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Crying after sex
May 03 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
The first time this happened I did not know what was going on. It doesn't happen often but yes, when it does it usually is after prolonged session of love-making and an extremely instense orgasm or series of orgasms. There have been times when I thought it is a way of bringing me back to me. The intensity of the feelings during sex was such that I felt the boundaries between myself and my lover disappear and we merged or fused, however you want to describe it. (I am so glad I remember those times) Coming down from that is like experiencing a loss. Also crying is akin to re-grounding for me. After the tears have been shed, I am self contained again, back in my own skin. Good question Kiss. I hope more ppl respond. Cheers Wilds
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RHP User
18 years ago
Yes and at first found it to be very disconcerting. Had I hurt her? Had I upset her in any way? Have since found it to reasonably common, particularly in a lady with a gentle soul.
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RHP User
18 years ago
aww.. that is so sweet.. LRE
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RHP User
18 years ago
cry after sex jezzz kiss i cry before sex cause im not getting it lol and now i have osti arthritis in my hands the thought of tossing off is just to pain full and i have had spinal fusion done so i can bend down that far hahah life is just a challenge isnt it
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RHP User
18 years ago
Its the most awesome cry a person will ever have. And its happened a few times for me and only one of the guys understood. Too bad for the others. The highest of compliments a woman can give her partner me thinks. Wench
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RHP User
18 years ago
now that explains why when i wake up in the morning theres a pool at my bedside:):)
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RHP User
18 years ago
i have had a couple of women do it. i thought it was a regular thing when it happens i just cuddle up and wait for it to pass. At first i was really worried whe it happens but now i feel a sence of satisfaction that i have had a wonderful sex session and so did my partner. I find it comes on when you get lost in the moment and the true passion arrives on orgasm. I have done it myself once and it was a really weird but relaxing moment.
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RHP User
18 years ago
While i found it a huge compliment i had no intention of reaching the girl that deeply. We had gone home for a little sexy fun and was understood i thought. Little did i know that the poor lass was affection starved enough so that even my simple common decency seemed like something so special to her. I was flattered by her tears but not so much by her assertion that it must mean we were fated for each other... I tried to be as respectful as i could be without telling outright lies but ended up having to put my foot down in the morning and while we stayed friends i know she was hurt. True love might lead to amazing sex and good sex may lead to love but it 'aint always the case...
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RHP User
18 years ago
that is soo true woody
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RHP User
18 years ago
Have never cried to the point of sobbing after sex. There are times though when after a prolonged love-making session my orgasms have been so intense that it has brought tears to my eyes. Same as Wildsback. Another one i dont care to remember had something to do with chillies. Wow, now that had me crying. They wernt tears of joy. Leelee xxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
What the frikk did you try with chili?....lol.. Kiss, I can honestly say I've left loads of snot on a man's chest and then we usually laugh our heads off at how awesome the orgasm was. Somehow I decided to take out my overemotionalism on his body so no complaints as yet...xx Sweet
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RHP User
17 years ago
I've only experienced someone that emotional during sex once. It was pretty intense and would be cool if it happened again. What did I do? Well.. we finished off what we were doing (it was during.. not after) and just held her and stroked her hair.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I had a girl i was seeing that most times after sex, if we were drunk mainly she used to start crying for the unknown reason? first time it happened i was wondering what i did wrong? but i guess it must be just overcome by the orgasm ?
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RHP User
17 years ago
the guys who should be reading this are.........and taking notes. And when I say guys I mean people.........men and women. Its something that shouldn't be construed as 'you are my soul mate' stuff. But its special and its the only time my eyes dont swell up like balloons and look bad for a week. Maybe its true that tears are chemically different for different occasions. But hell, what release it is. Like all the pent up garbage can just flow away. Wench PS Trying to explain it to a newbie is pretty hard tho lol
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