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Circumcision
February 10 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Flash..congrates on taking such a huge step.I had mine done about 3-4yrs ago I think and all I can remember about the whole thing is how quickly I went under the anethetic,ripping stitches every morning with the ol "Morning Glory" and the sharp stinging pain that went with that.At least 2 week recovery and a mild infection from irratation from the stitch knots and no fun for 6 weeks.A fair amount of sensitivity for about 4-5 weeks but then all good. NOW......I LOVE IT!!! t seems every girl I've been with since loves it too and are more willing to give long oral sessions.Mind you though I've been told and I tend to agree,it's made my member a little bit thicker but visually it's alot more appealing and alot cleaner...not that I ever was dirty,trust me.When it comes to being clean I'm a bit of a freak about it. I certainly would never do it again,it cost me all up just over $3,000 or so.But in the end the reward was worth the pain.Only problem now it seems is being over 30 and looking like I do.....it's just going to waste now.Thank your lucky stars you have a woman who has stuck by you because believe it or not,I've actually had girls cheat on me and break up with me because I had a foreskin.My reasons were personal as well as medical. ps: Make sure you are taking oral anti-biotics and covering your ol boy in anti-biotic cream..not anti-septic.It will heal a hell of alot better and expect scarring.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Flash,Firstly, big hugs and hope your OK.I have always been curious about this and I hope you don't mind me asking a question - I'll answer yours in a moment!My hubby is uncircumsized and there is a tiny little spot at the back of the shaft, it seems to be on the foreskin but I don't know exactly how circumcision works. It seems that that spot is very sensitive and I'm wondering if that is removed in a circumcision?And in answer to your question, I don't have a preference either way - it's the man it's attached to that matters! I'm so sorry you've had the choice made for you, I know I would not appreciate a surgical procedure in my downstairs department.Take care and I hope you're recovered soon!Dee.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, What an intersting topic you pose flash...(assuming you are flash !) lol It will get better man....must be sore as.... My son (18 now) had to have his done when he was bout 5 for medical reasons and I remember being there when he woke up from the anesthetic and the after care needed....he was so sore ! the poor little guy....I felt I needed to be there particularly for him because of the nature of his surgery....a very male thing.... Listen...as long as your tackle works, aesthetically it doesnt need to be the most attractive looking cock..... I've been on here for long enough to have seen all the complaints from girls on here about guys who have cock pics in their profiles or get sent cock pics to knw that a lot of women simply dont care wat your chicken noodle looks like...as long as it knows how to cross the road....know what I'm saying ? You are going to attract lots of advice and maybe some lame jokes but good on you for being brave enough to post up... Having said all that, the scars will heal and you will be left with something your gf will love just as much, if not more than before.... Medically, I understand we dont circumcise boys anymore because it is and was an unneccessary operation in the main, except for the odd urinary tract infection issues which are NOT a cleanliness problem but a very minor issue to do with the size of the opening....in my sons case anyway. I am not circumcised. So welcome to the club dude. Keep up the meds and I'm sure you will be waving your whanger around pretty soon.....same as always. Dogism.
