RHP

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F30

Daddy issue

October 04 2019

So I obviously have daddy issue bcoz I tend to find married men more attractive than single ones. For you ladies out there who also like married men, what do you think make them attractive to you? Do you feel the guilt? Bcoz I used to when I didn’t know about an opinion called “open relationship” (yes, it’s not common in my country) I think I like the idea of getting attention from someone who’s busy. Like they should pay all of their attention to their wives and kids but the fact that they can spare some times for me is such a turn on......I guess?? I’m just asking bcoz I’m a curious person 😁 and like to know how the minds work. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    Married does not equate to daddy. Maybe you seek married men to see how much you can tease and control with zero commitment (?) Obviously its hot when others want you! X

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Is spelt because. Because it just is. An extra 3 letters. Such effort required

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You KNOW I'm a fan of a grammatically correct sentence, and that an Oxford comma turns me on. But did the OP's abbreviation to "bcoz" impact your ability to understand what she was writing? I've read posts that have committed greater crimes against spelling, but I do prefer to try and engage with the idea rather than the mechanics of writing. In answer to your question, OP, I don't think it's a Daddy issue, I think it's a commitment thing. I'm not a fan of engaging with married people without their being open communication and all parties being aware of what's happening, but that's me. Whatever works for you is your call.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Based on your post and profile, it sounds like you may enjoy power games and manipulation. Maybe you like unavailable men because you’re not ready to be emotionally vulnerable, maybe you’re replicating the relationship with your own father who was unavailable, or maybe you enjoy the drama and find single men “boring” and too safe (or all the above?) Either way, I think it’s good to ask the question and worth examining further as these behaviours could become long-term habits that can hurt not just others but you most of all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'm married 46yr old athletic and I'll b you're daddy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have a serious daddy issue and have had it for quite some time now, I have had this since I was young. Being on a computer screen jerking to a older guy, then as I’ve gotten older and more independent I’ve been able to fulfil these fantasies. I’ve met a few good ones and have had some kinky times. Daddy issues is a thing I think cause I only go for older guys if I do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Curiousgirl 35 I forgot to add that I mostly enjoy attention from married men with kids 😅 most fun to see them play with the kids. And yes I do love teasing and controlling 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Patchwork I find them attractive but never used to take any action or even speak my mind bcoz it’s just not right. Until recently i discovered open relationships Rhp fixes my issue. I can play with them with no guilt now PS: if one can’t understand my post, I doubt there’s any intelligent advice coming from them so I just pretend I don’t see anything 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Jince I got told that I like power games too. But I’m really into men who can take the lead and who’s in charge and not let me manipulate them. Like don’t even let their guards down around me. Also manipulation games are just to test their intelligence, not to gain any benefits. You know Tony Robbins says “find a friend who challenges you not just supports you” I’m the challenging friend 😁

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'PatchworkGirl' You KNOW I'm a fan of a grammatically correct sentence, and that an Oxford comma turns me on. But did the OP's abbreviation to "bcoz" impact your ability to understand what she was writing? I've read posts that have committed greater crimes against spelling, but I do prefer to try and engage with the idea rather than the mechanics of writing. In answer to your question, OP, I don't think it's a Daddy issue, I think it's a commitment thing. I'm not a fan of engaging with married people without their being open communication and all parties being aware of what's happening, but that's me. Whatever works for you is your call. Well with such perfect grammer and spelling throughout the OP, the said word stands out like dogs balls.I thought the OP might like to perfect her English skills as it had been used to her advantage elsewhere.No thanks required OP, my pleasure. As far as the topic goes, if it was a male OP posting this, he would have been shot down. I'm not going there, just saying there is a gender difference in acceptability around the place as has often been called out before.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    And just pretend I don’t see anything 😁 A wise man once said... Nothing, he only listened. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fuck all the head games and drama. Rather just enjoy and relax laugh and chat with people we meet on here. You sound to much like hard work. What a nightmear

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    You like the idea of seeing a man who looks after his wife and kids yet still finds time to get away and have it off with you ? Hmmm. I dont think thats all unusual. If your having sex with a married man in a open relationship ' well that's different, if his wife knows and accepts that arrangement, then so be it.. But l feel its more the excitement and power it gives you more than anything.. Everyone has thier kinks and this is yours.. Not saying its right and not saying it's wrong.. gets back to circumstances..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Well with out talking to you it is hard to say if it’s daddy issues. But reading what you have said it actually sounds more like commitment issues hence why you find married men more attractive because in your sub conscious you know that eventually the relationship will end and you have to commit only as much as you feel like

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    from skimming your previous posts...you have Attention Seeking Issues. Denial Issues, Low Maturity Issues, Entitlement Issues, Game playing issues,Delusions of Superiority issues... Now if you could just work out how you feel about all of your issues and how the fit in with an active healthy sex life and or fetish..., you could find that you are interested in a True Sub-Dom relationship...... where the Sub is in charge and the Dom takes that "charge" and use it responsibly(not abusively) . From what I have read so far....You come across as just a young girl who thinks she is manipulating situations , where in reality.....just being used (by usually older) men who want to fuck a younger girl.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Letsenjoy, thanks for sharing :) Mango: yup, I would be hard work and a nightmare* for 50s and above, that’s why those are not in my age range :D Ruby: denial from? Entitlement of? What? When? How? And I never think I am manipulating anyone. That’s not my agenda. I haven’t manipulated anyone but would like to. Only with someone I find worthwhile 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sawadee Oh I thought that’s unusual and i never really speak out about it. And I only play with those in an open relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sweetpussy Sounds like it. I know I have commitment issue and it used to be an issue until I know the term “polygamy” :D my problems solved

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    that you have Attention Seeking Issues Low Maturity Issues, Game Playing issues, Delusions of Superiority Issues, I do question your Denial of the the Denial issues....see all above and your profile. Quote from your response to Jince... " Jince I got told that I like power games too. But I’m really into men who can take the lead and who’s in charge and not let me manipulate them. Like don’t even let their guards down around me. Also manipulation games are just to test their intelligence, not to gain any benefits. You know Tony Robbins says “find a friend who challenges you not just supports you” I’m the challenging friend 😁" Also... see your profile re Manipulation. However, I am not here to get into a chat with you, not here to feed your Attention Seeking Issues.....was just offering a response to your post and why I think you dont have any real "Daddy Issues". Just pointing out a few tips that are blatantly obvious to many , not just myself. I still think that doing some homework about a true Sub-Dom relationship could be of interest to you and a benefit to you. I may be an oldie but I have no problem with short term memory and what I write.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I noticed people missed your facts about open relationships in your original post. I honestly can't offer an opinion but I do celebrate your exploration including that of self. All the best with it, 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thanks peachy. I know right! People only see what they wanna see. I’m not surprised and hence I don’t take their words seriously or personally 😊