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DOES ANYONE EVER MEET ANYONE ON THIS SITE
May 17 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nup ;)
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I meet those that I choose to. I don't meet everyone that sends me a message. Read some of the other newbie forums they are full of information. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And please STOP SHOUTING AT ME!!!!!! Now to answer your question - Yes I have met people. If you're new, you'll learn that the ratio of men to women is something like 10:1 on this site, so men need to have a lot of patience otherwise have an exceptionally outstanding profile or be clever in their messages to catch a woman's attention. Keep at it OP and good luck :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When anyone describes themselves as very attractive with a great physique, while it may seem to be a statement of confidence,a little modesty is probably better way to go.Tell us a little more about you,not just your sexual proclivities but you......and babe is a word best used when you know a woman well....otherwise it is a little creepy when used by a man over thirty imo xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you using a template message?... If you are and if it isn't getting a response sounds like it needs re-wording. I looked at your profile and totally agree with Q about using babe, it's ok to me if you know that person on a personal level but just out of the blue comes across as being a generic sleazy name. Even some women if they know you on a personal level might not like it, safer to ask them if they like it or not :).
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RHP User
12 years ago
You beat me to it......... Welcome OP, well you've managed to make forum readers aware of yourself......... Not sure if that is a good thing?............. Tulips & Q, have mentioned two immediate points that might be the cause of your response rate......... One extra, a smile goes a long way to making a person look approachable, choose your pictures carefully.......... Be patient, good luck and Enjoy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attend events and parties and meet & greet social nights .... That is where all the hipsters are. :-D This online dating gig is too much hard work.
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RHP User
12 years ago
STOP SHOUTING AT EVERYONE!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And he's gone!! I met up with someone today and I'm just here for the forums! Lol☺️
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your inbox clearly suggests you aren't all that good either eh?? If you're sending messages in all caps, you'd turn me off too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
ANZAC Where did you go???? Did you met someone?? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
although like mentioned i'd hate to try and do that as a single male.... in saying that the success rate hase dropped off greatly over the last couple of years.... may also be we have become a little more specific in what we are looking for too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am doing my best for the single guy, but shit there is only one of ME LadyT giving a helping hand when she can
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RHP User
12 years ago
You say GUYS why it's everyone. We are a COUPLE that are payed Members and we should have BoUgHt two GUN"S with the $ and Shot each other. As much of a chance MEETING anybody as MISSING each other ! NO CHANCE
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twowithnolimits
12 years ago
Funny we have messaged you and you didn't do us the courtesy of a reply, courtesy is a good start when trying to make a favourable impression, ours was a genuine approach :-(
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
For starters if you show respect to others you may just have a chance, your approach matters if you are too aggressive and and demanding without thought and respect of the other party then you just might luck out each time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I assumed they did. I have been here for about a week and have met 4 people. Would have been 5 but one didnt show up. Ironically, it was an older guy who insisted older is "better, teach you stuff, blah, blah". Flake was a limp no show! In my opinion, you might have an attitude problem. You NEVER should yell at people on the internet just because you cant pick up. Its not the site, its not the females, its not anything but the way you do things and continue to do what hasn't, nor never will, work. You can blame everything else or you can look at you. If you really want to learn what you're doing wrong and why, ask a trusted female friend her thoughts on your approach to the opposite sex. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ummmmm, attitude problem much? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
