M69
Dare I ask: Single male profile feedback please
October 03 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m not your target audience, but for what it’s worth, the second and third paragraphs come across as a little negative to me. Good photos, clear outline of what you’re looking for otherwise ... if I was going to be picky, I’d suggest that you mention you want to connect with someone mentally but don’t actually give any indication of what your interests are outside of sexual connection. Welcome, and good luck! :-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
The no time wasting comment is a big turn off, I take it as if I chat with you and that doesn’t end in sex then I’m a time waster. So I just wouldn’t bother 😊 Also you could consider throwing in a bit about what you can do for her. Because after all we women are here for our own gratification and not just yours 😊 it’s a shared journey 😉
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Supernova
8 years ago
What you write doesn't matter - just get good pics up and women will be more likely to respond 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There are obvious differences in the pictures. Ensure all of your pictures are current and/or of you. I might get slammed for that comment but if I'm seeing that, I won't be the only one. Also not meaning to offend but I would change athletic to average. Again, sounds harsh but those things put me off and I can only comment on how I personally view your profile. When I don't trust the pictures, I don't reply. Sorry just being honest. Everything else looks good though 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
with the no time wasting comment also. In my experience, those who say that turn out to be the biggest time wasters. Also maybe add more about what you bring to the table
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree pictures help, but as for the rest of your comment, not the case. I’ve completely ignored messages from guys with stunning photos but no content or depth to their profile, and I’ve answered messages and chatted with guys with no pics whose profile text caught my attention. I think ignoring one to value the other is a bad move, personally.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The I'm Looking For section isn't too bad but the Description comes across a little arrogant. No need to make comment about other profiles not being genuine. Pics could be better too, to be really super honest - you have listed your body type as athletic but it doesn't look that way from the photo. Not saying it isn't athletic but the photo doesn't reflect it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The no time wasting comment is a big turn off, I take it as if I chat with you and that doesn’t end in sex then I’m a time waster. So I just wouldn’t bother 😊 ^^this! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The no time wasting comment is a big turn off, I take it as if I chat with you and that doesn’t end in sex then I’m a time waster. So I just wouldn’t bother 😊 ^^this! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You are so very wrong! It DOES matter what you write! Well it matters to me. I've met some amazing men from RHP, who are not the hottest guys around. But they put in the effort to write something decent, and that got my attention. Which then got them my number, a drinks date, and more.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Supernova
8 years ago
If you are a Male on a dating site, you will quickly come to realize that photos are way way way more important. I've changed my words and there was no effect on response, changed my photos around a bit? Huge difference. So I'm totally justified and validated in my feedback I'm afraid :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hahaha well you asked... The time wasters and the fake profiles are not going to read your profile. So no need to address them, just weed them out with your own measures... I like to use kik and make people I want to meet send a pic of their face via their camera not gallery. Weeds them out super quick. And we all get time wasters... I get plenty. A well written profile definitely gets my attention. Although I'm not seeing single men at the moment. The three things that get my hook line and sinker are; 1st is photos, 2nd is the profile (well thought out, I want someone I can fuck more than once and if I think you'll annoy me... It won't happen) and 3rd is the messages I get, intelligence, sense of humour and someone laid back. And yeah, no caps. And think of something more interesting to say than NSA....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love it when women tell guys what they like, and guys tell them they're wrong Photos are certainly important to many on here...they're important to me to the extent that I can get a good idea of what the person looks like, including their face. I'm not looking for ripped abs or gym bodies so all the shirtless torso shots are actually pretty boring for me, and I prefer guys who have photos that are a bit creative and show their personality. Of course there's no denying that there are lots of people on here who are really only interested in physical appearance and that's their prerogative. The written part is also very important for me though, and if the written part is non-existent or shit, then I don't bother. Again, I'm looking for guys I know I'll have at least some level of mental connection with so that written part plays a huge part in my decision process. For some women it's not so important, again their prerogative.
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Supernova
8 years ago
I'm simply going on experience from the vast MAJORITY of women I contact and message on here, and those who initiate contact with myself. For some reason I always seem to trigger LD on the subject - I give honest, plain, simple and effective feedback to trial and error the photos because I'm actually a male on here speaking from EXPERIENCE. I'm sure there are a small percentage of women like LD who require an articulated, witty, amazingly written profile (that's great btw 👌) but the vast majority do not care about the written word. They just don't care about anything other than looks - period. Fact. End of story. Sorry! I'm sorry if this FACT is so confronting. Again, my advice is real and legitimate for the vast majority of us single blokes on here. Us guys don't get a look-in if our photos aren't desirable. So just chill - my point is totally valid and certainly not 'wrong' He asked for feedback and I give the most honest and effective feedback here: the guys in question are certainly going to get a better response with better, hotter photos, than if he edits his bio description. Fact. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Hotstepper85' I'm simply going on experience from the vast MAJORITY of women I contact and message on here, and those who initiate contact with myself. For some reason I always seem to trigger LD on the subject - I give honest, plain, simple and effective feedback to trial and error the photos because I'm actually a male on here speaking from EXPERIENCE. Have we communicated about this issue before? I don't remember doing so, and anyway you've had a few women in addition to myself tell you that they consider the written part of the profile to be very important so I'm certainly not alone in my views.It's very likely that you have a 'type' when it comes to women that you contact, and that the women who contact you have a 'type' when it comes to the men they are interested in. Hence your experiences of shirtless ab photos being important and the written part not so much. Those, however, are your preferences and your experiences and not everybody has your preferences and hence your experiences. See how that works? It doesn't mean that you're wrong, but it does mean that you're only speaking for yourself.Seems you might be the one here who's triggered. Perhaps a nice chamomile might be in order.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is just as important if not more than pics. I like a guy who will take his time and write what he is looking for and what he can give me. If he just puts "Hi I will fill this out later" I go onto the next profile. If all I see is a buff body and nothing else I also go onto the next profile. Sorry but I need to be drawn into a guys profile by witty, sexy words. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Supernova
8 years ago
I speak from male experience. I don't make assumptions how it is from the other side as I wouldn't know. Yes there are 'a few women' (minority) where a written bio is of the upmost importance. However the MAJORITY react to better photos. Hence why my feedback is totally justified and relevant. As frustrating as it is to read - we are generally a shallow society, sorry about that. I simply highlight a cold, hard truth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would change from althletic build to average as well. And get rid of the caps and also the no time wasting comment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wonder what kind of woman the OP is looking to attract?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree, without reading all the follow up comments, just jumped on here, but pictures make a massive difference, and I don't mean having to be ripped with the perfect body, but plenty of clear consistent vision, yes it would have to be the biggest reason I back out of a profile, if I can't see them properly. Most times I don't even read the profile without trusting the vision first 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do not have a ripped torso... nor do I have visible abbs...I am older... much hairier, more set I my ways, do not really practice "Safe Sex"...But, "I do OK!" You could be right you know... maybe there is something more to offer then photos huh? LYW btw ... now do another photo sesh. please :)
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