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Do men ever read the profile of a women..
March 23 2026
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nutsundae
2 months ago
so based on what I hear from every women I've spoken to on the subject, 99% of guys won't read a single word in your profile. The good news however is that men who are actually interested in the real you (and not simply spinning the Find Someone Who Will Fuck Me Wheel of Fortune), they will read your profile, because they'll be looking for that little spark - the one that flares and flies whenever you read a profile that connects with you and you find yourself compelled to send a DM. So TL:DR - don't give up on your profile text just because most people won't read it and will just send you a 'hi" DM. instead...
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JustAManNextDoor
2 months ago
Oh pretty pictures....definitely! I read, I comprehend and if the profile states anything that doesn't fit what I am looking for then I won't send a message. I am sure that somedays I get it wrong too!
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cheekyone9
2 months ago
I like reading the bio, often it's where the good stuff is. Also how else are to going to find out if the person likes dad bods or not 🤪. Reading the bio often makes the pictures better for me.
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Alex_Lover
2 months ago
I think it's a rare man who reads a profile in its entirety... and possibly a rarer one who then engages his brain, evaluates the situation and responds accordingly. I once had a male friend read the RHP profile of Margo (wife) and I, when we had a couples profile. It was enlightening. He skimmed the profile, and called out the few items/words that popped up for him. That was his version of 'reading the profile'. ie he had no idea of our situation, what we were looking for etc. I suspect that's the standard, unfortunately. In his mind, he'd 'read the profile'. Yesterday Dax (girlfriend) showed me a message from a guy who said, "I'm confident I tick all of your boxes, let's catch up for a drink." Of course he hadn't read her profile, as it explicitly states, not interested in straight M/F meets. Upon pointing that out, he said bio's don't really matter, let's meet to see the real person. Ughhh... so entitled and gross. But again, perhaps in his mind he had 'read the profile' as he skimmed it, and learned nothing. - Alex.
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RHP User
2 months ago
It’s not just men who fail to comprehend the bio. I’ve often had conversations with women and couples who state or ask something which makes me double take - that’s clearly stated on my profile?? I think this site is a fairly comprehensive representation of society in terms of averages and statistical observations.
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Kaz95182
2 months ago
All the friend requests. Hahaha dont get me started.
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MsSuperFoxy
2 months ago
I believe it depends on a few factors like time of day, had a few too many beers, loneliness, or if they are horny as and wanna root. A bit like fishing anytime od day or night. "I'll throw the bait out and see what happens. Doesn't matter if it's low tide or high. I'll catch something if I keep going, even if Im using the wrong bait and haven't read the instructions and just looked at the pretty pictures". 🤣😂 Ms Foxy
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peter196921
2 months ago
I read the profile and look at the profile photos, to be honest, I look at the photos first then read the profile as if there is no physical attraction I don’t send a message, although I have not meet the profile requirements and have sent a message to compliment the on there photos, I hope that is not wrong, as I think most people like to be complemented
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Nightglider
2 months ago
Most are impulsive and will act on pictures alone. IMO and from experience. I’ve often thought, of putting something in my bio that many would find not be looking for. More as a social experiment tbh. Then ask them if they are ok with my (fictional) fully functioning penis that I’d mentioned.
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OpalRose
2 months ago
I’ve said for ten years or more, we need a comic book style profile before they’ll read anything.
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mssexybitch2u
2 months ago
If they ask what I’m looking for then I know they haven’t read my profile. I then tell them it’s stated in my profile and sure enough they go back and look at it. I got a message last week saying they were looking forward to seeing more pictures and meeting. I asked if I didn’t have enough pics on my profile? He removed his message and I deleted the chat.
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Notice_Me
2 months ago
bios are a better filter than pics Good bio & great pics. I love you - call me. :)
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RHP User
2 months ago
If someone clearly hasn't read my profile and respect what I have written on what I'm looking for and not looking for, then I won't bother with a response. It's either delete or an instant block
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selfless__lover
2 months ago
Men are visual creatures and so always going to gravitate straight to photos first. That said if a profile is empty, what they have written doesn't appeal to me, has basic spelling/grammar mistakes (there, their, they're anyone?) or uses 12yo abbreviations then it's a hard no for me.
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RHP User
2 months ago
Lols in response to too many women not reading my profile, I signed up to one site with the username, "readMyProfile", most still didn't read it. If I'm interested, I read profiles - even the ones with essays (some of the essays are very loonggg- some are even ok). Of course, I stop reading if I hit a red flag ... I used to put a lot of effort into my profiles - these days I don't bother.
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Dommelb72
2 months ago
Reads sends messages when l was a member but no reply back 👐🏻
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Deviant_Hotwife
2 months ago
I think it’s just a standard thing that 90% of people on RHP, (including women and couples) do not read profiles 😂.