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hotcouplewanted
16 years ago
I had my circumcised when I was 26 and sinde then has been always good, but few things you have to take care, such as , don't let you little boy get excited for the first 2 weeks, or while you still having stitches, use if necessary a bag of ice to calm him down (I Know, it's cruel) but it helps to heal; use condons for the first 3 relations to avoid any infections; As you don't have more that excessive skin, at the begining try to look after you best friend a bit better, because he will feel very sensible and it can hurt a bit as well...but after 5 weeks, enjoy as much as you can, is pretty good as now you have something else to tease the girls I wish you a quicly recover About the question< Dee, don't worry, it will be kept and much more sensible, it worth trust me
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RHP User
16 years ago
I WANNA C THE DICK PIC NOW LOL I WANNA NO WAT IT LOOKS LIKE POST OP...WE HAVE BEEN IN DISCUSSIONS OVER MY NEPHEW WEATHER 2 HAV HIM CIRCUMSISED AND IF ITS BETTER EARLIER ON HAS HES HAD 2 INFECTIONS SO........ WHITEHAWK 3K 2 GET YA DICK SHORTENED SEEMS A RIP OFF THO...BUT THAT SEEMS SHALLOW IF THEY DUMP YA OVER A CM OF SKIN...R U SURE THEY WERENT MAKIN UP RIDICULOUS EXCUSES...... N RECOVER SOON
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ouch! I'm cut and I don't lament it because I've no experience that I can remember having a foreskin of my own. :p I would have preferred to have a choice. Cut or uncut, sex is still an awwwright activity if you have a bit of spare time. :p hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey there....firstly i wanna say i hope your ok and your medical problem is fixed xxx being a woman iv gotta say i cant tell the difference...to me they are both the same execpt theres a bit of skin in the way...but you just move that with your tongue hehe....although the look is different and personally i prefer the look of circumcised but thats only because until 18 months ago id never had a man that wasnt...so its just taken some getting use to i think but guys thanks...you have confirmed something for me...i had my son done when he was a baby...i was always happy i did but i always wondered...so thanks i now know it was the right thing to do...id hate for him to be older and have to have it done... i have to say it is the most expensive piece of skin around cost me the same as whitehawk about $3000 but glad i fought to have it done :-)...thanks guys x roxy xxx..... whitehawk...i wish i was a barbie cause id love to meet you...you are a very interesting man :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
some men have them.. some men dont.. I had never been with an uncircumsized guy until last year. most men of my vintage were circumsized when they were babies .... always heard women say they much preferred cut, etc etc ... well to be honest .. I was so into the man and so into the sex .. I didnt even really notice ... I thought it was all very sexy including his foreskin :) we are who we are .. about time we all just enjoyed that part of it ... I wish you all the best for a speedy recovery xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not 100% sure that this is what you mean but it should be... there is a piece of skin that joins the foreskin to the head of the penis called the frenulum. I have done a bit of reading on the topic and can tell you the frenulum is the most sensitive area on the penis and that some or all of it is removed during circumcision. Quoting 'jayndee75' My hubby is uncircumsized and there is a tiny little spot at the back of the shaft, it seems to be on the foreskin but I don't know exactly how circumcision works. It seems that that spot is very sensitive and I'm wondering if that is removed in a circumcision?Dee.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i read your topic and invoulentarily crossed my legs.never cross my legs. you poor bugga.wincingly Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
get ur nephew done....its worth the money for the peace of mind roxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Suggest people considering circumcision explore all their available options and look into circumcision thoroughly. This is not something I'd put or expect anyone to go through without their full knowledge of the procedure involved including possible side effects, and their express permission. One boo boo there and they're looking at a lifetime sentence... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
that the average female would not judge a guy on his cock alone, surely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
chicken noodle crossing the road.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahashahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Glad someone caught that ! lol Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I must admit to loving the cut cock, cleaner, better looking and tastes better... But I've certainly had my fair share of uncut and I'm not going to say no to a good romp just because of a piece of skin! I will agree though that I don't give as quality lip service as the majority taste a bit wrong, even straight after a shower. We had our son cut when he was 8 months old electively, just our choice and I don't regret it at all (although at the time it was awful seeing it bruised and swollen). The biggest deciding factor for me is to fast forward the clock to old age when the mind goes to mush or suffer a stroke and you are no longer able to care for yourself... have seen way too many infected cheesey old fellas and it's not a pretty sight! Something to think about.... Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
