RHP

RHP User

M56

Disappointed

August 01 2006

sex

Well Hi all hope you are all well and happy. Just a little disapointed with this site. I was a paided up member for a month and contacted numerous ladies to introduce myself and see if they would like to catch up for a drink to see if we hit it off or not. If it was the or not then thats cool.....I had no expectations and still don’t. What i was disappointed in, Ladies was the lack of common decency to reply. Only one or two ladies replied and that was that. No i did not expect everyone to reply but hey whats 30 seconds to say "Thanks but No Thanks" or what ever. Yes i know that these ladies do get hamered with flirts and emails and it is difficult to reply to them all but after a month i would have expected at least a few responses? Yes i know i should have a pic on my profile but hey can i help the fact that i have to be discreet. If anyone of the ladies i contact had asked for a pic then it wouldn’t have been a issue. I know that what i am after is not everyone’s cup of tea but hey at the end of the day this is a sex site. Anyway thats my little bitch for the day and as for RHP well great cool site but i will not be re-joining. Anyone else have the same bitch? Keep it real.....................Happee

Comments

  • youngnhard4u

    youngnhard4u

    19 years ago

    i have some pics and the ladies love em but it seems their is more talk less action on here most members havent even logged on the site for months so you might get a reply before xmas anyways its all good some fun is better than none fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Guys this is old hat, if you look around there’s at least half a dozen other posts with people complaining that they don’t get responses. Believe me these girls get more emails and flirts thatn they can respond to. One of my friends registered and on that first day she had over 50 emails and flirts. Each day they get bombarded even without having a pic up. so imagine if they did have a pic up... Plus, not saying you do or not, but a lot of guys just look at the pic and send a flirt or email, without reading the profile, and lo and behold there’s no match. The fact you are married and from your profile it seems she doesn’t know turns a lot of women off as well. Sure there are a few but not as many as you’d think. Maybe see if she’d interested in joining as well? I’m sure you’ll get a lot more response then ;) Either way we all get to odd brush off, we get by and find another chicky :-p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I hope i wasnt one of the ones that ignored you, i try and answer all my flirts and msgs, but sometimes it is overwhelming and some are overlooked or deleted by mistake. anyway goodluck in your quest. and above all have fun! Cheers Tina

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Has your wife sought medical opinions on this problem? There are simple blood tests that can be performed to rule out or confirm physiological problems. Sex drive is a complex issue but instead of turning outside of the marriage and writing her off perhaps make some enquiries on her behalf and present them to her for consideration. Other than that, perhaps a prostitute is a more logical choice if all you want is sex. I hope you both sort things out!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Well Guys Thanks for you replies. You have all brought up some valid points all of which i have already addressed. Thanks for you time and all the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I find it hard soemtimes to reply to everyone that has sent a message/flirt .... I try my best to reply to all but sometimes u just get so inuadated that it can be hard to reply to all or they get overlooked... Another point is if u have put a age/restriction not all messages come up in ur inbox .... u have to go to show all messages for them to all be displayed I have written on my profile in BOLD stating quite clearly that I dont respond to some messages.... yet still get messages ... What i think has been great.... that has been introduced is quick reply it makes it so much easier and u can reply on mass to messages... good luck happee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    The irony is that only the decent guys read the profiles and think about whether they are suitable/compatible. You may state your preference but i hope you aren’t of mind to put all guys down by the number of idiot responses you get. The decent guys have looked, read, considered and may have responded but are far more likely to decide that they either aren’t what you’re looking for, you’re not what they’re looking for, or they wouldn’t get a look in anyway lol. There are some terrific couples and even girls in here looking for guys. There are also some great guys, met through dogging and gangbang scenes..., i’m not gay though i’ve sucked one or two lol. The trick is in sorting the wheat from the chaff ;) Woody Woody