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Connection and NSA - do we both misintepret the real meaning?
December 19 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find the whole Nsa comment amusing too its like saying i am going to just shag you and disappear whether you enjoy it or not this is a sex site not really a dating site I think most people assume NSA but a connection I agree is necessary
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RHP User
16 years ago
Funny you should say that, 90% of the female profiles say they aren't after anything serious. Then they follow that with a list of what the guy has to be in order to maybe get a look in.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A long time ago i had a solo profile on here, and Kerrie had a solo profile, and we had our couples profile.Now if i was to hook up with lady on my own i was always looking for a connection, i wasn't interested in wham bam thank you mam. I was always as much if not more interested in doing social stuff as the sexual side, probably because i wasn't desperate for sex i guess. I just enjoyed that closeness with women, if anything came of it cool, if not no biggy.These days i don't have a solo profile, There comes a time when you have to stop banging your head against the wall, cut your losses and realize you just aren't what women want....lolIf i was hooking up with a guy then NSA was ok ...but there i have...met a guy..who i see regularly and he is pretty much the only guy i see these days and we have a pretty good friendship/relationship.If we are hooking up with couples, then one night stands are quite acceptable as well, and as much as i am in favour of having a regular couple it mostly never works out that way for us.So i guess its all about the dynamic, sometimes its ok to have NSA sometimes not.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
"No strings attached" to me is fairly much an open and closed statement. But "Not looking for anything serious" leaves an encounter open. I also prefer the word "meet" to "hook up". Ahhh....it's just me and they are just words...and this is a sex site....but I do prefer profiles that express themselves openly because person behind it may just be able to do the same. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Something regular!!! I would bend over backwards for a regular fuck buddie!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well move over to Perth then Tool, we'll have ya for regular fuck buddy, the both of us.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are ALWAYS strings ! Most women are incapable of NSA fun as we instinctively become attached to a man when we see him regularly. I do think women can have random sex but generally it quickly becomes meaningless and we look for more. I would like to start a new phrase "RCF"- respectful connected fucking. I find respect is lacking in a lot of encounters, you can treat the person you are with respectfully even if they aren't your girlfriend, wife, or partner. Most women seek a connection with a man but may not expect him to become attached to her. Personally, the stronger the connection, the better the sex. A man I have a connection with AND who respects me would be my ultimate rhp mate. I don't think I've found him yet ! (I've had the respect or the connection just not together.) Hugs, Ms Saturn
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