M51 F47
Dealbreaking Visits
October 17 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Probably most of the things you mentioned then add, washing all over the place (clean or dirty it doesn't matter) General mess really you should try and at least make an effort to tidy up for company I guess all are good arguments for playing somewhere other than at home like a club or hotel then no one sees what the other is like in their own habitat LMAOMrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
She was on a diet cause she was a body builder, she ate dinner and then we could hear her vomiting in the toilet...lol Not a real turn on i can tell ya...Bryan went the dunny and found out she had not vomited in the toilet, but vomited in the spa...lol That was of course about 10 years ago, we feel safe to say it on here..lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quick take all the photos off the wall!! Lock the kids and the bibles in the shed...with a gameboy so they stay quiet! All my mink blankets strewn artfully about my shag glitter lounge room will have to go! You are ok with leopard skin & zebra print aren't you?? And yes my mum lives in the spare room....but thats ok, she likes to watch ( you did say you were in to voyarisium didnt you? ) *giggles* Mrs H
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RHP User
15 years ago
When we first started swinging a couple of years ago we met up with people at their houses and for us a big turn off (apart from decor) is a grubby house. Fair enough if it's a bit untidy - we all live busy lives what with work, family, fun etc so don't always have the time to make sure our houses are 100% tidy, but to us tidy is different to clean. We cant stand grubby houses/bathrooms etc. It gives the wrong impression about your own personal hygiene if you can't be bothered to clean your house, particularly in the situation you have invited guests. Perhaps not related but for us it's certainly something we can't help but think. Hence one of the reasons we prefer to meet at clubs now:-) Excuse me while I go clean my house now!! Alina xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
they're not a cute young lady like you were expecting, but an older couple of gay men answering the door in their jocks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Andy....... From the moment the door opens, these have been things that have, and do put me right off........... 1. BO and unbrushed, furry looking teeth!!!! WORST possible surprise a swinger could hope for I think. FOUL. 2. Funky smells coming from the house. Dog smell, rotting food on old dishes, etc. I like fresh air. 3. Foul mouthed language. They're not always like that on msn? I'm no stiff, but can't stand whe every second word is F'n. 4. People who let their giant dogs 'greet' you, by scratching the shit out of you, then nuzzling your crotch and leaving a trail of dog slobber all over your sexy, new outfit. Dogs on couches, bed etc. "Have a seat!" they say. Where exactly, on the dog bed? I don't want to be leaving covered in fleas, flea shit dog hair today thanks. 5. Messy house, no not messy.....Dirty houses! Feral toilets with no paper, dirty linen on their beds, messy bathrroms with piles of crusty undies on the floor, etc....EWWWWwwww! Toys and shit lining the floors? I'm a mum too, life is busy yeah, but it takes ten minutes to pick stuff up off the floor, and clean the bathroom and toilet.....for a 'Guest'...? I try not to judge people Andy, but I do wonder why those mink blankets with tigers are always hanging in the window of their homes? Alongside the boxing kangaroo, prayer flags and the rope light santa still there from three christmases ago.....maybe just more decorative than boring old curtains? Kids home, glittery rugs and bulimia I get. But why don't you like the topless men holding the baby photos?? I think they are just GORGEOUS, and just about every second home has one?? They are obviously very much treasured by these proud fathers, who have made them pride of place in the homes.... Not toooo weird, why such a turn off if you don't mind me asking?
