M52
DILF Vs MILF
April 17 2014
Comments
-
madotara69
12 years ago
Just had this conversation with Tara, our 18 year old daughter over in NZ studying, reckons her friends think Tara is more of a MILF than I am a DILF, but she just got a new boyfriend she says is a lot like me. Tara thinks it is funny and quite a compliment (so do I), but what is most important is that conversation we can have with our kids as they go get all grown up. Mado Tara xx
-
RHP User
12 years ago
But maybe for a man it's an ego thing?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
The exact opposite. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
It isn't a term I have really used, it doesn't bother me but I work with a lot of porn and the only references to DILFs are in the gay section. Not sure why, but we have some older guy with younger girl stuff and there seems to be no reference to DILFs in those??
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Its used widely - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
It probably is flattering for most men, because in general men don't have the extensive history that women do of being sexually labelled, categorised, fetishised, objectified, and demeaned. And the term DILF doesn't have anywhere near the same societal connotation and meaning as the term MILF now has. It's like talking about chalk and cheese.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Yep id take that :-) and why not :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
-
madotara69
12 years ago
anyone care for the mothers that find the term a little sexy because they feel sexy for it. Or are we going to kill everything over political correctness. Luckdragon are you a mother?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Yep good for the ego. But personally dont care really... I first heard the term from my daughters friends and i thought WTF are they talking about... I then just had to ask daughter what they were on about.. Poor girl blushed. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
It can be fun for a while, but after it wears off, I think it represents me as just a dick. And....well... Let's face it.....I don't need any encouragement :p - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
What about the GILFS....:-) :-) :-) xxQ
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' anyone care for the mothers that find the term a little sexy because they feel sexy for it. Or are we going to kill everything over political correctness. Luckdragon are you a mother? But I'm with LD on this. I'm sure some woman do feel sexy when being called a MILF, but some of us do find it offensive. I guess it's the same as some woman hate being called a bitch, whereas I don't mind that at all if it's said in the right context. Try explaining to a 10 year old what it means when a guy calls you a MILF to a mate as they walk past you.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
some women love being called Milfs...same for cougar....age difference is always going to divide people.....some people won't consider anyone who is close to their children's age...it's a very emotive topic xx Q
-
madotara69
12 years ago
I shall retract that question, it's none of my business. But your post I do not agree with at all. We live in the now and there is many wrongs from the past. Women are not the only people who have done it tough, chalk and cheese.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
forty eight pages of profile names with Milf in the title....couples,single women and men seeking Milfs...there are three pages of Dilfs:-) xx Q
-
madotara69
12 years ago
It's not about the children, it's a topic in a sex forum, for sex related conversation, the way this is going is a topic for facebook. If we can't say milf in here, see you all later
-
MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
My daughter found it rather embarrassing at her 16th birthday party, when some of her males friends started chanting "MILF MILF MILF" towards me. The next week I had one of the young boys send me a naked picture of himself with a bright yellow star over his pecker, to me on F/B. *gives me shivers just typing that out* EEEK! She was glad when she left school as she was so over the Ms.MILF thing...and so was I to be truthful. I don't see myself as a MILF...I see myself as just plain ol boirng ME! I doubt any man here would be embarrassed to be called a Mr.DILF... I reckon they would be quite proud to be called that, myself.... I know of someone (who I work with) who's a single father and his ego is bigger than Ben Hur and the Great Wall of China, because he refers himself a "THE DILF of all DILF's" Secretly I think he uses that to reel in the ladies...Good on him, if it works - I highly doubt it tho. Foxy
-
RHP User
12 years ago
has ego issues? - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
With you - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I see Dilf, I read it as Dilligaf.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
a club of one...well so far....and it's not gender specific either :-) :-) xx Q
