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Dating and RHP
February 15 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have it in mine, although I probably should edit it and be clearer. If you were a chick, I'd say get ready for tumbleweed 😉 but a guy saying he wants that, you should be knocked over in the rush. Also like to hear from couples who met on here, give me hope that it is possible
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sweetgem
8 years ago
I would hope to find my next long term partner on here too (when I’m ready and able to, that is) as then both parties would be informed and upfront about our sexualities and desires. However, it is only a 0.09% chance of achieving that hope (for me) given the number of deceptive single men profiles! All the best with your journey on finding that special someone, Dallas1975. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
I would like it too although probably not quite there just yet in terms of readiness. I’m growing weary of FWB situation for me it’s just crumbs when you want the whole slice of cake. Sexually I want something deeper and more involved and don’t think for me that I’ll get that without some form of commitment. In the long run, I can’t give every part of myself to someone without that trust and connection. When I first came on here a year ago I posted the same topic because I’d had an argument with a guy I was seeing about wether it was feasible. He said no. It’s a sex site. So that gave me a bit of insight into the mindset of how some people view RHP. TBH (in my experience so I’m not saying it for everyone) many men see you as a fantasy/ not partner material / not trustworthy because if you are on a “sex” site you must be fucking anyone and everyone. So I am a little bit sceptical because although I’ve heard a few nice stories of couples on here I’ve also heard plenty of women and men being gutted because they have been lied to or misled. But I guess that’s life and happens everywhere not just on here. I do think it’s very important to be sexually compatible with your partner though so at least you have that as a start if you meet them on here. I am surprised that if you have put it out there you wouldn’t have interest though? Anything can happen so why not on here? Good luck calling in the one . You might get a flood of inboxes now 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My partner and I met on here, almost 3 years ago. We have an open relationship, although that’s partly a result of the fact that we live on opposite sides of the country.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Great topic ... and a question I ponder quite often myself. My profile clearly states ‘I am a quality over quantity kind of woman and am not looking for lots of meaningless encounters with randoms. I would prefer to find a sexy naughty man open to the possibility of becoming exclusive lovers, and being able to fulfill each other sexual fantasies and desires. I am also open to this developing into more over time ....’ Like you Dallas1975 I am on this site as well as ‘mainstream’ dating sites in the hope of meeting that someone special. What I have found is that there are quite a lot of the same men on both sites, however what they stare they are looking for varies greatly (in some intance).On here they say they are looking for NSA, however on the ‘mainstream’ sites their profile says they are looking for a relationship. Being a woman who is extremely sexual and open about my desires and fantasies, my hope is that I will meet a sexy man on here who: a) is able to match my sex drive, and b) share open communication about all things sexual and be willing to explore each other’s fantasies together (whether that includes playing other parties together or not) I have made some amazing friends through RHP and also shared some incredible sexual experiences... but to be honest it would be fantastic to find that elusive chemistry with one special guy ... so being the optimistic person I am, I will live in hope xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I known a couple who met on here. They lived in different states but she moved and they have now been together 5-6 years. I think they are basically monogamous now but if a single chick walked up and offered them a threesome they wouldn’t turn it away. :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I often wonder the same, I thought my profile was pretty clear, without stating the obvious. Maybe I do need to state the bleeding obvious 🤔 “Relationship” and all positive connections even FWB seem to have become dirty words that the majority of people have become afraid of. Why?? Have we become so cynical as a society that anything meaningful is to be feared? Or are expectations too high? How many times have you heard “not looking for anything serious just a good time or some fun” urrgghh 🙄 Who said an ongoing positive and respectful connection has to be serious? Who said you can’t have fun? Or is it due to the major demographic on this site who have had serious relationships go bad? Therefore not again in any capacity? Why can’t people just go with the flow without places restrictions or an end date on the connection? For me personally, the best fun and naughtiness can only be achieved after some trust and mental stimulation or even butterflies 🦋 There’s Nothing hotter than looking forward to the next meet and building that connection and sexual tension in between. Getting to know each other intimately, in and out of the bedroom. I think sadly, we’ve become so shallow we treat sexual encounters like another food order or task to be ticked off our weekly shopping. Bread, milk, threesome..... Ahhhh well ( now that I’ve posted this I’m expecting crickets 🦗) 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
