M46
Constructive criticism
December 09 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
...you did wrong was being born with the Y chromosone...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mate open up your own profile in "view" mode....ask yourself - would I let my daughter go out with this person.....if the answer is no then why would someone else's daughter, now an adult want to do same?... Show off your good behaviours. There are literally 1000's of males on here.....something for you to ponder... And your profile name - clearly sounds like pig sty - WHY ? - rename thru manage profile settings...and conduct a full review of the rest...
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
A better profile picture would be great. Perhaps one which doesn't include the female dressing gown in the background - or change your status to attached. Women pick up on these small things in pictures. ;) It is also okay to have all your clothes on in the public pic; one of you smiling and looking relaxed will have greater impact. There will be other suggestions coming your way, or try the newbie section for other forums on this exact topic. There are many hints there which will help you improve your profile.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe its because of you wanting 20 guys to cum on a woman. Apparently that's very wrong .......
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RHP User
11 years ago
'Can you milk this cock?' Seriously dude - that won't cut the mustard with a lot of people here. Although a lot of people could probably 'milk your cock' the descriptor you used would mean a lot wouldn't go near it, particularly while that phrase is on your profile. This site is a lot of things to a lot of people, and not all view it as a straight up 'fuck me immediately before you even speak to me' place. Some do and that's cool, but not all. I was going to add something further, but Araps beat me to it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
bahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A ,,, sounds fuckin desperate B,, feels fuckin desperate C,,,, relax bro sometimes we need to fuck the world but life's better than that , ,,, your girl will arrive ,,, just treat her well :)
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MissBishere
11 years ago
but you have no luck??? Are they not people you have met? I would suggest changing your tag line as it just made me roll my eyes... Most importantly just be yourself. Post the forums you want to and ignore the judgmental people, We all have fantasies you just have to find the right person to play them out with. You may have luck here and you may not. There are other sites and not everyone is suited to this site.
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RHP User
11 years ago
is really not appealing to me either. I don't mind your main pic, could be closer but you get an idea of what you look like and your body size so I think that is good and way better than a grey ghost. Your profile just reads a little bland to me. Almost every other guy is just out of a long term relationship and wanting to try new things, even if they have been here for years.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To a common guest your a grey ghost ,,, sorry I don't walk in your circles :)
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
You're a good looking man so why spoil that with a terrible profile pic.. Yes I agree with others - a nice pic of your smiling would be more appealing. :) Hi! I'm a 33 year-old guy. Yet your profile says 34... Very experienced and know how to pleasure! Describe here exactly how you pleasure someone...is it take the bins out?? Lift the toilet seat up?? Listen? talk to a woman?? What exactly or how do you please?? Sell yourself here....And please don't say you can go for hours and hours and won't stop till you are told too. I am recently single and just out of a long term relationships! Is that relationship or relationships??? Do you think women need to really know this?? What it says to me is you are emotionally unavailable. That is a no go zone for a LOT of women. I really hope to find some like minded ppl on here willing to meet up and have some fun! ;) Spell check "people" - you are not 18 dude. Anyways at the end of the day it's your profile and you can say what ever you want on it. The choice is yours now...choose wisely and your fantasies may come true. :) please let us know how you go IF you choose to make any suggested changes and if it works for you. Good Luck with it all and all the very best. Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women on here are lucky, we are outnumbered vastly by the guys. So a good profile makes all the difference. You have to be very careful when you make out your profile and photos. But you look good, Im sure you will be doing just fine.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Questions ? Answers :) Cheek in tounge 1 / a 2/ I like movies and sunsets 3/ your apparent intelligence and looks 4/how many questions where there ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
But only if the movie or sunset lasts longer than 4 hrs
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RHP User
11 years ago
No h in were
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RHP User
11 years ago
Redefine success - "kiwibred" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry mate..... I simply dont know where to start. And that suggests to me that offering assistance is going to help you to misrepresent who you are... when your rpofile does exactly that now. So...... I'll pass. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