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Justdoingmything
2 months ago
Honestly...you gotta read and listen..its a learnt skill but as a man..if you dont..youll get burnt eventually
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EuphoricBliss
2 months ago
Men are visual creatures. I clearly state in my profile to put in effort for a first message if you want my attention. A simple "hi" or "hey" is low effort and will be blocked instantly by me. Also I state locals only to contact me. I get hundreds of messages from non-locals who just say "hi". I also state if you have no face pic then if you try to chat and do not send a face pic then it is just a waste of my time. Intelligence needs to be used here and I just do not get the low effort timewasters. Get a hobby instead. I am not up myself, just see it time and time again that most men have lost their capacity to actually use their brain. It is not hard to read a profile guys !
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Lovestruck16
2 months ago
I like to read a profile, unless its a full story then no as i dont read alot or have time and get bored. Most layout what is wanted and it makes a interesting read, also gives common things to start a conversation with.
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RHP User
2 months ago
Hahaha. 99% of the time they don’t and that’s why my block list is over 200 users long.
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RHP User
2 months ago
It’s a numbers games for men. They usually have a generic copy and paste message that they send to all women to see who will bite and f**k the the quickest without much effort on their part. Not saying it always happens, but it is extremely common. I suggest you keep your wits about you so you don’t fall victim to one of the male s*its on here who will f*ck anything with a pulse.
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Letssee1122
2 months ago
Always read the profile
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Oskalabelle
2 months ago
I always read the profiles for woman and couples, if I’m not what they’re looking for I move on and leave them be out of respect. What’s challenging is so many profiles have so little information, more often than not I move on as I figure they must not be that genuine or interested if they can’t fill out more than a line.
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onelasttime69
2 months ago
Definitely read them, even the stats etc,
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50Calibre
2 months ago
I always read the profile how would you get the vibe that you may or may not hit it of unless you do?
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Quietone
2 months ago
I read every single profile, some I can match with, some I don't, some I message and others I don't, tried so many different ways to gain a conversation. No luck yet. In the end seems there isn't a woman interested in knowing me
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Fuckyousweetness
2 months ago
Can someone direct me to the page with all these stats that you all keep quoting or coming up with i would love to go through them all. I find it weird RHP published the percentage of guys that don't read profiles but seems like they must.
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Withersngheights
2 months ago
I do read the profiles but I will put my hand up to admit that I have in a few situations liked because well they were stunning then I could go back and read it later
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FreePlayCBR
one month ago
Interesting perspective. I do read the profiles. Every single time. On the basis of what I read I choose to write or not. I will usually keep it light, avoid sex or effusive compliments, I never do dick pics and will usually weave something from the profile into my introductory message. And yet my hit rate is about 2% for even a response. Much less it going somewhere. So my return serve is - do women actually read a well considers response or do you just expect it to be the same immature purile crap I’m sure you receive alot of? Or do you simply look at the pictures and decide on that basis too?
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RHP User
one month ago
Genuine guys do, and personally may comment on something in profile to show that, but usually skipped over unless the guy is a tatted adonis with a 9” because everyone’s size queen apparently.
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SugarSugar69
one month ago
If say from The messages I’ve received 95% don’t read at all.
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mobydick4000
one month ago
As one of mates said "it's a numbers game". The more messages they send, the more likely they get a reply. The quantity over quality approach. The quality component of messages for men can also feel pointless where they feel it's about physical attraction in there photo's that will majority of the time determine a response. Watched an SBS Insights episode about dating apps. The top 10% of profiles receive 50% of the swipes.
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Ladyfingers
one month ago
Nope. I have altered my profile (another site) to be 4ft, over 110kg , fit etc. I got so much attention. I’m 52, cute, petite fit educated get less attention now
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James4570
one month ago
I always read the full profile and attempt to engage in a manner they describe and can’t even het a sorry not interested reply🤷🏻♂️ If they have requirements that i don’t meet i don’t contact ….ive had likes and when i respond i get ghosted….i guess my keyboard game is not up to scratch🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤣
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RHP User
one month ago
I like to read every profile and also see activity to see if they are a real person, have they put any effort into their profile and if they have been active lately or just given up and not been on for awhile. None or just one photo with no info is a red flag for me
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Brave_One86
one month ago
I definitely do read the profiles so I don’t sound like an idiot when I msg them
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Reecerx7
one month ago
Let's be honest boys... We don't read shit. We look at pics and decide if it won't make us sick to see U naked. If answer is yes we are in....
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RHP User
one month ago
I always read the profile and no matter how much of a match I believe I am, I don't message many people anymore.
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RHP User
one month ago
I highly doubt it. I always get men telling me all about themselves and not even asking one question about me. They just want to collect women. Not actually give a damn about them.
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