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Couples with only pics of her
May 18 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is no solution to those couples that are determined to be dishonest. With regards to the couples who only post photo's of the female they are in the majority here. Its a pity because all that does is set them and you up for disappointment. I cant see the point in burning a ton of calories with messages asking the obvious like, " do you have a photo of the Mr?", or " do you have a clearer photo of the Mr", or " do you have a photo of the Mr without sunglasses" ........and you know that these couples get asked that every single time. We have stipulated that the couple must have a photo of the Mr or we wont reply.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Simple fix is ask for pictures of both before ever planning a meet.It's a topic brought up quite often on the forums and consensus seems to be the female half is the better bait and generally have better pictures of the female half.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My experience is that the vast majority 'may' in fact be couples although both may not be aware that the profile is online.The fact that they mostly have pics of their fem partner is not surprising. My partner is of the opinion that no one (even him) wants to see his pics. It is easy to spot the real ones just look at what has been written in msgs to you lol men are morons doesn't take long long to weed out the deadshits, time wasters and fakes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
'men are morons' ? Wow! Granted some are, but some women are too (myself included at times, I'm not perfect). Just might have come across better with the addition of the word 'some'
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SexyDeviants
10 years ago
We just assume he isn't attractive if there is no photo of him in the public gallery. So we don't bother with contact. It seems harsh saying it like that. Be we are the same, Ms D needs to be attracted to both in the couple. Since we aren't entering a romantic relationship, a physical and sexual attraction is the only thing that is important to us. Looks aren't the only factor, but they are what draws us in initially. There's plenty of couples out there with photos of both, just concentrate on them 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its not doing yourself any favours by not having the mister's pics, clear pics, in pg. if youre serious in atttracting people, you need to advertise. social_Suicide's profile is. Pretty much perfectly ballanced. Clear pics of both. I could easily make my mind up to meet with them, just by those pics that represent who they are. You dont have to have them displayed publicly. Pg is fine. And I agree that the blurry or sungass/hat pics arent appealing to me.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
As SexyDeviant alluded, lack of male pics is a sure sign that something is amiss in the face or body department. Big business always advertises the big ticket items up front. Get the interest gathered and growing by showing the a grade stock. Then roll out hubby with the 18month pregnancy stomach. Hoping the prospective male can talk his girl into taking one for the team.......
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SexyDeviants
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Hoping the prospective male can talk his girl into taking one for the team....... There's no taking one for the team in our 'swinger code'
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madotara69
10 years ago
it's just the way it goes for the chances of some exposure of the shady kind, if a bloke sets up a single male profile, eg; he is 1 in 650 men, if a bloke sets up a couples profile, pic of a woman on the cover, he is 1 in 52 couples. Well on some of the web cam sites that's a rough idea for the numbers and when viewing those 52 couples, about 42 of them are single men dipping their tackle in for a bite, after a while of seeing the same old, same old and there never is a woman with those men on cam, it wears a bit thin with the "she isn't here right now, but...." You know who you are, bahahahaha Mado Mado Tara xx
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Having one's face photos, in public galleries on a site like this, does come with some risks and privacy issues. Which is why all our face photos (in public galleries) have been blurred out . We value our privacy and would not want the wrong people (friends/family/work colleagues) to recognise us. And we have the right to value our privacy do we not? Our private galleries do however have several clear and very recent (1 month ago) face photos of both of us, together. On the question of more photos of the female than the male, for us the female form is something beautiful, something worth capturing (one merely has to look at famous artists & photographers through the ages to realise this). Mr D enjoys photography and enjoys taking sensual & artistic photos of his beautiful wife. For him its a celebration of her beautiful form, one that she has worked hard for and he feels that it immortalises her (but then he is a creative artistic type). He does not like, and has never liked, photos being taken of him and as such rarely smiles in a photo. He is quite private & shy and considers it to be an invasion of his privacy & personal space in so many ways and on so many levels. So just because a couple does not have many photos and or face photos of the male half, within their public galleries, does not mean (a) they are fake (b) they are not a couple (c) the male half has registered the profile without the female knowing about it (d) the male half is ugly and as such does not want to be seen. There could me many other, valid reasons and so it is best not to generalise and be negative towards such couples. Before we agree to meet with someone, we do ask to see recent face photos of them both together (ie both of them in one photo) and we do, in return, send them recent face photos of both of us. This is a way to try to weed out some of the fakes with the hopes that we are dealing with a real couple (who are both aware of RHP) and not some nutter collecting photos.