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Who cares if you're a dad, or not..... if someone wants to jump you.... they want to jump you. The rest is just an anogram to put a tag on someone. I'm a dad, some people want to fuck me. Doesn't mean they get to.... do what they calls makes no difference to me - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' It probably is flattering for most men, because in general men don't have the extensive history that women do of being sexually labelled, categorised, fetishised, objectified, and demeaned. And the term DILF doesn't have anywhere near the same societal connotation and meaning as the term MILF now has. It's like talking about chalk and cheese. I do not feel objectified if men compliment me in a sexual way. Great tits flo is ok with meI do not feel demeaned unless a person offers me less pay for work I have been called slut when I was a virgin and mostly by other women. again its been women that categorised me I do not care if I am called a milf, to me its a compliment , shit I am glad I am still fuckable.Dilf well good on yaI am more your GILF yeah granny I would like to fuck What I do not like for women is when you get less pay for the same jobwhen your hymen is worth so much you get killed when you shame a family when you loose itwhen your sexual preferences give you less rights than otherswhen as a woman you are in a country with very high birth mortality rates to be honest, I want women to focus on the big issues, and not worry so much about the luxury of being insulted by a few words in our very privileged western culture. so guys if you want to be guys and say nice tits flow, and I would love to fuck your old bones outwell go for it LadyT the anit feminist
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' It probably is flattering for most men, because in general men don't have the extensive history that women do of being sexually labelled, categorised, fetishised, objectified, and demeaned. And the term DILF doesn't have anywhere near the same societal connotation and meaning as the term MILF now has. It's like talking about chalk and cheese. I will simply tip my feminist hat and bid you all adieu...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I love your dyslexic arse.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
But I cant help thinking that DILF is something similar to DOM ......Dirty Old Man LOL.....just a lil fun on a Friday nite peeps...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
LOVE IT..... Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
are terms that *some* people use; they do not define you. Although gauging from the emotive responses here, it appears that a lot of female responders are defining themselves (and others) by the terms. Even throwing the typical cheap shots about mens ego, as if women have no issue with their own ego....sheesh! - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'd rather be a FILF ! (Father I'd Like to Fuck). It's got a nice ring to it ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
To the age old comparison between men and women... Men who sleep around are champions, sowing their seed. Women who sleep around are not portrayed positively. So I guess the difference between MILF and DILF and the way they are perceived originate from earlier perceptions.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Lady T I hate to tell you this,but you espouse many of my beliefs and of feminists every where....Dilf,Milf,Gilf..as you say who cares.....when every week in Australia there is the death of yet another woman or child on the news xx Q
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe post it on a feminist forum? - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
What do other guys think of the term DILF? Does it offend men as much as the term MILF appears to offend females? Do females think that the term DILF is offensive? Prefer non aggressive and genuine responses. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I don't care if someone is a father or not. I personally would never use the term... It's just weird. However I started calling a lover Daddy as a joke a while ago... And somehow it really stuck. I call him Daddy a lot now. :p
-
RHP User
12 years ago
So did those 20-25 year olds call you Daddy? Did thy want to be Daddy's little girl?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Daddy is a similar term / same vein. young guys love calling me that. In the LGBT community its more common I think. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Although in saying that, when daughter gets older and if I heard her friend's or girls her age use term about me it would take on a whole new meaning and creep me out big time. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' I'd rather be a FILF ! (Father I'd Like to Fuck). It's got a nice ring to it ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile sounds FILFy, you dirty boy, lol
-
RHP User
12 years ago
.. be called a DILF than a Dirty Old Man I guess. Mooka
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I have never used the term DILF. Never really considered it. I am attracted to a man regardless of his parental status. I am a mum. And I'd like to think there are people out there that would like to fuck me. I am not offended by the term at all, in fact it can be flattering. But I would like to remind everyone to become a mum (other than adoption or surrogacy) a woman's body goes through a massive amount of changes, some that are irreversible. To feel sexy or desired after such a change is wonderful. If that happens by someone calling me a MILF I'll take it. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
madotara69
12 years ago
