there like creams you can buy now also natural pills you can buy off the Internet now there are so many options out there ...also they say you get it put under the muscle also would try the brazilian ones ..talk to someone first they way it up whats best for you ...i think you look good the way you are very sexy indeed good luck with it all
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RHP User
13 years ago
cant wait to upgrade
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