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Creepy or cute? One for the girls
December 13 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
hand or forearm stroking for me is actually quite intimate and familiar and not really first date material. Unless you're lying in bed after a solid shag and then almost anything goes! But hey, that's just me!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is not going to go down well hahah CREEPY
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tricky question! depends on how much you have got to know the person prior to meeting. I don't like rules,so school days for me! If you get a feelingg things are going the right way,ask,"may I hold your hand. Very gentlemanly and a sweet jester. That would impress alot of ladies.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you have never met before, then the chemistry might be overwhelming and the other person is enchanted by the gesture. Or if their perception of how the date is going is different to yours ,then they may perceive it as creepy indeed. Err on the side of caution is my advice,but a light touch on the arm is usually acceptable,a mere brush,if the woman flinches or recoils then you have your answer,anything more would definitely be creepy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If she has touched you first. Teasegoddess if someone asked me if they could hold my hand on a first date and reached over the table.... OMG ekkk that's is creepy. Don't do it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
for obvious reasons !!! nice new photo Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If she has touched you first. Teasegoddess if someone asked me if they could hold my hand on a first date and reached over the table.... OMG ekkk that's is creepy. Don't do it! ...someone asked if they could put on a koala suit and suck on your Big Titties?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well if you put it like that Manly, well that's alright then. @(・●・)@ Shinas that is an old photo surprised you haven't seen it before? But thank you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka I am thinking of a hot guy asking me that! lol Have a vision of this guy too! Quoting 'Meeka100'If she has touched you first. Teasegoddess if someone asked me if they could hold my hand on a first date and reached over the table.... OMG ekkk that's is creepy. Don't do it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and give her nipple a tweek. Either way she's going to belt you or order another drink! Women like a man who knows what he wants and is willing to take a few risks to go after it. Just don't be a creep.
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Lifes_great
13 years ago
The unfortunate fact is that stroking her arm could be considered “socially unacceptable” and “creepy” and “not appropriate” in first date situations... especially if you were to wiggle your eyebrows a little and lick your lips at the same time. But don't give up.....I mean, how many times have we all heard ..“why are you hiding in those bushes… oh my gosh are those binoculars? What are you doing you freak? Is that chloroform I smell?! Just hang in there and you're sure to win her over
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Lifes_great
13 years ago
The Koala suit's cool Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' Quoting 'Meeka100' If she has touched you first. Teasegoddess if someone asked me if they could hold my hand on a first date and reached over the table.... OMG ekkk that's is creepy. Don't do it! ...someone asked if they could put on a koala suit and suck on your Big Titties?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Creepy....sorry it's too familiar
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RHP User
13 years ago
To start with, I never sat opposite my date, I sat next to her ...and then quietly slid my hand down her pants.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I've always been distracted by your butt with your little cottontail bunny tail thing happening Photo ... My fav You know the pic !!! But you know ....lovely to see your tits again :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
... had it done (numerous times) & find it creepy :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whats wrong with holding hands FFS ? Its only creepy if one or the other dont like the one their with.. apart from that, its as old as the hills ... Anyway' is'nt it about the signals we give off ? I would never reach for a girls hand if I was'nt sure she was open to it... I just wouldnt take the chance unless the signals were clear...I have friends who hold my hand for the hell of it... Just the other day a friend of mine ( girl ) came with me to the grog shop to get some drinks for a BBQ... on the way in ' she just grabbed my hand and away we went.. Didnt think nothing of it.. My now GF I meet in a shop she worked.. After several weeks of small talk and eye contact , I reached over the counter and offered my hand which she returned with a girlish giggle... It was nice.. so I just dont get what all the negatives are about ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's about the timing and context. First date, reaching over the table to stroke the arm or hand is way too familiar. With someone yoh know well, have dated a few times or have been intimate with it's different. It's also different if you've finished dinner/the movie, have had a great time and are enjoying a walk or something. I love holding hands and stroking someone i feel close and intimate with. First date isn't usually that for me personally. Timing and context!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know if the green light is on for me when a man 'accidentally' brushes against me (whatever body part doesnt really matter) and that shot of electricity shoots up my back into my hair. I catch my breath. I certain someone I met recently saw that happen, immediately brushed his hand up my neck and tugged my hair .... HELLO!!! We have contact!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Only if I'm pretty damn sure I want to haver sex with the person, as my inner arms and elbows are major erogenous zones. Too soon, and I'll pull back and feel uncomfortable. Not really a fan of someone reaching for my hand on the first date either, unless we've kissed. Like MadamPurr said: It's all about timing and context.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' To start with, I never sat opposite my date, I sat next to her That's what 'm looking for in a man. If you are seated across from a woman, take the initiative and move your chair! If at a table, move to the side, so you're at a 90 degree angle. If on barstools, pick the damn thing up already and put it next to hers! Is it just me ladies?
