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Deciding to pursue (I hope this post works)
November 03 2014
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Naughtydouble
11 years ago
You guys are fine trust me and if you get hot people chasing thats fine too remember sex is not all about looks and tgeres hot people on here that have no sex appeal what so ever be who you are and enjoy life 😆
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RHP User
11 years ago
I cancelled a meet with a fit guy with a few validations. A few months later he got in touch with me again, we met up and got on really well. Give it your best shot, better than wondering "what if?"
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RHP User
11 years ago
:/ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, I absolutely have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who can trust a hot,sexy person...certainly not moi:-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
...more than once
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Sir stir...I just meant that it can mean you're less likely to be yourself in that situation. Have you ever seen clips of guys tripping over their words in the presence of someone sexy in the movies...it's not quite like that..but internally it can feel like it. Mrs him_and_me is more confident than me and pretty good at holding a conversation about most things too i think. I feel I'm ok most of the times, but there are situations where I'd feel more self conscious and possibly come across pooacrossand decided it was easier to not follow up on an opportunity. Koko and roosters, thanks for the reply. We are looking at being braver so as to live life to the fullest etc etc. More than that it is about stepping out of our comfort zone a bit and seeing what happens. I am just genuinely curious to know if others have forgone seemingly great opportunities due to their own insecurities. Thanks, Him - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I think most people have their own insecurities, about our perfect imperfections..... Well I know I defiantly do and yes I've done it before also.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' :/ - Posted from rhpmobile Its a curse I tell you , a bloody curse....goes of singing I am to sexy to sexy because I never looook in a mirrooorr tra lah tralah tralah
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me' Sir stir...I just meant that it can mean you're less likely to be yourself in that situation. Have you ever seen clips of guys tripping over their words in the presence of someone sexy in the movies...it's not quite like that..but internally it can feel like it. Mrs him_and_me is more confident than me and pretty good at holding a conversation about most things too i think. I feel I'm ok most of the times, but there are situations where I'd feel more self conscious and possibly come across pooacrossand decided it was easier to not follow up on an opportunity. Koko and roosters, thanks for the reply. We are looking at being braver so as to live life to the fullest etc etc. More than that it is about stepping out of our comfort zone a bit and seeing what happens. I am just genuinely curious to know if others have forgone seemingly great opportunities due to their own insecurities. Thanks, Him - Posted from rhpmobile Honestly, the first time a guy on here hit on me, I looked around my studio for hidden cameras. I thought, yarrr right, and where are you mates who are going to leap out of some place and yell TRicked Ya! If someone, smoking hot wants to be with you, its their choice I am so happy that most smoking hot men, have no clue in picking hot sexy women, so they pick me instead. I just punch the air behind them ,and go ohh yeah thank you Lord. LadyT punching way above her weight
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I've refused and been refused - was told I am too intimidating and scare the be-jesus out of them! It's a tough life, but someones gotta be the SMEXY one. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have definitely turned down certain people that I thought were too sexy, or had sexy people on their friends list, or had too many validations. A classic case of "it's not you, it's me!". I am who I am. I definitely prefer to stay in my comfort zone!