By the commentary above your profile sounds like a complete disaster. Clean it up mate, be a gentleman and have another go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ihaveaprivatejet' A ,,, sounds fuckin desperate B,, feels fuckin desperate C,,,, relax bro sometimes we need to fuck the world but life's better than that , ,,, your girl will arrive ,,, just treat her well :) Good to see you up and about and you've taken all the suggestions that you needed to, from your recent thread..........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Profiles. There is no such thing as a perfect profile. Every person on sites like this are after something different and you can not cover all possible needs. Nor should you try to cover all bases, making the profile too broad will only serve to reduce the attractiveness of the profile, resulting in you being skipped over more often than not. There may be thousands of guys on here but there are also thousands of women, not at the same level as guys but enough to provide many potencial options for almost all personalty types. You want to attract the people that you are after. You are not trying to provide a PC perfect profile, you are not trying to win an election. You are after one person at a time. if you want to party then use the appropriate sections of this web site to arrange that. Some tips.The profiles only job is to attract and establish communication. Photos.The picture reflects your mood, it is the most important part of the profile as it attract the click that lands people on your profile page. You want people in the same mood as you are in, so use photos that show that mood. Photos are the teasers. Keep the majority of your photos in your private gallery. If you are attractive, tease, if you are average, show personality. Regularly rotate your photos. People are visual and having the same profile image for long periods of time will result in your profile being skipped over. They remember the image, not your profile. Keep them coming back, one day you may just be perfect for their mood, wants, or needs. Have a variety of images. You will need a close up face pic (you must have at least one), and full body clothed shot, and partly or fully naked photos. As you have two private galleries separate the images. Keeping the more explicit ones in the second gal. Supply them when asked or you feel that they will appreciate them. Take time with the photos. No dirty backgrounds, no out of focus, dark, grainy, low quality snaps. Be well presented, clean and shaven (basically how you present your self meeting someone). Show your personality. Secretly shot bathroom pics are lame. Be creative. Many say never put up intimate or sexual explicit images (eg Cock Shot). Yes there are some that really don't like them, but there are also just as many that do. Remember the photo reflects your mood, If you are super horny you don't want to attract people that don't like the explicit shot. If your mood is more just in need of company, then a friendly smile having fun in a social situation is the go. The Profile.So you have got someone to your profile. At this stage they will have a look again at you photo and other photos you have. (remember less is best) If they like what they see they will then read the rest of your profile. There is no right and wrongs. Everyone has their own rules as to what they like and don't. Dont worry about pleasing everyone, all that will do is make you part of the bland crowd. Be honest to your self, write your profile to your self, select all the options that you want, or would like to try. There are many the will look at your "Sexual Interest" and "Fetish Interest" and will not read further if you have not listed what they want. It is best to list everything you have done, and would like to do. Less people skip profiles if you list something they dont like than people who skip because you have not listed something they want. The list is not a list of your sexual requirements and must do's, it really only shows how broad you sexual personality is. If you are after good sex it is best to show a broad sexual mind. If you are a more vanilla type than keep the list short. To me that part of your profile (OP) reads very vanilla, and but is not reflected in the rest of your profile. One big turn off for women is the "anyone will do" profile. It is a big killer and should be avoided. Boasting about your sexual prowess does not attract. Every man and his dog claims they are the best kisses, licker, etc All you do is create the "rolly eyes response" and a lost opportunity to prove your self. Your "About me." is about you. You can start sentences with I, I'm, etc... This is your opertunity to tell them all that make you special. It defines your personality, not just your sexuality. Some people say long profiles are good others say short. I believe medium length is better, but you must start with a summary. First paragraph lists the important bits for those that are lazy and inclined to skip the rest. The next 3-5 (no more) paragraphs go into details. If the text is stretches to more than a minutes read, most people will not even start. Your "I am looking for." is about the person who is reading the profile. You (OP) have all your sentences starting with "I", that does not do you any favours at all. Move them up to the "About me" section. Communicate directly to the person that is reading, you may think you are alone on the computer, but