Couples nights at a club

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  Yes to all of the above BUT you're an adult .... your participation and comfort levels are totally in your control. Put up a date finder and maybe arrange to meet a couple you're actually interested in instead if running the gauntlet on the night.

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  seekandplay

  one year ago

  Hi there! So… Sunday afternoon at a club will generally be quiet but what a nice way for you to have eased into it! I think far better than being confronted with a huge crowd, that in itself is so overwhelming. There are a lot of variables in how to answer your questions because honestly, it all depends on the boundaries set by you, the people you’re playing with as a couple, and then you all together. There is absolutely no expectation for your partner to couple swap if he didn’t want to. And likewise with the female of the other couple - she might go off and do her thing, while he does his. Alternatively, she might enjoy a bit of voyerism and ask to watch - but that might not be something you want. Yes, single M’s do come with Single F’s as couples. Some people hate it, some people aren’t bothered by it. Venues are hard to gauge who will show up, so I’m wondering if your 1/3 attendance is for smaller private parties? If you’re looking for private parties, just keep looking for those that vet their guests very well rather than open for all… you’ll find it’s a bit more expensive and people will actually show up. Good luck, would love to know how you go!

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  Mandy1978

  11 months ago

  Thanks for sharing! Me and my man (mostly me) have been wanting to attend the Sunday newbie session for a bit but I'd really want to hear the stories and have answers to some of my many questions from ppl with first hand exp. I'm bi curious and my man is bisexual. If ur up to chat or have any advice, tips or what i can expect I'd appreciate it. Ty🌷

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