F53
Change of profile = change of men
January 09 2014
Comments
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Mmmmm very interesting I will follow this one ...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Can't speak for others but as a 38yo I look for more than a FB so your old "looking for" bit wouldn't have enticed me to respond... some may have seen the "looking for a random fuck" bit (even if it was only a hint hidden in a suggestive way) as being desperate or easy (please don't shoot me, just guessing at other thoughts here). Maybe the older bracket of men generally seek more than a random drive by experience and want something more meaningful even if it isn't the full relationship (i.e. a FWB or long term partner with a social component). SG
-
RHP User
12 years ago
As a 38 year old guy (albeit in a relationship) don't want to speak for everyone. For me I would be looking for something more than just a quick FB and be after something with more of a connection. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Older men are definitely more selective. Perhaps your new profile makes you more interesting? I never saw the old one so I can't comment, though you definitely seem challenging and seem to require patience, which is something a lot of younger guys wouldn't want to wait for.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe as a man ages he isn't such a slave to his hormones? Or maybe a man's libido lessens... as in he doesn't need to put in every hole he sees?? Just a question....
-
erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Maybe as a man ages he isn't such a slave to his hormones? Or maybe a man's libido lessens... as in he doesn't need to put in every hole he sees?? Just a question.... Nothing about the lessening of his libido, rather the maturing of his mind and being more in control of his hormones as you say.
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' Older men are definitely more selective. Perhaps your new profile makes you more interesting? I never saw the old one so I can't comment, though you definitely seem challenging and seem to require patience, which is something a lot of younger guys wouldn't want to wait for. challenging and requiring patience...lol...I'll keep that in mind Blond_gypsy, but really if they aren't willing to make any effort then they aren't for me.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Well my dear it seems to me you have refined your profile and are looking for some quality times with a quality man or men! The fact that you have asked what can you teach me i think may have made a few grommets turn the other way ! And maybe the fact that you are not just chasing a fuck ! But a enjoyable experience with an appreciative gentleman that knows how to respect a woman ! Love a woman ! Admire a woman !and seduce a womans desires ?? So maybe the young punks just are not quite refined themselves and fear immediate rejection from a lady who wants to be treated like a lady and then behind closed doors fucked like a demon!!! Would you save me the next dance my dear?? - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
We appreciate what a connection can bring to a friendship. Quality becomes more important than quantity. I am a lucky guy with an exceptional partner who has the quality and quantity balance well sorted. Your profile reads of quality....with the right mix of quantity..lol. Good luck with your search. I'm sure a pretty lady like you will knock em dead.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Means you're not damaged goods anymore and evolving out of a shallow realm and less likely to avoid love like the plague...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile sounds like you are after something serious. I am guessing your previous profile insinuated other possibilities. Usually same age groups attract when it comes to searching for something more. This applies to both sexes.
-
Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
From someone who is above both age ranges. Following on Meeka's comment, the older I have become the more the head on my shoulders does the thinking than the one between my legs. Something I am grateful for. Agree with Amicus, after more than just a bang. As the older we get the more experiences we have had to draw on & intimacy with someone you have a connection with is FAR more enjoyable. You want to be with someone that is thinking about you & what's happening rather than just the act of doing it. Missb72 as someone who has seen both your profiles, the first got the response it seemed to be aimed at & the 2nd makes me wish I was 44 again. That's the difference
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' Well my dear it seems to me you have refined your profile and are looking for some quality times with a quality man or men! The fact that you have asked what can you teach me i think may have made a few grommets turn the other way ! And maybe the fact that you are not just chasing a fuck ! But a enjoyable experience with an appreciative gentleman that knows how to respect a woman ! Love a woman ! Admire a woman !and seduce a womans desires ?? So maybe the young punks just are not quite refined themselves and fear immediate rejection from a lady who wants to be treated like a lady and then behind closed doors fucked like a demon!!! Would you save me the next dance my dear?? - Posted from rhpmobile come get me
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Are an advertisement. What you advertise you will find... So like all good ads, don't let it become old and stale. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' Quoting 'blond_gypsy' Older men are definitely more selective. Perhaps your new profile makes you more interesting? I never saw the old one so I can't comment, though you definitely seem challenging and seem to require patience, which is something a lot of younger guys wouldn't want to wait for. challenging and requiring patience...lol...I'll keep that in mind Blond_gypsy, but really if they aren't willing to make any effort then they aren't for me. I didn't mean it as an insult or sleight, I happen to find challenging women incredibly attractive. Some men are easily beaten down by a challenge, others find it more interesting.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Except for the vegemite add.... That will never become old and stale. Strangely I've changed my profile lots of times and seem to get exactly the same age groups... I might try some tactics from this topic. Thanks xx
-
RHP User
12 years ago
From my point of view i think it comes down to the mature nature of an older man.We don't seek just sex ,we are more willing to be friends if there is not physical and mental attraction.We don't feel the need to bed any woman that crosses our path, and we are more in tune with our emotion's. I dont think the way at age 40 as i did when i was 20 and i am sure my thinking will change when i reach 50-60 ect We are just evolving as we grow older.We can also communicate well and think with our other head I am sure women change their thinking as they grow and evolve as a person.
