M36
Confidence Issues need help
January 02 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Even if she's right.... What can you do about it?? Nothing...... Love what you have, love who you are, you're more than a penis, and I think you know that..... If she was honestly so focused on penis size, then she's not for you......you're deeper than that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Seriously who does that shit! I'm blunt and honest and often told I'm harsh but even I wouldn't do that. Besides your size doesn't sound like anything to laugh at anyway and really as long as you're a passionate lover that adores the act amd foreplay and engagaing the whole body including the mind and treating the woman you are with the way she wants to be treated the size of your cock does not matter. British tattooed tradie....dear lord 😍 The only thing hotter would be to read 40+ Scottish tattooed army guy Go get 'em tiger
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Was meant to hurt. Don't let her think "job done....." Nothing wrong with that size
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VillainNVixen
9 years ago
Mate if i had your physique and cock i would not have any confidence issues. If you are confident in yourself and aim to please your lover mentally and physically youll never have any worries. Kick her to the kerb as she doesnt have any respect and doesnt deserve yours.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its slways the ones closest to us that can hurt us the most with a harsh, often intensional, comment. And it sounds like she did a good job as it has become sn issue with you. Your size sounds above average size. So unless your ex was the grand canyon( yes thats not nice to say either) your pee pee is fine. My first husband constantly told me I had fat legs and ankles( or tree stumps as he would call them) and would point out girls in the street and tell me they had great legs. He did this to hurt me and make me feel insecure about my self, because he was controlling. I was young and it did scar my mind. I only wore long dresses or long pants. For many yrs even after we split. And anyone that knows me now, knows I rarely wear shorts or anything that shows off my ankles in public ( private is a different issue, I dont think about it) Yes its still a scar and is still in my mind( plus I do have cankles and large calves haha so its kinda true, but Im also vain) So I know that you will need a lot of time to let it go. But it was one person that said it to you. Not 5 or 10 or 20. So as they say in that song from the movie Frozen..."Let it go.. "
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Bitch. Sorry, but really what a terrible thing to say. If she was trying to destroy your self esteem it appears she is having some success. If I unwrapped you to reveal that rather delicious bod, and then the appendage which is playing on your mind, I would be more than happy with what was revealed. Nothing wrong with the size, nor girth. Now take Miss B's advice and yes, go get 'em tiger 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
So, I'm taking this topic at face value. Stirry said "here's the thing" I'd like to say here's the REAL thing. She's your ex... look to the heavens clasp your hands together and give praise that the bitch has left your building, Elvis. Clearly she had her own significant issues to have behaved in the manner she did. (Not sure how long you were with her before she became the ex, and if you only had sex that one time??.... but as I said, I'm taking this at face value in spite of the holes) Now.... go forth young man, stop measuring and focussing on your cock, practice not being a dick... and invite only worthy people into YOUR life Amen brother - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
As others have said.she achieved her goal,a truly awful thing to do to you.Your cock is of more than average size. She is your ex girlfriend for a reason,why give her nastiness any credence.I am sure you will find other women who will think quite differently. Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
size for me.... Perfect size for someone who loves anal too ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sounds like she was trying to hurt you. Pretty low to do that though, what a piece of work she is 👎ex did you say? Good thing 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
That some people have to demean others to feel better about themselves... As everyone else has said that is an awful way to treat someone at anytime especially in those most vulnerable moments. It's hard to put yourself out there only to be ridiculed. Love yourself for who you are and what you can offer. xx P.S your size sounds pretty spot on ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
To decrease a man's confidence than make a nasty comment on the size of his cock. I'd bet that when the going was good between you, she'd have no complaints about your size or girth :( A good lover is more than the sum of his cock ... To build your confidence, I'd suggest looking for some friends with benefits who you can build a rapport with who could also give you some feedback on your performance, to gauge what others experiences are when they are with you. Good luck, Mary xx Ps: fuck me, some women are bitches :(
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RHP User
9 years ago
WTF???? YOU being ALMOST nice??
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RHP User
9 years ago
...it's the artist and not the paint brush. Michelanglo painted the ceiling in the Sistine Chapel one glorious stroke at a time...and often laying on his back whilst doing it. LOL... may she needs to date a housepainter!
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RHP User
9 years ago
No..... I'm just protecting my conscience...... :p Cunt ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
ever since people developed language and differentiated sex organs - the standard parting shot of the angry female ex is "your dick is too small" and/or "you never made me cum" - you were just slow and didn't let her know she has a "cunt like a bucket" or that the reason you close your eyes when you blow your load is because you're picturing her much tighter sister/friend/etc. Quoting 'ChasinMidnight'Michelanglo painted the ceiling in the Sistine Chapel one glorious stroke at a time...and often laying on his back whilst doing itHe actually painted it standing up
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RHP User
9 years ago
Compare to other dicks I've had the pleasure of meeting. You're no different to most..You get the occasional one past 7" and the occasional one less than 5". *Facts derived from my own experiences. So go forth and root. :-D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ChasinMidnight'He actually painted it standing up Agreed that Mr. M was in an upright position however if you examine the very intricate (and advanced ahead of the era) system of scaffolds that were required? At an angle of 30 - 45 degrees, easily said that he may have been supported and had gone horizontal. Hell I fall asleep in my big leather recliner at a 45 degree angle! Care factor zero... it was a remarkable experience during my travels. S...
