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Convince wife 4 MMF
June 15 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
you shouldnt be trying to 'convince' her to do anything...suggest it, and if shes interested, go from there. if she says no, you'd be better off to leave it alone.
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RHP User
14 years ago
with Mike.If she is not interested ,then you should't try and coerce her If you have never discussed it before,then that is a different matter. Tell her what you would enjoy about it and gauge her reaction.If it doesn't interest her then leave it.Sometimes it takes us time to consider a new idea and she may of her own accord eventually come around to the idea of mmf. The best way to ensure that she never will,is to put pressure on her. x Hugs H
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Lifes_great
14 years ago
rain on your parade but all of the above posts are spot on. To coerce her into anything will only lead to resentment, just be open about your wants and needs....I'm sure there is a compromise in there somewhere? That's my 2 cents worth
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RHP User
14 years ago
To convince her? Id say you're going to have more trouble convincing a guy! The 2 boob photos look like they're from 2 entirely different people a DD snd a G? Your profile isn't verified and you have no photos of yourself. Don't you think she'll read this post??
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ask her. If she says no thats the end of it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
+ one on this we ignored contact from them for the same reason.. profile looked fake for a couple of reasons.Tim Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' To convince her? Id say you're going to have more trouble convincing a guy! The 2 boob photos look like they're from 2 entirely different people a DD snd a G? Your profile isn't verified and you have no photos of yourself. Don't you think she'll read this post??
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think the OP is fake.. but.. that is ok too... maybe I am also.. she has swapped..but wont 3some? i tell you what.. message me, and i will tell you what I would do with and to your lady.. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
If it's a question of 'how do broach the topic' rather than 'how do I make her do something she doesn't want to', and you'd feel awkward just outright bringing up your fantasies, maybe try watching some porn together? Put on something with a storyline and multiple scenes, where one features a MMF threesome. When you get up to that bit you can gauge her reaction and take it from there ("what do you think of that?" "that's kinda hot" etc.)
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you're comfortable enough swapping partners then talking about fantasies is probably not too much of a stretch.For the sake of the exercise you could also introduce some toys to your sessions to 'stand in for' another guy - help her get comfortable with the sensations and possibilities that such an arrangement provides!You could also try same room play with another couple so that she can experience the enjoyment of two (or three) sets of hands running over her. Best to put some thought and planning into it though to avoid awkwardness or anyone feeling left out. I guess it does all come back to talking about it first, but you can take small steps at a time.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Krissy, are you saying that Drift is Charles? LOL...... that would explain some things. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Tiny eye tells me that the pic is also found somewhere else on the internet, looks to be a model, so I dare say the entire profile is fake.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Charles Neptune Darling Desol boi. It all makes sense now. Ive been wondering about this for a while now well the writing styles are the same. I had no idea what you're talking about so I Googled "redhotpie forums charles" and found the "Horny now wanna meet!" thread. 'Fraid you're mistaken. While sure, he came across as excessively dickish, the guy never used apostrophes. If I wrote like that I think I'd break out in hives. If you'd like to know more about my little tanty the other day feel free to message me. Despite appearances, I'm generally not one to air my dirty laundry in other people's threads.
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
As mikeandshel said, you shouldn't have to convince her, swinging is about choices and exploring your own sexuality. Respect her choices. No means no.
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RHP User
14 years ago
After expressing my sexual desire to my wife some 3 yrs ago she was not interested . And fair enough i left it alone and from there some 3 yrs later to my surprise we have opened up the door and have since enjoyed the company of some very decent respectful men These play times we have had have been nothing short of exciting and very satisfying .. both for me and her . But in saying all this although you have have your needs and wants you need to understand what your parnter needs and wants to .. Finding that middle ground is where you want to be keeping the relationship and your sexual desires on track and in the same direction.. Adz n Maz
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wow good observation.. In the first photo she does not have a spot just a couple centimeters to her right and the second one she does,,
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mrnmrs4fun'After expressing my sexual desire to my wife some 3 yrs ago she was not interested . And fair enough i left it alone and from there some 3 yrs later to my surprise we have opened up the door and have since enjoyed the company of some very decent respectful men These play times we have had have been nothing short of exciting and very satisfying .. both for me and her . But in saying all this although you have have your needs and wants you need to understand what your parnter needs and wants to .. Finding that middle ground is where you want to be keeping the relationship and your sexual desires on track and in the same direction.. Adz n Maz
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noholdsbarred
14 years ago
Get a good looking guy, i.e me (get in contact and ill send pics) to hit on her in front of you at a nightclub to open up the dialoge. No need to step further but if she feels good about a hot guy wanting her at any cost, she may open up to the idea...
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noholdsbarred
14 years ago
Sorry!!!! what i wrote sounded arrogant, so use any guy, who make her feel like a princess. Get some talk happening, she may go for it or you can both laugh off 'that drunk guy'!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
310 friends on their friends lists? does anyone think one of them might've seen this thread and added a word or two? maybe vouched for them?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you Pleasure V Pain! I'm a details kinda girl... I doubt we'll hear from him again...
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RHP User
14 years ago
My wife wants to do a MFF, its just finding someone who wants too. We even wnet to a swingers bar, but just all couples not wanting to talk but do it while people watched, Not into theat but good on them if its waht they want. We are lookign to actually meet and get to know someone first. Are we niave ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dear All,I read your comments ,some gave me courage-some shows me right path.Thank you for that.First of all we are not fake and we are loving couple who wants to add spice up in our life,so our love never fade down.Till now we had one couple swap sex in same room and one time she sex with other man.Its my fantasy that my wife enjoy DP,i discuss that with her but she always refused.So thats why i asked how to ready my partner for MMF. Secondly we do live chat on MSN or Yahoo cause of security reason and we are not fake. Regards R&G
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RHP User
14 years ago
and the two different girls are real two but most likely not even one of them is your partner. Although you could have made a mistake on your profile and you are actually a FF couple and your actually one of the two different girls . Or a guy with breasts perhaps your the one with the E size breast its so confusing.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
to you tvll3 for assuming that the people here are stupid.An American Indian wife that you pulled off a Bollywood website... Good one - TOOL!
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RHP User
14 years ago
...you know what to do. Block!
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RHP User
13 years ago
after reading about mmf and peoples experience with it .. i started to think about it and how it would be sexy to see my wife enjoy it .. so i did talk about it and told her it would be a turn on ..but she wasnt into it ..so i left it alone.. she doesnt mind so much if the othe gy does some foreplay stuff in a couple couple situation but full swap turned her off ... i cant work out why i guess its a female thing .. i would of thought she would of loved the idea .but im glad i read the opinions on this thread . it gave me a good understanding about how to aproach it .. i really dont want to offend her so ill definatlly take other womens advice since they know best.. us gys are abit dumb when it comes to being sensitive with these topics. thanks for the advice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those breasts look real.
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