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Change..... Love it or hate it
October 04 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
change is good Gives life more interesting things.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of Changes have happened in my life recently , most of it started by me . It has made my life quite dynamic at the moment & I'm loving it . I remember doing a Management course and studying the effects of Change in the workplace . It's natural for people to resist change . It takes them out of their Comfort Zone . But Change is Positive . Without Change , we can become Stagnant . Embrace Change & keep moving forward ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can relate to the feeling that you described about waiting for the downfall. I tend to do this as well lol As far as changes go, when they are sudden & dramatic they do make me feel very unsettled, but only briefly. I've learnt to welcome change & let myself relax enough to enjoy the new journeys they bring. For myself I like to have things shaken up every now & again. It reminds me not to become complacent & that life is for living. I hold all that I love just that little bit closer & then settle in for whatever ride is in store. mrs funky- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't live without it. Crave it. Embrace it. About to embark on a pretty huge life change and can't wait :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep me too - I question why is it this good??LOLZ then I end up jinxing myself.I have a huge complete 360 lifestyle change coming up, where my complete safeness in my comfort zone will be very unsettled/removed for a while..It will be a HUGE HUGE change.I am grieving badly now, so when it does happen I will be prepared.I know it will pay off in the long run.I so look forward to it in one way but in another puts the fear of God into me!!!What makes it hard for me is not the change it's self but I hang onto the unchanged.That is what I resist.The fear of the unknown.That to me is really scary!!FOXY
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Superfox - I'm feeling the exact same way.... Everything has happened like a whirlwind n it seemed all to easy - I'm going back into a career I have been out of for 10yrs.... But so much in my personal life is changing too, but it's a positive change.... I will just need to embrace it n enjoy the ride for what it is!! Mrs C- Posted from rhpmobile
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
It is thrilling and exciting.....it's my free spirited sagitarrian nature!!!! If everything is in a status quo, I change it!!! My ex says he misses it with me life was fun and exciting, having the confidence to embrace new challenges.....doing first triathlon next week!!! Change when your not in control is a different type of change......lost my Dad 11 mths ago and Mum was very close to dying last week.....sooo change with emotions is different altogether..... :)))
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aww That is a huge change for you. I am happy to hear its positive. You go girl!! Its the grieving bit that does it for me. I'm just a gooey soft marshmellow sometimes. My daughter is off to India to volunteer for 6mths when she finishes school. Its always been her and I, so to have that change is like losing a piece of me. Grieving now for change Don't get me wrong, I am so happy for her and supportive. :) LOL Empty Nest syndrome. I hope all the best for you. xxx FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Careful what you wish for ...having expectations of a negative counter-balance will manifest that very thing.I was happy with Status Quo until they sold out and did cheesy supermarket ads.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Change is a process,not an event....change is really the only certainty in life in life.Embrace change,to resist it is to embrace your fear, hugs x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lots of little things have occurred and transpired to drop me in a bit of a hole. BUT I feel change for better or worse is a good thing. Challenges keep life interesting! There's change and there's development. Things can't be and stay rosy all the time. The most I hope for is to find a peace of mind and maturity that helps me accept and learn from from the ups and downs I'm always going through. Like living through the seasons! It's a very ZEN thing: how can you know heat, without the cold. The brighter the light, the darker the shadow. Shit like that.Nice to hear someone reveling and meditating in their happiness. Very nice.Joy can be infectious!etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe'I was happy with Status Quo until they sold out and did cheesy supermarket ads. As for me, I don't fear change and quite happily go with the flow. I don't seek it out though, as change brings me stress I can do without. Having said that, immigrating here ten years ago without knowing a soul was the best thing I've done in my life. Hmm, now I'm confusing myself.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Life can be full of interesting people and that should be celebrated, along the path of change.Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
HAHA There is something about saggi's and change!I think we cope extremely well with it, Optimistic!Receptive to new ideas and seeking new things, love to gamble and take chances.FOXYReceptive to new ideas
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Beach lover - you have my full respect - a triathlon is such a great thing! Lots of hard work n the end result is wonderful - let me know how you go. Sorry to hear of your loved ones xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't fear change it's necessary, to change is to evolve. Evolution is key for survival.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lots of changes for me over the last few years. Not all entirely of my own choosing though some were however... I like and dislike change with about the same intensity. I'm a glass half full sorta gal and can see the positives in everything. I do also hate being bored so change tends to shake things up for me and keeps life interesting. On the other hand I find myself stupidly clinging to that which I know sometimes, even when I know I need to change and that the change would be very positive. Go figure. I do know that it's usually fear that holds me back and that I need to delve a little when I'm doing that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1: YOU EXIST (can't do much about that).2: THE ONE IS ALL and THE ALL IS ONE (you are one part of all. The all experiencing itself in parts).3: WHAT YOU PUT OUT IS WHAT YOU GET BACK (holographic multidimensional mirror reflecting your vibration).4: CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT...except for the first three laws which never change
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