-
On_Safari
12 years ago
The number of 38-55yo "gentlemen" who approach me saying things like we have alot in common because I like group sex, mmf, ffm, dogging, bondage etc is really pissing me off. Then they go on about how successful they are on RHP laying chicks. FFS, I could fck a dozen different guys a day if I was that way inclined. What the men of all agea fail to realise here is FUCK OR NOT quality encounters and women still require a REASON and be ATTRACTED TO YOU to even go there. Simply asking/approaching isn't enough. The only guaranteed fuck anyone is going to get is from a Paid Professional. GET THAT THROUGH YOUR FUCKING HEADS!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Given a chance n lack of distance between us I'd have an honest crack at u Love warning
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' From my point of view i think it comes down to the mature nature of an older man.We don't seek just sex ,we are more willing to be friends if there is not physical and mental attraction.We don't feel the need to bed any woman that crosses our path, and we are more in tune with our emotion's. I dont think the way at age 40 as i did when i was 20 and i am sure my thinking will change when i reach 50-60 ect We are just evolving as we grow older.We can also communicate well and think with our other head I am sure women change their thinking as they grow and evolve as a person. Yes I find things have changed for the better, a few aches and pains not withstanding!It's all good for now...carpe diem...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone loves me ,im extra special! mwahahaha. You seem like your a magnet for drop kicks ,it happens, i think they see your pictures, and the men's other head starts thinking.I have good control with that little head. I was just sharing my life experience and point of view with the forum.I am not perfect, but life has moulded me into a person who can have female friends who are just not seen as sex objects! We getting pissed tomorrow night mwhahahahaha !
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' Given a chance n lack of distance between us I'd have an honest crack at u Love warning cause you went awfully quiet recently...
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' Quoting 'Missb72' Quoting 'blond_gypsy' Older men are definitely more selective. Perhaps your new profile makes you more interesting? I never saw the old one so I can't comment, though you definitely seem challenging and seem to require patience, which is something a lot of younger guys wouldn't want to wait for. challenging and requiring patience...lol...I'll keep that in mind Blond_gypsy, but really if they aren't willing to make any effort then they aren't for me. I didn't mean it as an insult or sleight, I happen to find challenging women incredibly attractive. Some men are easily beaten down by a challenge, others find it more interesting. I actually took your comments to mean I was coming across as high maintenance, so thanks for clarifying.
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Are an advertisement. What you advertise you will find... So like all good ads, don't let it become old and stale. :) - Posted from rhpmobile I also cant decide what I want so keep changing it...*sigh*... oh well keeps it interesting
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' From my point of view i think it comes down to the mature nature of an older man. I dont think the way at age 40 as i did when i was 20 and i am sure my thinking will change when i reach 50-60 ect We are just evolving as we grow older.We can also communicate well and think with our other head I am sure women change their thinking as they grow and evolve as a person. Agreed, Kizza. I'm a more rounded personality than I was 10 years ago..and I'm grateful for it. In response to Missb72's original thread…my curiosity is definitely piqued more by a female profile that is open to more possibilities than the obvious one most of us are here for.Thats not to say I'm actively seeking a partner, either..but I like to think I'm relatively unbound, and that "Relationships" have a richness all their own, at least to start with..and are not something to be avoided just because of their potential for peril. Incidentally, I haven't read your profile at the time of printing.Now curiosity takes over...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I wish my libido would drop and act its agebut you are right a man does get more selective.But if I was still younger I would target cougarsas there an easy mark plus you don't shell out fordinner/movies and so on...Quoting 'Meeka100' Maybe as a man ages he isn't such a slave to his hormones? Or maybe a man's libido lessens... as in he doesn't need to put in every hole he sees?? Just a question....
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' The number of 38-55yo "gentlemen" who approach me saying things like we have alot in common because I like group sex, mmf, ffm, dogging, bondage etc is really pissing me off. Then they go on about how successful they are on RHP laying chicks. FFS, I could fck a dozen different guys a day if I was that way inclined. What the men of all agea fail to realise here is FUCK OR NOT quality encounters and women still require a REASON and be ATTRACTED TO YOU to even go there. Simply asking/approaching isn't enough. The only guaranteed fuck anyone is going to get is from a Paid Professional. GET THAT THROUGH YOUR FUCKING HEADS! Damn I love all those things too.... and my detachable penis stays hard all night bebe you won't be disappointed. But seems that have no chance with the fair Indy.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Chev you have no respect do you.... and that is why young men and immature old men don't get laid.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Chev you have no respect do you.... and that is why young men and immature old men don't get laid. I can't tell if its a troll or not, but chev's response gave me a chuckle and a "wtf?! you really said that" - while it doesn't do it for me, its kinda amusing - and for guys who are into that (and the women into it) it does have a pragmatism to it.
