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Chubby people and swingers parties
October 05 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
It takes all kinds , I'm not a small girl and I go- never been shamed
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Seen anyone shamed. Everyone has seemed accepting. But take your confidence with you. A lot of shaming can be fermented by self doubt. Best foot forward and own it. Others will be impressed with your attitude
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RHP User
9 years ago
And weight to you and attend swingers clubs. I've never had a bad experience and always seem to get attention. Take pride in your appearance, relax and have a good time. Confidence in who you are is much sexier than your size or shape.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have never seen anyone shamed for their 'size', in fact, that's the thing I love most about swingers parties, I've never felt sexier! There'll always be people looking for a particular type and that's ok, but in my experience, it's the love of sex and the social aspect of swinging that draws people to parties. Wear something you feel sexy in, own that you're sexy and you'll have a blast whether you choose to 'play' or not :) Mary xx
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225Special
9 years ago
We have never seen anyone get payed out on for body size or shape at any of the parties that we have attended. As has been mentioned before, sexy comes in all shapes and sizes. Both of us are slim, Mrs more so and we have played with people your dimensions and had a great time. So, get on out there and and have a great night. XXX
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
There have been more "chubby", than slim people , at the parties & swingers clubs that we have been to. In fact there were all shapes, sizes and ages. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about what others think. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are still young, and probably hangwith younger guys who are very superficial.The sexiest thing about a woman (Or bloke for that matter) is confidence.Rock what you got and i guarantee you will have no shortage of willing partners!have fun!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ahhh thanks so much for the replies.. Guess the nerves are getting to me haha. But that's so reassuring. :) can't wait to see what it's all about! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I concur. Plenty of "real" sized people at swinger's parties (they reflect the average Jack and Jill you see on the street). Some are more friendly to larger folks than others. I consider myself pretty average, like many men I'm not greatly toned and have the token male gut somewhat, but I've never felt unwelcome where I have been invited to. If you were in Melbourne, I could recommend places very friendly towards larger men and women. I say just try some and attend. Worst case you can always leave. Normal case, you will see people just like yourselves, enjoying themselves and letting themselves go.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for asking the question OP. I was a little worried when I read the title but I love this thread. The responses so far make me realise how much I love this community. I too have similar dimensions to you OP but that was not always the case. When I was your age I was very slim. It's taken a while for me to adjust to my new dimensions. My ex husband constantly made me feel bad for the way I was, but since leaving him and finding this place, I have discovered that it's true what everyone has said so far. There is nothing sexier (in a male or female) than confidence. Have confidence and enjoy yourself
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Your weight sounds normal in today's society,,it's us skinny minnys,that feel like the odd ones out ,in saying that before all this adventure started ,I wouldn't have thought chubbie would have been on our radar,but to be honest,we have had the most amount of fun with people who we thought wouldn't normally attract us, but their charisma along with an easy going nature and attitude was just impossible to ignore ,books aren't the only thing hard to judge by their covers ,like the bike add used to say ,JUST DO IT !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Ment I ment damn it Errors means, yes it was mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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zzzyyyxxx
9 years ago
you should go along. You can sit at our table anytime :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I used to weight 120+. I'm now 70kilo but have heaps of excess skin (for a little while long) and get very very self conscious. I will admit it does effect you when you see the younger/skinner/fitter girls out that are full of confidence and you know you don't. Chin up. You'll get there - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If someone doesn't take you for who you are then they are not worth it in the first place. We all make initial decisions based on appearance so if you take pride in that and are true to yourself then you have no problems at all. If you are half as sexy as the other ladies who have commented here already, you will have a great time. Enjoy and look forward to your report after the event.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Every one has that connection to some oone, hell i like a chubbier woman then a stick figure because i can feel more, chubbier women are more relaxed as well and willing to try more fun kinkier things and hell if you want someone to go to a swingers joint with you, I'll go with you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
She is exactly as you describe yourself. I have sex with her twice per week and I can't get enough of her. I can't imagine why you would think that chubby is not still hot. Give it a go. I think you will be pleasantly surprised. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's your first time to go to a place like that. Give yourself permission to be anxious. When you go there, you shall see there are others who just came out of curiosity, too. Anyhow, confidence is overrated and it can easily slip into narcissism. Someone gave you a good advice, be yourself and be open to just meet people. If you are one of those introverts who quietly enjoys every minute they have, you may not like it as people will often not approach you. They are not interested in your mental capabilities.They don't know you. You are expected to approach them. You may choose just to sit in the corner and observe. It can be fun. (Ms)
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justlook2500
9 years ago
I have been to quite a few parties/clubs & have seen all shapes and sizes. And all of those shapes and sizes have been having fun. Have never seen anyone shamed or ostracized. As others said, just try to be as comfortable and confident in yourself as possible. I think that is the real thing which will determine how good a time you have. Also everyone has different tastes ... it might not be size or shape eg. some prefer brunettes over blondes etc. Oh and as for your stats ... as others have said ... they sound pretty normal to me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi hunni, I felt exactly the same as you about going to a swingers club...but after I got there I realised it's definitely not about size. I walked in there and felt desirable and sexy. I had a lot of attention and loved every second of it...it's actually addictive - Posted from rhpmobile
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