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is pretty much what he bangs on about. Why WOULDN'T someone find you as sexy as themselves?? I mean if you're not a psycho dill and can hold a conversation etc, what's stopping them?? The key is..... Believe in the qualities you DO possess, and fuck the haters!!! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
if you do decide to 'bite the bullet', as suggested - wisely, I think - by 2roosters or if you decide to stay in your comfort zone, at least you can take satisfaction from the fact that the offer was made.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Thank you for posting this topic. Now I know why I'm not getting laid!! *laughing* but seriously I think we gravitate toward people we feel we're a) more compatible with physically and b) more comfortable with chatting to without stumbling through a conversation and having long awkward silences with because you're dazed by their good looks. You both know I'd be in a state of "deer in the headlights" if you, Mrs Me and I were ever in a room together. I'd be thinking do they like me? Do they think I'm sexy? Is the attraction mutual? Do they want to kiss me or take this further? Then there's the evil voice in your head saying "No way to all the previous." Self-doubt and insecurity kill all the fun. Sometimes I think it'd be good if during a meet someone would reach over and just say "Yes I think you're special too, would you like to kiss me?" (Yer corny I know but) I'm not a mind reader and would rather, if they aren't interested hear them say. "Great to meet you but apart from laughter and a chat I know it won't go any further." I mean lets get the stressful stuff out of the way then enjoy the time together be it sexual or not! Sexy people scare me....I'm like wondering why they're attracted to me, if they're attracted to me. Maybe I should say no less and yes more? (Shrugs) who knows? Thanks again Mr Him, great topic! Indy On Safari (IOS)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get them drunk and take advantage of them - then take a pic and send it my girlfriends.......of their doodle of course We probably all have.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I do this often
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are a few regular posters on these forums that, if hit on me would scare the shit out of me and have me hiding under the table. 😁
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RHP User
11 years ago
.....That's hilarious! Bahahahaha Really, who am I to judge if they'll find me attractive or not?? I'm not everyone's cup of tea (none of us ever are!) So withhold someone's potential judgement of you, as you are making a judgment on their 'taste' based on their 'looks'.... so who is really being judgemental here?! So that said, I won't knock back a too hot... confidence is sexy, so find the courage to meet this hottie and perhaps have a memorable time.... if not... don't get hung up on a hook up, it's not worth it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes you've just got to give it a shot, deal with the apprehension and self confidence, and see what happens. What have you go to lose? When I was (much) younger there were a few opportunities I didn't take only to find out years later that I probably would of had a chance if I'd decided to "pursue". Now I figure if someone gets my attention for some reason I should push past the apprehension and the self doubts.g
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' :/ - Posted from rhpmobile It's either him or the shirt...
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Seachange73
11 years ago
when I first started. I had cancelled out of meeting really hot younger me for thinking what do they want from me? And their abs were to die for. After a couple of months into rhp, I realised that there are lots of men with great abs and bodies and after talking to them, I stop judging them by their 'good' looks and try to see past their magnificent abs and guns (hard I know) and put my listening hat on. Lol. I now talk to them first and see if we have anything in common as there are lots of men with great bodies here,. it is that Je ne sais quoi of body and mind and humour that gets me to meet him in the end. Surprisingly, the most interesting men I decide to meet are fit-average men (not necessarily with abs) with fantastic humour and lots of interesting topics to talk about.
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Inspirit..that is too funny. I'd take on your advice but if I started taking a pic of my partners doodle...I'd know I'd have stepped WAY out of my comfort zone :) Mrs him_and_me on the other hand...;) Lovely to see you again Indy. I know what you mean and this is kinda why I started this thread. I have those little internal conversations with myself often at meets...second guessing...trying to work out what Mrs him is feeling about things if I can't obviously judge her reaction. It's those sorts of things that do message with my head a bit. I think it's probably beneficial to step out of your comfort zone a bit though and see what comes of it. Baby steps for me...but I am excited :) Thanks again for the replies. Him - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So don't underestimate either one of yourselves when you've got so much going for you - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dear Him…Yes I completely know where you’re coming from, I was recently at a meet and greet and I was left alone for a short time with a particularly attractive lady who I’ve seen once or twice before, I must admit I do have a bit ofthing for her, but could I strike up the courage to engage her in conversation, nah, so we just stood there in an awkward silence hoping someone would come along and spoil the fun, instead she made her excuses and left me alone….I do remember some friends of ours tell me that they were intimidated a little by our profile pics, for some stupid reason thought we were “out of their league” , for whatever reason they bit the bullet and they’ve since become great friends of ours, I’m thankful that they changed their mind..One piece of advice that I have been given in recent months, is “if you don’t ask, you don’t get”For me the fear of rejection is still up there high on my list, having the confidence to chat tosexy lady and not beat myself up when she makes her excuses and walks away is tough and still hard to overcome.My advice, just go for it...Mr Fondle
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RHP User
11 years ago
I trust my better judgement to be able to sort the chaff form the hay.. Over confident women who fancy themself as the sexiest thing since sliced bread ' usually are the worst. Give me a sweet feminine girly girly who likes to give as well as take, and thats where you'll find me. Thats my comfort zone.. I steer clear women who are too loud . Just like their male counterparts, all talk is where it stays...
