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Couples and sexpo and expectations?

July 29 2014

Hi all Me and my partner are going to Sydney this year and have decided to make a dirty weekend of it. We are so excited about going! We have been before but this is the first year where we are going to sexpo when we are swingers. We were just wondering what people's expectations of sexpo are? If people are just going down to have some fun or what?

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  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Mainly to check out the new toys and clothes. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I was totally disappointed in Sexpo the one year I went. It was just like one big adult store. For some reason I was expecting interesting groups and information about different lifestyles, etc. But there are after parties I think. Have fun OP. You should head on over and check out the few swingers clubs we have here as well if you haven't been already. :)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I went to last years Sydney International Boat Show.... hoping to learn all about waterspouts. Man, was I disappointed. lol

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Something always seems to get in the way. The one time we did go was interesting enough, we enjoyed ourselves but the prices seemed a bit inflated. If enough RHPers put their hands up to go, we might make a more concerted effort in making an appearance.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I went for the first time with my lover earlier this year when Sexpo was in Adelaide, expecting them to have a Sybian on display for test riding.... but nothing.... much to my disappointment :P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I found it rather boring here in Melbourne, mind you , I have never been along to the night activities. I think there are supposed to be stage shows and peeps shows, porn stars, etc. The general floor there is a lot of the same shit stall after stall, it is a bit repetitive. Ron Jeremy was there when I went and he was the disgusting slob I imagined he was, didn't smile, wore trakkie daks and thongs and really looked like he couldn't give a shit that he was there. There was a bdsm display with a woman being whipped. Took a ride on the sex train, boring as batshit. I do work in the industry though so most of it was nothing new to me.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Oh no we sound like old jaded people!! HighCouple when I went there were lots of young people there, and most likely lots of things will be new for you so you will find it good. Ignore us old fuddy duddies. :-D

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Sexpo is really just a trade show, like the Boat Show or Better Homes and Garden Live. If you don't expect too much it can be fun, but you probably want to plan something a little more concrete to follow it up with. It's a cheesy diversion at best.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' I found it rather boring here in Melbourne, mind you , I have never been along to the night activities. I think there are supposed to be stage shows and peeps shows, porn stars, etc. The general floor there is a lot of the same shit stall after stall, it is a bit repetitive. Ron Jeremy was there when I went and he was the disgusting slob I imagined he was, didn't smile, wore trakkie daks and thongs and really looked like he couldn't give a shit that he was there. There was a bdsm display with a woman being whipped. Took a ride on the sex train, boring as batshit. I do work in the industry though so most of it was nothing new to me. Hi ralf... You put your finger on it when you said "nothing new to me". For a start, I expect there's only so much they can do (in so far as what they are legally allowed to portray and 'simulate' etc). And when it comes to sex, I imagine the people on this site have pretty much a good idea of all there is to know in terms of what's available, who does what and ALL of the how, where, whens and whys... I suppose I'm saying that "Ma and Pa Kettle a la suburban Sydney/Melbourne etc" would probably be shocked and horrified, comatose in wonderment or walking around all day with a hard on... But for us, probably not too much new to see or hear about. Just my take... I've never been, but I have seen and heard first-hand, the VERY different ways in which, what may be termed as your average 'couple' have sex, don't talk about sex, don't think about sex (except for the 5 minutes on the third Saturday night of every month... ). My experience on the more 'traditional' dating sites, for a number of years, is that your average 'separated, divorced or widowed' lady after 15 - 20 something years of marriage, is the complete and total lack of satisfaction they had in their lives and the absolute ignorance of the fact that the things they have (very much to themselves) wondered and possibly yearned for, are the same things that more enlightened couples (married, de-facto, just partners and just seeing each other) live most every day. So, for some it's probably a jaw dropper and a hopefully fruitful experience for both members of a couple. I do hope so for their sakes. Now all they have to do is TALK about it and what's really on their minds, instead of being afraid their partner will accuse them of 'deviancy' and have them stoned in Martin Place.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    ... then I got bored. Like someone said, it's like a big sex toy trade show with a few bare breasted girls. Not complaining they had nice tits and were nice eye candy. The year I went in Sydney ( only went once ) one stand had a Sybian .. That was interesting watching volunteers reactions, too funny.. Tulips4u.. ' sorry u missed out.. It looked fun for the girls game enough to give it a go..lots of laughs, lol. IF' they had more variety , such as a tent for couples and available singles to mingle ' I think that would work. If someone from Sexpo reads this , take some advice and give it some serious thought.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    on sunday with some friends from here :) Will be my second visit

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    The strip poker was funny and good that's all but

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I went to the very first one they had here in Melbourne oh so many years ago gee have I gotten that old now I would waist my money on going better just to go to an adult store like ralf's :)It's great if you are young and not well informed about sex it could be a little kinky

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    There was a guy doing portraits of people with his naked arse, sack and dick. I think his name was Prickasso. I was fascinated by how he did the borders of the canvas with his crack @_@ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Will be my fifth sexpo... they seem to vary depending on the day and location, the last one I attended was in QLD and was quite disappointing. As I have always been with my partner my view was for things as a couple, this year am going with friends so things may look shiny and new and be seen in a different light. Given this is your first visit as "swingers" you may find your perspective of the vendors and presentations may be different to your previous visit. SG

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' There was a guy doing portraits of people with his naked arse, sack and dick. I think his name was Prickasso. I was fascinated by how he did the borders of the canvas with his crack @_@ - Posted from rhpmobile I saw him, very talented! I wondered if he got a sore dick, ouch.