M46
Cut and buff
May 01 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do appreciate a well sculpted body on a man however that isn't what I look for. I prefer a bigger frame than a smaller one. The term 'slim' is a turn off for me, I don't like skinny, I prefer my men to have a bit of physical substance. Well toned, fit, athletic, average, muscular, a little extra weight are all fine for me. I wouldn't like guys taking substances to enhance their bodies such as steriods and really prefer just a natural look than a chiseled one. I do also like a bit of body hair, I don't want a guy who spends more time in the bathroom than I do, and I don't spend much time in there at all. I think anyone who thinks they look good, feels good mentally, and that confidence is sexy. That doesn't mean you have to slave away at the gym, even just dressing right for your shape and knowing how to present yourself. As for me, I am definitely not sculpted unless you are talking a sand sculpture of the blob, lol. I could do more to improve my health and a few years back I did. I gave up smoking, joined the gym, lost 10kgs and then gave myself a shoulder injury. I am not going to kill myself to satisfy someone else but for my own wellbeing, I do need to get my arse into gear again. I have been told several times that 'fat chicks' are better in bed because they try harder and to be honest from my experience, 'hot' guys are pretty slack and guys with smaller penises are very attentive :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a body type that is never going to get the massive ripped look of a six pack etc. But in saying that I keep myself pretty active with rock climbing and martial arts so any strength / fitness work I do is based around being able to enjoy those sports that I love doing and going as hard at them as I physically can. Anything else in terms of attraction and body is a bonus for me. Nothing wrong in my opinion of being the healthiest version of you that you can be and that shouldn't stop once you have found a partner.
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cleopatrababe
12 years ago
MYex husband was a marathon runner and boxer ,, to be honest he was so hard i hated it , the ego was so big he could hardly get through the bedroom door ,, it really did nothing for me i prefer a man to be the best he can be , if hes carrying a bit of weight he eats properly and dosent smoke well thats great ,, we are not perfect any of us , i love the softness of a mans body as well someone to cuddle up to on a cold winters night , bones and muscles are not cuddly as a society i think we spend to much time worrying about things that have no relavance on a relationship isint it about respect and caring for someone enoguh said
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RHP User
12 years ago
Me. All me... Because I enjoy the feeling of exercise, strength, endorphins and a very healthy and physical lifestyle. If that affords me a physique that happens to be visually or emotively attractive to women who I find atteactive, it's a win-win. Drug and hormone free :-). If there's a line, it exists where others are adversely affected. But that's MY line. My experiences are limited to slim-athletic women, and if anything, I've noticed that those who strive to be fitter/slimmer in the short term (rather than being so as a result of an active lifestyle) are less body-confident and exhibit more initial inhibition. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must admit I prefer a more curvaceous female figure...the hourglass shape....still nice and toned by some form of exercise but with a cute booty and slim waist! Personally, I find really slim,hard bodies on a lady doesn't really appeal to me,but that's a generalisation,there's more to it than meets the eye. I enjoy exercise to be the best I can,feel good and stay healthy. I was badly injured some time ago,my post op rehab had a lot to do with my exercise regime, I still appreciate how lucky I am to be pain free and have great health...it wasn't for free,I earned it and it feels great. I think people who exercise (within reason...not the extreme cases) are usually people who take a bit of pride in who they are... Sort of the opposite to smoking. Apologies to any smokers out there,I just don't get it.
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
to all shapes and sizes. That is i find toned women nice to look at, but i must admit being intimate with skinny or hard toned women is less fulfilling than someone cuddlier. I myself am concerned about my weight, but not my tone, because i know its bad for my health. I'd like to be fitter so i can chase my nieces around for longer. Other than that i dress to my figure. i think i look good. I feel confident in my clothes. I have no idea what others think and really don't care if they don't like my style. I know people (men) who were sculpted and now that they're married with kids and don't have the time to maintain most of them are way fatter than me. Are they less attractive now? Their wives don't seem to think so. I think physical attraction can get you past door number 1, but door number 2 takes a lot more and yields not to bulging biceps or six packs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nah,me more cut and run :-) :-) :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
A woman who carries a little extra weight has a significantly longer lifespan than a man...... who mentions it
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madotara69
12 years ago
how many wheat bix can you do?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nice to look at, but I prefer a guy who looks after himself and has a healthy body and frame of mind. One of my RHP friends has a great body, but he isnt extremely buff or ripped, hes lean ( and hot! ) I lost a lot of weight last year, not in a good way, but I feel so much healthier and energised now that I have adopted a healthy eating and exercise plan to stay at my present weight. Also, my job keeps me active. I do feel really good.And if you feel confident about yourself, you seem to attract more attention. Another friend of mine takes part in bodybuilding comps.( takes steroids), and used to look good but now looks awful. Yes, he has the body, but his face looks permanently aggressive. In the end, if you are attracted to someone, you love them all, body, mind, personality, and so shallow preferences tend to go out of the window.
