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Couples do you seek guys on RHP
December 10 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey guys .. good question. We do occasionally seek out guys .. we have mentioned this on our profile in the past and have then been flooded with messages. This is fine except we prefer to respond to all so having to reject so many is a little sad. It is easier just doing the looking ourselves and initiating the contact. Also, guys are fairly easy to find when out & about rather than on the web here and many here dont quite know how the couple thing works really .. we need to find guys who are firstly attractive, secondly understand the dynamic between a couple like us and thirdly, who are fine with sharing a girl. This is easier to suss out face to face so we often meet guys out at clubs or dance parties rather than rely on rhp or similar ... unless playing separately .. but then it easier to have single profiles as well as our couples one.
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RHP User
17 years ago
No. We've had too many bad responses - guys who don't bother reading our profile, been pushy, been disrespectful, think they are God's gift to women ... Enough is enough.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well we have never ,and never will seek a single guy.Just not our thing.If our profile was read by the guys ,maybe then they would stop sending flirts n messages. Maybe the just cant read or dont bother to read. What ever the reason have no desires for another man in our life. Really how can a woman play with another total stranger
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RHP User
17 years ago
the common factor is. "Guys DO NOT READ profiles" These make up of 99.9% of the male members.. or for the fact. of the ENTIRE population of the world. Very few that does, and understood.. and very FEWer .. have respect... I dont bother searching through couples profile. for my own reasons (as stated in m,y profile) but if one DID ask me, then im shocked that ONE DID NOT READ my profile. which never happened anyways.. lol Thing is, i have many guys looking at my profile. And I DID say politely that i wasn't after men, NOT ONE flirt nor messaged me. Weird aint it? lmao Goes to show.. Guys, single or married.. are mostly dickheads. And so few of us, single or married.. are the real guys...
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RHP User
17 years ago
Look its real easy in the seeking section don't put man if you not seeking single guys , put couple , woman etc but not man. That way when I do a search of people seeking guys I know they are looking for single guys. Unfortunately a lot of people put man in seeking and then write no single guys , remove man and you won't come up in th search. My whinge for the day :-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
and so (non) indicative of the general male populace. I for one would would guess that's there's hundreds of men out there that would benefit from a "Bwians guide to life and other stuff" posting. W-a-i-t-i-n-g...and rapt in anticipation!!! It's a shame not many were ever made in "HIS" likeness. Now THAT'S what I'd def' call "BaaaaaLax" ~~B'Lax~~
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RHP User
17 years ago
We do, but don't have it listed in our 'seeking'. We are pretty specific on what we're after, so we do the searching, using the advanced search to narrow it down, that way, we only get what we're looking for. we actually don't get inundated with flirts, which is good, but heaps of profile views.. Maybe that our long-winded profile filtering out the one's we're not interested in?
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RHP User
17 years ago
The first two posting on this thread where very interesting especially the reference to the dynamics male female male couples and that its all about the pleasure of the female and the extra males ability to be able to share a female sexually.... I personally have encounted bi couples where the male in the couples took centre of attention so in either case the extra male might be a wee pissed off that he is not the centre of the sexual attention of the couple as he might have fantasised..... making these connections difficult for some men to accept the rules here.