These are issues of RHP.... Bahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You haven't actually described what it is that you bring to the table, except for being comfortable getting naked. But just because you don't mind getting naked, doesn't give you an edge that you're thinking it does....to me when I read your profile, you don't really care who you get naked with...as long as they're down for it. It's also rather confusing that you say you make love and you don't fuck.....for some people seeking couples, they just want some ongoing fun not a marriage proposal. While I get that that's not on offer, it reads creepy to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately you can't really rely on anyone but yourself these days, it is pretty sad that people can't just be honest or at least considerate. People just seem to be full of shit these days,no matter how much I read about how honest or upfront people are, a lot simply aren't. Maybe they don't want to be insulting by being honest or maybe they are just arseholes. I have had a lot of no shows and that is just plain rude, if you can't make it, just say so. In the last week I have had 2 no shows, no email, text, phone call,nothing...just leave you hanging. My time is important to me, I have to rearrange my household on occasion to meet with people only to be left wondering what is going on. Then they wonder why others give them attitude because they are disenfranchised with the whole dating world. Get your game on people or fuck off and stop annoying the shit out of people who do actually do what they say they are going to do!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ha, I bet he comes from the same millennium as I come from - we never had TV let alone an internet when we learned to write, .... where the meaning of typing capitals had any meaning beyond emphasis or headers. Must admit it took one of the staff at work (actually that was in a previous millennium too) to alert me to the protocol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Men, Women and even Couples, want Ladies even couples ask for me on my own without Mr how rude. We were together here. I have my own "Singles" Profile, and what he didn't know don't hurt him. Now who cares not me !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agreed... I also go with a plan b as well. That way if they don't show, I can just go off on my own. It also enables me to set a timeframe without feeling like crap for walking off, as some people do. Outside my timeframe without as much as a text to say they're running late and it's game over, plan b it is. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just have to ask, but what is that second pic on you profile all about ???
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Durty_Angel' Just have to ask, but what is that second pic on you profile all about ??? Maybe they got probed?
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RHP User
12 years ago
an out of body experience - a depiction of the vision you get during orgasm - the spirit leaving the human experience for another dimension.
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RHP User
12 years ago
you may well be correct, I feel that most persons you describe would probably believe that they are up front and honest, it is often a matter of how tightly or loosely they hold to their truth, assuming they are even aware of their inconsistencies or maybe nothing more than forgetful after a commitment. you obviously hold these ideals very close, well done lovey.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Unfortunately you can't really rely on anyone but yourself these days, it is pretty sad that people can't just be honest or at least considerate. People just seem to be full of shit these days,no matter how much I read about how honest or upfront people are, a lot simply aren't. Maybe they don't want to be insulting by being honest or maybe they are just arseholes. I have had a lot of no shows and that is just plain rude, if you can't make it, just say so. In the last week I have had 2 no shows, no email, text, phone call,nothing...just leave you hanging. My time is important to me, I have to rearrange my household on occasion to meet with people only to be left wondering what is going on. Then they wonder why others give them attitude because they are disenfranchised with the whole dating world. Get your game on people or fuck off and stop annoying the shit out of people who do actually do what they say they are going to do! Once again I totally agree with you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes i have met and played with rhp members - but mostly through referrals from other members. Keep the faith my friend. If you book them they will come.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But i only pay for membership when someones pictures and/or profile really interest me and i think i would interest them...random letter bombing every profile here seems wrong to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is intriguing. Men give each other referrals on which women to contact or meet??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indy, docklands_babe is a Mrs not a Miss. And Mrs & Mr Stig have been blocked so I can't see their pics. :-(
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Referrals?? Are you serious? This happens? It sound like a specialist team of some sort, whom one puts a referral into .....are they written RHP referrals or just word of mouth referrals? Can anyone put one in? Where do you get them from? Are do you have to be part of some sort of team? Very intrigued.. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka and foxy, I've made referrals before... I'll probably do it again. An interstate friend of mine... I told her of someone who I'd met at a drinks night, who lived local to her... Mind you, if I lived more local to her I might not have been quite so forthcoming... :) Besides... In my experience us guys fly solo... There is nowhere near as much networking amongst us guys as you women get up to... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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madotara69
12 years ago
