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  AnnieWhichway

  11 years ago

  Polite, but they just weren't into you..........

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Their budgie died,the dog swallowed their phone,or the parrot fell of its perch pining for the fjords ,they were really a man or like Annie said they lost interest..xxFreya

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  they weren't feeling as though you were escalating enough?? Or... You escalated it too soon?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I am guilty of doing that, apologies but I find it easier than going into depth as to why, a couple of times I have actually known the person IRL and didn't want them to know it was me, very gutless I know. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  11 years ago

  They fell of the chair trying to look at your picture. Rotation button is there for a reason......

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  non-responder or guilty of hitting the back arrow, just is a better option than hurting someone's feelings, especially when they ask what you're not attracted to? How do you answer that? and this happens quite often after a conversation has started, usually because they hide what they really look like, waste of a heap of my time, particularly over 40's, they're the best at hiding themselves, but at least your pictures look real, you're not hiding yourself which is very refreshing. These are some of the reasons, and there are many, that I stop communicating: not enough pictures up, quite often won't reply the first time because of this, always a reason for it, always!; Next would be reluctance to add more pictures or wanting me to email etc. wanting my phone number, again, do it on here, no excuse, so usually a sign of trouble ahead; then there are things that turn me off that I won't go into because it's just my preferences and my instinct is bang on, never let me down, so I use certain things to filter, sometimes these things emerge during a conversation; sometimes you can be kind of be a bit interested but you need to see more pictures or chat more, or both, and the attraction gets lost somewhere, but better for it to happen at that stage than to meet a woman and have her not interested there, in the flesh, that would be way worse, and i've sent guys packing, doesn't happen much but the reason for that is because we have our ways of filtering, all according to taste or the quality of the person, safety sometimes. Horses for courses basically

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  nattyocean

  11 years ago

  Sometimes I'm just too busy and well, my priority right now is not messages but rather my life hmmm maybe I should hide myself 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Totally on the same wavelength. Couldnt have said it better. :) KK - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I got carried away and wrote a book, most would have gone to sleep after the first 3 lines

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Tomoits concentration span mate The span is directly related to how much they into uif they into u they chat ur ears offsome might just be on heroinif u like a chat, early in any new convo try and slip in that ur worth millionsthat will help

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  They have had their filthy way with themselves over your words and pics and you have become one of their been there done that's..... Or maybe they have a life outside of RHP.... Maybe.....

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  AnnieWhichway

  11 years ago

  How do they respond to your text speak? I know it annoys some. Probably help your chances to speak traditionally.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  yaya reactionall goodim sure tommo will suss it out

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  anywhich waythey dontannoying othersim sure theyll survivea short termer on their treasured redhot pie takin a little bit of piss...scandalous! some nice girls on here thoim fine thanks i dont need help to speak traditional

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  AnnieWhichway

  11 years ago

  Goodluck with it then. See you back here in a month or 2 when you are posting up a similar thread from no one answering your messages..... . Oh wait. I see you are a guest. No problem at all then is there.......

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Your messages read like poems.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I hate being ghosted Can understand some getting upset getting a rejection but we are adults guys not sooks. I would rather a reply saying you are not what im looking for good luck with your search, so as said i continue on in my search. hurts my feelings more that i dont get a reply. I take time to write half decent messages least a lady could do is reply back instead im left in limbo Ash

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