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Hoping the prospective male can talk his girl into taking one for the team....... God that is so obvious when a couple does this..... We don't and will never condone taking one for the team and have asked couples to leave before when we notice it. We don't keep face pictures on here at all, we have no desire to have our faces plastered all over here allowing family, friends or colleagues that may or may not use this site to stumble across them. Another adult website was hacked recently and well blackmail ensued. I also agree with DC on some points they made, i literally have hundreds of pictures of Mrs Adelaide while very few of myself, i like taking pictures of her its a fun hobby however don't particularly like pictures of myself. After falling for the old guy pretending to be a girl on sites like this and this site we now only give out face pictures after we have spoken on the phone/webcam to confirm that people are who/what they say regardless whether its male or female. If that turns people off us so be it, they probably where not what we where looking for in the first place.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Agree that it is common that most have more pics of females than male. No complaints. But there should be at least one body shot of male to gauge our interest. Yes face pics in private gallery. And as a last check we did play the card last week of requesting a photo of the couple with a bit of paper with the date on it. Suddenly she had gone shopping and that if we didnt trust them to go elsewhere. Which we did. Annie
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Agree with the taking one for the team. I would never ask my girl to do that. And her me as well. If either are not feeling it, its straight out the door after some apologies. Its a personal thing. We all have personal limits as to what we feel and if it would affect our sexual performance, its the polite thing for all concerned not to play.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Okay, have to give my 2 cents. Multiple choice question. Pick the one here you'd take the time to follow up: 1.The female form is better 2. I like taking pictures of her 3. I don't like the way I look in pictures 4. The site might be hacked 5. The phone/camera ran out of battery power 6. The budgie died 7. My Kitchen Rules was on 8. Provide pictures of him on request. 9. The dog ate my homework 😀 Yeah, no public pictures of both, back arrow, simple really. Why would I waste my time requesting pictures of him or the 2 of you as a couple? Face pictures and being recognised, is it really such a big deal? Will the sky fall in? Your choice of course but it's a crock of shit IMO to roll out the sexy pictures of the wife (quite often showing HER face ?? Surely your friends could join the dots), has a kind of brothel feel to it. Okay so even without face pictures, if he's not displayed clearly pfft Keep it real/honest, keep it natural and enjoy the natural act of sex, simple really, it's not rocket science. I'll never be embarrassed about myself or my sexuality. I'm fucking proud of myself, I'll stand in the street and scream it out loud. I'm not hiding under a rock for any money in the world and excuses just don't wash with me 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'Face pictures and being recognised, is it really such a big deal? Will the sky fall in? No the sky won't fall in that's a good point.But Mrs Adelaide would instantly be dismissed from her job and more than likely ostracized in her field of work, who is going to pay the 150K worth of HECS debt then? I also know of several government employees both in Darwin and South Australia who are relatively well known and they also if caught out be sacked from their jobs and dragged through the media. Whats good for some people is simply not good for others, everyone has there reasons some genuine and unfortunately some not so genuine. There is no right or wrong on here just peoples opinions, not that you where specifically having a dig at us but the only face pictures we sent in here was to verify our profile. In our opinion that's enough, if people are interested in more then we take it offsite afterall if they are that interested and well we are going to meet offsite for shenanigans anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, though I'm not sure many employers would instantly dismiss you for being on one of these sites, unless within education or working with children, or similar sensitive places of work. But most other places, try getting away with that in a court of law 😃 but okay, that's your face and not everyone wants to show their face, but what about the front of the Mr? Body without face, showing the front? Will you get fired for that? You see, that's my point. But you'd get away with that because of Mrs Adelaide being the main drawcard? I stand by what I said. It's your choice of course. I just find lack of pictures irritating and a waste of everyone's time, and I'm not on my own there. Just think how much more sex we could be having, or not, but cards on the table straight up hastens or streamlines the process 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has anyone ever heard of someone getting the sack for being recognised on RHP?