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' A woman who carries a little extra weight has a significantly longer lifespan than a man...... who mentions it
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't go for guys with six packs, especially if that's the only photo they show. I don't like slim or skinny guys as I prefer a guy with a bit of meat on his bones. I prefer average or a little bit overweight or athletic.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
I (MrsParadise) perve on cut and buff guys the way guys perve on bikini models. In fact right now I am sitting next to MrP and getting hot and bothered over the NRL warm up and stretch before the game. I work out, I'd love to be cut if I had a spare 2 hours a day to make it happen, and I go through periods where I work out 12+ hours a week, but more often than not lately I'd be lucky to do 3 hours a week. I do it for me, I've always had booty, so am never going to be thin. I love seeing the definition come through with hard work and I want strength and stamina from my workouts. Losing inches is just a bonus. I discovered the gym really late in life, do if you haven't given it a stab, give it a go. And as for sexual experiences, when a guy is the whole package great, but a great body does not a great lover make and there are guys out there, who stay in shape but you wouldn't call cut, who I've enjoyed more than most of my experiences with adoni. BUT I do enjoy a bit of male objectification and that's half the fun.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Every time I see one of those, large weird looking buff and cut guys, whose body is out of wack and full of those bulgy muscles (all oiled) with a small head....I so just want to poke a pin in them and let out all the hot air!! EWWWWWWWWWWW! It's look just,...... plain........ well.................not the right body proportion and out of shape. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Those guys who go to the gym, just to perv on ladies and make derogatory remarks, about how you want to fuck them......YOU SUCK BALLS! We are at our very worst..... when we have done our routines, we feel sweaty, hair is a mess, we are red face and we don't feel sexy no one bit.....Those comments do not make us feel sexy nor make you look attractive, not one bit I'm afraid! That is why I stopped going...shame on you! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Guess I answered your questions OP.. Who among you are attracted to superbly sculpted bodies? *see above* ↑ Where do you draw the line? When my brain tells my hand, to poke someone with a pin. Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' And for anyone who wants to get started the WORST thing you can do is join a gym and hammer yourself with weights. Get a mat. Today do one situp and one pushup. Tomorrow do two situps and two pushups (I don't need to spell out where this is going do i?) If you hit a wall take a day off, and you should always take a day or two off per week anyway. With the pushups mix-up where you place your hands. For guys and gals pushups from the knees are a really great way to get started too. If It hurts It's wrong. with sexercise, he he
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On_Safari
12 years ago
But how much sugar do you put on them? You know....because there is a balance with everything. *giggle*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Great abs are made in the kitchen, not in the gym. Never forget that.........