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are all different hunni and her laughing at you says more about her than it does about you ... I was with a guy with a 4inch penis for 6 years and then my next ex had a 10inch penis both were awesome hardcore lovers............. .. so don't worry hun if you work it as well as you wear it then you my are awesome xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
ha I wish I had that size problem I'm much smaller but they never complain till you break up and they wanna try and hurt you so just what you have and please the next one
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RHP User
9 years ago
I understand how that would impact your self esteem. It sounds like it's a good thing she's an ex. Move forward confident in the knowledge (as mentioned above) a good lover is more than a cock. It's how you engage with your partner(s). Kissing, touching, wanting them to enjoy themselves and doing what you can to achieve that. Cock size doesn't determine how well you do in all categories. Lol, I don't have a cock at all and I am still a good lover 😉 FIGJAM xxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
...you look great and I hope you enjoy your time on RHP. On another note, Willow_1, that ex of yours that said you had legs like tree stumps......wonder if he was an ex boyfriend I had as a teenager ?? I was in a relationship with a guy who once said the same thing to me.I didn't deserve that.I told him to pull the car over, I got out and told him I was walking home and that I did not wish to see him again.He tried to make it up to me but apologies don't wash after personal insults like that.I would never throw insults like that around to anyone.
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RHP User
9 years ago
1) average penis size for a white male is 5-6 inches, some are longer, some are shorter. 2) average girth is 5 inches, some are thicker, some are thinner 3) guys always add an inch (or at least round up) when they self report4) as a result women are generally terrible at guessing because they are comparing size to lies made by past males.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
And she was NOT right to laugh at your size the way she did!......that is my answer to your question OP :) OP, nobody was/is born confident! Confidence takes courage and experiences to build up, and your awful experience (with the way your ex laughed at you) is exactly what you need to use to build on your confidence! Turn that horribly negative experience of yours into a positive foundation for a stronger confidence building instead! You're in your late 20s, about time to stop letting terrible people ruining things for you and be your own boss! What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger, just remember that! 💪🏽 While I acknowledge that it is inhuman (perhaps a bit too strong a word to use) to laugh at a man's size, and that laugh can bring damages onto a man's confidence too. I simply don't encourage you to dwell on it like the way you do now Dethrone! So what if we get knocked down in life? It's only one small hurdle you encounter in life! Pick yourself up, dust it off and hold your head high! If you continue to be how you be now, guess who's gonna laugh even more? Why do you want to encourage that? :) Let me tell you a little story Dethrone. I came from a non-English speaking country. I came here with zero English skills. It took me a lot of efforts to get to where I am now with speaking and writing in English. Yet, I still get laughed at, occasionally, for unable to understand/use the English language thoroughly like the way the native English speakers do! Do I go compare my English skills with some other non-native English speakers then, just to help pick up my confidence in using English language? Heaven NO! I don't care and who cares what the ignorant morons think or say about my English skills! At least I am trying my best to speak the national language of this country and that is enough duty done on my part! The same goes with you OP, as long as you know how to use your manhood properly and treat others, especially the women that you're with, the way they are deserved to be treated, then who cares what an ex did? She's an ex, which means history, and the level of intelligence is with her, not you! 😊 Apologies if my response goes a little off track with the mentioning of one of my challenges, and the way I sound very blunt, but I am not here to point a finger at you Dethrone and I hope you can see that :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Re English skills. It must have been incredibly hard for you, need to acknowledge that first. The English language would be a nightmare to learn with so many multiple meanings for words and terms, throw our love of slang into it and it takes on a whole other level of difficulty, so I have a huge amount of respect for anyone learning our language 😃 Something I have noticed from my many connections with guys from other cultures, some quite new to the country, is that they are quite often apologizing for not understanding, at times have misunderstood what I meant in text, sometimes with funny results 😀 but I always tell them not to ever feel the need to apologize, to ask me whenever they don't understand, as many times as they want, and that I find it a turn on. Don't know if cute is the right word lol but it is quite endearing and I've found I've gotten used to it over time. I now seek out mixed or other race, Europeans in particular. I find accents appealing, well not all but most, so Australians are quite often receptive to other cultures. I'm sure you've experienced some of the other as well though which is sad. Your English, understanding of it and written text, is coming along very well. Well done 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry op, way off topic. Back on topic, your size is in reality, larger than most, not that it matters anyway, but in my experience, very few guys are over 6 or 6 1/2 inch. One of the best lovers I had, kind of still lurking somewhere lol, over about a 2 year period, would be about 5" and he's incredible. I love being with him and love his cock. The old line that gets used on here about the person attached to the cock, if he's a dick, you know, and that's the way it is, most women don't want to meet them if they're a dick or if growing their cock is their major achievement in life lol 😂😂😂 apology in advance for typos, on the mobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing wrong with your dick dude..... She was obviously a bitch and better that she's your ex. Now go and enjoy someone who's gonna enjoy your dick and what you can do with it
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RHP User
9 years ago
For all we really know.....she may just be as cavernous as the Grand Canyon.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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