Looks like Mr stig has shined while blowing a load over the windscreen af Mrs stigs golden chariot. Too bad there is no mirror image for that show. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Agreed... I also go with a plan b as well. That way if they don't show, I can just go off on my own. It also enables me to set a timeframe without feeling like crap for walking off, as some people do. Outside my timeframe without as much as a text to say they're running late and it's game over, plan b it is. :) - Posted from rhpmobile I should start doing that I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The plan B is a good policy. A better one is pre-emptying the flake out before it happens. Saves wasted time needing a plan B. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pre-empting
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's this simple Respect Honesty Discretion Politeness Lust If the timing is rite then you will meet. I have had a couple of meets and a couple of no shows, several long conversations that don't transpire to a meet but I'm the better for it. If I tell a lady I'll be there then I will
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' I assumed they did. I have been here for about a week and have met 4 people. Would have been 5 but one didnt show up. Ironically, it was an older guy who insisted older is "better, teach you stuff, blah, blah". Flake was a limp no show! In my opinion, you might have an attitude problem. You NEVER should yell at people on the internet just because you cant pick up. Its not the site, its not the females, its not anything but the way you do things and continue to do what hasn't, nor never will, work. You can blame everything else or you can look at you. If you really want to learn what you're doing wrong and why, ask a trusted female friend her thoughts on your approach to the opposite sex. - Posted from rhpmobile and a good looking one at that you will have no trouble at all meeting people you can pick and choose I'm guessing you get about 100 messages or more a day
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RHP User
12 years ago
on the guy for the yelling he may not know that typing in capitals is classed as yelling at every one
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Nup ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi i have been on here for a about 1 year an i have meet lots of guys an 3 of them i still see
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RHP User
12 years ago
For both guys and girls! The guys I have met lol need reassurance just as much as ladies do. If I have a chance to ask one of my friends about a new date and they know them, I would be stupid not to get their opinion. A lot of the problem with no shows and endless email ping pong, is the perception that meeting up is not safe. It is, go for it, and make sure you let us know how it went lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Even though its not in capitals, turn it down a bit love, it will help you lose the mad factor. And I think Mr must now know about your singles profile
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
Yep...have met heaps of people...don't always meet through the site though, sometimes elsewhere (generally parties) then find out we're all RHP members. Everyone on our friend's list we know in the real world, there are lots of time wasters & fakes on here...but just as many real folks too!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have met some wonderful people and dealt with some liars, pretenders, fakes, and picture collectors and we can usually weed them out. We have also met some not so nice people, better half is not playing at the moment because of a bad experience with a couple, wife pretending to be bi so he could interact with my wife, bad scene and to top it off he liked to play too rough now have no idea how long it will take for her to get back in the swing of things. At twowithnolimits agree whole heartedly always reply even with a thanks but no thanks. Can't believe anyone in there right minds did not even reply to you and why are almost all the hottest bi couples in WA.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'twowithnolimits'Funny we have messaged you and you didn't do us the courtesy of a reply, courtesy is a good start when trying to make a favourable impression, ours was a genuine approach :-( courtesy is a good start when trying to make a favourable impression
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe if you didn't delete your profile, you may have had some success?!? Just saying ;).
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Letsgetcrazy09
12 years ago
People meet off here all the time.Yes I would agree that the Meet'n'greets are a great way to get to know others as well.And Melbourne_Babe, don't take the older guy to heart, obviously a flake, especially with the diatribe he tried to feed you.. JMO Lets
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RHP User
12 years ago
I barely get replies to messages I send. Even if it's a 'no thanks' I'd prefer just to get a response. Especially when you can see that it's been read. It's like saying something to someone and having them just stare back at you...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have to agree with the ladies, Patients is a virtue, good things come to those who wait.. :)) Just keep trying, and good luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
ive only been here a little wile but still trying to hook up for fun times>?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Geez, I Hope No One Gets Too Pissed Off And Takes Their Bat And Ball Home... It's Too Much Fun Reading These Forums. Some Great Advice In This String.......but I Think One Cannot Purely Rely On RHP For Meeting People, You May Actually Have To Get Out and Make An Effort In Otherways Other Than Spending Hours Going Thru Profiles...keep Patient, You Never Know Whats Ahead....a Head...
