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Clitoris, Hole & Nip Pics

May 29 2023

Musing among some lovely ladies from various backgrounds and ages recently and discussing the pictorial exploits of male profiles. I’m sure others are bemused by why men feel it absolutely necessary to get their junk out in many various forms ie. alongside a deodorant can for scale, balls hanging out either side of a pair of frilly women’s panties that the man is wearing, some have even gotten creative by drawing little cartoon faces and arms on their bits for humour and to “stand out” from the herd. Now don’t take this to heart gents BUT I think a vast number of women are of the mindset “Seen one dick seen them all” and that it’s not generally your appendages we want to get “eyeball raped” by when you send your unasked for penis pics…. I mean I personally love the “normal shots” of you, doing something you enjoy (not someone lol) looking all happy and natural or even a nicely posed pic dressed up or lounging semi clad and seductive WITHOUT you having a strangle hold on your boner in shot. Yes yes I’m sure your penis is prettier than any other blokes and I’m probably a prude. My questions however are as follows: How would men feel if the women of The Pie only had clit, gaping vaginas and nipple pictures to display for them and that’s all they ever sent. If you asked for a picture and you were sent those kinds of pics would you feel robbed, violated or disappointed it wasn’t a full body/face shot? And can you blokes who DO the dick pic shed any light on the mental thought processes that tell you to send this chick your best penis picture and WHY you think it’s what women want to see? And I guess here’s the thing, how would you feel if your sons were sending these unsolicited and unasked for images? Curious.

Comments

  • Lovinglifenow202

    Lovinglifenow202

    3 years ago

    regarding "how would you feel" question. They'd LOVE it, because men are visual. They haven't figured out that women are not. That's why they send them. Im with you though on everything else

  • Obi1kenietzsche

    Obi1kenietzsche

    3 years ago

    There was a young bloke on the Pie Who once caught a nice lass’s eye The convo went sweet ‘Till he sent her his meat Whereupon the said lass just went “sigh!”👎

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    3 years ago

    Generally, people don't do things without there being some sort of payoff or benefit. Though yourself and many of us here of the female variety are not impressed by dick pics, cock shots and the like. Men wouldn't do it if it didn't pay off in some form. This leads me to believe that there are women out there who ask for them. OR Men are activating the reciprocity rule in women by doing it. The reciprocity rule has existed since the beginning of time. It is basically when someone gives you something and you feel like you must give them something in return of similar or like value.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    3 years ago

    If I had a sausage The size of a full blown salami that stood me out of the crowd of mr average ,maybe I’d be tempted , but yup mr average over here and happy with that ,it works just fine ,so nope never sent a dick , as for would I like some gapping pics or the like , depends on if I knew the person or not tbh , I’d always be up for a couple of pics of wow did you really fit that in 😳😀 you got some skills ,if I knew them , def not a first time caller though ,that would be frightening but being honest I’d still peek 🫣 and prolly turn the phone sideways , and then go silent thinking wtf ,lol

  • FantasyCpl

    FantasyCpl

    3 years ago

    Guys do it to guys too. Haven't experienced it so much here but on other sites it's not uncommon for the first msg to be a pic of an arsehole, literally.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    I must be smart ? Why ? because l realised a long time ago women dont like recieving dicks pic's ? Wasn't too hard and you dont need to be a Rhodes scholar to figure it out.. A dick is a dick ' particularly in pictures .. And l dont particularly want to recieve pussy pic's , like dicks ' you seen one ' you seen them all ... No ' lm not gay and l do love a nice pussy .. But l want to know the person the pussy belongs too before anything... l think the mystery of a unopened present much more seductive... lm sure lm not the only guy on rhp who thinks this way...

  • Lostyanumber

    Lostyanumber

    3 years ago

    I've received a close shot of a vulva as a first message with no text. I quite like to see these sort of piccies but it doesn't really make for a good start if you don't know much about who it's a part of. My usual reply was to ask if they were born with that or if they got it in Bangkok.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    What’s really so wrong with male nudity why is it so offensive. Women flaunt their tits & bits all over the place but it’s wrong for men to do the same. There is nothing wrong with nudity male or female. Why do ppl watch porn & like it. I think the problem is that women from a very young age are taught to hide their privates as if it’s bad & disgusting out of fear of early pregnancy to keep them safe from boys which brainwashes them into believing it’s bad. In reality as adults nudity is liberating to many & no reason for it to be so taboo. It’s just a mindset after all. Woman don’t have a problem sucking the daylights out of a nice hard cock & get turned on by it but it’s a turn off to look at ? go figure it’s twisted by their early beliefs taught as a child theirs no place for it as an adult. The human body I’d beautiful. Male or female. If your looking for a long term relationship or love your in the wrong place on rhp

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Personally I'm astounded by the number of female / couple profiles that are a unidentifiable ass. How is that any different?

