De0cypher

De0cypher

F45

Chemistry

October 24 2013

At least in a relationship, there is a need to keep it going. Try new things. Regenerate physical interest and attraction. But in this brave new accepting world of casual 'bucking' buddies and a very readily available roll call of 'next' in line.....how do you tell a FWB that you no longer 'fancy' them and really just want to do it with everyone else but them?   Is it easier or worse if you've only slept together less than a handful of times or just the once? Do you tell them at all or best to let things just peter out - i.e less contact/plans to get together etc?   Curious for thoughts.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "regardless of the exchange/type of exchange, a simple 'yes, this seems like its not going anywhere and I've lost interest' definitely saves time and effort for all! ... nothing gets under my skin more than the disappearing acts after you reach the stage of sharing private pics - i'm a grown up, if you're not interested in my bits, please say so "   I think you have answered your own question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' "regardless of the exchange/type of exchange, a simple 'yes, this seems like its not going anywhere and I've lost interest' definitely saves time and effort for all! ... nothing gets under my skin more than the disappearing acts after you reach the stage of sharing private pics - i'm a grown up, if you're not interested in my bits, please say so "   I think you have answered your own question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    About the formatting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is easy peasy,to actually take that same advice is often not so easy...sometimes,apologies to Mr.Eliot, things end..''not with a bang but a whimper''.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.Lubs ya Miss Freya.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    don't send a xmas card. You know when you are off THAT list........that's it. He will get the hint then I am sure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I understand what you are saying. some of the above posts seem to have missed the point just a little. I have been in the same situation lately, but, fortunately, things sparked up almost as I was about to end it all. So, having said and done that, I guess if you really are bored with the situation you either have to spice it up or say sayonara bluntly. Not easy to do at times I know, but it's either that or just don't answer his calls. Best of luck with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It depends on what you've agreed with your FWB. If you agreed to be exclusive then yes you'll have to have that conversation and say you want to break that agreement. If they still choose to hang around and still play then that's fine. It doesn't have to be a big emotional event.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    That's common sense leaving your body....(shrugs) just sayin' ~ Indy 🔥 alflame with lust.

  • De0cypher

    De0cypher

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'That's common sense leaving your body....(shrugs) just sayin' ~ Indy 🔥 alflame with lust.

  • BrightBubbly

    BrightBubbly

    12 years ago

    Indy - you have something you want to share ???

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Seriously I try not to plan my day, that's when the word "pre-meditated" starts being thrown around in courtrooms 😎 I'm just nursing a dull frustrated ache that I sumply refuse to rub away by myself...... ~ yup I'm throbbing- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Not_everydayman

    Not_everydayman

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' That's common sense leaving your body....(shrugs) just sayin' ~ Indy 🔥 alflame with lust. HA yes I know that feeling but I equally would say that if a FWB does not have any B anymore it is more than fair to say sayonara rather than not saying anything at all. :-) On RHP peeps should be a bit more more "weathered" than on vanilla sites, right?Or am I being too blunt (I am Dutch after all.......)X Eric BTW love your new pic, De0cypher

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Far too many Dutch men on here!

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Lol.... Funny stuff! That is all x