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do know someone on this site who had some of their forum posts and profile pics screen shot and emailed to their workplace.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive taken one for the team. Once or twice. Ok I was the only one on my team, but I still took one for it. Ive had a diliance with a couple, solely because I wanted to play with the sexy wife of the couple and the hubby wasnt that attractive physically to me. Its amazing how a few drinks makes someone look more appealing. And Im sure theres people that needed a few extra sherbets to make it through a meeting with me. Haha cheers y'all 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah I get that, no doubt that it would be a bad day. I was just wondering if anyone here has heard of job dismissal because of RHP. Willow I would hope that the people who took that info into the work place ended up being disciplined.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I fully understand if she and he don't want to provide a face pic. There are so many privacy issues to consider. Fir me that part is a no brainer. However, I am astounded at how many couples profiles lack photos of him (even faceless pics). I try to accept most people in good faith, but I wonder is there something about him that they consider unappealing, or it is a single male that has posted photos of her. How hard is it to put him in the picture? Presumably he was there when the photos of her were being taken? Personally, I am bi-curios and I am much more particular about how males look than how women look which is why it is important for me to see a pic of him (without a face showing is fine). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It would absolutely be instant dismissal for me if face pics were shown with my private pics publicly. It's not even a question. Then there is the small town etc etc. It would be very bad. I am excruciatingly pedantic with my privacy on rhp and this is also why I respect the privacy of others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
For unfair dismissal. Being on here is not illegal.
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
A few people who have lost their jobs / not got that promotion due to RHP photos being leaked & the anonymity being compromised. Then there is the stress caused by friends and family finding out. Just not worth the risk we feel. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yes, though I'm not sure many employers would instantly dismiss you for being on one of these sites, unless within education or working with children, or similar sensitive places of work. But most other places, try getting away with that in a court of law 😃 but okay, that's your face and not everyone wants to show their face, but what about the front of the Mr? Body without face, showing the front? Will you get fired for that? You see, that's my point. But you'd get away with that because of Mrs Adelaide being the main drawcard? I stand by what I said. It's your choice of course. I just find lack of pictures irritating and a waste of everyone's time, and I'm not on my own there. Just think how much more sex we could be having, or not, but cards on the table straight up hastens or streamlines the process 😃 I'm not even going into the argument about workplaces, her job is more important than swinging hence no face pictures.I have distinctive tattoo's from the front and therefore choose not to show them and as for streamlining the process, we get enough attention to entertain us with the way the profile is set up now. We have photos of both of us on the profile enough to perk peoples interest.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' For unfair dismissal. Being on here is not illegal. No but damaging to a career for some people.Sure you'd win your court case in most instances but the damage long term would be irrevocable therefore 150K of a degree wasted.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was a vindictive breach of trust. The person who emailed the info had no connection to that workplace. Solely to cause as much pain as possible. Choose friends/aquantances on here wisely. 😎
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
That privacy dilemma has been my life. I understand it 100% and agree. I dont have to worry about it so much now. Coming out last year completed my life. Yeah lost most of my friends. But im happy with that. Fuck them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was agreeing with you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If they can live up to the pic and have nice personality to match, you're on a winner. I meet this gorgeous looking lady at the dentist this week. Very pretty , dressed well but when she opened her mouth to speak it all come undone. If I'd seen her pic on here I'm sure she'd have no end of attention.. So a pic can only be taken on face value, but you have to start somewhere.
