Checking out and off-line for a night, 24 hours of me time!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 months ago

  The internet has this sure funny way of making people feel like instant replies are a requirement. They’re not. The people worth talking to will understand. Sometimes people need to be ghosted, especially if the are hounding you and being thirsty. Real life, real people and real downtime still matter more than keeping an inbox happy. Sometimes the best thing you can do is step away, recharge and remember real life does exists outside the screen. Enjoy your night off. Ms Foxy X

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  RHP User

  2 months ago

  It's just the different angles we all deal with here.. Most guys are not having to worry about too much time not spent answering msgs so they look rude... There really are big contrasts between the experience of the couple, the single woman and the single man here on RHP.. All three face a very different journey on this site... But you should also always take time out for yourself and for your own actual outside real worls life because an online environment is just that..this place also messes with people's opinions of themselves because it's an online situation..a good photo is just that..a lot of likes and emphasis on images because understandably its an online situation..Pity people get confused about which is real.. The world offline is a lot more fun 😜...

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  mysterious_soul

  2 months ago

  I move to another platform once I vibe with someone. it just makes replying way easier. Plus, we’re all adults with (busy) lives, so there’s no pressure to reply straight away or every day. It’s also a good way to read people. if you take a little time to respond and they blow up your phone or get weird or rude about it, that’s a red flag and your need to run away from them.

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  RHP User

  2 months ago

  Don’t worry about this app as much as you need to worry about yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything on here and certainly not your energy, effort and time. Answer when it suits you. No one has the right to feel any type of way if you don’t write back quickly. Check once per day or every couple of days. Enjoy your life first and foremost:)

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  seekandplay

  2 months ago

  I need to remind myself to get off the forum! But not messages. I currently have 2,556 unread messages and about 300 friend requests. You don’t owe anyone anything 😊

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