i have never had a cut man until my hubby...now been together 12 years and apart from the odd swinging experience where the guy was uncut that is all i know...and love it... i agree that giving oral to a cut man is more fun...it just tastes and feels better..... that is not to say of course that a peace of skin would be the deciding factor on wheather or not you'd get invited to our bedroom(charm, wit, looks and the eagerness to please would be on the top of my list...lol), but i am always delighted to find out if a potential playmate is cut....:)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I met my partner. I love sliding the foreskin up over the tip of his penis then slowly and firmly pulling it down as I take him into my mouth..... aaaahhhhh pure heaven. But really when all is said and done (and erect) it doesn't make a difference to me.... just gives me a bit more to play with. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
We had our son cut when he was 8 months old electively, just our choice and I don't regret it at all (although at the time it was awful seeing it bruised and swollen). The biggest deciding factor for me is to fast forward the clock to old age when the mind goes to mush or suffer a stroke and you are no longer able to care for yourself... have seen way too many infected cheesey old fellas and it's not a pretty sight! Something to think about.... Mrs Sassy That is a good point especially seeing the age care industry is mostly female employees that will make things interesting when this new generation of uncut males become old men.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'BUNNY_BOILER' WHITEHAWK 3K 2 GET YA DICK SHORTENED SEEMS A RIP OFF THO...BUT THAT SEEMS SHALLOW IF THEY DUMP YA OVER A CM OF SKIN...R U SURE THEY WERENT MAKIN UP RIDICULOUS EXCUSES...... The cost of just over $3k was mainly because of consultations at $250 starting and the most was about $400 post op..which lasted all of 60 seconds!!! The rest was because I did not have private health insurance and did not want to go on the waiting list,so I had to pay a private hospital to do it. My dick's not shorter at all and Im glad the foreskin is gone.It formed a very tight ring over the head so when I was hard,I could not get the foreskin ack over the head.Seeing as I'm told I'm quite thick down there,I just assumed this was normal.Plus sometimes with hard/rough sex,I'd get tiny rips on the outside of the foreskin which would sting for 2 days or more whilst they recovered.Some girls said the foreskin was ugly and hated how it felt in their mouth.....and yes the one's who cheated on me I found out went for cut guys.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' i have to say it is the most expensive piece of skin around cost me the same as whitehawk about $3000 but glad i fought to have it done :-)...thanks guys x roxy xxx..... whitehawk...i wish i was a barbie cause id love to meet you...you are a very interesting man :-)Well thank you!! I'd be more than happy to chat and get to know you,only problem is my membership ran out and seeing as I only met one girls out of the hundeds of mails I sent...I won't be wasting anymore money buying another membership.Maybe we can work something out?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Peachypear69s'Suggest people considering circumcision explore all their available options and look into circumcision thoroughly. This is not something I'd put or expect anyone to go through without their full knowledge of the procedure involved including possible side effects, and their express permission. One boo boo there and they're looking at a lifetime sentence... Mrs P' Well yes I did alot of research and alot of soul searching.It took me at least 7 years to get it finally done....but i don't regret having it done one little bit.Yes I have some scarring but thats to be expected.I was mor worried about not waking up from the anesthesia than the doctor mangling my cock.He did an ok job on something when you think about it...in a cold operating theatre and flaccid,would be very very difficult to operate on and get right!
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RHP User
16 years ago
as far as i know its an outdated religious act? and was also to save on germs in old unhygienic days.. now days theres no reason to do it unless you are a serious christian.. hmm cut your doodle and make it smaller and no skin to pull or move up n down while rooting.. doesnt sound like fun to me ;) sadly we notice alot of profiles with prefernces for cut cock...why iam not sure...maybe just for looks? when its hard they both look the same so who nose cheers Neo...un chopped
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like whitehawk says, he made a decision and followed it and was happy with the results and that's kewl. And there can be medical reasons present that are best addressed by the performance of the procedure. It's the arbitrary circumcision of perfectly healthy babies that I object to. I've no doubt that being sexually active with my cut cock is a whole lot of fun so I got no issues being cut. It is my body though, and I simply would have preferred to have a choice. Neo, they dont all look the same as a cut dick when hard, but the question of aesthetics is no good reason to have the skin on your cock cut off... lolz... worse... are the guys who say... but my girlfriend said she would like it better that way. ouch. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I must say this is one of the more interesting topics I have seen yet. To start I will say I am NOT circumcised and I am very happy now that I am not. Being one of the first of the "no need to cut" generation I did get heaps of crap at school growing up and it did give me the good old stage fright at the urinal for a while lol. Now I am a parent my wife and I never had a 2nd thought about getting our son cut. Must add though they we or rather he has been lucky and has never had an infection (nor have I for that matter). I could not imagine life as a cut guy and so far I am glad I have not had too. Although we have some across a few profiles on here that have their preference for cut guys I am yet to meet a lady that has turned me down because of that reason (but trust me there have been other reasons haha) For me if it is not for a medical reason there is no point to doing it, I mean you would tattoo your son with his blood type just incase he might need a transfusion one day would you? We do make decisions about our children's lives everyday but this is a pretty full on decision to make for a "just incase". Mate I hope it heals up well for you and does not lose and sensitivity as I have heard other guys say before, I am sure you will be out there getting up to no good very soon ;) Oh I should also add that it is a bit of a concern for me about what will happen when I am too old to look after it properly, but as my wife keeps telling me, if i keep living the way I do (lots of extreme sports) I wont really have to worry about old age lol
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bubbles_n_flash
16 years ago
Quoting 'BUNNY_BOILER' I WANNA C THE DICK PIC NOW LOL I WANNA NO WAT IT LOOKS LIKE POST OP...WE HAVE BEEN IN DISCUSSIONS OVER MY NEPHEW WEATHER 2 HAV HIM CIRCUMSISED AND IF ITS BETTER EARLIER ON HAS HES HAD 2 INFECTIONS SO........ WHITEHAWK 3K 2 GET YA DICK SHORTENED SEEMS A RIP OFF THO...BUT THAT SEEMS SHALLOW IF THEY DUMP YA OVER A CM OF SKIN...R U SURE THEY WERENT MAKIN UP RIDICULOUS EXCUSES...... N RECOVER SOON I'm pretty sure you don't want to see th immediate post op shot - it is no a pretty sight. But we are happy to share a fully healed post op and pre op shot in about 6 week or so. I can understand 3k for Whitehawk, its has cost me $800, and I still have 1 bill to go, and we have Private Health cover. I'm glad I don't live in the US though - I can't even imagine the price tag. And, removing theforeskin doesn't reduce size. We always joked that my member looked bigger when I pulled the skin back. That was when I could pull the skin back. Thanks, I hope I recover soon too.
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bubbles_n_flash
16 years ago
Quoting 'Whitehawk77' Flash..congrates on taking such a huge step.I had mine done about 3-4yrs ago I think and all I can remember about the whole thing is how quickly I went under the anethetic,ripping stitches every morning with the ol "Morning Glory" and the sharp stinging pain that went with that.At least 2 week recovery and a mild infection from irratation from the stitch knots and no fun for 6 weeks.A fair amount of sensitivity for about 4-5 weeks but then all good. Thanks for all the info mate, very muc appreciated! I'm glad yours went well, it gives me hope. The worst thing is erections at night, I haven't had a proper night sleep since the op. Every hour up and running it under cold water ti calm it down a sooth the pain. I have now found out that most males can have up to 20 erections a night! Hilarious in the sceme of things here. Cheers Flash
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bubbles_n_flash
16 years ago
Thanks for all the well wishes people, very much appreciated. I'll update the pics in a few weeks and have an uncut pic and a cut pic on the profile for people to look at if they want. Cheers Flash (& Bubbles)
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RHP User
16 years ago
My family are all uncut as well, and have never EVER had any sort of infection or problem.The reason is the old boy taught me from a young age to pull back and clean, and i have taken the time with my son to show him how to do it too. (Don't know what the neighbours think when i yell out "Have you washed your pecker mate")As for looks, well my ex mentioned that she prefered the look of a cut cock, and i have to admit that being young and dumb and much too vain, i did think about getting it cut.Instead, i trained the skin back, took about 4 weeks, and now have a "Cut"cock, without having needed surgery.I still have the foreskin, but you wouldn't know.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was cut when I was 2 and growing up when at pool changing I always wondered why the other's looked different to me. I actually prefer having a circumsised one, just seems cleaner. Even though I have no Jewish connections lol. Firehelmet > fire hose.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey guys, my man is not circumsized.. and i've never been with a guy who is, but i have heard that whe you've been cut you lose alot of sensitivity in the head of the penis, because it no longer has a covering over it all the time. I' m hoping he doesnt read this.. lol i'll tell you hs embarrassing story... he was fucking another chick, before he met me, and she must've been a bit dry because after the 3rd or 4th thrust he said he felt an awful sharp pain and looked down and she as well as he were covered in blood. e got a up and left pretty quick, but when he got home checked to see what had happened, and the little bit of skin you guys were talking about the connects the foreskin to the tip of the penis under the head of the shaft, had ripped away from the rest, and was pissing out blood. When i got with him, he was reluctant to have sex with me for the first month, but i didn't know why and its only recently that he told me! (i just thought he was having problems...:P) just thought this story kinda fitted in! lol cheers, Linz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bightme17.. that's called a frenulum. They don't all tear... it can tear during intercourse if it is tight and the sex is rigourous but it usually only tears the once in a lifetime.. but if it heals badly, it can tear again. Some guys have a recurring issue with tearing because of the way the frenulum heals and they should seek medical advice.. a doctor will tidy that frenulum right up with a scalpal without having the remove it entirely and without performing a circumcision. Usually the frenulum is a sensitive area of the penis but circumcision removes it entirely and in the instance of newborn baby boys usually without any evidence of a defect. I am not anti-circumcision, but I do protest the mandatory circumcision of babies without any sign of defective equipment. Someone told me recently about an "incident" at a swingers party..... this uncut dude with a very tight foreskin was fooling around... and my friend walked passed and gave him a wack on the cock... and blood gushed everywhere... poor bastard.. his foreskin had split. Ouch. Stalky Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