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Really? Are our pics really that scary and ugly? Lol. Time for new pics for many of us.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I stop contact with most hot guys pretty quickly. They're way out of my league and while I'm sure some of them would be happy to have sex anyway, I'm looking for a little bit to a lot more. I don't want to waste their time or mine, and I'm also happy to skip the inevitable rejection :) I have been fortunate to chat online to some really hot guys over the years, who were happy to talk without expectation, and just enjoy the array of topics etc. I definitely get a kick out of talking with hot men who have big brains, but I have no expectations that they'd want me or what I'm looking for. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' :/ - Posted from rhpmobile MEEEEEE
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' I trust my better judgement to be able to sort the chaff form the hay.. Over confident women who fancy themself as the sexiest thing since sliced bread ' usually are the worst. Give me a sweet feminine girly girly who likes to give as well as take, and thats where you'll find me. Thats my comfort zone.. I steer clear women who are too loud . Just like their male counterparts, all talk is where it stays... Your post just got up my not so girly nose. Please be to explain that if you steer clear of these woman then how do you know they are the worse??
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RHP User
11 years ago
THEY are way out of your league??? Yessum they are, as you are the realist and they are idealists. . . . . . . . Just maybe
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_Damo' There are a few regular posters on these forums that, if hit on me would scare the shit out of me and have me hiding under the table. 😁 As long as you offer under table service Slurp Slurp
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6exxy
11 years ago
No fear in a beautiful woman. I go looking for a beautiful person though I must admit.
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Aristippusx2
11 years ago
Superfoxxxy A new acronym or auto correct fail?
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Aristippusx2
11 years ago
How does someone draw when they are passed out?.......Wait a minute ..........Ahh that kind of Doodle
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RHP User
11 years ago
No .. but think this is more because i don't see one person as better than the other one . Then again .. i like playing outside my "comfort zone" so to speak most of the time . Nothing ventured - nothing gained as they say .. lol . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Two_Tarts
11 years ago
Too fat, too thin, too tall, too short, too pretty, too plain, too experienced, too newby, too hardcore, too vanilla, too ....... a million reasons for shouldnt, couldnt, cant, dont. It is a lot like the school playground where everyone is so busy assuming what is in others heads and what their desires might be that they never take the risk of having a coversation and being brave enough to find out for themselves. When we first joined rhp we turned down dates from people because we percieved them as too hot or too experienced and we let our own insecurities keep us feeling safe and warm at night tucked up in our comfort zone. How dumb were we, even if it was comfortable.lol.. We do have a laugh at ourselves regularly for those times when we transposed our own insecurities onto others and avoided them because of what we imagined they might think or want of us, but I guess everyone does it to some extent. We have some completely drop dead gorgeous friends who complain that at events very few people will come and talk to them ...and you really would expect there to be waiting list based on how fun, lovely, and completely hot they are. But it seems that most others are so intimidated by the fact that they are really pretty and outgoing that they forget to treat them like normal people and just be friendly and fun. After all, what most people like is someone that is friendly and fun that they can click with over some sort of conversation. These days we try to be brave, talk to people, and if we like them we we try to remember to actually tell them ...because otherwise how will they ever know. Some times you just have to be prepared to risk a little by putting yourself out there so that others can have a chance to do the same in return.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was a good read and I think on the money.. I always insist on meeting over a coffee or drink so I get to chat face to face before anything.. If we click and like what we see , good.. If we dont ' well thats good too. At least we get a feel for the person and vice versa which cant be done by written word. Nothing beats the human touch and just being yourself...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fortune favours the brave.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Fortune favours the brave. I like that MissBliss, and We_Want_To's observations are interesting and come to the same conclusion. Guess I better go bravely message a few people I've been thinking about messaging... “Better to be the one who smiled than the one who didn’t smile back” g
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RHP User
11 years ago
Every person is gorgeous in their own way.. You need to believe you are just as beautiful and have as much to offer as the next person- then be confident enough to be that beautiful person. Or if you don't have that much confidence just fake it until you make it ...:) Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had more confidence in myself but it's waning as I get older. Soon I'll fall over into the next age bracket and be out of the majority of searches, so I guess the problem will go away all by itself! In the past I've often turned down hot young (as well as older) guys who've approached me. I just think 'they wouldn't be interested if they met me in the flesh' and so I turn them down flat. I'm glad I didn't do this when I originally started on RHP though - I'd never have had ANY fun! I look at the guy I've been seeing for the last 5 years and think 'baby, you are still WAY out of my league!'
