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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  depends what you want out of it - unless you're looking for a longer term relationship can you ever even really categorically state you know a person's true motivations? A person you think you might normally 'pull' could just be out there thinking "any holes a goal", and someone you think is so ridiculously attractive they'd never go for you might think you're the bee's knees.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I was the same as you. Why would young, attractive guys be interested in me? Sure, there are the ones who think you are an easy prize. But I have met a few who were lovely and respectful and am still in touch with now. Go for it...and for what its worth, most guys love curves xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  you're friends are 23, 28 and 38 ?? In my experience, they go by example or what they think you're up for, whether it be in the written section or other preferences within your profile. But your friends list is displaying potential interest in the young, when you have 45-55 as your preferred age range. Important IMHO to be very clear with your 'what I'm looking for' section (sorry, rushing at the moment, didn't get time to read that) and be careful who you have on your friends list, for a whole number of reasons. The friends list can actually deter some people, or in your case, it could quite possibley be attracting an age range you don't desire. I clean my friends list out routinely and most times don't display regular friends, I never let it go beyond a few guys, but that's a personal thing. Won't go into that in detail but just something for you to consider, not meaning to be offensive, just a thought that's all The other thing is you don't have to reply. There's no harm in them trying, just ignore

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  DynamicCouple36

  10 years ago

  In the chat rooms of this site and others . Talk amongst several guys, along the lines that they think that older , more overweight women are easy to get into bed , as they are desperate and will jump anything that comes their way. Just another typical generalisation & stereotype we have heard a few times . On the swingers FB pages we have seen them commenting to the photos posted by various women and it's obvious that these guys will tell a woman what they want to hear, simply to get laid. Our advice OP is to go with your instincts and intuition. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  10 years ago

  Use this place to your advantage. Use the men as they will use you. I think some have used me out of desperation. Any hole theory. Never to be seen or heard from again. But on the hole, they have been respectable to me and no bad stories. Got my rocks off. As DynamicCouple said, tread carefully and use your normal discretion. You will get the ones you will want to forget but you will get the ones that compliment your journey through here. Its a numbers game in here just as in real life. Just go for it and have fun. Sometimes the younger ones have more respect is what we find. Good luck

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  True, yong guy locker room jokes and guy talk (particularly amongst the guys who never get any because they are fuck heads) is to go for the 'sure bet'. Koko, the reason that a young hot guy (unfortunately I don't quite squeeze into that category) would want to have sex with you (I definitely fit into that category!) is that you are freaking hot! It never ceases to amaze me how many truly hot, sexy do-able women* such as yourself, mention that they are something less than that. Leeleigh, we all look for different things, but age is definitely meaningless when I look at a woman. It is a matter of hot or not, rather than age. I have met with two women who described themselves as bbw. One was in her 40s and the other in her 20s. One was fantastic to be with and the other was less so. The difference was that one communicated whereas the other did not. I find this can be the defining difference with hot or not, no matter whether a woman is old or young, bbw or skinny. I agree with Itouch's take on the friends list. I have often seen women with a swag of hot fire-fighter looking guys on the friends list and I think, "nah I'm out gunned here". But for me, looking at women, personality, communication and looks all determine what is hot or not. *p.s. I don't mean to be coarse with the use of "do-able" - I'm just trying to emphasise my point. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  aussian43

  10 years ago

  They could be desperate, or they could be turned on by the older larger ladies. In my case I find the larger curvy ladies to be very sexy! As for the age, I never used to search on them, but my first meeting on RHP was with a lady 10 years my senior that turned out incredibly well. That opened my eyes that age is just a number, and not an indication of how sexy someone could be, and how much fun in bed they are. Don't limit yourself. As others have commented, I would not be surprised if they hit on older larger ladies in the hopes they would be grateful for the attentions of a young stud. Be cautious and protect yourself, and take as much advantage of them as they thing they are taking of you. If you both have a great time, what is the harm?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  You have a very fair point, thanks 😉 Jeff, you actually just gave me a light bulb moment!! I, too have looked at a guys friends list and thought "Shit! Not a hope" But not thought about that in relation to mine 😶 The guys on my friends list are just a couple of guys I have chatted to. It normally starts with them sending me a message and me replying, "You're to young" etc and then they've asked for advice on how to improve their profile or messages. Summer and Koko...I cant imagine any guys think either of you should be grateful, Im sure they realise how lucky they are you agreed to meet them. Annie, youre lovely 😚😚 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  10 years ago

  Yes badly worded. I should have done that differently. I presumed interpretation of mutual satisfaction. Each getting what they are seeking from the encounter and all leaving happy. My bad.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There's no written law forbidding younger with older and vice versa being attractive to each other ? If it works it works , and what's more it's no bodies business except those involved. As long as they are not hurting anyone there's no problem..

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