-
On_Safari
12 years ago
You and Paint-Me are my biggest fantasy....but I'm not sure my arse won't come out of it unscathed!!! Lol. Kizza, I know you're not one of "those" gentlemen and like alot of ladies here the tide of undesirables ebbs and flows. Just lately it seems the RHP GENE pool has taken a hit lately 😥 ~ walks away with her cricket bat defeated.....how am I supposed to replace my current lovers if there aren't any charming, quality, literate men available like Kizz and crew?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Miss B probably haven't read all the posts on here and probably a little late with this post for you to read but there is nothing wrong with anything about you or your profile. The way you have written your profile is concise and enticing, if I lived closer I would make a play, in fact I have tried lol although very subtle. You are a very attractive lady and there is no way guys wouldn't want to be seen with you. Advice would be don't confuse what you want and the site you are trying to find that on. Keep the faith and you will find what you are looking for. By the way that is not a religious reference I am not a religious person lol
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Youre a long way away
-
gazpacho
12 years ago
Fact is, there's a 38-45 man drought. You need to come to terms with the fact that these men are all sapped, cash strapped desperadoes too busy paying mortgages and looking after babies, and saving up for porches and stuff. Nope. You're going to have to get inventive. You know you crave the sensitivity and caress of an older gentleman, as well as the kick and buck of a virile young hipster... what you really need a tag team. A duo. Open your mind and your legs will follow. this gratuitous, useless advice was brought to you by Gazpacho. HugsGazpacho
-
RHP User
12 years ago
fuck you over, they just take longer
-
gazpacho
12 years ago
It's true. Pounding it out in competition with the youngsters can be proxied to an energetic apprentice, I figure. A stunt cock is nothing to be ashamed of, fellas! Some women just take too much work. I mean, I know you're thinking "who cares as long as I get off"... but at my age, we have to preserve our blood oxygen ratios for the big finale, and the double teaming, and we've learnt to be concerned about repeat business. None of these one night stands. No sireee. :p HugsGazpacho
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Could it be because the sound of "random FB" too demanding, and older buddies did not feel they are capable of satisfying the overwhelming needs cos their energy takes time to recover. Hence they opt for quality. While younger guys have more needs and an open (sex driven) woman will satisfy their purpose, well as you understand already.
-
Playful2looking
12 years ago
well i read the posting and the answers i cant work out why the older dudes now chase your profile. to me. it sounds like a shopping list. i guess if it works and you are meeting the people you want to meet then go for it.
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
It's an old thread. I have changed my profile since I created this thread. But thanks for your comments and yes my "shopping list" works rather well. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Maybe as a man ages he isn't such a slave to his hormones? Or maybe a man's libido lessens... as in he doesn't need to put in every hole he sees?? Just a question.... Is it just me that finds it funny that you accidentally dropped a letter in the profile there?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
The older ones have endured years of being ignored outright by the all women seeking "NSA" regardless of their expressed age range (given the m/f ratio and sheer volume of younger / better looking ones it is entirely understandable - we'd do the same given the equivalent environment I'm sure ) as a consequence they don't waste their time on such self flagellating activities as lining up to be ignored. Once the word commitment enters the conversation the tables turn a little and other things become more relevant. I think the ladies here need to understand that the behaviour of the men is largely a reflection of the way they are treated by the women in these environments ... not the other way around as is often lamented. Men get plenty of practice trying all the different approaches in an attempt to catch your attention while the women are rarely pro-active and spend their time "choosing" ... in the process reinforcing which ideas are perceived to work and which don't ? My advice Miss B would be to forget about your profile attracting the right men and simply search out those that interest you and approach them with the first message ... I think I can confidently say you will get close to 100% reply rate from your personally per-qualified leads - much more efficient process.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I hid my photos and have not had one single message since. Yet men seem to be able to message you with out a photo. Go Figure.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'm very interested in the comments and ur story because I am finding the same thing so deff will be changing up my profile!!! May I cheat and take some of ur ideas because after reading urs I agree with u totally!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
-
MissBishere
12 years ago
Feel free to take what you like from my profile. Share and share alike I say :P - Posted from rhpmobile
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15119 Comments: 88292
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10255
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2519 Comments: 11672
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9772
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1005 Comments: 5238
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1302 Comments: 5788
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1993
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share