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all get second thoughts or the feeling,shit I'm not good enough for them.I was in that situation a couple weeks ago.For once I went against my thoughts and replied to the 20 odd year younger lady,and yes we had a memorable meet.Hope we can do it again,she still keeps in contact.But yes have been guilty of not taking the opportunity when it was there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For sure I have. I've always considered myself an average person (and maybe that averageness is lessening with age..lol). I have on occasions pursued and thought why not, and I have to say it was not always the best experience. 1) Maybe because deep dow they were just average and my expectations of them were unfair; 2) They were up themselves and had an attitude that they were sexy and everyone was there to entertain them - it all came so easy to them (always) they they didn't need to try (the sort of guy/girl that would never go home alone from a night out). One is my issue, the other is definitely theirs. I do hesitate to hit on a hot person because on a fear that I'm not up to their standard, and some of that is very valid from experience. If I am hit on by a hot person it does frighten me a bit, because I don't want disappoint them. Even at my very best I would only ever have considered myself an average bloke.
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Littleinnocentme
11 years ago
I find that really good looking, hot bodied people intimidate me and yes I tend to let contact diminish the closer to a meet we get. I wish they didn't but they do! I get shy and actually blush....grrrrr. Oh well...I'll keep working on my confidence... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting Jay_Me.... "I trust my better judgement to be able to sort the chaff form the hay.. Over confident women who fancy themself as the sexiest thing since sliced bread ' usually are the worst. Give me a sweet feminine girly girly who likes to give as well as take, and thats where you'll find me. Thats my comfort zone.. I steer clear women who are too loud . Just like their male counterparts, all talk is where it stays..." You go for the ones that are easy to control?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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fortands
11 years ago
Good topic and one we've also probably directly and indirectly acted upon too. Like most, we both check out the profile first, look for the 'signs' that show it's Hopefully not another fake profile from an inmate or actually a real couple with a decent profile. It's so much more difficult to make assumptions based on a couple of photos, as like me (mr) is not at all photogenic nor particularly 'hot' in the body stakes. I'd like to think I make up for that in conversation, humour and overall KPI's !! :-) We have both been caught in the headlights and thought that certain profiles are too good to be true, and lots often are. However, it doesn't stop us confronting those inner self conscious issues and challenging each one. We have met some superb couples on RHP and we'll continue to open up to all who have the same confidence issues that most of us have. After all, it's all good fun!! Cheers Mr T (I pity the fool....) - Posted from rhpmobile
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blackbig
11 years ago
Attraction whether being sexually, physically or mentally is very complexly science😀. Basically you never know what people find attractive about you.. So go with the flow. Be yourself and enjoy the ride. You will be surprised how many possibilities of too sexy people are available for you. I would say may be this is less of a problem with men😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We most certainly have turned down offers to meet due to the other parties being out of our league looks wise. They were probably very nice people but with our lack of free time there isn't much point in arranging a meet (and all that entails) when we don't really rate next to what they are getting at home. It is flattering to be contacted by the upper echelon of the gene pool but it does bring with it the problem of declining with out causing offence (we always try to explain our reasoning in these situations). Hope that made sense...