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BrumbieEvents
12 years ago
We have meet over 120 couples and 30 single women through our parties and private meet ups. just be nice and patience and things will happen, its not rocket science, be nice have respect and good things will happen. Brumbies xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
99yrs and still going strong eh, well done...
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RHP User
12 years ago
The meet ups do happen, and it's not just guys that don't show up. I have personally found couples to be the worst offenders for pulling out last moment, but I also take into account that their private life [usually with children] will always take priority, just as I would treat a private matter as a priority over a planned meet up. Meet ups are really just a sugar-coated screening process where the other person wants to do more with you, but is looking for a reason[s] why they shouldn't. They wouldn't be meeting if they weren't interested. But if you act like an idiot, or lied about you're appearance, then you just gave very good reasons not to go further with you. The reasons the other person was hoping NOT to see from you. If you can act like a 'normal' person during that screening process, you will be more than happy with the results of passing that screening process. You win some, you lose some. Learn from the loses and enjoy more wins :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
that women love and if you get your profile right and channelled that frustration into a well written literate email to a prospective woman then call in your friend patience and i'm sure you will have more luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must add that we've found the majority of people we have come into contact with are full of shit. All talk no action is what we're finding. It really is appalling. The array is issues I could name woul fill a book. Suffice to say that this a like a children's playground. Adults behaving like kids with their antics. Membership renewal won't be an option Disappointed
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RHP User
12 years ago
I reckon its a bout a 1000 to 1 hit ratio ( not fellatio) so hang in there sunshine
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is my second go at being on this site,even changed my title etc to give myself a better chance.Think I would do a lot better changing my gender,no offense ladies.Look I am a polite and respectful guy,the fact is,it seems there are way more of us males on site compared to females.So what have I found this time.Well no woman has mailed me,so you girls aren't exactly beating each other up to get to me.Ha.The lack of sensual,sexual energy towards us males in the first place is why most of us males are on sites like this.That could cause a stir couldn't it.Better stop while I'm ahead.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Having just joined RHP....and without reading your Profile....my experience is similar. Having read many Profiles I tried to be honest and nice....which I actually am....so I'm told. I specifically state that I'd like to chat to see if anything clicks. I say I don't pressure people and I mean it. I am educated and civil. I am a bit confused that no-one wants to chat. Even more galling was the person who indicated she was looking for....Men, Women, Couples, TV, TS....19-99....she was guaranteeing "fun" and would meet anyone who wanted to meet her. Maybe she was so engaging that "fun" in her mind was how entertaining in a social setting she thought she was. No details were supplied, though. When I sent a nice message I received a curt reply that I wasn't what she was after!!! I assured her that I would not harass her but could she give me more and better details as I was confused. No reply, she just blocked me....thanks for the help!!! I didn't write her rather obscure Profile. Disappointing? Very! I'm used to dealing with nice people. It could be, as was posted already, that Men:Women is 10:1...which would explain things. Anyway, end of rant!..:-D After researching seemingly every "Dating" site I chose this one. Well time will tell if I chose wisely. ps I note that some do NOT look at this site as a sex site. Even though the vast majority of evidence here doesn't support that assertion. No worries, I don't try to contact those people. The world is made up of all types....Attention Seekers, Control Freaks, Contrarians........Hey, I thought my rant was finished! lmao I wish everyone good luck in their search.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its hard because of the male - female ratio.. I even had alot of problems when i had a couples profile with my ex.. But if you wait and persevere, the people that you actually meet can knock your socks off big time.During the days as a couple and as a single guy, it has been frustrating to say the least, but I have met some of the most wonderful people on here.They have been worth the wait. Good luck mate!!!
