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Code words

July 29 2013

To lighten things up I just wondering what code words you use for various situations when around vanilla friends or family when talking about what get up to. Would people be shocked if they really knew what your code actually meant. As for me well I am only a forum'er atm but I met Ms Araps in "Isle 3 of Coles" .... code for a vanilla online dating site. Cheers,W

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've just learnt something new today. ;) Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sometimes we just have to go somewhere, to escape for a little bit, then come back. ;) FOXY

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    As I don't share about what I do on RHP with my friends. Only one close friend of mine knows that I'm on RHP actually, and the rest of my friends and family don't even know that I'm on here lol When I do decide to find a boyfriend, I usually go to a vanilla dating site and tell people honestly that I'm meeting men from online, and this is nothing new to my family and friends :-) but none of them need to know what I'm up to in my private life lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    I only share what I do on rhp with other rhp ppl... I have alot of different friends with alot of different opinions and a very different way of life. I like the combination of having my rhp friends, vanilla friends and straight A friends - it makes life interesting and gives a very broad view on many things.If some of my vanilla friends and the "A" knew what I got up too, well things would rattle abit and not everyone is as open as rhp ppl....Spice of all flavours for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    just a beautiful orchid,not a daffodil afteral it seems....however orchids can be a little exotic.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    The first thing friends see when they visit, is the computer. RHP they say, is that you guys? Yep. Oh, blah blah blah and so on about whatever is happening. If it bothered them, they would say so. Though they have probably gone home to their computer and had a little peek.Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I much prefer the shock on peoples faces that comes with being honest..... too honest. :) DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They have code for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Armani Code, though I prefer my Gucci.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    does anyone actually have a code??? Id have to have someone nearby to share my code with-which i dont...soooo no code here 007!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just tell em the truth. All of my friends know that I'm a quirky, eccentric and slightly naive so nothing surprises them really. When I told them I was going to a swingers club back on Australia Day weekend, I actually had a couple of them ask me to give them a review as their girlfriends had expressed an interest in going to one. So I don't have a code, I don't hide what I do except from my 3 girls, and their mother, as its just me. I'd feel as though I'd be lying to myself if I did. But I feel also very lucky to have my family and friends, as I know not everyone can accept this lifestyle as openly and without judgement. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We keep our swinging life separate to our "normal" life. It's nothing anyone else needs to know about us . We are long time married and it would just freak them out to much. I (mrs) have skirted around the subject with my oldest dearest friend but she just looked at me like I had two heads and replied I know you are joking because that's just wrong. Confirmed in my mind that we would not be sharing that info with anyone else outside of the swinging world. K :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    would that be, the Da Vinci code,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' would that be, the Da Vinci code,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    *going off RHP*My daughter and I use the code word "rabbit",when we need to have time-out normally during an argument for it to stop before it gets out of hand.It just means "I" need that space right now and I will come back when I have calmed down.Who ever says it, the other has to agree that they need that time-out and respect what they want.FOXY