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RHP User
12 years ago
Absolutely does nothing for me other than think where do they get the time? Fine for sports people and personal trainers because that is their job and so have a reason to do it for the length of time it takes. As for me, I keep fit for lifestyle reasons, ease of transport and trying to make sure I enjoy a long life without health issues I can avoid. I find I have far too many interests and there are plenty more things to do out there than overtrain for something which at the end of the day would possibly turn me into something like a parading peacock :) Now if I wanted a sculpted body I think I'd go into gymnastics, they have amazing strength and bodies and the sport doesn't seem to affect their brains or act like Neanderthals like a lot of sports people behave like.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I do because I always have, been in gyms and athletics since I was 15, as well as competed in weightlifting comps and bodybuilding. I do it because its healthy and requires discipline. And I just don't like the look or feel of being physically weak or skinny. And in my experience in gyms, the only wankers are the intermediates and beginners. They come in, do some pushups and Situps, and suddenly think they're all that. The big guys who train properly dont chat or perve, they just get shit done. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
of mine who was only twenty-eight at the time,had a heart attack after a rugby match....he was extremely buffed,was a gym junkie,didn't take steroids etc,but had a terrible diet....KFC,maccas had always featured highly....he now has changed his diet and exercise regime and is no longer so buffed.He looks great without the super buffed look...x x Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
on a tour in China with an American family. They looked so healthy, spent hours at the gym, I even baby sat their kids while they worked out at the motel but as part of the tour we saw some Chinese doctors who took our wrists and assessed our health by our pulses. My insides were pretty good :) I did however overhear a bit of the guy's assessment and he did tell us later that the doctor said he looked like a very fit young man on the outside but was like an old man inside and he needed to take care of his health better. We actually gave this family some of our coffee sachets and panadol because in China they couldn't get the energy drinks that they drank all day long and were having massive withdrawals from them. Even the kids were drinking them!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If a lady,or anyone for that matter gets hassled in a gym it's time to move on and find a new one.....plenty of professionally run places to chose from.... All I have ever seen given out in a gym is encouragement and compliments....the trainer/ owner of my gym introduced me to a lady he was training one day and with her permission then proceed to show the "before" pics...my god,what a credit to her! She deserves acknowledgment of the fantastic job she had done and she gets it..but a well run establishment wouldn't tolerate guys hassling the ladies for a nano second.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm just curious since cut and buff is the topic....what's the thoughts on chest hair? I'm not talking the 70's porn star black rug of hair and gold chain look, but just trimmed type stuff? Is it a "go" or Does it have to go?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' A woman who carries a little extra weight has a significantly longer lifespan than a man...... who mentions it looks like I am heading to a long and plump life, unless my heart gets clogged up with all the chocolate cake I have been cooking of late. I wish I could shape up but alas my gym days are gone due to vertigo, its not pretty to fall of the back of a treadmill. I am lucky men like me all round soft and squishy. I like tall lean men, but the best lover I have is a tad overweight, but it makes no difference to me he is smoking hot in bed. I have had some pretty amazing bodies in my bed of this site, but like another woman said its not all a woman needs, there has to be chemistry. just keeping in reasonable shape helps. Ladyt back to the fridge for a graze, then in the warm bed , fattening up like a turkey for thanks giving.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I personally love chest hair. With or without it's not a deal breaker either way for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '4Steve' If a lady,or anyone for that matter gets hassled in a gym it's time to move on and find a new one.....plenty of professionally run places to chose from.... All I have ever seen given out in a gym is encouragement and compliments....the trainer/ owner of my gym introduced me to a lady he was training one day and with her permission then proceed to show the "before" pics...my god,what a credit to her! She deserves acknowledgment of the fantastic job she had done and she gets it..but a well run establishment wouldn't tolerate guys hassling the ladies for a nano second. Is really good. when I first joined a client from work would go there, I had to get another case manager for him as he was a sleeze with me. I loathed him to my horror I found he was a member of my gym. I tried to ignore him but I would get on the treadmill and he would get on the one next to me. I would do weights and sure enough there was creepy next to me. I would not even say hello to him,yet he would say hello to me every time I went. I tried switching times but his life seemed to be in there and I was working full time so that caused a problem. all of a sudden he was gone I ask the manager and he said, we notice things , apparently I was not the only woman he was doing that to. so I feel safe at my gym , most the guys just do their thing as do I , the last thing I want is anyone talking to me or even noticing my fat arse on the tread mill. I don't perv on the guys, just look at the clock and think fuarrrk its only ten minutes so far well I lie, I do look but just a glance. I am human after all LadyT lard arse extra ordinar
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm glad you have a professionally run gym to visit ...good on you for sticking in there until your "friend" got sorted. And hey,nothing wrong with taking a glance or two....it's all about improving your technique by watching others of course!
