M45
Do Girls Enjoy Sexy Emails?
January 17 2011
Comments
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Welcome! I do not like receving sexy emails from strangers. All women are different though. I think you'd be best off saying hello, commenting on things the woman wrote in her profile, then asking first if she'd like to receive one before sending a sexy email ...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not here for pen pals but to meet real people in the flesh. I find that if you dive straight into sexy emails nothing physical seems to eventuate. Just my opion.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
There has to be a bit of rapport there first, so it's really the person rather than the words that turns me on.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' I'm not here for pen pals but to meet real people in the flesh. I find that if you dive straight into sexy emails nothing physical seems to eventuate. Just my opion. I am 100% with Ticklish on this one! I also find that if a guy first rings you and starts with the "ohhhh what are you wearing" or "I want to be under your desk giving you oral" yadda yadda yadda ...Is too much of a snooze fest....for me it is in the flesh or nothing at all! < But, once I have been with him and the chemistry was there...mmm he can talk to me or email me as dirty as he likes until we catch up again! xFunlovingx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the welcome! And thanks for the feedback. I Like the fact you can have these kinds of discussions on rhp and get honest answers. I should add I don't just send out random dirty mails without any context! I do like to establish a rapport before getting into anything sexy. Previously I chatted with my email friend first, exchanged pics and established a relationship before we started Mailing. I hadn't really considered there would be people sending cut and paste mails as for me the writing and knowing the other persons turn ons is part of the fun. I guess there will always be guys giving guys a bad name?? One thing I also hadn't thought of was that emailing can mean a meet up is less likely - or at least giving that impression. My first aim is to meet people, I just saw mailing as a kind of flirty prelude but maybe that's the wrong way to think of it? Anyway thanks again for the comments. I think I'm going to like it here!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Girl Tuesday. It's not surprising that many of the RHP women have been sucked in by the same guy using the same txt or rhp messages ! It has left many of us rather sour and sceptical. But... I LOVE to express myself and I LOVE waking up to a special txt from someone I care about. Those little txts during the day spark me up. The downside is that I find I become a little too attracted to the man when in fact he just wants a FWB rather than a relationship. Soooo I try and be a little colder with the RHP men unless I genuinely think they'd be open to exploring the relationship side. My heart is vulnerable so I protect it at all costs ! Love and Kisses, Miss Saturn
-
RHP User
15 years ago
not from strangers or playmates. these tend to be intimate things and should only be from those we know n trust........then.....look out! lol
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I will exchange sexy texts and emails as well as phone calls BUT only after the friendship has progressed far enough. If a guy starts in with the sex talk and all the schmoozing too soon it comes across as tacky and I lose interest......fast!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'eureka_man80' One thing I also hadn't thought of was that emailing can mean a meet up is less likely - or at least giving that impression. My first aim is to meet people, I just saw mailing as a kind of flirty prelude but maybe that's the wrong way to think of it? Anyway thanks again for the comments. I think I'm going to like it here! some people yes, some people no. there are some people who are only after the online experience and are never going to meet anyone anyway, and there are some people who need that contact before they'll meet. unfortunately you probably won't know which one they are until you meet them, or not. Unless they tell you they'd rather meet than cyber you might have to just take your chances there and not get your hopes up too high.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'xxticklishxx' I'm not here for pen pals but to meet real people in the flesh. I find that if you dive straight into sexy emails nothing physical seems to eventuate. Just my opion. I am 100% with Ticklish on this one! I also find that if a guy first rings you and starts with the "ohhhh what are you wearing" or "I want to be under your desk giving you oral" yadda yadda yadda ...Is too much of a snooze fest....for me it is in the flesh or nothing at all! < But, once I have been with him and the chemistry was there...mmm he can talk to me or email me as dirty as he likes until we catch up again! xFunlovingx Whilst I do enjoy the forums I participate in those at my own pace when I have a spare moment. Email messages however being one on one are very demanding of precious time... and for the same reasons I very rarely use an instant messenger service either. As for phone calls... well... a quick text maybe.. but they are also very demanding. This place is an escape from work.. a place to chill, have a giggle, usually with coffee, usually resulting it said coffee being sprayed over my desk or choked down in a fit of laughter. One on one emails... sure I can take my time.. by reason that it is personal, it becomes kind of rude if I take three days.. or *shudder* get bored with the topic of the message and never reply... or for whatever reason, don't know how to reply, or simply don't want to. Personal messages therefore socially demand a response... and providing responses... well that's exactly what I do for work, so it's a poor substitute for escape! (Mind you my work rarely involves raunchy suggestions ~ unless they are my own).Social meets and parties.. well they're different. People go there for the express purpose of socialising with like minded people. I enjoy those immensely.HugsStalky
-
RHP User
15 years ago
who wants to be playing around with emails when you can be playing around with the real thing I am far more interested in meeting and building a raport with someone than sitting at the computer
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'eureka_man80' as for me the writing and knowing the other persons turn ons is part of the fun. For me that is the PROBLEM...What happened to exploring with your "lover" or "conquest" or whatever you call it? Nowadays with all this "Social Networking" everyone wants to know beforehand what you are into and what turns you on. I would rather find out by trial and error...there is no fun in knowing EVERYTHING about them sexually before meeting them...Well, not for me anyway! xFunlovingx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' I'm not here for pen pals but to meet real people in the flesh. I find that if you dive straight into sexy emails nothing physical seems to eventuate. Just my opion. Cant agree more :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
But prefer they come from: | a) someone I know b) preferably someone I am or intend to be intimate with and c) out of the blue - I LOVE a surpise!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I agree with Girl Tuesday. It's not surprising that many of the RHP women have been sucked in by the same guy using the same txt or rhp messages ! It has left many of us rather sour and sceptical. But... I LOVE to express myself and I LOVE waking up to a special txt from someone I care about. Those little txts during the day spark me up. The downside is that I find I become a little too attracted to the man when in fact he just wants a FWB rather than a relationship. Soooo I try and be a little colder with the RHP men unless I genuinely think they'd be open to exploring the relationship side. My heart is vulnerable so I protect it at all costs ! Love and Kisses, Miss Saturn Sexy Msg"s With someone special YES! But not just some RANDOM GUY! xxx
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15096 Comments: 88138
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1416 Comments: 10246
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11718
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2503 Comments: 9782
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 996 Comments: 5045
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1301 Comments: 5768
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 779 Comments: 1981
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share