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RHP User
15 years ago
what turns me off is a house so pristine that im scared to touch anything.My mothers house is like that...its like a museum...and i feel like a messy oaf whenever im there.If Im at the point of meeting someone in their home...then Im there to see THEMand I would hope that I have a pretty good idea of what kind of a person they are.If playing with someone hinges on how they keep their home...then perhaps a hotel is the way to go.But to answer the original question....I cannot do bad breath.And by bad I mean...your mouth smells like you just ate a shit sandwich and didnt brush afterwards.I also dont like annoyingly pushy.Apart from that...its all on merit. JMO...BJxxx
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
All of the above (unfortunately the bad breath one can be tricky cos generally the person with it doesn't know..). Also people who are just dressed in shabby house clothes when you arrive...yes we have encountered a guy in his stubbies and she wasn't much better...yes we left! The other thing is TV on...there is nothing more mood killing than "Neighbours" or the ABC News blasting from the TV....that being said silence can be deafening as well...add some background music..even if it's not to our taste it's better than TV. The other annoying thing is every light in the place turned on....try some dim lights & some incense to kill any earlier cooking smells. Oh...if you're serving nibblies..only sweet stuff please, the stinky cornchips & dips just take us right back to the breath issue eeewww. C'mon it doesn't really take much though to set a sexy mood!
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tank__girl
15 years ago
I know I'm a messy oaf too, always been the black sheep.. No sign of a stuck up, prissy princess in the slightest!! I pay my friends to fold and put away my clothes, while I watch and chat! This can often take up to four hours, I loathe washing. I own my own home and am very house proud, it is often a mess....but, it is clean and most of all HYGIENIC and HEALTHY. "MY HOUSE IS CLEAN ENOUGH TO BE HEALTHY, AND DIRTY ENOUGH TO BE HAPPY" I have that displayed in my home on a plaque... So grandma'ish I know, I'm such an old soul...?! I'll elaborate. I didn't want to take it too far and gross you out, or 'name and shame'...But you and the people responsible asked for it... If you know who you are then, I'm sorry, but yeah......I was pretty mortified! Especially with the second to last one!!??!! When they have to pull a dirty glass out of a sink full of crusty water to offer you a drink...that could make me sick. Or when.. They have to shoo the two dogs off the bed you're about to get naked and intimate in...that could give me worms. Or when.. They reach under the bed and pull out 'dirty' toys! As in used, covered in dog hair, fluff, human hair....which are rolling around next to the overflowing ash tray, not full of just cigarette buts, but a used condom and USED TAMPONS FFS!!? ..............again, wtf will I catch? This was one of the most disturbing things I have ever seen, I was instantly ill. Or to top it off, when they offer you a shower that has a used tampon sitting in the bottom of the tray? Farrk meeee I think I am usually an excellent judge of character, but you just never know how people live behind closed doors. These particular people, were all very well dressed, well spoken, 'normal looking' people, with normal jobs etc. I always like to get fair idea of what type of person they are too, but how are you to know their two dogs sleep on their bed before you go to see THEM? Might have to start getting pickier, asking more questions? "Soooo, do you have any pets. If so, where do they sleep?" "Do you smoke.....in bed?" "Do you like toys? So where do you keep yours?!".............??? How do you find out these thing prior to meeting without sounding like a complete goober? I often prefer to have people over, and incorporate a shower in the foreplay...if I know they've not showered! I had a guy turn up straight off the job site!? Mud and shit caked to his knees, stunk of man sweat, covered in red dust, and tried to turn down a shower! Not on my pretty, pink princess bed you're not kiddo....! ...Just common sense stuff I thought? Maybe not. Boys, and girls...! You have a 'date'? Do we just not care these days cos it's just random 'sex'? Change the stinky, stained sheets if you can't remember when you last changed them, brush your furry teeth if you can't remember when you last brushed them, and put the stinky dog outside if you can't remember when you last washed it, please. Otherwise we won't wanna be going anywhere near the bed....or your mouth. *Shudders*
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RHP User
15 years ago
tank girl....the reasons you have stated above are EXACTLY why I reckon playing at a club...or getting a hotel room...is the ONLY way to go!!If its only about sex...then do i really care about how they live at home??In a club or a hotel...most are non smoking nowadays...so the "do you smoke in bed" question is moot....and no pets allowed...and you KNOW the sheets are fresh...and that the room is clean.But as for the used tampons hanging around..I agree..thats fucking gross.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I once played as a single girl with a guy who had a massive fish collection - it was around the time of the EKKA and he had some in special holding tanks as they were being entered in it ....anyway he spend like half an hour telling me all about them. Then we fucked ... (lets just say I could hear the sit com that was on in the other room and I don;t think there was even time for an ad break). Afterwards I had a shower and he handed me a dirty damp towel ....now the rest I could excuse but a dirty damp towel .... while he dried himself with a fresh clean one!!!! mrs sex
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RHP User
15 years ago
Surely you made that up? Like seriously!?!!! I know at times my house gets to a state in which I will take friends for a walk around the block for a visit rather than let them see the collosal mess of my house. But if it was a pre arranged date then you will find my house spick & span...as long as you dont notice the texa on the wall or open my cupboard! Clean sheets & a tidy bathroom would be the least of it! But tampons in the shower???EEEEWWWWWWW! I feel so embarressed for these people! I dont mind living like a pig (sometimes...lol) but damned if I would let anyone see it!!!