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RHP User
12 years ago
To date I've only been attracted to lean, muscly men. Tall, broad-shouldered, good arm and pec muscles, relatively trim around the middle. My great loves have lifted weights and I find that sexy as hell. They weren't over the top about it, just fit, strong and healthy. No steroids, not ridiculously huge, just ridiculously sexy. I prefer a man on the lean side rather than on the heavy side, unless the heavy is all muscle. I LOVE chest hair. I have begged a man to stop removing his body hair because I adored it on him. A hot body doesn't equal a strong libido or good skills in the bedroom. I've had good sex with very average men, and awful sex with very sculpted and fit men. Though there is something about the way a strong man can throw me around that turns me on! I'm a long way from lean, fit and sculpted. I recently discovered a long-term genetic medical condition that has given me a lot of answers about my energy levels, metabolism and various other challenges I've dealt with all of my life. Knowing is a relief because now I know where to focus my attention to be the healthiest I can be. Until now it's just been guesswork with many mistakes that just made things much worse. I get frustrated that I didn't have answers 20 years ago and sometimes disheartened because I know I'll always have a bit of a struggle, but I'm stoked to know what I CAN do now, rather than what I can't, and to get satisfaction from improving. I've made some real progress and I'm a bit proud of myself. I do think it has a huge impact on how strong, healthy and attractive I feel, so it's definitely a priority.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Nothing nicer than a well toned body, I'm an arms girl so I like a nice set of arm, not keen on the over the top extremely muscular men but....Exercise is good for ones well being, it wakes up your endorphins and gets them all aroused......💋
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
sometimes a woman with her hair all mussy dripping sweat and red in the face can be a turn on... Admittedly not all the time, but certainly there've been times when i've watched someone exert themselves and enjoyed it...
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On_Safari
12 years ago
For about 5secs then think to myself "Fuck that!!" 😎
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RHP User
12 years ago
All a matter of personal preference. I'm not really attracted to overly cut and muscular men. Six-packs are actually on my dislikes list.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z' Great abs are made in the kitchen, not in the gym. Never forget that......... I've always wanted a personal chef!
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RHP User
12 years ago
1. people who say they are not attracted to a hot buff (attractive) body. Just because you cant get someone who has a hot body, or it shows you up, doesn't mean you have to hate on it 2. people with mediocre bodies on here giving gym advice, or rather advising against gym
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find liquorland have an amazing array,choices hey, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' And for anyone who wants to get started the WORST thing you can do is join a gym and hammer yourself with weights. deadlifting furniture is kinda awkward - and it's a big step from heavy appliances to cars... Gyms might suck for the type of work you want to do, for others it is much more convenient, cheap and effective for what they need. I have a squat rack at home, but I prefer to lift at the gym.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Those guys who go to the gym, just to perv on ladies and make derogatory remarks, about how you want to fuck them......YOU SUCK BALLS! We are at our very worst..... when we have done our routines, we feel sweaty, hair is a mess, we are red face and we don't feel sexy no one bit.....Those comments do not make us feel sexy nor make you look attractive, not one bit I'm afraid! That is why I stopped going...shame on you! Foxy Are you kidding me!? A sweaty, flushed fitness girl looks AMAZING. I'm sure there's something instinctively primitive lurking in the recesses of my mind which identifies a woman who can't run much farther... RA
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent' Are you kidding me!? A sweaty, flushed fitness girl looks AMAZING. I'm sure there's something instinctively primitive lurking in the recesses of my mind which identifies a woman who can't run much farther...RA
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RHP User
12 years ago
From my experience girls aren't that fussed over the physique, I took years to develop it but I've found more girls are into my ability to make them laugh and have an intelligent conversation. Same goes the other way, I love a girl with a great physique but I find I have the best times with girls with less than perfect looks but an awesome personality.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I train for me. No one else. It started as a job requirement to be strong and fit, and over the years i've competed in powerlifting and bodybuilding. I do it because I like the discipline and structure of it. I'm not concerned if a woman likes it or not. I'll keep doing it because it gives me peace from an overly cerebral occupation. Some women do like it, some women don't, (my personal experience is younger ones generally seem to like the look more than older women), but ultimately its one thing that attracts attention, at which point they decide if they want to dig deeper and look beyond the external (same thing I do when I look at a woman). Personally I like fit women, and yes I do perve in the gym, I don't believe that's when women are at their worst, I think some are at their best there, pushing hard, working for something, and the benefits of having a fit strong healthy body outweigh the negatives. Its purely a personal preference and each to their own....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lately I have been quite partial to a buff gym girl
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have found that all shapes and sizes are sexy, it really comes down to that persons self image and self confidence.Whilst I will admit that I am turned on by sculpted bodies, and have a penchant for female body-builders, I have found that in the end, sex appeal and a persons inherent sexiness is not really defined by their physical appearance.But I do admit, a short lady, with a bubble butt and some sexy curves is always a turn on...