you are in a very crowded busy party. People are attracted to communication that is directed at them about them. Remember don't make it look like "anyone will do" you want to make people feel special. Final word.No matter the quality of the profile you will not have success if you do nothing. Being off line is a killer, you turn up lower in some searches, and many people search only for people online. So keep your profile logged in. That does not mean you need to sit by it 24/7 but keeping a browser window or tab with RHP logged in improves profile views dramatically. Be proactive. The world does not come knocking on your door just because its there. Making the first move is very important. Don't go nuts, message one person at a time. If you get no where then move on. You only get one opportunity to make a good impression. If you are rejected you seldom get a second chance. So consider you messages carefully, take your time, and always show respect (NEVER be rude) even if they are. If a message has be read and you don't get a response, take that as a no. It does not mean you are rejected, but if you pester you blow your chances. Try again in a couple of weeks. This is about patience, it will take time to learn how it works. Stick at it, make adjustment as you get feed back. Look at other peoples profile (men) and learn from what you think are good profiles. And have fun. Grumpy resentful chip on the shoulder attitude can not be hidden, everyone can read between the lines, something that is very hard to do when you write those same lines.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
You have been busy! Your profile reads quite well now; it is more interesting and shows a lot more respect towards those you are trying to attract. You have written: I am open to most things on here but have not filled out the fetish list. Be very careful saying you are open to most things.....otherwise you just never know what you may find yourself involved in If you really are happy to live by what you have written, fill in the fetish list!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Sorry mate..... I simply dont know where to start. And that suggests to me that offering assistance is going to help you to misrepresent who you are... when your rpofile does exactly that now. For instance, changing safe sex from 'if required' to 'always for intercourse' without a change in attitude or behaviour would be a rather unethical thing to do. Sometimes I wonder if people should point this out. Don't be a fool - wrap your tool.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks kissk :) I have filled in the fetish bit now. And thanks to all the other ppl who have posted acctual helpfull coments... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Redefine success - "kiwibred" Provided (in this instance), that it is in keeping with your reasons for being here and is indicative of what you want as opposed to what you think others are looking for.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Sorry mate..... I simply dont know where to start. And that suggests to me that offering assistance is going to help you to misrepresent who you are... when your rpofile does exactly that now. For instance, changing safe sex from 'if required' to 'always for intercourse' without a change in attitude or behaviour would be a rather unethical thing to do. Sometimes I wonder if people should point this out. Don't be a fool - wrap your tool. It still amazes me how some men have marked "Always for intercourse" but they still try to get away with not using one. Some of the reasons or excuses I've heard for not wearing them are quite pathetic : I don't like them - Well then you won't be liking any of meI can't cum with them - Then you won't be cumming at allI can't stay hard with them - Then I don't do it for you Guys seriously, we've heard them all before and they just don't fly!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Quoting 'neptune_drift' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Sorry mate..... I simply dont know where to start. And that suggests to me that offering assistance is going to help you to misrepresent who you are... when your rpofile does exactly that now. For instance, changing safe sex from 'if required' to 'always for intercourse' without a change in attitude or behaviour would be a rather unethical thing to do. Sometimes I wonder if people should point this out. Don't be a fool - wrap your tool. It still amazes me how some men have marked "Always for intercourse" but they still try to get away with not using one. Some of the reasons or excuses I've heard for not wearing them are quite pathetic : I don't like them - Well then you won't be liking any of meI can't cum with them - Then you won't be cumming at allI can't stay hard with them - Then I don't do it for you Guys seriously, we've heard them all before and they just don't fly! .... and let me tell you, there is nothing sexier than a guy who just reaches for a condom and either puts it on or asks you to without having to have a discussion about it first. It shows he's thoughtful, it shows he's safe by default and it shows respect for the person he's about to penetrate. It also pretty much guarantees a second invitation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree mostly....but recently I'd admit to seeing things here rather dimly.... Until I redefined what success really was to me. And it isn't about the sex ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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