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Haven't encountered some of those scary moments like you Tank Girl (thankfully). But What you say is true...no matter how proper people appear to the outside world, they can really live like pigs behind closed doors. We know of people like that...totally respected, quite wealthy, expensive cars, good job, members of some high profile organisations...but live in totally chaotic mess. Also many years ago I (with first wife) had to do business with an elderly couple who were highly respected in their field, often featured in national & international magazines for their business. We had to drop into their upmarket Brisbane homeone night to chase something up...YIKES! we were gobsmacked..total & utter pigs, trash, junk, clothes, food scraps and more everywhere..eewwww... it's mind boggling????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes, any normal person would have the decency to at 'least' pick up all the used tampons from in the shower?! Come onnn....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Although this was not at home....it was in a club, it is very eww worthy!I used the bathroom, came out and washed my hands, then I guy we had played with previously and wanted to play again, came out from the stall next to me. I was washing my hands, I mentioned to him that one of the soap dispensers were empty and to use the other one. He looked at me then walked right out of the bathroom without washing his hands!We have a spa bath so we will run that as it is always fun for foreplay.I agree with Donna Brett about the shabby clothes too! Really not hard to make an effort. That is one of the things I like about what we do. It keeps you from that comfortable rutt you can get in as a couple, every time you go out to meet someone new is like a first date. Dress to impress, shower and shave, put on some deodorant, a little bit of make up or some product in your hair, clean underwear, and sure stuff everything in a cupboard or under the bed, it is just that simple!xx Salina
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RHP User
15 years ago
My biggest pet hate is food at sex parties...yeah it is nice to eat nibbles...but .... Think about it...health and safety dont allow us to serve anything at the club that is not wrapped...hence the minties and the fantails on the bar. If you have a dip there...and biscuits..think about where peoples hands have been, have they washed them....where have their fingers been.....DONT DO IT!!!! EWWWW. Unless everyone that is there is washing their hands constantly throughout the night...think of what you are eating....
