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Dating coaches

September 02 2025

Love em? Hate em? Pray on the vulerable? I only ask as I have come across a few of late; a male coach from the UK who has me in stitches with his cooked ideas about dating women. Another Australian dating coach stating women should sleep with men on 1st date as she's "marriage material". Those women who don't, are not marriage material. I find that Just bizzare. 1st male coach states: Sexual Tension flirting leads to sex. So he's encouraging men to straight up start conversations with sexual talk, that will lead her to having sex. Flirting is just that, flirting. It's boring. Boredom leads = you're wasting time with no sex as outcome. LOL! I just can't even go there with Andrew Taits wacked ideas. So it makes me think do a lot of males behave to way they do because of faulse and misleading advice from these so called "experts" dating coaches who are so in tune with women? How successful do you think dating coaches are? Ms Foxy

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Sawadee

9 months ago

Really ' I didnt know there were any such thing as a dating coach. ? Goes to show how much things have changed. Thinking back , sexual tension occasionally lead to sex on a first date none of which required to marriage and definately not shown the way by a coach... Im not knocking it mind you , just cant imagine it working for someone like me..

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nightingale8

9 months ago

I remember enjoying reading The Game by Neil Strauss shortly after it was published. Even as a woman it was a bit fun reading about some of his ‘conquests’, advice and adventures. And then years later he published his repentance book basically apologising for all the cooked beliefs about women and relationships he had held spread amongst the masses and which ultimately made a lot of men very unhappy in the long run. Don’t know about what advice these so called experts are dishing out now as haven’t followed it. But the basic concept I think isn’t so bad. Just hope that these coaches also focus on how to make the ladies feel the interaction was worthwhile, to let us ladies down well. Because you’re basically destroying the field for your fellow players otherwise!

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NeoAndTrin

9 months ago

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boobsandbusted

9 months ago

I think they have very little value to no value ,as I do not think one recipe fits all ,whether right or wrong, dating and relationships are so complex with so many variable variables,they are always a personal experiance being affected by past ,present and the future , there is no real generalisation, .so for me most of these types can stfu,lol,they do not know me ,you or anyone different 🙄

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RHP User

9 months ago

I know I live under a rock, but I had absolutely no idea this was a thing. It lead me down a hilarious lunchtime rabbit hole 😂 Some of them appear to be very "snake oil"

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Ex007

9 months ago

I do not follow dating coaches most are twats. I do flow 2 well balanced relationship coaching couples that align with my own values.

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The_Milkman

9 months ago

Coaches aren’t the problem. Clueless men are 🫢

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DdoubletroubleV2

9 months ago

I wish we would stop the platforms for attention to these “coaches”. They literally normalise the concepts of toxic masculinity, patriarchy family violence & rape culture and it’s gross.

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