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RHP User
10 years ago
..a couple wink me. All photos of the wife so I figured it was her maintaining the presence. So I replied saying what an attractive woman she was & I'd be happy to meet with a view to helping her & hubby out. Hubby replied all upset saying I "assumed" it was her that winked me and what a judgemental type I was for making such an assumption. WTF? I think it's called "entrapment" in the states..Police officers pretending to be working girls and that sort of thing.. lol Takes all kinds.
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hotdelights
10 years ago
why would they put pics in the profile u can be not to revealing and pg1 and pg2 why have them if u don't share it helps the next step to a click for attraction for your partner etc and if interstate where that leads to or what r we here 4 ....... no effort in both partners in pics not real couples or u get wait till he come home 1day later they get back
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
If breach of privacy is a concern, I don't get why the wife is happy to be seen, while the husband isn't. I mean, if people know you as a couple won't they still recognise you? In many cases the "wife" does not know that her photos are on RHP nor even know about the RHP profile!!
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mikesplace01
10 years ago
I think sometimes its as simple as the guy or lady (which ever is missing the pic) has or is in a position , work wise or community wise, that would compromise their position. Its easy enough to ask them for one.Remember its easy to forget there are people out there that could or would take advantage of this type of personal info.One educational institution springs to mind.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I agree with Summer.... I do not know if anyone loosing their jobs. I think Willow has answered your question tho, by her two posts. Willow, We're you involved in that incident?? I hope you have ALL your facts there, because if not it may appear you are turning the gossip wheel and enabeling, as well as if you don't, it will make you look foolish. Why have you insinuated who Social should and should not choose their friends/aquantices on here more wisely, for? Haha I'm sure they can decide and choose for themselves. Just like you do. :) Ms Foxy x
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abcplus1
10 years ago
We are guilty of having more and better pics of the female half in our public gallery. But we have clear photos of us together in our private gallery.
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abab1
10 years ago
We've found that most couples start their swinging adventures when the woman is ready. She may have lost weight, bought some new outfits and feeling ready to explore a new wild an wicked world. She says to her man, you know that threesome you suggested, how about we try that. Hubby is surprised, not physically ready, a bit chunky but keen. He sets up a profile and puts on pics of his wife, which is he is so proud of, an leaves off pic of him.We've been running non-profit, upmarket swingers parties for 3 years in Townsville and have introduced lots of new couples. The hot wife (like Wilma or Betty) with an average hubby (like Fred or Barney) has lead us to call them Flinstone Couples. They usually make a great team. We invite extra hand picked guys just for this and it all turns out great.Overall, her pic is better then no pics or fake pics. Each to their own, everyone has their own issues, fantasies, reasons. If they don't meet with yours, move along :)
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GANGBANGBOYZ
10 years ago
We started this and seems a lot of people commenting didn't actually read what we had to say. We stated we don't expect as many pics of him, we don't expect face pics. Seriously, we all love hot pics of girls but just because its the male doing the posting, in most cases its still the woman deciding if its going to happen or not. But hey, all you guys that think because your not interested in what the guy looks like it,doesn't matter if she does, good luck, because in 90% of cases if you expect to play as well, your going to have to pass the woman's taste test. Like others here we don't meet if your to ashamed to show him but plaster your profile with her. But as we live in a small town with limited contacts, it would be a lot easier.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dont listen to second hand news. If someone shares their experience with me personally, I dont call that gossip. And.... You lost me with the rest of what you said.
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RHP User
10 years ago
....... "we don't expect face pics"........seriously?
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RHP User
10 years ago
We certainly have a few pics of Mr. but as has already been said we have more of Mrs because she is nicer to look at. What gets on my nerve is pictures with a date stamp on them and the date is years ago.We had one couple contact us, give us picture access and then demand we gave them ours.The date stamp on their pics was sometime in 2007. Over 9 years ago. Needless to say we did not respond.