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RHP User
15 years ago
As for Spa's we had 2 at the old venue and swore we would never have them again. They are a place that bacteria love to flourish. We would test the water all night long and be disgusted in the level of bacteria... We once went to a party at another club that had a spa, we were sitting in the spa ( first up thank god) when a lady entered the spa. Bryan said to me "get out"....i looked at him in amazement as i was enjoying the clean fresh first time spa for the night... He said it again..." get out".. so i complied... He then pulled me over and said did you see the white stuff floating on the top of the water...i said yes, but it only just happened and i thought it was the bubbles, he said NOOOOOO the lady that just hopped in had toilet paper hanging out of her arse and it was wet toilet paper.... OMG ...hence i never got in a spa at a sex party again.!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint' My biggest pet hate is food at sex parties...yeah it is nice to eat nibbles...but .... Think about it...health and safety dont allow us to serve anything at the club that is not wrapped...hence the minties and the fantails on the bar. If you have a dip there...and biscuits..think about where peoples hands have been, have they washed them....where have their fingers been.....DONT DO IT!!!! EWWWW. Unless everyone that is there is washing their hands constantly throughout the night...think of what you are eating.... Quoting 'couplesint' As for Spa's we had 2 at the old venue and swore we would never have them again. They are a place that bacteria love to flourish. We would test the water all night long and be disgusted in the level of bacteria... We once went to a party at another club that had a spa, we were sitting in the spa ( first up thank god) when a lady entered the spa. Bryan said to me "get out"....i looked at him in amazement as i was enjoying the clean fresh first time spa for the night... He said it again..." get out".. so i complied... He then pulled me over and said did you see the white stuff floating on the top of the water...i said yes, but it only just happened and i thought it was the bubbles, he said NOOOOOO the lady that just hopped in had toilet paper hanging out of her arse and it was wet toilet paper.... OMG ...hence i never got in a spa at a sex party again.! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...and Double Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The chip bowl, and germs in the spa. Everyone's heard all the stories about the 'nut bowl' at the pub and that spas are gross. I have never been to a club, will get there one day....soon, but maybe I have the wrong idea about what goes on there?? I understand the importance of hand washing and hygiene and all... But, Hmmm, so when you enter and exit a room to play, is it common knowledge and etiquette for all parties to wash their hands? That's great! But what about everything else...I was thinking, why worry about eating chips from in the chip bowl at a club, which yes could be filled with germs... when you've just been eating foreign dick, fanny, bum and tounges, you've just met, that could also be filled with all kinds of germs? Am I being thick here and missing something?? Or is that 'not' what you do at at swingers club? Not trying to be a smartass..! Lol.. Just don't get it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
What a circus?! Or a freakshow! Might work in a doctor and nurse type role play...but all I can picture is some crazy, latex zombie creature, with his two rubber gloved arms coming out at me...?! Ok, I've just text two Rhp friends. And they said they have never seen such thing at 'CI' (as regular guests) or any other clubs they've been to. Anyone else been to one of these latex loving clubs? 'couplesinternational'..... I've heard you supply free condoms, what about the gloves?? So what, people just don't lick bums and stuff at clubs? Lol...or is it simply just each to their own on how far you want to go with the 'safe' bit? Like another forum on kissing while swinging, yay or nay. Very mixed opinions...
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
On a lighter note...When you really think about it, our phobias don't really make sense ie: We are turned off by folk who may dip into the peanuts after having just had their fingers up some random lady's neither region yet most of us are happy to bury our faces in the same region of the babe standing next to said lady?Then you may have a woman who is freaked out by a guy who may not wash his hands after relieving himself..but an hour later she will put into her mouth that same appendage he relieved himself from... hmmmmm...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Glad you guys get me.... Cracks me up.....and so do you btw! Like your 'burlesque' post, I remember it and recognise your pic, I remember lots of stupid things?? ;) It 'was' you i hope?? Lol..I was going to reply, but didn't? Reading your post took me back to about '94, doing things I shouldnt've been doing at that young age...with people wayyy older than myself. When I saw the Danzig DVD/soundtrack for the first time! With the hot chick who dances around in the black g string...MMmmm.. Hot. From that day on Danzig was my favourite, and I think I made my mind up there and then I'm definitely either a lesbian or bisexual... :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