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RHP User
11 years ago
The man was young (in his late 20's) and Drop Dead Gorgeous !!! Very well "hung" too !!! But he was so good looking, surfed as well, and looked "smashing" in a uniform that I lost my confidence and doubted that I would be "good enough" for him. With a face and body of a male model, he could easily "pull" much prettier and younger girls or women than me. So, yes, I declined him when he "messaged" me :(. Amy
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abcplus1
11 years ago
But as a couple it's hard enough just to get someone to respond to a message let alone anything else Can see where it could be an issue though for those who are more marketable than we are, but lack a bit of confidence and/or are not happy with their own appearance. Mr ABC
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RHP User
11 years ago
but in all honesty most of the time it never gets that far. A few messages exchanged, we soon see they are out of our league and we pull out the trump card.....open the pics. They soon back away all by themselves lol. We now know not to really bother wasting our time. What happens happens. Much better to meet at a meet and greet or social event.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I definitely have done this. Sometimes I have dismissed profiles on here entirely thinking 'oh they look too good, maybe it's not even real!'. Other times like you say, I have let it die off rather than pursuing whole heartedly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Littleinnocentme' I find that really good looking, hot bodied people intimidate me and yes I tend to let contact diminish the closer to a meet we get. I wish they didn't but they do! I get shy and actually blush....grrrrr. Oh well...I'll keep working on my confidence... - Posted from rhpmobile GAWLIE!!!! Really Little?? I thought you'd be pretty comfortable around most... Hmmmm... Then again some of the models I've known (through work) have had the same issue.. been very shy even though they're considered stunning in their own right...Generally they're their own worst critic also... :/ Stuffed if ya hot, stuffed if you're not?!?! lol! G x
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RHP User
11 years ago
So sexy I will never know - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
self confidence comes into it, doubting if your good enough, maybe a bit embarrassed. I have this problem fairly regularly but I try and combat it by putting it back onto them and gauge the reaction... How you see yourself is more often than not completely different to how others see you... If they react negatively or don't reply then there is your answer. Don't sell yourself short, you never know when someone you think is out of your league is thinking the same thing about you - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Really '. It's not too hard to understand at all... It's the girly bit you can't handle.. But if I need to spell it out I will ' and I'll keep it simple.. I've had the pleasure and non pleasure of both so I talk from personal experience.. I didn't come to this conclusion by guessing.. Women who are quietly assured dont need to be in your face and are much much more relaxed to be with.. I find they have nothing to prove, have more time and are more attentive . That's comfortable' and my personal preference... On the other hand , I care not to talk about the few that magnified just how good the others are...
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir'So don't underestimate either one of yourselves when you've got so much going for you - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks Sir Stir...I (we) really appreciate that. Having said that though, it can also be an uncontrollable response around someone you are really attracted to rather than underestimating yourself. In a very similar scenario to Mr Fondle's..I was at a meet standing next to woman who I found very attractive. She smiled, I went weak at the knees a bit and couldn't bring myself to talk. I was so "brave" that I found her username from Mrs him_and_me, and messaged her the following day to say Hi and that I thought she looked amazing. We chatted then next time I saw her, but it still took a stupid amount of intestinal fortitude on my behalf to simply approach her. I'm liking the ideas of fortune favouring the brave, being the one who smiled (as opposed to going weak at the knees), or just faking it until I make it in the event of going weak at the knees and learning how to smile back and chatting without coming across as awkward. Gee that sounds so easy :) I do really like the advice though and I think it is common sense. It will be baby steps for me, but I'm looking forward to seeing what the future holds. I hope some others who replied that they too have shied away from amorous advances of someone wonderful, will also have a go at being a little braver. New years isn't that far away..if your stuck for ideas on resolutions, maybe simply giving the gorgeous people of the world a chance to be with you is a good one :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally I don't even initiate contact with a guy, even though I