feel 4 you flash,not an op anyone would want to go thru at your age,hope it heals quickly.im not cut and have never had a problem because i was taught very young to train the foreskin and to clean and dry it properly,my mother was a nurse at the time of my birth ,if anyone would know the pros n cons of it a nurse would. none of her 3 sons is cut,our son isnt cut and was taught from a young age how to wash n dry and as a result has never had an issue,however 2 of his mates did have probs and had to have surgery because their parents were ignorant or lazy?? circumcison is a religous act that has no place in modern society,imagine a woman with no clit? yet some cultures still practice this act of butchery.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm uncut and to be honest I've never, ever, met anyone who cares. I worry about it a bit, and I've thought about going to see the doc for a bit of a trim, but then I wonder why. If you keep it clean, then what's the point? Apart from the fact that 99.9% of porn star dicks are cut I mean. 30 years ago, 99.9% of porn stars had gigantic bushes too. I hope times are changing, because pointless genital mutilation isn't a good thing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The best sex I ever had was with a guy who was whole. The second best sex I ever had was with a guy that had been cut. As long as he is clean and knows how to use it properly then I am a happy girl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am not cut and boy am I happy about that, I am sure I get more enjoyment out of sex, at least its not rubbed all the time only when the foreskin is pulled back and that is the best feeling one can have
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just a little bit of info... The Royal Australasian College of Physicians have for the past 18 years at least, continually reviewed the research and literature and continue to issue the statement that there is "no medical indication to perform routine neonatal circumcision"... neonatal meaning in the first 30 days of life. Some private obstetricians still do this in their surgeries and without adequate anaesthetic. Parents are aware of this and ultimately it is their choice. Public hospitals do not perform routine circumcision without medical reason. If circumcision is decided as a preference, then it is best preformed when the baby is 6-12 months old under a general anesthetic by a Paediatric Surgeon. As a midwife, I have always thought if boys weren't meant to have foreskins, they wouldn't be born with them. But, at the end of the day, it's the parents decision...and always respected. In this thread, female circumcision was also mentioned. It's called Female Gential Mutilation in Australia because it is outlawed. Many women who have had it done prefer the word "circumcision". Now, not for a moment am I condoning the practice, but in recent years with increased immigration from Africa, there has been the need to address female circumcision especially for childbirth. Many women are actually proud of their circumcision. It ties them to their culture while living in a foreign land. For childbirth, we need to actually unsew them (the scarring on the perineum is so tough that it will not allow the easy passage of the baby through the birth canal). For many they hear the sound of their pee into the toilet for the first time ever! For all their life, they have taken 20 minutes to pee as it would have to trickle out. After they give birth, they may then elect to be sewn up fully again. Many do... Now....how lucky are we in Australia to have choices? Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
quoting OneBrightStaras above, as i haven't worked out how you fukkas do that yet.opens the mind a bit.Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have read an autobiography on a lady who had this done to her when she was very young (name slips me) and thought it was a very barbaric thing to have done.I totally agree with you brightstar, if us guys were not meant to have it there then we would not have been born with it.On a much lighter noteQ- What do you call the bit of skin attached to a penis?A- A Bloke
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bubbles_n_flash
16 years ago
i miss my skin, but i have a happy head now!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was born with almost no foreskin. Am I the Messiah?! Or am I just a very naughty boy? Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
So everything went well. That's a relief! There still remains the delicate matter of satisfying your promise to show the bewfor and aftuere pics.. hehe Hugs Stalky Quoting 'bubbles_n_flash'i miss my skin, but i have a happy head now!
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bubbles_n_flash
16 years ago
Stiches still pull at the moment, scaring still very visible. Give it some time, will let you know when I post the pics. Flash
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