You wont find chip bowls at our club or any form of food that is not wrapped ! What you do with your mouth and hands in your own time is not our problem..lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you read what has been said. It actually says, we 'don't like' feral bogans. Must be something else in your case. I spent hours upon hours cleaning, dusting, washing, WEEDING!, shaving, moisturising, etc.. I organised and paid for a babysitter, went shopping for nibbles and drinks (wine, beer, vodka, rum and mixers. Anyone who has been to mine will testify that, which is not too many btw! Normally always have these in the house- for guests) changed all the linen, bed covers and all, cleaned all the mirrors and even a few windows!!!!..... for a RHP date. It was all confirmed 4-5 days prior, with texts back n forward to keep in touch. And 'we' the two of us, were stood up...GRRRRRrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!! It takes ten seconds to send a text to say you're not coming/can't make it/not keen now, whatever...YOU FUCKING BOGAN!?!?!? Sent her a text asking if she was ok etc. No reply. The next day, we are Blocked.............. Geeeezzz.... Yup. Certainly some scumbags around.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Hey RHPlayers, We would hope that you had actually spoken to this person/s prior to making the date? Just sending texts is not a good thing. If you already know someone and know they are reliable well that's OK. We never arrange to meet new people without having spoken in person to both parties if it's a couple. It's not a guarantee you won't be stood up but you will get more of a feeling if these people are serious or not. In our 11 years of swinging we have never been stood up (famous last words LOL). If a person is not willing to talk on the phone...they aren't really serious about meeting. Just our opinion.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Confirming with 'Mr' today, (that happened on Monday, lol over it now, thanks. ) he had been taking care of the business side of things...I thought they had spoken, but no it was all via text. I tried to call her about 9am, to introduce myself as she was due at 12. No answer, so I thought it was her day off she's sleeping in. Aaaannnyway! There's a first for everything, and definitely a lesson learnt here. Although my house is spotless..still!! Not all bad.... Mum always knows somethings up. She just happens to pop on for one of those impromptu visits for a cuppa half an hour before my two dates arrive..seperately... As I'm about to jump in the shower! Argrgg!?....I told Mr when he got here that mum had just left, as she walked in, looked around and said "who are you expecting??". Lol..... We are very close, she knows everything...it makes life a whole lot easier when you can just tell the truth huh? ( re. All sorts of other posts about being 'out and proud' etc.). So she said "Oh well, I better go then?". Awwww isin't she a good mumma! I gave her a big hug and kiss and told her I loved her, and gave her a some beautiful fresh snapper I was given straight off the trawler that morning as hush money heheee...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I also went to the sex shop and got my nails done! Then after all that, Mr and I made the most of the afternoon....was more for me!! Wanna see what we got up to? Hehee.. I put them on our profile.. The rest in pg..it was alot of fun :D. Got ur message, see you soon sexy Germans! X
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tank__girl
15 years ago
...the new 5 star club on the Sunshine Coast, can't wait to get there!! I've heard lots of good reports about it..Clean, classy, inviting, etc. FYI. I spose we all can't afford a nice apartment, everytime..! ..and spontenaety is fun!? Maybe not the safest choice I know, Mum agrees!! I do very much very much entertaining and having guests too! I love folding up the towel and washer as they do in nice hotels, with a soap and the little bottles of 'stuff' I've collected from elsewhere arranged nicely on the top! ...really! I have also met some gorgeous, genuine and very clean people who have appreciated my 'little touches' btw.... =)
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RHP User
15 years ago
that,s why people r private and selectful.how bout the people turning up?we don,t have that problem as we arrange a meeting.most men check out my husband and inother words u don,t fit the bill for either parlee withu enjoy the evening with us and hope things may change?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Horror!!!! Eeeeeeeeasy stomach! Wow these stories have churned my stomach. I suppose if you've been in this game long enough you'll come across all this kind of stuff. Maybe i should just stick to hotels rather than peoples places, expensive but a good investment from what i've read. Cringe. xx SweetieI think Sweetie said the excat words I was thinking.....................