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RHP User
17 years ago
We love RHP single guys, they are the best ! We are proud to say that all of our single guy members of our club are in fact RHP members. Good on ya boys...we love ya all. Respectful and courteous and heaps of fun. Mind you we do select them though. Well those that attend our functions anyhow..lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Yes we are a couple and we do seek males, we have been even stood up by a male, for a meet... The spare male in a 3some MMF has to know he is the third wheel and if he cant deal with that he shouldnt be looking for couples. Also the guy needs to be submissive as he is NOT the alpha male and he will get play time but if he comes along just to get a free lay its not going to work out. We have a regular male playmate but we are open to new males from time to time. However MOST of them DONT read the profile, or assume mrs tekematwo is the one reading the messages, pretty stupid guys, in reality the way to the wife is thru the hubby(D'oh) YES we all know you have dicks, so shoving dick pics at us also is poor manners... mrs tekematwo wants to see your faces TOO And since there are so many males out there, we can afford to be picky and if the guy dont like our rules or requirements, there are lots of other couples you can try you luck with.... Sorry but guys need to get their act together and use brain before penis
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RHP User
17 years ago
You are freaking us now.What is this fascination/public displays of affection you have for sparty,more importantly whats happened to you????? brenbob
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RHP User
17 years ago
In answer to the post...we do have guys in the seeking section of our profile...the only thing is that like Lustbirds...we prefer to respond to all so having to reject so many is a little sad... Unlike tekematwo, it is MrsP who usually reads the messages and makes an initial no or maybe decision and the first to get a no is any message that doesn't acknowledge MrP which includes messages that ask if MrsP plays alone. Our profile does say quite clearly that we are looking for 'Friends with Benefits' and not saying hi to MrP isn't very friendly lol. totonrosanna - In answer to your question: 'Really how can a woman play with another total stranger' Considering we are looking for 'Friends with Benefits', we like to get to know we are interested in over a period of time during which we will swap photos (some naughtier than others lol but definitely some face pics) and messages, maybe get a chance to chat, or cam, when we get the cam working again :-(, and we are alone in the house and like australasian_cpl we like to have a drink or coffee first to see how we feel 'in the flesh' so to speak lol before...maybe...playing another time in the future ;-) We've never had any trouble with impatience or no shows... A question for you in return - Really, how can you invite a total stranger (WOMAN-SINGLE OR MARRIED) to play with a total stranger and not feel like a total hypocrite or is it only an issue if it is a ??? MrsP :-D :-*
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RHP User
17 years ago
Good question, we do ask for guys as he is bi however if u don't ask foe guys your g'teed to get plenty of emails anyway, I think most couples leave out the guy option in am attempt to cut down the email, being bi helps is cut out a lot of the desperate guys!!!!! Is a shame for the really nice hot guys who miss out because couples are trying to avoid the barrage of emails from single guys? We have met a few really nice friendly considerate guys and had a LOT of dun as a couple with them. While I a bi girl I have generally found our best experiaces hve been with a couple of single guys in here, they were so much friendlier east going friendly experimental open minded and actually cared about wanting to please me and my partner!!!!! We were told about a couple of guys on here so we met them & can honestly say we had more fun with them then any single girl & even couples!!!! You just have to look hard and be picky and put in it profile I very specific ad!!!!! If your looking fir a cole of great guys or really nice couples feel free to ask we r happy to share experiances and happy to hear any reconnendations for you guys!!! If there was a way f filtering emails so the hundreds of guys who contact u but don't fit what u want at all it would be great and more couples I'm sure. would ask for single males!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
A question for you in return - Really, how can you invite a total stranger (WOMAN-SINGLE OR MARRIED) to play with a total stranger and not feel like a total hypocrite or is it only an issue if it is a ??? EXACTLY! And also how can you expect that a man to just play with a total stranger that is a woman. For some people playing with a total stranger is what this place is all about. For others it's about the complete opposite. Either way this idea of 'a man doesn't need attachment first, but a woman does' is total BS.. (in my opinion) I thought this was an alternative community. Let's stop the gender stereotypes hey. :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Totoandrosanna are completely right. Well, they always are, so they have to be this time! How could a woman sleep with another man? How could a man sleep with another woman? Women on women? Well, that's not what nature intended! And man on man?! Well anyone participating in that should be exiled to a penitentiary on a distant island away from the rest of civilisation. In fact, anyone that even has a passing thought of anyone other than their partner (who we'll assume they married before eloping with) should be shamed! Shame shame shame! But then, life would be pretty boring, wouldn't it?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I like your attitude man and what you have to say about gender stereotyping. It really shits me too. Its rampant though. Good on you for speaking out! Of course there are men who want an emotional connection before taking things to the bedroom. And of course there are women who don't want or need that connection. Sheesh isn't this 2008 not 1908? Wildly frowning at gender stereotyping I
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