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  SlutTherapist

  one year ago

  The judgement society puts on a sexually active woman is ridiculous to me. Tbh, I find a woman that knows what she needs and goes out and gets it to be the most attractive of all. While I say that to clarify I’m especially into women that are classy, elegant and confident. A few years ago I had a FWB in her mid 30’s that was then and had been quite “active “ all her adult life. She was stunning and had all the above mentioned attributes. The first time we “hooked” up was when she’d been told by a friend about having slept with me. Afterwards she told me that she’d been told that I had the perfect dick and she had to find out if she agreed. Haha. She agreed and came back many times. It was the greatest compliment and confidence booster imaginable tgat a woman that had plenty of comparables chose me. Life changing moment where I lost any feelings if intimidation from comparison

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  SlutTherapist

  one year ago

  Also have had multiple experiences with younger women that have been wild because I was never considered “bf/husband” material. They would always be able to be their craziest, dirtiest little slut within her without concerns about being judged and “unmarryable”

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  boobsandbusted

  one year ago

  Wrong audience ,you might get a better response to agree with your perceptions of what people think on reddit not here , Mr b

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  We do not agree with your assumptions on both questions. Simple as that

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one year ago

  Is that so..... Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Societal BS that sadly people have taken on board. Depending on the group of people or friends you hang with. For me and my mates it was you either sleep with lots or you don't. As far as that 2 women together fantasy goes. Man that is the biggest load of shit I have heard. Never have had an interest in two women and many guys I've known are the same. Now being bi, cannot comment on as I am not. But that is a very old way of seeing it as so much is accepted now. Shit I even chat to my old girl about shit like that and she is in her eighties. So most of what you speak of is the way you are or have been brought up to think. Just my thoughts

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  I couldn't disagree more ..... With both positions ... And don't find it to be accurate in 2025.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one year ago

  Yes you have it wrong. These men are not "Heros". It's an insult to out Defence Service people. 2ndly Those who slut shame do it because they've been rejected and the women choose not to have sex with them. 3rdly 2x BI men together is Hot. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Not in my eyes, unfortunately alot of society don't see things like I do, as long as your not cheating on your partner in my eyes numbers are just that man or lady, who gives a fuck as long as you don't hurt anyone getting your numbers up, go get it girls

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  BellaMelb

  one year ago

  Short answer? Because patriarchy.

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  Eddie691

  one year ago

  It's true that in the mainstream this is the accepted "common knowledge", women with high body counts are s*** shamed and men with high body counts are prized. It's not a double standard, IF you play that game by its own rules. The rules of that game are, men have to get better and more attractive to get 'classy high value' women and women have to become picky and choose only the 'high value men'. So in that game, the two 'losers' of the game are the men who can't get the women, and the women who'd pick just any man. Whereas the 'winners' are the men who can get the attractive women, and the women who only pick the most attractive men. The idea that the woman is hard to get makes her a 'prize' for that supposed 'high value man', is because in his mind if he's doing so well and has so much to offer and a woman just picks any other guy who is not as successful, then he's settling for a woman with low standards. Now, that's the game that is out there in the 'normal world' if you wanna play it. But I think it's a crock of s**t and there's no real winners to that game. Because its all based in ego and power. But the real losers of that game is the average man, the reason is because most WOMEN themselves either play that game or give a nod to it. It's women who judge other women more harshly than men. Women do it because many women DO stand to gain long term commitment and economic benefits this way. Married women who are loyal and committed to their partners know that if their husband could get free and fun sex from the babysitter or any other random woman who likes to have sex with her husband purely because she likes it, that woman becomes a real threat to her rship/marriage, because that's a hard deal to beat. They fear he'd leave or at least divide his attention and that sense of losing control is too uncomfortable, so they participate in the s**t shaming culture to protect their own position. But again the real loser of this game is the average man, not the women. Because the women are going to have all the sex they want anyway regardless of what other men or women say. They might complain about it, that it's unfair that they're being judged for it but they'll do it. The same is not true for the men.

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