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RHP User
15 years ago
We ignored the golden rule once.. "always talk to both on phone FIRST" We had messaged online and even chatted on msn a few times over a month or so, then got a message to pop out for a swim and a drink tonite? We had the night free and thought "what the hell" When we arrived he answered, finnally, and had just walked in from driving accross town helping his brother with something. Dressed in t shirt and shorts and messy hair.. Of course we were dressed sexy but casual , smelled nice and bought drinks . Ok, things come up, no worrys, lets meet the wife... No sign of her...then the kids came out!! "who are you?" hahha...ok, lets have a drink and make the best of this and learn from our mistakes.. He chatted about his exciting day, asked us very little, then said hes very tired from playing last nite?? Finally the wife come sin and just looks at us like "who are these people" and "iam not going for a swim" then the kids came out again...weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee "i cant sleep" so we finished our drinks and said maybe next time....lol ah you live and learn hey? Neo
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athletic_couple
15 years ago
We have had four play dates thus far from meeting people on this site, and many more with people we know, and thankfully have NEVER had any experiences like those outlined here! I really cannot believe that people can be so disgusting, deceitful and disrespectful. Sure, you have good days and bad, sometimes you don't get a chance to reply to people straight away, are running late and don't get your hair 'just right', or maybe you forgot to turn on the dishwasher .... but seriously, some of this other stuff just blows my mind! To those of you that we have met so far on here, THANK YOU for not being a freak P.S. A little freaky is acceptable ;) James & Maxine
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x2ForU
15 years ago
i have been to many bbq's and other gatherings.. ( non sexual ) and have often indulged in there dips and chips and other finger foods they have available.... but dont think i will every indulge again.. no matter how hungry i am.... you just dont know who has gone to the toilet and not washed there hands... or picked there nose and not washed there hands.... certainly makes me think twice.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!maybe tongs and spoons for the dip.. shelly xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
hotel's all the way.everything even for everyone.let,s face it..........if it don,t smell like fun then run............
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sexycountrycpl' I once played as a single girl with a guy who had a massive fish collection - it was around the time of the EKKA and he had some in special holding tanks as they were being entered in it ....anyway he spend like half an hour telling me all about them. Then we fucked ... (lets just say I could hear the sit com that was on in the other room and I don;t think there was even time for an ad break). Afterwards I had a shower and he handed me a dirty damp towel ....now the rest I could excuse but a dirty damp towel .... while he dried himself with a fresh clean one!!!! mrs sex Hang on - expo was in 1988'ish, your profile says you are 31. Do the math Quoting 'sexycountrycpl'I once played as a single girl with a guy who had a massive fish collection - it was around the time of the EKKA and he had some in special holding tanks as they were being entered in it ....anyway he spend like half an hour telling me all about them. Then we fucked ... (lets just say I could hear the sit com that was on in the other room and I don;t think there was even time for an ad break). Afterwards I had a shower and he handed me a dirty damp towel ....now the rest I could excuse but a dirty damp towel .... while he dried himself with a fresh clean one!!!! mrs sex
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sexyparties4us
15 years ago
EKKA is the Queensland show every year in August not Expo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Think you may have misread countrycouples post it was EKKA time (as in the show) not EXPO as in 1988 or at least that is how i read it Mrs GC
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tank__girl
15 years ago
The year we flew into Australia from NZ to live... How fun was that!? Coming from a small country town, We all thought we'd landed in Vegas! Expo 88, reminds me of a song too.. Well a skit I saw at a comedy night about 15 years ago "Having fun with Kate at Expo 88"! Was one of the funniest nights of my life :D I might go & see if I can find it anywhere...! Ahhh memories, thinking out aloud that's all!?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi guys we have read some of this stuff and it blows us away that people actually get this sort of thing when they visit play mates.Courtesy and respect is standard and to be clean and classy is expected.Why not a clean home as well.We all deserve a nice time out when we play and its nice to entertain and have all the nice little things eg flowers in the room ,sweet treats and so on.Its nice to be considered and to have anything less is a deal breaker for us.We play at home after we get to know people and in resort style accomodation if we want to meet but dont know them well.But things can still happen even when you have considered everything.We are a happy couple and been together 15 years and have played and had a lot of fun and have some close friends and we love and respect them for all they are.We have met some here aswell and we continue to be friends.But we met a woman and she seemed like a nice lady that wanted to play.All good we played and she came around and played some more and wanted it to be a regular thing.Thats ok only by arrangement !So she wanted to do some sexy pics and we were ok with that untill she started to want to look like me.AHhhhhhhhh she wanted to wear my clothes and wanted to pose like me even down to how i held my fingers in a picture i have.And after all this she now tells me at this time she would like a BABY! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Its a nightmare.This is a DEALBREAKER and she is now not in association with us and never will be again.Dirty tactics are prevelent as well as dirty homes apparently .Only on your own terms and stay sexy ,happy n safe.Expect the best and nothing less guys.Have fun Trav n Waina xx
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tank__girl
15 years ago
I've had that happen to me before too, I was about 16, working in Woolies! This girl became my friend, then pulled the 'single white female' thing on me too...!! Certainly are some weirdos about..! This girl even dyed and cut her hair, started buying the same clothes, shoes etc. as I wore. AND was an insanely jelous gf. I then met the bf, but he wasn't allowed to look at me!! Hahaa.. "ta taa!"