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    3 years ago

    Not averse to consensual pic swapping however never really understood the unsolicited dick pic. Seems a bit immature or desperate. But must be people cashing in as I’ve seen tiny tuxedos and top hat 🎩 for sale to give your todger a classy look 🤣

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    3 years ago

    How would I feel if women only sent photos of their private bits? Well, I do enjoy explicit photos very much. The more explicit the better, it’s a big turn on. So would I feel robbed if that’s all that was sent, yes. As much as I enjoy a naughty photo I would want to see the whole person. It’s very similar to those one sentence messages, there’s just not enough information.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I’d be happy to just get sent a picture of a woman, any pic , Just something would be nice 😊

  • touchbase

    touchbase

    3 years ago

    😆

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Men are curious about other men’s equipment and assume woman are as well. I checked out Grindr it’s awash with dick pics. Guys with big dicks are in high demand by guys and girls who love to play with them. Usually small, limp dicked subs unfortunately. Anyway ladies, good advice. Listen up dick pickers 😂

  • BASICINSTINCTS69

    BASICINSTINCTS69

    3 years ago

    i MUST BE AN ODD MALE OUT AS i PREFER SUGGESTIVE PIX RATHER THAN GENATALIA IN YOUR FACE.i HATE TO SAY THIS BUT WHATS BETWEEN THE EARS (brain) IS MORE IMPORTANT FOR GREAT SEX!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    hi i agree nothing but pussy and tit pics straight up is a bit much id like to see the whole person so i know its not some fuck wit guy with downloaded content

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    3 years ago

    Outrageous Indi.. Indi..I happen to be endowed with an magnificent penis. What the heck could you do with a picture of it..? If you send a pic of your clitoris.. What the heck could I or we do with it.. It’s more of a hands on sort of thing and ‘merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream. It’s a win win, you get to feel it 🫦and how can you see it (seen them all 🙄) when your eyes are all rolled up and so too with your toes curled because your clitoris is erect and magnificent just like my penis. Yes no, it’s not a picture of junk for any of worth Its a choice irresistible, ‘Where have all the flowers gone’ Anyhow… Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    It's a combination of two things, IMO. 1. Men are more visual, but lots (somehow) don't realise women aren't as visual. With the add on that women's visual stimulation is more likely to come from the complete picture as well, not just a dick pic. A large portion of the dic pic senders have profiles filled with Ask Me or not filled in at all. They offer up, for all intents and purposes a flesh dildo, with all the hassles and none of the benefits of a whole person. 2. A lot the senders have some minimal self-awareness of their 'product to sell on RHP' when they look in the mirror and realise having let themselves go after 30 (if not 20), that hairy middle aged spread, even if it's some ladies thing, is only going to have them one amongst 100's offering the same 'prize'. So they desperately turn to the one thing they think will stand out - their pride and joy. So they conduct a pic spam campaign against any moving female target, figuring if only 1 in 100 works, by pestering enough women, they are still going to do ok. Due to point 1, they aren't going to fall back on trying to use their personality to make an impression. I get to some point why they do it (not that I ever have or would), as despite almost all of us wanting some personality attached to whoever we do or want to hook up with, its hard to get a foot in the door without making at least some initial impression with your photos. Even if they only do get you that foot in the door, that the rest of your profile and then messages need to work upon. If you don't get that foot in the door firstly, all those things become moot. Whilst certainly not dic pic unsolicited level of shitiness, I'll put up that my 'most annoying pics' are not shots that are either too explicit or not explicit enough, but profiles that carefully have photos taken, so you don't actually know what someone looks like (from the shoulders down). I sometimes think getting verified should require including a front, side and behind mug shot (clothed), from the shoulders down, for everyone :)

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    3 years ago

    Oh…..can I just say some of the sexiest people I know, male and female are packing curves and weight. I’m one of them chunky kids.

  • Haras81

    Haras81

    3 years ago

    I've been with my partner 25 years and she's coped a dick pic or two over the years from random blokes. But me personally I've never sent a unsolicited dick pic to anyone but my partner if we are in the moment stuffing around with each other. I do have one in our couples profile private album, plus photos of us, my wife's butt, one of her breast etc. But I do see why men may do this, unsolicited dic pics. Ladys you have so many assets on your body, breast, hips, vagina, curvey legs, in general the female body from head to toe is a beautiful thing depending on your preference, that men adore and you pop a pic or 2 in your profiles etc. But what I see is men seem to want to try to compete with this and the only good asset we have is a dick. I do think we have more to offer in our.. we'll some of us, personallys and dad bods etc. But being a bloke myself even I copped a dick. If a woman wants a picture of your dick, she will ask.

  • dubbadeez

    dubbadeez

    2 years ago

    I think soft cock (flaccid), outlining the hygiene and maintenance of the meat n veg area is ok. But yes, hard and in their fists and next to a lipstick or a deodorant can is not necessary.