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DBBandJBG
12 years ago
Sorry guys, but in my experience if you are solo you haven't got much chance. It's all about numbers. Demographic.If you take ALL the female participants = 1000 Just for example say between 18 and 60If you take ALL the males 10,000= 10 men to one woman say.Subtract the married/attached ladies say 50%= 500 ladies -10,000 men looking.Subtract the Girl on girl (Gay females) Say 25% that leaves just 25% ladies left SO FAR!Say 50% of them are partnered(with a guy already) Rare they would be looking for you! NO SINGLE MEN !!!!That leaves about 12.5% singles ladies looking for a man only! Whats ya odds guys???? DO THE MATH! at 10,000 to 12 The ladies have a lot of choice eh?Iain
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its definitely more tricky for single males to meet than for the single girls...Patience is always going to be required when meeting anyone...its certainly more fun having a couples profile as we have met some very sexy couples and had some exciting experiences over the years...I have found if I try to hard to be out meeting others it usually leaves me disappointed...things will happen and evolve over time...don't be in a rush and the one for you will be there and you will end up having the time of your life...good luck...:)
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Neilvap3
12 years ago
yeah.. met with a couple .. Looking at a ratio of f, mf, m , it requires patience .. if you are genuine, there are chances that you will end up meeting members.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just be patient- there are some sexy people on rhp that want to be on your list. Ive had some great fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I met every guy that contacted me I'd have to stop working and start fucking 4 plus guys a week. As someone else said... the ratio to men and women is obviously in our favour. Maybe look at your profile or change the way you contact women. I didn't read your profile (I couldn't open it) but just a thought.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Keep at it mate and have a giggle along the way :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with patsplace. It is all about the odds. Eventually you get a hit if you persevere, and apply a little thought to your sales pitch. I have meet a number of people from RHP. I never had a no show - maybe that is just lucky but I don't see the point in getting as far as agreeing to meet and then pull out. The people I have met have all been very friendly, some more enthusiastic than others, some more willing to do repeat meets than others. But you would get the same result in the open market anyway. It is just a matter of having nothing to lose and hoping that this might be the one that gets a result.
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Culturedanimal
12 years ago
Apart from the male to female ratio, I find that the easiest place to connect with people is at parties and not in cyber land. Open door parties also seem to get rid of a lot of the bullshit that is apparent at closed door parties as well. People can turn away from a profile from one miss placed, misunderstood word. That same word would be taken in the right context delivered face to face where body language, voice, tone etc all have an impact greater than the written word. So in short, mediums using the written word (as it is with this site) suffer a huge inadequacy to communicate when compared to real face to face interaction.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have met some really nice genuine fun people on this site. The majority of them were worth the wait . Patience is required of course . I'm sure the lady's and couple on here have to sift through the masses of guys who are fakes and have no intention of meeting or following through on arrangements . That feedback is pretty consistent with the people I've met. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Men outnumber the ladies 20:1.. at least, so like in nature, it's who can stand out from the herd. For women they only need to browse through their inbox, hit reply and know they will get attention, not to mention an ego boost they probably wouldn't get in real life. I guess a minority of the guys are getting most of the action.. those who can either seduce, lie, manipulate or are in the 2% hunk category. With such a poor ratio of women to men, lets face it the majority of men here are not going to get ANY action.. unless all the women are sleeping with 20 different men (on average).. it's numbers game.
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RHP User
12 years ago
rarely...but it does happen
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RHP User
12 years ago
It seems to be that way? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had some truly great experiences, dinners, and sex. But.... Expectations are the sole breeder of disappointment. "If at first you don't succeed; redefine success." That was a quote from a wonderful lady from here, that I read on a different thread. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are much in the same boat, have been on RHP for about 2 years and nada,however we are specific with what we are after so i guess that limits our options. To date, we haven't met anyone not through lack of trying, Mrs is pretty disillusioned with the whole RHP experience. I agree that you have to be patient but in the words of the OP, we can't be that much of a turn off surely? In the words of Dory, just keep swimming, just keep swimming....
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