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RHP User
15 years ago
HI tankgirl ,yeah its a bit of a worry about the weirdos.But we have met some wonderful friends here and want to meet normal people for fun, and if friendship evolves out of it we are happy.Its very off putting when you have a obsessive personality that wants your, whatever it is they want.Your friends your life your guy,what? You would think that they would have a life and want to get on with it.We love life and all we do and are busy with many things .We use this site as a small part of our lives and have fun with it and we want to allways have a good life with eachother and our selected friends.Its a sorry thing that some people are sick and have no help from family or friends.We all have to be careful and nobody can see all.Will be staying close to my guy allways.But will continue to be bright ,sexy,classy and play with cool chicks that want to have fun with us.As this is the time of our lives. Love Waina nTrav xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
A few years ago me and the then girlfriend rolled up at a couples house, he hadn't shaved for about 3 days and combed his hair or washed it for a week and she had yellow nicotine fingers. Couldn't shoot through quick enough trailer trash. Never trust the photo's posted and meet elsewhere first now.
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RHP User
15 years ago
An ewww experience for us was being at a club in the spa when another couple came to join us.... only as the female was hopping in we saw the white string hanging from her you know where!!!!! we got out pretty quick... Don't know about you all but if it's that time of the month for me then the last place you'll see me is a swingers club! xxx Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am new to playing with cpls and stuff so this information is really good but its really a personal thing some people are messy by nature and some are neat freaks....right now there is no fucking way in hell anyone would come over to my place because my room is a disaster! But a common theme in the thread was if a pre arranged playdate you would obviouly spruce up the place. My thing would be if i did play i would make it a night....like dinner first, drinks and then get naked and fuck each others brains out... A shower is a must and deoderant and cologne and a brush of the old teeth...seriously do people come over expecting to do a lot of kissing with someone with unbrushed green yellow teeth thats wrong...and also i would have plenty towels and wash clothes for the cpl to dry off and stuff in. But in saying all of this the ideal for me would be to meet first and play later....you can always pick up on peoples ways and means just by talking to them for a good hour. Anyways i just had a wank and i'm tired and maybe a bit conversational....maybe i need someone to spoon with....cya alls :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am new to playing with cpls and stuff so this information is really good but its really a personal thing some people are messy by nature and some are neat freaks....right now there is no fucking way in hell anyone would come over to my place because my room is a disaster! But a common theme in the thread was if a pre arranged playdate you would obviouly spruce up the place. My thing would be if i did play i would make it a night....like dinner first, drinks and then get naked and fuck each others brains out... A shower is a must and deoderant and cologne and a brush of the old teeth...seriously do people come over expecting to do a lot of kissing with someone with unbrushed green yellow teeth thats wrong...and also i would have plenty towels and wash clothes for the cpl to dry off and stuff in. But in saying all of this the ideal for me would be to meet first and play later....you can always pick up on peoples ways and means just by talking to them for a good hour. Anyways i just had a wank and i'm tired and maybe a bit conversational....maybe i need someone to spoon with....cya alls :)
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