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RHP User
12 years ago
As anyone who has peeked at my profile will quickly realise, I am not a gym junkie. For 3 decades I was in the military and HAD to exercise. Now I am out, I exercise when I want to, and to be honest, I haven't wanted to for a while! (it is nice to NOT have aching knees and shoulders!). But be careful on what you wish for. A good friend of mine became fixated on getting a buff partner, the idea of being with a guy with a 6 pack and massive guns just made her dribble! And because she is very attractive and a bit of a gym bunny herself she found what she thought was the perfect guy. An Adonis, to her he had the perfect body. But then the reality set in. They couldn't go out to dinner unless it was a health food type restaurant as he wouldn't eat most food. No late night dates as he was in bed by 9pm every night so he could be up and at the gym by 5am every day of the week. Yes the guy is in the minority but he worked hard to look that good in his mid 40's and he wasn't giving up anything for anyone. I do admire people who work hard to keep a good body, I know it takes a lot of time, dedication, commitment and often sacrifice to do it. But I also admire people that are just happy they way they are, complete with wobbly bits. To me as along as someone is happy about themselves, that is all that matters. Mooka
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RHP User
12 years ago
well i was fit 20 yrs army , ran around all over the place , now im 52 i have fucked feet , back and shoulders. still gonna die . gym junckies = vanity
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nothing beats a HEALTHY mind and body. Confident and happy in yourself and around others. Nothing extreme either way. Too confident is not sexy, too unhappy about your own body is not sexy either. Being fit makes sex so much more fun tho. Opens up to many more possibilities ;) Must say I do like to perv on 'buff' guys, but are they better in bed than other less muscular guys? At the end of the day it's all about connection, doesn't matter how good looking you are. If you don't have the connection with the other person, it ain't gonna happen. Mrs dirty - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was over weight in my late 20's then 1 day just decided id had enough and wanted to get healthier so I cut back on the booze and started training at home... eventually ran out of weights and exercises so went to a gym... Bulked up a bit - never going to be cut and sculpted but hard work and no drugs paid off... Now people tell me i look like a viking and I'm happy with that... lol... winning!... kinda :) - Totally agree with the Mat technique as well - Kalesthetics(calisthenics) are great! In the end everyone has their own tastes so training should be about how you feel about yourself.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Or am I just looking to slip in some blatant advertising... For our MFM experiences, the only candidates I consider are the 'cut and buff' guys, because it's my fantasy and they represent an ideal for me. Every now and then, I like to chat, it can be fun, but again only with the cut, buff and cute guys, because that's a huge part of the turn on for me. Is a problem though because it completely minimises the pool of available guys, but also I won't do it unless I am confident they are 'real'...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I couuld not agree more, I dated a dude with a hard body too, ego, brain was bigger than his penis ugh, so if he has a lil bit of padding bring it on baby xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Those guys who go to the gym, just to perv on ladies and make derogatory remarks, about how you want to fuck them......YOU SUCK BALLS! We are at our very worst..... when we have done our routines, we feel sweaty, hair is a mess, we are red face and we don't feel sexy no one bit.....Those comments do not make us feel sexy nor make you look attractive, not one bit I'm afraid! That is why I stopped going...shame on you! Foxy Okay, so guys making derogatory remarks not so cool, but dayam - at your worst? I say hell no. You're at some of your best ever, yes you're all sweaty, red faced, and hair a bit messy, but I love it! You've just put in effort, and that impresses me way more than if you spent 2hrs primping yourself up just for an evening dinner. Sure I appreciate girls who like to make themselves pretty, but if some women traded half the time they spent getting themselves 'ready' to go out each day for working out, they wouldn't need half the 'other' the stuff they do to get noticed. I love being fit (I'm not sculpted out of cement either btw), and know first hand that we sometimes can't continually work out regularly, but seeing a girl who's relatively fit gives me the impression that she might hold a lot of the same values I have in life, and that's what I find most attractive long-term. Yes I have a limit to what I find attractive in tone, but if you did happen to have waaay more tone that what I would personally prefer, I utterly admire how much work you've had to put in to achieve that (just please have gotten there naturally...).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Those guys who go to the gym, just to perv on ladies and make derogatory remarks, about how you want to fuck them......YOU SUCK BALLS! We are at our very worst..... when we have done our routines, we feel sweaty, hair is a mess, we are red face and we don't feel sexy no one bit I have no respect for strangers telling me they want to fuck me in public, but I must agree with RA. Hot! Those sweaty women with messed up hair look like they were just ravished.
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