Do girls want the average guy?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well from your profile it seems to me that you are after women just for a root and nothing else. Yes, there are some women out there that are up for that. But since you are having no luck, I suggest that you treat this like a traditional dating site and have some details about yourself and what you are looking for in your profile. Fact is a lot of women still want to get wooed or going on dates before hoping into bed as for them it is more fun, and builds up the anticipation and makes the sex better. The way your profile is now, I don't get the impression that you are even willing to do that.... so this may be a reason why some women are passing you over for the more charming profiles. Or you maybe lucky at the women who are just looking for sex may contact you now that they have seen your profile.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I don't know if you realise how many more single men there are on this site compared to single women. You have a lot of competition, and unless you stand out in some way you're probably not going to have much luck, particularly when you live in one of the big capital cities where women can basically take their pick of hundreds of guys. Your profile as it is, is not very inspiring and is similar to thousands of other men's profiles. You need to play up your positives and 'market' yourself a bit; for example you say you are intelligent and there are plenty of women who love that trait in a guy, but you need to put a bit of effort in and show them that intelligence in your profile.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I read a story in one of the papers today about that, the female author reckons, for hooks ups average aint gunna cut it, you gotta be all that and a bag of chips. Yet for LTR, average comes back into play, go figure.Why is that? Men however are less shallow all round, according to the same author. Cheers N

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The shoe is on the other foot on RHP. Let's face it ,this is primarily a sexually driven site,the ratio guys far outweighs the female population here. If you look on RSVP or similar, things are probably more even regarding numbers,or possibly in the guys favour. I've met a few really nice ladies here,but beware the bogus profiles and the ones that get some kind of empowerment from putting members of the opposite sex down....why? Coz they can I guess,and it flatters their fragile egos? Don't know,don't worry,just keep on trying and hang in there!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'feloniousfossil1' I read a story in one of the papers today about that, the female author reckons, for hooks ups average aint gunna cut it, you gotta be all that and a bag of chips. Yet for LTR, average comes back into play, go figure.Why is that? Men however are less shallow all round, according to the same author. Cheers N Well as the saying goes, you pick hot guys for sex and you pick average guys for LTR as they are more dependable and will stick around to look after you and the kids. Hot guys have too many choices, are players with a roving eye so are not good LTR material. Is that enough generalisations there for ya Nev?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Girls.... how many profiles have you read that say "I love sex" etc... or go on to outline a grand sexual resume?!!! No.... really?!!!!! In RHP, who'd have ever thought!!!! Someone likes sex!!! So in a sea of obvious sexual interest...... is it even necessary to outline your sexual interest?! Unless you're seeking a specific kink...... I say no.... because really, the nature of the site that encouraged you to join essentially suggests that enjoying sex is a "given". But what ISNT a sure thing.... are the people you contact, because whether in here, or in the world behind... people have their preferences, likes, dislikes and tolerance points, and attraction triggers. So you need to know how to present yourself and communicate.... and in that respect websites whether mainstream or adult... are no different to the real world. The communicators, and the knowledgable and the observant... will always do better than those with self interest, single focus, light detail and/or predictable behaviour that sees them run with the herd. DG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Lol, yep plenty of good generalizations in there. The take home message for Happydude would have to be: A) Try your luck on a vanilla site if your sans the chippies. B) Every little doggy has its day. C) Hang in there (here) because you never know, some chicky may think you have the chippies. Cheers N

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I agree :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You're a lot too young for me however, if you were over 40 I would f**k you......... nothing wrong with your looks.

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