find extremely attractive and interesting, if I think he is out of my league. Even though I'm a lot braver on here than meeting in person for the first time, Unless I've had a few drinks that is, and I've got some Dutch courage lol. I have been surprised at getting replies from a couple of them though ;). Once conversation starts to flow, I'm fine and can talk pretty much about anything. But when that one question comes.... "Do ya wanna meet for a drink and see if we click" that's when I panic haha And all my insecurities come back. Mainly because I'm a bigger girl, most of the time I'm fine with that, but obviously not all guys like bigger girls. And not all guys on here seem to read profiles properly. So I always have the need to check that they know this stuff, that is plainly written on my profile. And I discovered a few weeks ago, after swapping messages with a guy for five hours!!! That Not all guys seem to know what curvy means and what a curvy girl actually looks like. (NB: some seem to think being curvy means a size 8 but with big boobs. So guys like that don't help with the bravery, but I have found though, that sometimes it is worth the risk, and I have got to meet and play with guys, who I would usually consider way out of my league. And once the fun and games start all inhibitions go out the window and I do enjoy myself. So I say if they have shown interest in you, they wouldn't if they weren't, go for it. I'm sure you will enjoy it :) Ps sorry for the essay lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quote ". You go for the ones that are easy to control... You been taking more of them stupid pills again ? Self assured women ' know them self and have self control.. Next ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I completely understand where you are coming form with this topic. When I was younger I would often find myself feeling intimated and completely lost for words based on looks alone. It was a confidence thing and I lacked it. I was always worried I would say or do something silly or wrong and face rejection or ridicule so instead I would play it safe and 'choose' not to talk to them - Only problem was it also meant I was denying myself of opportunities and exoeriences that if I had of followed would have helped my confidence and reduced my insecurities. It's a vicious circle - will I won't I? Should I shouldn't I? Yes no maybe? What if? I think everyone is in the sake boat, some just hide it better than others. My advice - just be yourself and if it's not good enough so what! Its not the end of the world, at least you tried and maybe learnt something. In the end if you don't try you will never know! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Standing beside an incredibly hot woman.... She smiles....I smile.... Then I grab my phone and announce "blue, pink, marshmallow, whoa hold up let me take a selfie!!! Say cheese!!!" Lol did that sound kinda like that song about selfies?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If i did that I would never get laid haha. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well....they're the pills you gave me under some guise that they'd make me more irresistible to women!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awww' Never mind.. Its the little blue pill.. taken 3 times daily with meals... Seems to work really well for you so far... Don't forget now ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Forget what??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awwww, you forgot already... ? Nvm... just take the next lil bluey... lol..
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I feel it is a very valid one and has actually addressed the way I have been feeling lately!!!And in particular, On_Safari has totally nailed my thoughts on the whole situation !!!! Quoting 'On_Safari' Thank you for posting this topic. Now I know why I'm not getting laid!! *laughing* but seriously I think we gravitate toward people we feel we're a) more compatible with physically and b) more comfortable with chatting to without stumbling through a conversation and having long awkward silences with because you're dazed by their good looks. You both know I'd be in a state of "deer in the headlights" if you, Mrs Me and I were ever in a room together. I'd be thinking do they like me? Do they think I'm sexy? Is the attraction mutual? Do they want to kiss me or take this further? Then there's the evil voice in your head saying "No way to all the previous." Self-doubt and insecurity kill all the fun. Sometimes I think it'd be good if during a meet someone would reach over and just say "Yes I think you're special too, would you like to kiss me?" (Yer corny I know but) I'm not a mind reader and would rather, if they aren't interested hear them say. "Great to meet you but apart from laughter and a chat I know it won't go any further." I mean lets get the stressful stuff out of the way then enjoy the time together be it sexual or not! Sexy people scare me....I'm like wondering why they're attracted to me, if they're attracted to me. Maybe I should say no less and yes more? (Shrugs) who knows? Thanks again Mr Him, great topic! Indy On Safari (IOS)
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