I think it takes a lot of courage for a woman/mother to express herself sexually, not because she has children, because she has had children. I love Tara because of who she is and she has been a good friend too me and still is, for her to overcome the changes that comes with having had kids and see herself attractive, in this lifestyle, is courageous at the least. So there is a difference too being a MILF than what it is to being a DILF, men/fathers don't change in any way physically for having kids, they can change mentally by supporting, loving and caring for that woman their MILF, maybe that is what makes a DILF and maybe as rare as a unicorn in it's sense. (so often projected) I think people forget about finding meanings too things and just stick by the attack thing when they do not understand somethings. Does that make them offended or offensive, beats me.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, lots of men looking for a Daddy so they can be his son.... Or just be a submissive bottom boy. ;-) So do you think it is the same thing... Young people looking for MILF and DILF are wanting to be submissive to someone older and more experienced?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
is that MILF and DILF and other terms are just that - they are terms used by the YOUNGER looking to fill a certain fantasy. One cannot be a MILF or be a DILF, but they can be that to someone younger looking to the mother or father fantasy. A male or female of my ager group would not call me 'daddy' or refer to me as 'DILF', but someone of say 20 - 25 might....it doesn't define me, it defines them if anyone. Do people understand that? It appears that some people don't like the term so therefore its offensive...Im not sure people are grasping the fantasy for some younger people and they judge it harshly. Just relax I say!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Yes, lots of men looking for a Daddy so they can be his son.... Or just be a submissive bottom boy. ;-) So do you think it is the same thing... Young people looking for MILF and DILF are wanting to be submissive to someone older and more experienced? I agee 100% Which is why I cannot fathom why some people get so offended by other peoples fantasy
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' .. be called a DILF than a Dirty Old Man I guess. Mooka I think the term 'dirty old man' is a term used to keep older people from continuing to be sexual beings and is used to bring shame and guilt to those who remain sexual well into their glory years...... Mooka, you are definitely DILF
-
madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'bi_for_cpls' Quoting 'mooka' .. be called a DILF than a Dirty Old Man I guess. Mooka I think the term 'dirty old man' is a term used to keep older people from continuing to be sexual beings and is used to bring shame and guilt to those who remain sexual well into their glory years...... Mooka, you are definitely DILF Bet you weren't expecting that Mooks, Gold
-
madotara69
12 years ago
phillidilfia phillimilfia On Jatz crackers, anyone?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' phillidilfia phillimilfia On Jatz crackers, anyone? Just add a bit of sweet chilli to mine. I must admit that today I saw a DILF and my friend saw what he called a yummy mummy
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'll go for a real woman any day and have never found the fact she has had kids and her body is no longer what it once was - her mind though is something that cannot be equalled You are a MILF in my book!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' I think it takes a lot of courage for a woman/mother to express herself sexually, not because she has children, because she has had children. I love Tara because of who she is and she has been a good friend too me and still is, for her to overcome the changes that comes with having had kids and see herself attractive, in this lifestyle, is courageous at the least. So there is a difference too being a MILF than what it is to being a DILF, men/fathers don't change in any way physically for having kids, they can change mentally by supporting, loving and caring for that woman their MILF, maybe that is what makes a DILF and maybe as rare as a unicorn in it's sense. (so often projected) I think people forget about finding meanings too things and just stick by the attack thing when they do not understand somethings. Does that make them offended or offensive, beats me. is such a beautiful post, thank you xo
-
RHP User
12 years ago
We all through these words around but it boils down to a bit of respect for the person..if they think it is derogatory then we should say ok sorry to have affended..it realy is no differant to using and derogatory term aimed at a gray or lesbian bit more offensive to them but the principle is the same respect people. I myself have a harder skin and its water off a ducks back to me and I dont use the terms Better to sweet talk ya girl or man.. Hay I am a dad of a nine year old so that does make me a dilf lol I say it again.. respect peoples it goes a long way for such a simple word
-
RHP User
12 years ago
respect the MILF and DILF 1tofuk I don't think you even come close to understanding the LGBT (human rights) issues by referring to it as "no different"
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Ground Hog Forums
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15103 Comments: 88169
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1416 Comments: 10239
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2519 Comments: 11677
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2504 Comments: 9758
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1003 Comments: 5169
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1302 Comments: 5782
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 781 Comments: 1992
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 868
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share