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RHP User
13 years ago
for a first date. That is just way too creepy
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RHP User
13 years ago
On how long you have been there, they type of conversation, ie. if she starts initiating conversation that is rather risque and she is definitely giving you the come on and her body starts nestling against yours then that is an indicator in most cases that she is attracted to you physically, again it depends on the type of conversation you are having, if it was general to start with then starts getting rather sexy and she is giving out hints, then you can gather she is keen, unless she pulls away to which she might just be teasing you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cute if he's right about the date going well. Creepy if not.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Creepy!! That is all!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I could think of better things to stroke..... :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
on you or her?
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RHP User
13 years ago
@Hardtruckin - tad creepy if you're having a tug and ask her for a rub? lol :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Sam. Thanks for the Topic.. I always take my Time before I meet a Guy so I'm aware of who I'm spending time with . I'm a very Sensual,Tactile Woman so if we're not both sharing that Tactile Pleasure stroking softly each others hands with our thumbs then we're not completely Connecting.I'm always touching a Guys hands it's my way of Communicating feeling his energies .So I don't think they get a chance to reach for mine he!he! Only 1 time did I ever share an Amazing Connection with a Guy who reached for my hand stroking it I reciprocated right away. We couldn't stop touching, caressing each others hands, arms,all over, as we gazed into eachothers Eyes. OMG! it was the most erotic, sizzling Connection we have shared with anyone.It took our breathe away. He held my hand took me to My car accross the road.Then leaned me over the Hood of My Car continued to kiss me Passionately with the Cafe clients looking on. That arousal and energy exchange took me 2hrs to stop quivering with excitement Panting ha!ha! He was similarly affected. That was our coffee meet ha!ha! We continued to enjoy eachother on all Levels in the most Amazing Sexual Intimacy we've both encountered.. Even now typing this I'm starting to quiver and feel him mmmmmmmm. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Massages....sheesh... Get ya minds out of the gutter...;)
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1playfulcpl
13 years ago
the last girl i dated iwas a gentleman all the way with her 3weekes later we finaly slept together an that was her call now we been married for 16yrs so dnt play the creepy man
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'My now GF I meet in a shop she worked.. After several weeks of small talk and eye contact , I reached over the counter and offered my hand which she returned with a girlish giggle... It was nice.. so I just dont get what all the negatives are about ? Now that's the way to do it. Dont' go 'all the way' . Give her a chance to make a clear decision either way. For many women, freezing or doing nothing is their instinctual reaction to an unpleasant (or even dangerous) situation. From a guy's point of view in that situation, he may see that there is nothing wrong and persist while the girl may be freaking out on the inside and not know what to do to escape from the situation without causing hurt feelings or a scene, or injury. Might sound overly dramatic? Read The Gift Of Fear by Gavin de Becker
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'Whats wrong with holding hands FFS ? Its only creepy if one or the other dont like the one their with.. apart from that, its as old as the hills ... Anyway' is'nt it about the signals we give off ? I would never reach for a girls hand if I was'nt sure she was open to it... I just wouldnt take the chance unless the signals were clear...I have friends who hold my hand for the hell of it... Just the other day a friend of mine ( girl ) came with me to the grog shop to get some drinks for a BBQ... on the way in ' she just grabbed my hand and away we went.. Didnt think nothing of it.. My now GF I meet in a shop she worked.. After several weeks of small talk and eye contact , I reached over the counter and offered my hand which she returned with a girlish giggle... It was nice.. so I just dont get what all the negatives are about ? Holding hands is fantastic and I love doing it with someone I'm cofortable with, whether in private or public, and whether with a friend, family member or lover. The OP's question was about first dates though, which I think is a very different situation.