M42
Do big guys even stand a chance on here?
November 22 2016
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We see a popcorn moment coming up by your comment " no matter what a woman looks like guys will line up around the corner for her and because of that fact the competition is fierce."
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Interesting post. Often see BBW posts and those looking for them. Yet to even see BHM ( Big Handsome Men) mentioned........if there is such a thing.... well there is now! Watching this thread
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha, you're probably right DC36, I didn't intend for it to sound as ignorant or dismissive as it came across, but hopefully people just take it as light hearted as intended - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your right, any woman can get laid on here, that is a given because we have a vagina. A lot of men like curved or larger women, but often do not admit to that offline while out with their mates. If it bothers you hon, then do something about it. Get the DVD that sugar film , its a good wake up call. There is a book to go with it. Anyone that is worried about getting that pork around the middle or diabetic looming needs to watch that film. I have bonked a range of men, some with big beer bellies, and a lot of six pack hunky guys. As far as sex goes, it was just the chemistry and the guys attitude that makes the difference. The problem is though you might be hot as hell in the sack, when women are window shopping at the RHP bakery they will go for the packaging. Especially the face. Every male on this site has to struggle to get laid. I have yet to meet a woman that struggled to get laid on here, what she finds hard is a guy that takes the time to get to know her before slipping the dick. So my advice is do something about your weight if it bothers you, it will erode your confidence. Confidence is like honey to a bee. Hard to resist.
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RHP User
9 years ago
And upfront with the truth and photos anything is possible.
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RHP User
9 years ago
its always more about the connection I have with the person for me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
How big is big ..how fat is fat? Does your size inhibit you? If it does then you will struggle to connect with any woman either here or elsewhere. I have met men who were extremely overweight and while they were interesting and charming their size when it came to having sex was an inhibiting factor for them,not me. Everyone has their preferences ,you may not be every woman's cuppa chai and the fact that you are attached may limit your options here as well. Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Falls of bar laughing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're defeating yourself before you've started..... And you've defeated yourself by assuming you're not worth jack shit but a trampoline for a midget.... You know what you have to offer, you know that you're better than at least 70% of men, time to grab ya balls and start showing it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
9 years ago
While I am no Kylie Minogue (pocket rocket structure) nor Jessica Alba (sizzling hot with all the right curves in the right places), I am still short and slightly below the standard body structure/frame. Therefore, if a man with your height has a large build, then it's a worry for me in terms of physical pressure in bed. However, that is just me and I don't speak for any other women. Hence, be believing that there is someone for everyone :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' I am a bit over some men posting saying that it doesn't matter what a woman looks like. In another post a guy said a woman could smell and still get laid. Is that really true? Would these men fuck anything with a hole? ....snip... And in answer to your question OP attraction is a funny thing and it is not just physical. We are all different and we all find different things attractive. And as Tyrst said (a very wise woman there) the most attractive thing is confidence. Sexy comes from within. is it really true? Yes, it doesn't mean that any given individual male would fuck just any woman who offered themselves to them, but given the number of guys on here, the relative scarcity of women, yes, any woman in a major city (to get the volume of people nearby) could get laid on here - maybe not her ideal picks from the bunch, but laid nonetheless. To some "any hole is a goal" - even for women who would take any cock waved in their direction, there are such numbers that she can still pick her preferred cock, leaving some lonely ones not in anyone's arms for the night, just waving their dick in the wind (apologies to Ween :p ) Does sexy come from within? we all find different things attractive, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'd say "sexy" is also in the mind/eye of the beholder. If sexy was something that came from within, that seems to imply a person would be universally and objectively sexy. But it is subjective, and isn't like being strong, weak, fast, tanned, etc.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As someone a bit overweight myself, sure. If someone like Rupert Murdoch can still get laid, we all can :D The challenge rating's probably a bit higher, and you're not going to tick everybody's boxes, but from what I've seen there are all sorts of women out there looking for all sorts of guys. I imagine what makes us appeal to women is a slightly different variation of what makes larger women appeal to men. I do imagine it's about how you present yourself. Nobody's going to be interested in the self-hating overweight guy, and it's not because he's overweight but because he's got no self-value. I'd be interested to see how men who own their weight and proudly share it have fared on here. I reckon it's probably better than we think.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is a much bigger turn off for me. Personally I love tall big men!! My weight has been up and down over the years but I have never had a problem getting a date. It's a cliche, but personality, even on a root site, is always the biggest element when trying to attract. Work on that, you'll be fine. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you're a bigger man I'm up for meeting you :) message me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I just consider the 105 kg behind the thrust
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm extremely visual and even when shopping, I appreciate polish and class in the product's packaging. I assume by "big", you mean above 100kgs and it's mostly fat, not muscles, that contribute to that weight? If so, then no. I'm not into beer bellies, and I'm definitely not into obesity. I'm attracted to people who work hard to look good because it does take hard work and discipline, traits that I admire. I've given big fellas a fair go before and well, abdominal girth often gets in the way of things, shall we say. I worry about the missionary position because I don't wish to get crushed and can't breathe. And I worry about the cowgirl and doggy because I envisage the belly being an obstruction. I'm also extremely sensitive to smells and often, obesity could be a sign of someone not eating right and hence, digestion issues plague the person's overall health. I can actually smell ketones and also a meat-heavy diet sometimes and it's really not pleasant. The man doesn't have to have a ripped bod - just average will do. That's just my personal preference. Sure, big guys stand a chance in here. What's poison for the goose is food for the gander... and vice versa.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mate in all honesty on these sites....Its a superficial quest. If you are high in charm and quick witted you nay have a chance. Thats not to say you wont have success out there......In my experience the most attractive quality an individual can have regardless of age, sex, gender, size etc is charisma, pride, self worth and confidence. No one wants to be needed, but we all want to be wanted/desired. Stop putting one body type on a pedestal and the opposite sex on another. Sure you will meet people that aren't into you, but so do I and so does everyone else. Have some self reflection, fall in love with yourself. If you (and not society) are unhappy with the way you look, work towards improving it, but do it for you, but don't think that not meeting people on here is the end, as said before this is a superficial medium, with anonymity and shallow intentions. People will say what they wouldn't dare say in person. Women will have a false sense of importance and want etc purely because of the extremely low women to men ratio, which means they get to be picky. But you need to be picky aswell don't settle. Don't put your self worth in the hands of others, strangers, family etc. Know you are unique. Know there truly is no one on this earth like you and that makes you priceless. Keep pushing to be the best you can be and remember there is always someone out there, but you don't need them...change your thought processes to wanting and knowing you are worth more than what eyes can see. Hope this helps Rick - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm packing a beer gut, have no problems meeting woman in clubs and such but less luck on here. I honestly believe it's how your profile is and how you present yourself. I know there is a dating site for bigger people and there are skinny woman on there who go for BHM. Im seeing this one girl at the moment, she loves bigger guys she loves being under bigger guys something about the pressure. Hope my experiences help - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' I tested that theory ages ago. I am a bit over some men posting saying that it doesn't matter what a woman looks like. In another post a guy said a woman could smell and still get laid. Is that really true? Would these men fuck anything with a hole? And if that is the case wouldn't it be wiser to invest in a toy instead.They are doing amazing things with plastic at the moment. And you know what I personally don't want to have sex with someone who would fuck anything.I want to have sex with someone who truly finds me attractive and sexy both inside and out. And in answer to your question OP attraction is a funny thing and it is not just physical. We are all different and we all find different things attractive. And as Tyrst said (a very wise woman there) the most attractive thing is confidence. Sexy comes from within. Shells.
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