Can women be slutty and men not notice?

July 02 2026

What's something slutty that women do but men never notice? I know a bunch of my friends tell me that they've tried to flirt with me but it just went over my head 😅

Comments

  • Sexifunn

    Sexifunn

    yesterday

    Flirting isn't being 'slutty'. No wonder you’re clueless.

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    yesterday

    Being flirty and being slutty are, in my opinion, are worlds apart .. flirting is often misread as friendliness and vice versa. Experienced men will always notice slutty behaviour...even when its ever so subtle. 'Slutty' is completely subjective...I could do something that some people would consider slutty yet my partner would be like oh its just regular week night behaviour hahaha

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    yesterday

    Flirting is different to being slutty. That is a higher level all together and do be careful of using that term as it has had derogatory connotations for some time and whilst we are freer with our sexual intentions in the lifestyle, some of us may still take offence to the term. When I am flirting, out in the wild, I will try to get eye contact. I will make tentative touches on your arm or shoulder. If we are at a party I will most likely touch as I move past you even if there is enough space for me not to. If there is a pool table, I will make sure that I can lean over the table with my low cut top sitting lower than it would so you get an eyeful of the girls. The list can be ongoing… Some of you don’t notice and we would nearly need to come up to you, look you in the eyes and say “I’m flirting with you” or something even more to the point. Bri

  • Monnnn

    Monnnn

    yesterday

    Interesting question aside.. I'm not sure I've seen the word "slutty" used on this site before now. I'm sure if you asked that question to people who don't use RHP they could give you many answers, but considering the overall open minded and free attitudes of users here in this space, then opinions would differ a lot.

  • PartnersnCrime

    PartnersnCrime

    yesterday

    Ummmm by "slutty" you mean??

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    15 hours ago

    Women don't have to prove they're "slutty" for men to notice. Women can be as slutty as they want. No shame in that. The issue isn't always missed flirting cues. Sometimes it's simply that some do not like hearing the word "NO". Usually after being rejected, one suddenly becomes "slutty" because they chose to have sex with others and not them. And if her flirting went over your head, perhaps he wasn't flirting with you at all. Men and women don't always express interest in the same ways. Ms Foxy