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Justdoingstuff
10 years ago
I don't think there is an easy answer here. I find the comment that he is unattractive an odd one. Yes he might be unattractive to you, but probably not to the female of the couple and does the male really think, 'My I am unattractive, we will never pic up with my pics!' I just think that female pictures get more views, the male is possibly the one on here looking the most and so it is the most successful way of getting a date. We always thought that we should both be in the pic, but that is just us. I think it is something that would have to be looked at deeper to find the true reasons, and even then there would be more than one answer.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
What we are all thinking..........bahahaha
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
You did and posted. I called you out on it. Summer, I do not know what you are talking about....please explain? I agree with you Annie. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
You called me out on ??? Youre obviously way too clever for me. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My ideal couples profile has a sexy photo of both of them entwined in each others arms. You dont need to show your face in public pics. But both of you together is a big tick for me. ( If youre both bi...even better 😝)
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wombat13at
10 years ago
We also get annoyed with profiles supposed to be couples that only have male pics we have had 98% bad couple meets so far even after lots of question time and chats. so you can never know what you getting into
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RHP User
10 years ago
We don't comment very often but it seems the emphasis on RHP is very much bi female with as much emphasis on straight male. It's not surprising that profiles (pics) have a marked emphasis on the female. What about the photographic genius ability that so males have where they are able to get the toilet bowl in the pics at least once and without question, charming the viewer's rocks off. If sexy clothing for women is compared with mens, there simply isn't any for men. What is sold for men looks hideous or has someone mocking them for whatever reason with a "Yuk" from so many male & female voices. What about the guy who dares to bares some skin without a tattoo or dares to wear speedos or less "Oh No! that's just not manly! Is he batting on both teams or has he crossed the floor?". To put it bluntly guys are extremely sensitive about how they are perceived socially. In general, presumably, that would leave a good many male egos well and truly still in the closet, embarrassed about their bodies and with no photos in profiles. Is that how it is?
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abcplus1
10 years ago
Benqa lagoon, Fiji. We thought it was a novel way of having a face pic that doesn't reveal our face in the public gallery area.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hubby works for a Govt employer where any action which the organisation finds to be not in accordance with its policies will have employment terminated. He can't even have Facebook, so being seen on here is a big nono. We know numerous employees are on here and are very cautious about messaging them. In fact we block them as soon as we see them. Same with customers. Also, our photos have actually showed up on other people's profiles as their photos. Makes us question their 'couple' status. Besides. Big cocks are nice. Abs are nice. But flabby old men with tiny cocks are a big let down. We don't reply to 8-10 inch claims unless a clear photo shows it. Faces are only a bonus. One day wifey will find a handsome hung guy and trade hubby in for the new improved model but until then, if you don't show the proof you are never going to meet me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you are a couple you must have public photos of both,just the body is more than enough even if dressed,face pic could be on private album but this is another story As a couple we are really frustrated when after the first contact where we can more or less know about our guests by the few but essentials info as the age,body type and so on,we get the p.a mainly with the pic ONLY of the girl and sometimes just one of the boy usually older then the age written on profile or an "average"buddy with at list 20 k more in weight" In any case,due ours previus experience we usually avoid profiles without male photos Is also funny,on the 21 century,be scared to be recognized by a couple of pic without face maybe taken on the beach during the sunset,it seems everybody are secret agents..c.mon,if you have those issues better spend your free time playing golf
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think many males are just shy in front of the camera.Young women these days are so into selfies and photos and many men (including my partner) just don't like standing there topless for a photo.I know for sure we are real but we do have a few drunken photos of the hubby, lol :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is something that just seems askew to me...especially when ALL the photos are selfies of the female. Surely a genuine couple would take photos of each other? No need for selfies of either and certainly not female selfies ONLY. Thoughts?
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m3bmw
10 years ago
We just assume the guy is out of shape/ punching above his weight if theres no pics of him. Usually pretty close to the money
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RHP User
10 years ago
ok we don't mind you taking one for the team with us because MR is a team player to and adds to the fun buy taking great photos lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes she was a beautiful china doll, who I speak of. Nobody that you would know. So settle petal. Lol
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