used to be 2 sites...One was Dating and the other wasnt, cant remember the proper names though I am sure someone will and let us all know at some stage. You could just log in and click on which part of the site you wanted to be in. Over time, for whatever reason they just merged into one.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...a long-term and exclusive relationship and suggest that in my profile. Should I find someone that ticks every box in the mental, emotional and physical need spaces...well, fools are born every day and I'm not amongst them. That said, we would both have to be very special people. 🤔😉⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
I met my ex at a swingers party. At first it was fwb then we became exclusive. We were together for 5 yrs. I know of other couples whom have meet through swinging and are still going strong. Shame you missed my last meet and greet. Some beautiful ladies attended. Maybe a singles/swinging speed dating night is what is needed..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whilst I’m not open to a relationship at the moment, I certainly will be in the future. I’ve come to learn an awful lot about myself and my needs for intimacy/connection not just sex. I agree with Lionsdoll. The building of trust and all the naughty buildup is something I’ve come to really enjoy and seek. Maybe the expectation from women is that Men won’t be accepting of a more meaningful relationship. The two should work hand in hand. Of course if your here for exploration and just having loads of hot sex that’s totally ok too! I doubt there’ll be crickets Lionsdoll 😜 BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
No, its not a silly idea. There are heaps and heaps of people that have met on here and dating apps. I guess putting yourself out there, is a start. So it doesn't really matter if it's here or other sites. You'll know when you met her, what hers and your action plans will be and what your future will look like together. The more you know about yourself the better your chances are of finding a great match. 😊 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Somehow, I don't think a movie night out will get me any takers on "date" finder... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
(Although I usually use the "good old fashioned date" template in any case. Maybe that causes the lack of interest lol) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes we met on this site 9 years ago and still happy in love. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always do. Was about to, lol. There's another couple I can't remember the specific names for as well. Taby for if anyone can fill in the details please. Peachy
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' Yes we met on this site 9 years ago and still happy in love. Pusscat xxx That's so great to hear :-)
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'SugarSugar69' I met my ex at a swingers party. At first it was fwb then we became exclusive. We were together for 5 yrs. I know of other couples whom have meet through swinging and are still going strong. Shame you missed my last meet and greet. Some beautiful ladies attended. Maybe a singles/swinging speed dating night is what is needed..... - Posted from rhpmobile Yeah I'm still bummed I didn't make that meetup. Speed dating could be something, although your parties have been great. I'm looking forward to the next one!
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RHP User
8 years ago
That are looking for more with a partner than I thought. I'd heard before that a man isn't looking for a relationship with a woman who has had a variety of men or has sex with them early on as they prefer (hypocritically) women to be more innocent 😀 how true is this to you men? Single/swinger speed dating sounds fab - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Over time the 2 parts of the site merged (I think the other half was called Yes Dating) because the women (in particular) were tickled by the Hot side, and then slowly but surely, the hot was sucked out of the site. The inclusion of Facebook on the site was a huge part of that. We used to be able to have boob pics and now I can't even show my back without it being rated too hot on sign in... My shadow was rated as too hot recently as well... Peachy.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Naww. And that's why you two are one of my favourite posters. 😍 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Status is all good now... Peachy even
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Dryphuz
8 years ago
When i first signed up I thought RHP was for people who were looking for relationships. I mean the other sites seemed to be for your stock standards, while I have a very high sex drive. The other sites don't seem to cater to those where sex life is an integral part of the relationship. So that's what I thought RHP's niche was. I mean from what I understand there are sites for older people, sites for gamers, nerds, people looking to cheat, etc. I made my profile before I read others, then discovered that RHP caters to people not looking for something committed either. I still figure this is the best place to meet someone who has similar needs as me. Start casual and maybe things develop.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m glad to hear the success stories here. 10 years?! Good work 😁 It’s refreshing to see not only women, but a few men, are open to dating and keeping an open mind to future possibilities too! Amen 🙏🏻 there is still hope! I always wanted to go speed dating 🤔 sounds like the next meet n greet might be the way to go? I might need a date to attend with me though...? Thanks BB 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As otherwise it’s just a wank... - Posted from rhpmobile
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