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Broke up with a partner. Would it be rude to bring a new partner to the same party we used to attend together.

July 23 2015

Just a quick question. More of a moral dilemma for myself and would love the advice of the Gurus of the forum lol. About 2 months ago my partner and i broke up. I have a new partner now and was wondering would it be bad manners to attend the same party we used to go to with my new partner? Its a fairly close knit group and all tho she no longer attends i was just wondering peoples thoughts on this. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    how do you feel about attending the same parties as before with the new squeeze? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Man who goes to bed with itchy bottom, will wake up with smelly finger. Madu Mado Tara xx

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    Turn up & feel the vibes in the room. They might enjoy having a new face attending. I could only see a problem if your ex was there.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    these people your friends?..Personally I think it depends on your relationship with them..ask the host what they think..you don't want your new partner to feel like she is an intruder.xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Are you a man bringing a new woman or a woman bringing a new man? Also who broke up with who?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    He says ,she no longer attends xxFreya

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    These types of questions require more context in order to provide the correct answer. For example the size of the party, are your ex-partners best friends attending, what setting is the party (e.g. dinner, coffee, house party, club, etc), how long were you and your ex-partner together, how did your relationship end, etc, etc. I guess the litmus test would be, will it or could it cause your partner a lot of emotional pain? If the answer is yes, then perhaps hold off a few months. 2 months isn't that long.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Would the other party goers feel forced to pick sides? If not, I say go for it.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Man bringing a woman and I broke it off with her. Trust and jealousy issues. Not a good thing in this lifestyle at all. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I cant see where anyone would be forced to pick sides. There is no anamosity between us it just didnt work. Id be happy to see her happy and i think ( or hope ) she would wish me the same. So really i cant see anyone having to pick sides at all - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    We have witnessed this many times, as is normal with life, partners come and go and we have remained friends with many people who have picked up new partners. Its very normal and accepted. It only gets difficult when both partners want to continue to be in the lifestyle and they attend the same partners. Then friends have to choose sides. 'To the victor, goes the spoils' - Elaine Benes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But she could have a female ex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    went along to the club anyway, was great, never looked back

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Respect. Respect. Respect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Have you asked your new partner how she feels about going to the same party you used to go to with your previous partner? And check with the host too, as Freya suggested. If neither have a problem, then go for it :)

  • NawtyNNice777

    NawtyNNice777

    10 years ago

    theres no animosity like you say, why don't you ask your ex how she feels? And as Astrild says, check in with your current partner too ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'TwosomePlus' Man bringing a woman and I broke it off with her. Trust and jealousy issues. Not a good thing in this lifestyle at all. - Posted from rhpmobile Just a question..... as there seem to be two different womens boobs in your profile photos. Which is the new woman? And how does trust factor into these photos.... people trusting you, for example.? Just saying. DG

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Whose profile pic are you using? Your ex's breast pic or the "next-in-line's " breast pic? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Oh....& are you one of those people who hide behind their partner's (usually the woman's), pic on here!? Are you hoping to attract guys with that? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Thats quite rude and uncalled for are you just a troll? The ladies breasts are my current partners and I would never use my ex's picture on a profile. She is my ex for a reason and given we are not together how would I use her picture.?As for hiding behind my woman bahahaha we chose to use that shot as we both find it sexy. Dont know what i did to offend you or make you have the views you do but i guess i was the one who asked the question. Each to there own if your bitter for a reason thats your own issues that you have to dwal with. Thank you all and enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    What makes you think there are two different sets of breasts in our profile? I assure you they are all my partners breasts. As for trusting ourselves because of the pictures im not really sure what you mean. Im assuming because you think there are two different womens breasts in our profile pictures we are not to be trusted?? Sorry to burst your bubble but there all my partner. Thanks for your input all the same we shall take it onboard. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    If your ex turns up with her new partner? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Brisbane... whos keen - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'TwosomePlus' What makes you think there are two different sets of breasts in our profile? I assure you they are all my partners breasts. As for trusting ourselves because of the pictures im not really sure what you mean. Im assuming because you think there are two different womens breasts in our profile pictures we are not to be trusted?? Sorry to burst your bubble but there all my partner. Thanks for your input all the same we shall take it onboard. - Posted from rhpmobile Side question. IS your profile... new... since starting with this partner.... or.... did you use this profile with the former partner. Just curious

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Think most people just want to enjoy the times and enjoy being around people who are happy, in good spirit. If you guys are happy and in good spirits then hard to imagine others being offended. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'morganaschild' If your ex turns up with her new partner? - Posted from rhpmobile In pure light-heartedness, if that happened, would that mean a full swap is out of the question?

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Well i suppose seeing the old partner there with the new partner could be interesting