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... at some of the replies here. Sure it may be considered creepy but then if the woman isn't into you, whatever you do would be considered the same way. What made me laugh is some of the comments from women here that any form of intimacy on a first date is creepy, yet these same women have boasted in the past of screwing someone on the first date (if it could be called a date and not a booty call). What is more intimate than sex FFS lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Touche....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the more confident a person is the more natural this sort of " intimate behaviour" will seem. I have a girlfriend that I love to bits but it's purely plutonic, she never lost an opportunity to rub a boob on my arm or sit in my lap. She is 10 yrs younger than me and wants kids, done my bit in that dept and I loved her as a person so never responded. Turns out I was right to do so since from observing her behaviour with other male friends, that's just the way she is. No wonder it's hard for men to correctly interpret female "come ons"!
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RHP User
13 years ago
If it's pre-meditated, and has nothing to do with our connection and doesn't fit in with our interactions to that point, it's super creepy!If we're getting on, lots of eye contact, he's got me flushed and wanting him, the conversation flowing easy, the sexual tension palpable.. well, then that's just hot.I don't think cute comes into the equation at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
creepy for sure.... EEEEEK!It's a DON'T do with me on first date...
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RHP User
13 years ago
big time creepy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol! Hmm usually creepy...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sit 90 degrees to the woman, pull the chair out for her as a gentleman and things will fall into place. If she appreciates this gesture she will let you kniw staught away. Then if the right signals have been shown holding hands before caressing the hand or foream would be less creepy. S First forum as I have been looking and reading for a little while.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met a gay guy once who used his finger to tickle my palm as we shook hands, now that was creepy!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends if the spark is there...
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RHP User
13 years ago
take it easy on the first date... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Need to get those extra two inches... WOW - answer of the week Ms_D A
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey hun ooooooooooooh! all your Christmases came at once did they ha!ha! Well I'll let you in on a secret about that finger tickling handshake you may or may not be aware of . next time we chat ..Cheers Lu :).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends if you are just meeting for fun or are on a date, if it's a date then very creepy, if just a date with the intention of playing, then anything goes
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Mr_Bond
13 years ago
It's all down to expectations as Princess says, if you're meeting for adult fun then it would be a good start to get each other in the mood (if you weren't horny as hell already of course!)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Then what do you think of this.. Last year a GF and l holidayed in Phuket and booked a day trip out to Pee Pee lsland. About 40 ppl on the boat all seated close. We were sitting near the rear of the boat on a bench seat and next to me was a group of 5 thai girls. The trip was quite long and l could see the bouncing motion of the boat was making the girls sleepy. Next thing l know the girl sitting next to me was on the nod and layed her head on my shoulder and fell asleep. This started achain reaction with all the girls there after leaning on each other.. Seriously, if l stood up, they would have all gone down like dominos. But l could see this was just part of thier culture. In fact my GF mentioned how cute they all looked leaning on each other. Now if l was insecure and let this upset me because a stranger lent on me. Could you imagine? Just goes to show how different us humans can be.. They, the thai girls thought nothing was about laying their head down to sleep... I can imagine some people would be horrified that someone uninvited touched them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's romantic and sweet.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Then what do you think of this.. Last year a GF and l holidayed in Phuket and booked a day trip out to Pee Pee lsland. Let me just stop right here- hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!That is ridiculous! Is there a vom volcano on that peepee island in phu "poo" ket? HA! Ludicrous!
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